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Snapshot Management: Leaders under the Spotlight Use Emotional Intelligence - By Reldan Nadler- Projection: What Can Happen When Someone Projects Their Feelings Into Others? - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to how someone views another person, it can be as though it is simply the result of who they are. Therefore, one is not adding anything to them; they are just aware of what this person is like. This is no different to how if one was to describe what a car in front of them ...
Views: 581 - Masculinity: Can Childhood Trauma Case A Man To Disconnect From His Masculinity? - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperNow, although there are many ways that masculinity can be defined, there are a number of things that are likely to be part of everyone’s understanding of it. And when it comes to the masculine element or energy, this is something that both men and women can embody. Therefore, while this ...
Views: 716 - Emotionally Disconnected: Can Self-Development Cause Someone To Disconnect From Their Emotions? - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperThere are a number of reasons as to why someone would end up getting into self-development. One reason that this can take place is because their emotions are rarely under control. Having an emotional self that is often out of control is going to make it hard for them to experience a sense of ...
Views: 739 - Needs: Can Someone Disconnect From Their Needs If They Experienced Trauma As A Child? - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to someone’s needs, these are one of the things that allow them to have their own experience on this earth. This is not to say that they, unlike others, are the only ones with needs; it is that in each moment they will have their own set of needs. At times, what they need will ...
Views: 855 - كورونا - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2020 from Wajahat Aliسيول: تسبب فايروس كورونا الجديد في حدوث فوضى في جميع أنحاء العالم بنفس الوقت ، البشر يحاولون اساليب متنوعة لتجنب كورونا الجديد كما اتخذت الحكومات المركزية وحكومات الولايات العديد من الخطوات المهمة في البلاد لمنع هذا الوباء ، صدرت أوامر من العديد من الولايات لإغلاق المدارس ...
Views: 571 - Healing Journey: What Can Stop Someone From Making Progress On Their Healing Journey? - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone wants answers and ends up reaching out for support, it will show that they want to find a way to move past the challenges in their life. This could show that they have mental and emotional challenges, along with relationships that are not going as they would like them to ...
Views: 727 - Critical Thinking: Does Someone Need To Be Mindful If They Pay Attention To The Mainstream Media? - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperFor many people around the world, paying attention to the mainstream media is part of life. It is then not something that they need to think about doing; it is merely something that they do. Most, if not all, of these people, will have probably been this way since they were very small. Their ...
Views: 998 - Are You Energetically Feeding Into What You Want Or What You Don't Want? - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperAt the end of last month, I wrote an article title ‘Are You Energetically Feeding Into What You Don’t Want?’ Since that time I have been thinking more about this topic and, as a result of this, I decided that I had more to share. This article could be seen as a follow-up or it could be seen ...
Views: 814 - Ghana Life: How elastic is loyalty? - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2020 from Wajahat AliPeople in Ghana identify with their extended family, clan, and tribe in decreasing order of intensity. There is little shared identity with people from different tribes, and even hostility that occasionally breaks out in local wars that must be suppressed by the national army. At the national ...
Views: 487 - Critical Thinking: Why Is It Hard For Some People To Accept That Their Government Lies To Them? - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperThere are those that not only believe that their government, along with other governments around the world, would lie to them but who also have the evidence to back it up. This is then not going to be something that has just happened once; it will be something that takes place on a regular ...
Views: 617 - Are You Energetically Feeding Into What You Don’t Want? - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf you were to take a step back and to reflect on your life, you may find that there are a number of things that you are not too happy about. In addition to this, you could find that you spend a fair amount of time thinking about these areas. What this is then going to mean is that a fair ...
Views: 797 - Turn Someone’s Anger Into Ease with You - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2020 from Kare AndersonWhen you most want to smash someone in the face or run out of the room, remember this irony. Cooling off someone else’s anger can be a way to actually bring that person closer. Warning: Don’t add fuel to the fire by suggesting that they calm down. Here are five ways to not only dampen their ...
