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- How to Realize Life Purpose - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2006 from Hieu DoanAt it’s heart Life Purpose is about feeling. We are seeking to find that which gives us the feeling of meaning, reason and purpose. This is the reason why two people can duplicate the same external experiences and yet not attain the same inner experience. We must look within for what truly ...
Views: 949 - Change: The Other Dirty Word - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2006 from Tonya RamseyWhat comes to mind when you hear the word change? Are you fearful? Excited? Does you blood run cold or do you hear yourself saying, “I like things just the way they are.”? Is “change”, the other dirty word? Most of us find change hard. Not necessarily because we do not want to change but ...
Views: 1356 - Time Management: where does our time go? - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2006 from Tonya RamseyTime management is a big concern for a lot of people. I keep hearing, “There are just not enough hours in the day…” or “Where does my time go?” Face it we all live busy lives. Work, family, and other commitments keep us all hopping. To utilize better time management, it’s important to ...
Views: 1549 - Dr. Laura's Call of the Day - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2006 from Laura SchlessingerDear Dr. Laura: How long should a 62 year old man wait to ask a 55 year old woman to marry? They are both financially secure, they have similar values and interests, and only one has a child (who is adult)? Answer: I’m assuming that you think that your “mature” ages would relieve you ...
Views: 3191 - Creating Something New – Getting Past the Fear of Failure - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2006 from Kevin EikenberryMany people wish they were more creative. They yearn for the big idea (or even the small one) and think that if they just had that one idea they’d be on their way to greater success.Certainly, we can all do things to be more creative, but having ideas isn’t the biggest, or even first, source of ...
Views: 1107 - Finding Mentors in Your Memory - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2006 from Kevin EikenberryMost of us, at one time or another have looked to someone more experienced or expert than us to help us navigate through a difficult challenge or situation. Whether formal or informal, we’ve had these sorts of relationships throughout our lives. Sometimes these relationships have happened ...
Views: 1028 - Turning Your Ideas into Action - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2006 from Kevin EikenberryThe team faced a significant challenge on the project. After a very successful brainstorming session they felt they had several ideas that would address and alleviate the problems they faced. They were truly energized by some of the ideas they generated. But soon, the glow wore off, because ...
Views: 1090 - A New Way to Look at Your Career - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2006 from Kevin EikenberryYou can pick up any business or news magazine at any time and read articles about the rapid pace of change, the increasing speed at which everything moves, the globalization of industry and commerce, and how technology is changing our world. Of course all of these things are true. Further ...
Views: 1085 - After the Uncomfortable Pause - Seven Questions to Immediately Spur Greater Creativity - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2006 from Kevin EikenberryI’m betting you’ve had the same experience I have in most organizational brainstorming sessions. You are in a room with beige (or otherwise boring) walls and a conference table. Sometime during the meeting, there is a problem or challenge identified. Someone standing near a flipchart or ...
Views: 1318 - You are Too Busy to Move That Fast – Why Go Slower May Get You Far Greater Results - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2006 from Kevin EikenberryYou’ve probably heard the phrase, “go slow to go fast.” I sometimes say it to Clients and participants in training. I remind myself of this truth occasionally too. Why? Because too often we are in such a rush to get the next task done that we end up spending more time doing it – or getting ...
Views: 1040 - Consensus - What it is and When to Achieve it - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2006 from Kevin EikenberryTom was working hard to change the culture in his organization. He wanted to create greater collaboration, teamwork and empowerment. He envisioned an organization where people loved coming to work each day. He knew that when these things were a part of working life that productivity would sky ...
Views: 995 - Finding Inspiration - by Question: I want to live with greater inspiration. Any ideas?
Answer: Wayne Dyer calls it your ultimate calling. I call it your birthright. But no matter who you talk to about the subject who has given it considerable thought: One thing's for sure. Anyone can live with more inspiration.
I'm ...
