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Is it time for you to pack up and move on, to seek greener pastures, to move to a better place where you’re not only appreciated but your luck is better? Where you’ll meet new people and new people will meet and be intrigued by you? A place where you can relate your story and, ... Views: 871
BEING HAPPY WITHOUT MONEY
By
Bill Cottringer
“If you can’t be happy poor you can’t be happy rich.” ~ The Author.
Are we all really capable of achieving great financial wealth like The Secret proponents and all the wealth books and wealth gurus profess? Are we all meant to have wealth? ... Views: 11459
Faith sees the invisible. Faith believes the incredible. Faith receives the impossible. (Angela Reimma, Founder, Harmonic Health, Inc.)
There are many forces at work in our universe, but you have the power to control the ones that affect you by trusting yourself and your direct relationship to ... Views: 966
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Are You Last on the List?
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When was the last time taking care of yourself or doing something just for fun made it to the top of your to do list? If your answer is a "long time ago" or "can't remember" or even "never," you're not ... Views: 1918
It is 5:25am... on a crisp January morning. The window open slightly so that you can smell the clean, freshness of the morning air. A small breeze makes it way into the room. You are still under the warm, cozy, comfy down-filled blankets, snuggled to your loving partner.
It is 5:30am... you ... Views: 2404
This is the indication I got while watching one of the financial cable channels recently. “Do you have enough money for retirement?” “Are you using your money to its best advantage?” “Don’t be left behind while others are becoming wealthy!”
I am certainly not ready for retirement, and what ... Views: 890
I knew it was over the moment I started on the road back home. He had been sick for a very long time and fought so hard, but the cancer was starting to win the battle. It had started a couple of months prior to this particular weekend. Rocky's wife called me in tears to let me know that the ... Views: 1217
Imagine that you've lost something which is very important to you.
Very.
A prized, irreplaceable possession.
Although it's worth a lot of money, you don't care about it's financial value; it's all about what it means to you emotionally.
Personally.
Your grandfather gave it to you.
You are heart ... Views: 963
I have so many clients that from outside appearances seem to have it all. They may have successful careers, good friends, a good marriage, healthy and happy children, things that many others strive for. But the "happy" piece of the puzzle is missing. They don't experience joy, and they have ... Views: 992
Everywhere I turn, women are in transition. Of course, the most obvious transition many of us are facing right now is back to school. But transitions are all around us, some of which are more recognizable than others. These are some of the transitions that have touched my life, directly or ... Views: 1126
It’s difficult to feel good about your life when you don’t feel great physically.
What follows is a daily program for balancing your meridians and maintaining emotional health. I’ve encapsulated material from Dr. John Diamond, Gwenn Bonnell, and Gary Craig (founder of the ... Views: 1854
"Well, you are just ugly and you really STINK too!" I was stunned, embarassed and devastated all in the same moment. You know how when major things happen in your life, you always remember everything about it? Well, this was one of those moments for me because that one sentence changed my life ... Views: 1293
One way to ensure that you are experiencing what you desire on a daily basis , is to practice feeling what you desire to feel like through out the day.When you sit and purposefully conjure up the feeling of what it is that you desire, you are intentionally telling the universe what it is that ... Views: 1503
Joseph Campbell said it all when he advised humanity to, "follow your bliss." Those three words are the best words ever spoken. If you choose what makes YOU happy and joyful, you not only please yourself but you increase the happiness and joy in the world. With all the stress of our modern life, ... Views: 1155
Is there a change you want to make in your life but you're stuck and stymied by it?