Views: 936 - Turn Someone’s Anger Into Ease with You - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2020 from Kare AndersonWhen you most want to smash someone in the face or run out of the room, remember this irony. Cooling off someone else’s anger can be a way to actually bring that person closer. Warning: Don’t add fuel to the fire by suggesting that they calm down. Here are five ways to not only dampen their ...
Views: 837 - Turn Someone’s Anger Into Ease with You - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2020 from Kare AndersonWhen you most want to smash someone in the face or run out of the room, remember this irony. Cooling off someone else’s anger can be a way to actually bring that person closer. Warning: Don’t add fuel to the fire by suggesting that they calm down. Here are five ways to not only dampen their ...
Views: 765 - Turn Someone’s Anger Into Ease with You - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2020 from Kare AndersonWhen you most want to smash someone in the face or run out of the room, remember this irony. Cooling off someone else’s anger can be a way to actually bring that person closer. Warning: Don’t add fuel to the fire by suggesting that they calm down. Here are five ways to not only dampen their ...
Views: 780 - Emotionally Frozen: Can Someone Become Emotionally Frozen If They Experienced Trauma As A Child? - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperNow, although someone will have a head and a body, it doesn’t mean that they will find it easy to connect to what is taking place in their body. This doesn’t mean that they won’t be able to connect to the sensations in their body; no, what it means is that it can be hard for them to connect to ...
Views: 862 - What Challenges Can Someone Encounter On Their Healing Journey? - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen I look back on my life, I can see that my healing journey began in 2003 when I met my first mentor. This was a woman who I would go on to study with for a number of years. During our time together, I would go on study Reiki healing and NLP. It wasn’t just the qualifications that I picked ...
Views: 910 - 7 Israeli inventions that changed our world - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2020 from Shehbaz Malik“In order to stand strong, we must empower the talented youth among us to dedicate their lives to scientific research and development. We must help them in any way possible, in all fields.” Those were the words of David Ben Gurion, Israel's first prime minister. This philosophy has been the ...
Views: 1650 - Getting to Know Someone Better - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2020 from Kare AndersonHint: what’s not revealed is sometimes most revealing. You never really know somebody until you see the choices she makes. As a nurse, you’ve long known that it is usually not the “medical” but the “people” challenges that determine how well you can do your job. We instinctively pigeon hole ...
Views: 968 - Controlling: Can Someone Become Controlling If They Experienced Trauma As A Child? - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperThere are people on this planet that have no interest in controlling anyone or anything, while there are those that want to control everyone and everything. Thus, some people will be at one end of the spectrum and some will be at the other end. At the same time, it is likely that just about ...
Views: 697 - Coronavirus: Will It Be Harder For Someone To Handle What Is Going On If Their Emotions Are Out Of Control? - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperDue to the contagion, there is what is taking place externally and then, there is what is taking place internally. Also, in the same way that there will be people that are more affected by what is taking place externally than others; there will also be people that are more affected by what is ...
Views: 735 - Critical Thinking: Is The Coronavirus Forcing Some People To Face Themselves? - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperFor a long time now, the world has been moving forward and it seemed as though nothing could stop it. Now, though, due to the coronavirus, the world is rapidly coming to a standstill. Of course, the world was moving before and it is still moving now; what has changed is that a lot of the ...
Views: 790 - Child Abuse: Can Someone Feel As Though Death Is Imminent If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhat can’t be denied is that everyone on this planet is going to die at one point or another. Thus, to say this is not being ‘negative’, it is simply stating something that is part of the human experience. This doesn’t mean that someone should endlessly think about the fact that they will ...
Views: 729 - The New Normal - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2020 from Paul HannigThe Coronavirus is hitting our nation hard. It is important that every one of us recognizes that this is the New Normal. Everything is now different. Stores are closing and normal outlets of customer service are being shuttered. The stage and the platform for creative implementation are now ...