Views: 654 - Predicting Your Future: How to Dictate Your Destiny - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2006 from Jack ZavadaWould you like to know your future? Would you like to know where you'll be 10, 15, or even 20 years from now? You don't need a crystal ball, Tarot cards, or a horoscope. You can create your own destiny, starting right now, by seizing control of three key areas of your life. The process ...
Views: 1298 - “How to Be a Great Customer” - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2006 from Leonard Youngblood“How to Be a Great Customer” By Leonard Youngblood This article will NOT include a very real 20% intangible when dealing with people. This intangible concerns the attitude behind the face. This would include perceptions, beautyism, cultural backgrounds, physical preferences and the ...
Views: 663 - Networking for Success - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2006 from Duncan GotobedNetworking for Success You've heard all about networking, possibly to the point of being sick of the word and not believing in the concept. However, the truth remains that many jobs are obtained through networking sources, and many projects are approved due to strategic alliances. It may not ...
Views: 698 - Set Your Intention - by Question: You have recently said it's a great idea to have, as a new year's resolution, to try to not sweat the small stuff this year. I agree, but I'm not doing very well yet and it's frustrating. Any suggestions? Answer: One of the most important aspects of learning to not sweat the small ...
Views: 690 - In A Rut? - by Question: ``I feel like I'm stuck in a rut. Any ideas on how to get out of it and move on?''
Answer: Most of the time when we are ``stuck in a rut'' it's because we are thinking very habitually; the same thoughts stream through our minds over and over again. The same things bother and frustrate ...
Views: 721 - Your Action Fuels Achievement - by I was reading a magazine recently when something caught my eye. The article mentioned that most people that exercised regularly (and as a result tended to be in the best shape) were those guys and gals that didn't so much plan out when they would work out, but rather simply worked out regularly ...
Views: 675 - No Fuss… - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2006 from mahalene louisYou know how there are days when you wake up totally connected, the heART blooming in gratitude, and plainly happy to be alive? And you probably know how there are the other days, the bad hair days, when there seems to be a weight in your heART, and things do not feel as bright and appealing… ...
Views: 722 - Power of an Hour - by Change
Whether you own a business or just want to be the best person you can, you must subject yourself to change. Every day in my business I talk to business owners and corporate leaders who are working diligently to find the time to create the change needed in their businesses. Many also feel ...
Views: 815 - 48 Things to Remember About Living Your Dream - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2006 from Cari VollmerYou have one, don't you? A dream? Of course you do. We all do. Whether your dream is big or small here’s some advice on Living Your Dream. 1. You can be sure it's a dream and not a fantasy if your dream involves serving others in some way. 2. You're never too old to start living your dream. ...
Views: 816 - How to Feel Better Fast! - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2006 from Keith VarnumWould you like to spend as much time as possible feeling good? Happy? Contented? The ancient shamans have a secret practice that can help you maximize your pleasure in life—and minimize your pain. Interested? The shamans advise: “Welcome discomfort!” They’ve got to be kidding! No, they’re ...
Views: 1090 - 5 Essential Steps Toward Creating a Life You Love - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2006 from Angel HaleDo you ever find yourself wishing your life was different than it is? Do you wish you could be handed instructions for creating and living a life that you can truly delight in living? If so, this article is written just for you! Read on to discover the recipe for creating a life you can truly ...
Views: 729 - Ponderings at Powell’s- Life Lessons In a Bookstore? - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2006 from Angel HaleA couple weeks ago my husband and I slipped away to Portland, Oregon. This beautiful city is one of our favorite miniature vacation spots and it is practically right in our backyard. As ever, we had an amazing time. We walked for hours, perused the many wonderful shops, dined on incredible ...
Views: 599 - Influencing and Communication - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2006 from Duncan GotobedIf you have an interest in moving up in the company, having your projects approved, or simply enjoying a more pleasant working environment, consider taking a few minutes to learn how communication techniques, such as projecting an air of friendliness at work, can work to your advantage. The ...