Perhaps you're at that point in midlife where you long to find something entirely different to do with the rest of your life but you're not taking action to discover what that might be. Maybe you already know ... Views: 1016
Chess is a game of mystery to the many people who don’t know its rules. Often even the most intelligent will remark that they don’t really know how it’s played, or never really understood it. For them the existence of a chess board in a setting is a constant challenge which they cannot meet. If ... Views: 679
33 Ways To Have More Peace
Friday September 21st was International Peace Day and it was a day to celebrate peace. Yes I know peace is still a work in progress but celebrating peace is a positive thing to do on the road to our goal. Peace is possible if we believe it is and if we are willing ... Views: 687
Are you stuck? Stuck trying to rework a project or looking for the “perfect” solution? Stuck searching for the latest brainstorm, new business idea, or product stream? Are you stuck waiting for that “light bulb moment” that will pull all of the pieces together in their rightful place? Well, so ... Views: 1026
Dr. John Diamond is a pioneer in holistic medicine. He developed Life Energy Analysis in the 1970’s (originally called Behavioral Kinesiology). Diamond discovered a link between the meridians of the body and emotions and his work encompasses a wide range of healing research into ... Views: 2443
One of my passions is enjoying and engaging in current movies with my partner. We rarely miss a Friday night at the local theater. During one of our trips, something unexpected occurred while waiting for the feature to begin.
A dynamic and profoundly moving ad came across the screen. I almost ... Views: 1388
Your life may seem difficult, heavy and meaningless. But at some point in your life, like everybody, you too have got moments where you were so close to your real you, that you thought you were in heaven. You were so perfectly aligned with yourself and your mission on earth that you felt the ... Views: 1391
Just as setting small and attainable goals are the building blocks for achieving success; living a lifestyle of making good health choices leads to greater and more sustainable happiness.
The cliché “You are what you eat” does resonate with pieces of truth and common sense. There have been ... Views: 1086
Change does not have to be hard. It does not have to be a monumental and daunting task. Small things matter and add up in creating what you want for yourself. Whether you are trying to shed unwanted fat or run a marathon, small steps toward the desired outcome will foster progress.
I ... Views: 936
When it comes to excuses, I've heard them all.
And made up a few of my own too.
In fact, I am a fully-qualified Excuse-ologist.
Excuse-ology (the study of excuse making) is a fascinating but little-known science.
Okay, I developed it.
And graduated in it from the University of Harper.
I keep ... Views: 1087
Did you ever have a parent tell you, possibly after you had asked one too many questions, "Curiosity killed the cat!"
Were you taught the story of Pandora who was given a box of gifts from the gods with instructions never to open the box? Unfortunately her curiosity got the better of her and ... Views: 846
"I like to think of myself as an artist, and my life is my greatest work of art. Every moment is a moment of creation, and each moment of creation contains infinite possibilities. I can do things the way I've always done them, or I can look at all the different alternatives, and try something ... Views: 761
Momentum.
We all need it to get us to our destination.
To maximise our chances of achieving our goals.
It's a crucial ingredient in the personal development process.
Yet so many of us seem to be masters of the stop-start approach, never really getting out of first gear... while others, ... Views: 1037
CHOICES, CHOICES, CHOICES
By Bill Cottringer
Probably the one thing we think about and do more than anything else in life is making choices. Many times we even have to choose to make a choice or not. We generally make choices from either our heads or our hearts, but usually somewhere in ... Views: 884
From the time your child is born until the time he or she is ready to walk out into the world no longer tethered to your side and free from your reach, your most important job is to improve the generational status, and perhaps legacy, of your family of origin.
Simply put, the greatest gift you ... Views: 916
The highest spiritual path is life itself. If you know how to live daily life, it all becomes a liberating experience. But first you have to approach life properly, or it can be very confusing. To begin with, you have to realize that you really only have one choice in this life, and it's not ... Views: 802
I am sometimes asked what are the great breakthroughs of Psycanics for human knowledge.
There are a goodly number of these, including the nature of spirit, of BEing itself, the nature of the mind, the true nature and the real cause of the emotions, the nature of love, and the nature of ... Views: 2956
The enemy waits and listens for your desperation. When you are at the end of your rope and can no longer see or feel what hope looks like, the enemy of your soul pounces on your confidence, shreds your dreams, and will cast a very dark shadow of doubt over what you want to be or do in your ... Views: 1306
* Before I start, let me say that I don't have the definitive answer to this discussion (or any); I don't think there is one when it comes to this topic.
Like most, I'm still exploring it... which is why I have chosen to make it just that; a discussion.
An interactive chat.
A group ... Views: 950
Creating a dream board is very similar to writing out your goals in life. The main difference being it’s visual.