Views: 964 - Mohamed Abdelhay a Photographer and Graphic Designer - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2020 from M Nasir AzizPictures are not just a piece of paper. But it contains a lot of memories and feelings attached to them. Pictures show the culture of different eras, makes us reliably save our memorable moments. But spoilage of pictures causes sadness hurt of feelings. No doubt the latest advancement in ...
Views: 1296 - Personal Power: Can Someone Feel Powerless If They Experienced Childhood Trauma? - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIt has been said that the more in control someone feels, the better their mental and emotional health will be. This is not to say that someone needs to be a total control freak and to control everyone and everything in order to be in a good place. What it comes down to is that when one has a ...
Views: 736 - Child Abuse: Can Someone End Up Being Emotionally Disconnected If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to take a step back and to reflect on how they experience life, what they may find is that they are typically out of touch with how they feel. During the moments when this isn’t the case, that’s if they have these moments, it could be because something dramatic has taken ...
Views: 695 - Do You Need A Healing Mentor? - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperDuring the beginning of my healing journey, in 2003, it was like I was walking around in the dark. I had no idea about what was going on and I also had no idea about how I was going to change my life. One of the first things that I did, in order to try to understand what was going on, was to ...
Views: 881 - Repressed Emotions: Can Times Like These Bring Up Someone’s Repressed Emotions? - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperNow, although there have been certain events that have had a big effect on a lot of people in recent years, it could be said that there hasn’t been anything for a while that is quite like what is currently taking place. If there are people that haven’t heard about what is going on, it could show ...
Views: 704 - You Are That Which You Seek - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen I first got on ‘the path’ in 2003, I was out of touch with what I would class as my true essence. I felt disconnected, powerless and I didn’t know why my life was the way that it was. The pain that I was in made me look for answers; I needed to find a way to change my life. I didn’t know ...
Views: 889 - Emotionally Disconnected: Why Do Some People Disconnect From Their Emotions When They Are Around Others? - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIdeally, someone will be in tune with how they feel when they are around others; the reason being that it will allow them to function as a whole human being. Through being aware of how they feel, they will be able to connect to how other people feel and to connect to their own emotional ...
Views: 1080 - Self-Knowledge: Can Someone End Up Being Addicted To 'Negative’ Feelings If They Experienced Childhood Trauma? - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was asked if they would rather feel good or bad, they would probably choose the former. This would make complete sense as it is far better to feel good than it is to feel bad. Nonetheless, although this is what they are likely to say, it doesn’t mean that this is what typically ...
Views: 852 - Is Your Story Holding You Back? - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperA little while ago I was reading something that went into how our story can allow us to lead a fulfilling life or it can do the opposite. This was something that I had heard about a number of years before, but after hearing it again, it reminded me of how powerful our story is and it made me ...
Views: 824 - Do You Feel Stuck? - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperPerhaps, after not being in a good way for a little while or quite some time, you ended up reaching out for external support. Yet, although your intention was to change your life, you may find that this hasn’t really taken place. You may have read a number of books and even had a few ...
Views: 761 - Emotionally Disconnected: Can Someone Disconnect From Their Emotions If They Have Experienced Trauma? - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIn addition to a physical and mental self, someone also has an emotional self. Nonetheless, just because they will have at least three parts to their being, it doesn’t mean that they will always be in touch with each of these parts. What one may find, that’s if they were to reflect on how ...
Views: 1005 - How to choose groomsmen to help in the run up to your wedding - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2020 from eric leaderIt may seem obvious to just ask a bunch of your buddies to be your groomsmen much more complicated than it should be. . And it can be that simple a process if you want. Keep in mind that there are responsibilities for the groomsmen and if some of them are not the most reliable, then it may ...
Views: 895 - Critical Thinking: Why Would Someone Believe That Another Person Has All The Answers? - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf one was to come across someone that had a deeper understanding of something, it doesn’t mean that they would end up putting this person on a pedestal. As a result of this, the other person will be seen as knowledgeable but one won’t perceive them as being better than they themselves ...