Views: 688 - Stuck IN your life? Work ON it instead! - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2006 from John Robson“I find it fascinating that most people plan their vacations with better care than they plan their lives.” -- Jim Rohn Are you stuck in your life? Here’s how you can tell: When we only work IN our lives: - We know what we have to do right now. - We do things as we have always done ...
Views: 1132(2 votes) - Say no without the guilt - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2006 from Leslie GailOne of the shortest and simplest words causes even the most confident people stress. Most people say "no" because they would rather sacrifice their time and energy, than cause conflict or experience feelings of guilt. It takes practice to step outside your comfort zone, but the sacrifice will be ...
Views: 1018 - Raise your standards and believe in yourself - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2006 from Leslie GailAre you fairly confident in your shoes? Do you believe in your abilities and what you have to offer? Or, do you constantly question who you are as a person? Are you your worst critic, judging every move you make? I was very lucky in that my parents raised myself and my siblings to be very ...
Views: 1346 - You are the author, producer, director and star performer in your own life production. - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2006 from Malcolm MilliganWhich sort of Life Production have you chosen for yourself? Is it a thriller? Is it a romance? Is it a horror? Is it science fiction? Is it an adventure? Is it comedy? Or maybe something else? What role do you fulfil in your Life Production? Is it a starring ...
Views: 1902 - Every beginning has an ending has a beginning - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2006 from Paul KeetchAll things come to and end. Whether you see this truth as a good or bad thing, is entirely up to you, but there is simply no denying it. Everything that is currently going on for you in your life ~ your relationship (or lack of), your job (or lack of), your financial abundance (or lack of), ...
Views: 1231 - Don’t sit on the fence (or the bench) - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2006 from Paul KeetchGreatness simply will not be a reality for you unless you get off the fence and the bench. Fence-sitters say, "Well, I'd like to do that, but what if I do and this happens?" or "Well, I believe this, except when this happens, in which case, I believe this." And from their place high atop the ...
Views: 809 - Top Ten Why's to Enhance Your Worthiness - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2006 from mahalene louisShould you be dedicated to explore consciousness, you will sooner or later uncover a belief in your inadequacy. Maybe it will touch your finances, maybe it will express itself in a series of unsuccessful relationships, maybe you will experience some resistance in marketing your services ...
Views: 784 - Learning to Trust Yourself - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2006 from Lori RadunI’m sure there have been times you struggled to make a decision or enter into a commitment because you weren’t sure you would make the right choice. Maybe you’ve gotten a feeling in the pit of your stomach that something was not right, but you ignored it. If deep in our core, we know what is ...
Views: 2067 - 3 Keys to Living Well - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2006 from Cari VollmerIn your mind, what does Living Well mean to you? Does it mean you have plenty of money to do whatever you want? Does it mean you get to spend your time as you wish? Does living well conjure up the image of beautiful cars and homes and luxurious vacations? As they say, if you can dream it you ...
Views: 851 - Ten Tips For a "Breathe Easy" Holiday - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2006 from Rosemary ChieppoAh, the holidays. Time off to spend with family and friends, food and drink, comforting surroundings, warmth, joy and goodwill. So why are so many of us stressed, depressed and exhausted? It really doesn’t have to be that way. Here are some ideas to help you have a more relaxed holiday ...
Views: 1335 - Ready, Set, September! - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2006 from Laura SandhamLanguid, less scheduled August has given way to September. Ah, September. It is a time for new beginnings and making plans. In addition to organizing your children¡¦s school and extra-curricular activities, many of you are sketching out and loading up on things you want to accomplish in the ...
Views: 863 - Living On "The Death Ground" - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2006 from JK Ellis"When you survive if you fight quickly and perish if you do not, this is called death ground... Put them in a spot where they have no place to go, and they will die before fleeing. If they are to die there what can they do? Warriors exert their full strength When warriors are in great danger, ...
Views: 2057 - Article on Work Life Balance: Find Time for Yourself - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2006 from Stephanie MarstonLadies, here's the sad truth.. Many women feel that time for themselves is stolen time in which they are playing hokey from more important endeavors! We often feel as though we have to get sick in order to take time for ourselves. Actually scheduling self-nurturing activities is a way to trick ...