This difference adds an interesting element that has proved to be powerful for me and many others.
I have used the goal setting technique quite often and it has always proven ... Views: 1024
Have you ever seen two children riding on a see-saw? It can be very interesting to watch depending on who is on either side. For example, if there is a large ten year old on one side of the see-saw and a small five year old on the other, the ten year old will be sitting on the ground, grumbling ... Views: 836
How powerful are healing words? What impact do they have on our immune systems? Emile Coue' had an answer and, though few know his name today, his success with restoring his ill clients back to health was nothing less than astonishing.
How did he obtain such remarkable results? The power of ... Views: 1331
Lately, I have been melding two ideas together, one from my past and one from the present. When I worked in Corporate America, one of my managers had a sign on his door that read, “If it is meant to be, it is up to me.” I thought, at the time, it was a catchy phrase, but didn’t give it much more ... Views: 893
Almost everyone have heard the hit single 'Don't Worry, Be Happy' by Bobby McFerrin. The song has a very catchy way of conveying its message of being happy to everyone. Bobby Mcferiin's simple message surely made a lot of people by telling them not to worry.
Living a happy, resilient and ... Views: 690
When we worry about wearing the “right” thing, supporting the “right” cause, or find ourselves wondering what others think of us, we are feeling the pull and power of the social consciousness. While we all want to fit in, we love the freedom of living from our true ... Views: 1120
5:30am… the alarm blares. My wife groans, shuts it off and shuffles toward the shower. Foggy from the sudden awakening, I slip on sweat pants, tee shirt and that pair of Crocs my wife hates so much and head downstairs for a much needed cup of coffee.
I start the coffee maker and then open the ... Views: 783
You probably have a toolkit, or a junk drawer, that contains tools that you use to perform tasks such as cutting paper, tightening screws, gluing things together … Have you ever tried to cut paper without scissors? Tighten a screw with your finger nail? Get something to stick together ... Views: 1313
The dictionary defines luck as "(chance as bestower of) good or ill fortune, fortuituous events affecting one's interests, person's apparent tendency to be (un)fortunate". "Phew," some of you will sigh with relief..."it's not my fault that I'm unlucky then, its all down to chance!" Well, let’s ... Views: 1179
Wherever you go, there you are. There’s no escaping it - your world is a reflection of you and if the view in your mirror doesn’t elicit a certain spark perhaps it’s time to question the underlying assumptions.
As someone who has worked intensely with the body – as a ... Views: 727
When you are working on self-improvement, there are two booby traps that can confront you as you move forward.
Understanding these booby traps will help you significantly on your path.
Booby Trap #1: Fear of Happiness
Booby trap number one is what Nathaniel Branden has referred to as ... Views: 1093
Chances are, at one time or another, you and everyone you know have asked the age old question, “Why me?” when something bad or unfortunate has happened to you or someone close to you. I know that I have certainly succumbed to this most familiar query.
Here’s the problem with ... Views: 1462
Part Six in the “Coming Into Your Own” Series
In the first five parts of the “Coming Into Your Own” series I highlighted different people with different backgrounds and with different points of view. The one common thread that ties these people together is their passion, ... Views: 1579
Ask any single woman if she's waiting for a prince on a white horse to come and rescue her, and she'll laugh in your face.
But the truth is that millions of single women--and single men too--are indeed waiting for someone to sweep in and save them from their dreary, unsatisying life.
It's a ... Views: 2522
Summertime and wedding celebrations – they seem to go together like…
Hmmm, let’s contemplate the possibilities:
• gorgeous women with custom-designed gowns and 3-hour hairdos – blowing uncontrollably in the squall
• attractive men – standing for ... Views: 722
CHARACTER-BUILDING
By Bill Cottringer
If you do a Google search on “character-building programs in schools” you will uncover nearly a quarter of a million hits. Why is character-building such an important topic getting so much attention in our schools? First of all it is not ... Views: 1832
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Kids Know What They Want
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When I was a child, it was easy. I'd sit down with a cup of hot cocoa, some cookies, and a sheet of paper to write my letter to Santa. I'd tell him everything I wanted for Christmas. I had ... Views: 759