Views: 850 - Focus On What You Want, Not On What You Don’t Want - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperA number of weeks ago, I was having a conversation with a good friend of mine called Wain Gordon. This was a time when he spoke about how important it was for us to put our energy into what we want to experience. He said that it is easy to focus on what we don’t want and to completely ...
Views: 930 - Self-Worth: Do Some People Have To Develop Their Self-Worth Even Though They Were Born With It? - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIt is often said that human beings are born with inherent worth, meaning that this is not something that they need to develop or even earn. At the same time, what is often spoken about is what someone can do to develop their own self-worth. Upon hearing both of these views, one could end ...
Views: 798 - Healing Journey: Can Someone End Up Feeling Worse When They Start To Heal Themselves? - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to get to the point in their life where they can no longer carry on living in the same way, they could end up buying a book on self-development or they could find a therapist to work with. What this could show is that their inner world is not as they would like it to be. As a ...
Views: 706 - Narcissists: Do These Types Of People Deserve As Much Attention As Narcissists Receive? - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperNowadays, it is not uncommon for someone to talk about how they are with or were with someone who is a narcissist. Conversely, they could say that social media is full of people that are like this. Furthermore, are also numerous videos and books that go into how to handle someone who is like ...
Views: 900 - Inner Child: Can Someone Feel Powerless When They Merge With Their Wounded Inner Child? - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough there are people that generally feel strong and as though they have control over their life, there are others that don’t. Consequently, these people are likely to have a very different experience on this earth. Not only will their inner world be different, their outer world is also ...
Views: 814 - I Believe In You - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperPerhaps you are going through a challenging time right now or maybe your life has been tough for a while. Either way, a big part of you may wonder if you have what it takes to move forward. So even if a small part of you believes that you do have what it takes, this part of you won’t exert ...
Views: 1055 - Emotional Flashback: What Is An Emotional Flashback? - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone may find, that’s if they were to take a step back and to reflect on their life, is that there are moments when they end up feeling completely overwhelmed by how they feel. When this takes place, it could seem as though they have absolutely no reason to feel as they do. However, ...
Views: 873 - The 11 most common stains and how to treat them - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2020 from jitender jaggaHow do you remove stains from your clothes? What should you do and what shouldn’t you do if you have a stain in your clothes? Making a stain can happen to anyone. If you have a household with small children, chances are that your children come home with stains in their clothes almost every ...
Views: 880 - Child Abuse: Can Someone Have Trouble Moving Forward If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to the human body, it could be said that it is designed to take someone forward. Of course, they can walk back but it is not as easy as it is for them to walk forward. Now, although going forward, not backwards is what is supposed to take place, it doesn’t mean that someone will ...
Views: 814 - Trauma: Can Someone Project Their Past Onto Their Present If They Experienced Trauma As A Child? - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperThere are a number of reasons as to why someone would reach out for the support of a therapist or a counsellor. Still, if someone was to take this step, it could show that they are going through tough a time and can no longer handle what is going on. Perhaps they are experiencing a fair ...
Views: 941 - Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Hide Themselves? - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperAs a result of being abused and/or neglected as a child, someone may find it hard to fully show up in life. What could be normal is for them to hide when they are around others or to hide away from others. Still, regardless of what takes place, the outcome will be the same. If they do hide ...
Views: 861 - Trauma: Can Mind-Based Trauma Approaches Do More Harm Than Good? - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone has experienced trauma, either as an adult or as a child, they may end up suffering in silence. This is not to say that they will consciously choose to suffer as this is something that can just take place. What took place will have had a big effect on them and it will be a ...
Views: 743 - How To Stay Humble - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperEarlier on, whilst I was out shopping, I saw an image of a famous athlete with the words “stay humble” written on it. This is someone who is at the top of their game and is known all over the world. It is clear that this person realises how important it is for them to keep their feet on the ...
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