Views: 1011 - Your Mental Diet - Healthful or Harmful? - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2006 from Karen HallAs a Registered Dietitian, I’ve always believed in the importance of eating a healthy diet. But lately I’ve come to realize that a proper mental diet is every bit as important as the food you eat. Today’s society barrages us with a constant stream of negative, violent and ...
Views: 857 - Making Your Time Count (Part 2) - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2006 from Duncan GotobedSelf-Management? Project Management Effective time management requires planning and organization. Just as a project manager schedules all aspects of a project, you also can plan aspects of your various deadlines using similar tools. One important aspect of time management is committing your ...
Views: 793 - Success is a choice - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2006 from Tim ConnorSuccess is a Choice Achieving sustained success is not all that complicated, unless we choose to make it so. Success is truly a choice. For many, the benefits of success are illusive. These people struggle, search and try year after year to create a life filled with financial security, ...
Views: 1050 - Acupuncture Shows There’s More to You than Meets the Eye - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2006 from Ananga SivyerDid you know that there are unseen channels running through your body that you can use to feel better? Acupuncturists have been using them for centuries, and now you can too. It’s easy to learn how to use a simple set sequence of acupuncture points that give relief from physical and emotional ...
Views: 797 - Soul Calling For Expansion - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2006 from Neil FellowesWe're met by many challenges in life: mental, physical, economical, environmental, community, cultural, political etc. And sometimes these challenges become painful. This article is about how we face these challenges. On Monday, around 2pm, in Bristol, I hit threshold. By my own standards I'd ...
Views: 814 - Who is managing your life? - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2006 from Leslie GailTake a close look at your life. Who would you say is managing your life, calling all the shots? When you were younger, your parents made both the simple and grand decisions affecting your life. You were OK with this until about the age of 5 when you decided it was time to call the shots. Your ...
Views: 1004 - The 3 Steps to Healing - Awareness, Expression, Resolution - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2006 from Robert VibertI recently realized what was missing in many emotional healing techniques - a systematic and comprehensive approach that would ensure that the three key aspects of the emotional healing process would be properly handled. Since early 2001, I have engaged in a dedicated and intense research ...
Views: 1654(2 votes) - Who's In Charge Here? - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2006 from Keith VarnumWatch your thoughts. They become words. Watch your words. They become actions. Watch your actions. They become habits. Watch your habits. They become character. Watch your character. It becomes your destiny. - Frank Outlaw Do you sometimes feel that your life is totally out of your control? ...
Views: 1051 - The Psychology of Goal Setting - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2006 from Geary SmithThe Psychology of Goal Setting: Having Priorities in Arranging Your Daily Activities “Sometimes, I just seem so overwhelmed,” said a woman. “I mean, sometimes there is just not enough time in the day to get things done.” I often times hear these same type of statements by a great number of ...
Views: 892(1 vote) - 3 Keys to Making Your Dreams Happen - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2006 from Barb ElyettAre you a dreamer? Do you have a desire to do something great with your life? Do you have unique talents and gifts that you long to share with others? If so, then take your hand right now, tap yourself on the shoulder, and shout "Tag! I’M IT!" That's right! You're it! You are responsible for ...
Views: 802 - From Thought to Action – Dan’s Story (Book Excerpt) - by I have a friend who was working in the marketing department of a large company. Dan was satisfied with that job, but not Totally Fulfilled. He was a passionate photographer and he loved to travel and shoot lots of pictures. He gave them away to friends, and everyone told him he was so ...
Views: 821 - Sanity Saver #8: Set Limits - by Submitted on May 31, 2006 from Stephanie MarstonIn order to restore your sanity you have to know what your bottom line is. You may be wondering, how do you determine this? Surprisingly your feelings, especially feelings of anger, frustration and resentment are messengers that will bring you valuable information. Anger often signals that you ...
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