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- Anger Management Class: Who is it For? - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2010 from Joe JamesWho do you suppose is most likely to end up needing an anger management class? Those who are more youthful, with kids in the house and less schooling are the most likely to have anger management problems according to recent research. Scott Shieman of the University of Toronto asked 1800 ...
Views: 1043 - Pathways to Discover Your Life’s Purpose - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2010 from Melinda Neisser“We have been put on this earth to discover our own path, and we will never be happy if we live someone else’s idea of life.” ~James Van Praagh The GPS navigational system has revolutionized travel. Now, we can simply input our destination, sit back and let a voice activated system guide us ...
Views: 2129(3 votes) - The Myth of Balance - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2010 from Danielle MillerI often talk about how I don’t believe in the idea of women having balanced lives. As progressive as we are in many areas, there are still outdated thoughts that continue to take up space in our life patterns. I work with many women who operate under the misconception that there is something ...
Views: 1505 - Educating Teens - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2010 from Hugh DeBurgh"Educating" Teens My wife and I were talking today about our oldest child, who is almost eleven years old. He is a very bright, compassionate, and mature young man, and he has been a great help to us with chores and in dealing with the younger kids. But he is getting quite bored, maybe even ...
Views: 1541(8 votes) - Being True to Yourself and Others - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Krystal KuehnCan love be real without sincerity? Most would agree that sincerity is what makes love what it is. Genuine love is true. And it is true love that we all want. We want to know we are sincerely loved for who we are. We want to know that it is with sincere motives that those who love us say and do ...
Views: 5359(5 votes) - Masculine vs Feminine - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Etienne CharlandI was reading David Deida's book The Way of the Superior Man and he was saying that masculinity seeks freedom and femininity seeks love. Later I was doing Natural Grounding. Then BANG it hit it like a brick on the head! Actually it was my hands that made the sound on my forehead. Masculinity ...
Views: 2615(1 vote) - Why Most People Don't Really Change - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2010 from Joseph BurgoMost people don’t change; they just become more the way they already are. I must have said these words hundreds of times in my life — to clients, family and friends. While there are exceptions, most people find change difficult for several reasons. They don’t know themselves very well, to ...
Views: 2167(1 vote) - Winners and Losers - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2010 from Joseph BurgoCompetition is a fact of life; the desire to win at games, get the highest grade in the class or bring home a blue ribbon from the county fair is a feeling most of us can understand. Playing sports provides an outlet for competitive urges; watching your favorite professional teams allows us to ...
Views: 1372(1 vote) - Creativity - What Is It? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Terry WeberWe, as humans, share 98% of our genetic makeup with chimpanzees. So, what is the difference between those small apes and us? As you probably know, the chimpanzee is intelligent, social and has a wide range of sounds and gestures for communication and is probably one of the most expressive of ...
Views: 1310(1 vote) - Is Pride the TRUE #1 Killer of Americans? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Jason TivisFrank is walking up and down the aisle at his home town Superstore impatiently waiting for his wife to hurry up and pick a purse. The game is coming on in a half hour and he still needs time to set up the den for the fellas to come over, and he STILL has to make the nachos. She said this was ...
Views: 1470(1 vote) - Materialize Your Craziest Dreams, In Just 5 Easy Steps And 1 Hard One, Using Creative Visualization - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Harry WarmanTo start the creative practice of visualization for personal growth, consider the following recommendations: 1. ______ ONE INTENTION AT A TIME Multiple targets dissipate your desperately needed energy. Don’t allow your goals to water each other down. Focus most intently on only one ...
Views: 4270(1 vote) - Gain Stupendous Growth Through Creative Visualization - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Harry Warman"Creative visualization is magic in the truest and in the best sense of the word. This involves understanding and bringing yourself into line with the natural principles that govern the workings of our universe, and the study of the principles in the most conscious and creative way." By ...
Views: 2063 - Why is it wrong to never expect anything and therefore avoid all disappointment in life? - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2010 from BeiYin *The People Whisperer*To believe that it is possible to 'never expect anything', tells how far peoples manipulation of themselves goes and it also shows the lack of self knowledge. Fact is that every body is full of expectations, although hardly anybody is conscious about this, because these expectations are the ...
Views: 4829(2 votes) - Why to Take an Information Vacation - and How - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2015 from Liisa KyleAre you an information addict? A news junkie? A Facebook frequenter, a Twitterer or devotee of other social media? A slave to your PDA or fancy phone? The costs of this information addiction is well documented. No wonder it's becoming chic these days to 'go off the grid' for a period of ...
Views: 1471 - Love and Hatred - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2010 from Joseph BurgoEach of us has a mixture of feelings toward those people we’re intimate with, and learning how to tolerate ambivalence is a part of growing up. Small children sometimes scream “I hate you!” when frustrated by their parents though they may be loving and affectionate an hour later. Such ...
Views: 1696(3 votes) - Crappy Chaos - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2010 from Jeanna GabelliniChaos happens. It happens to everyone. Some people live in a constant state of chaos. It may not serve them but they accept and react to it like it’s normal. Chaos is not normal. Chaos is a direct reflection of your beliefs and how you perceive a situation. In many cases, chaos is simply a ...
Views: 1112(2 votes) - You Deserve Financial Distress (?) - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2010 from Tom JustinI was looking for something in my file cabinet today and pulled out this faded scrap of paper. I instantly remembered writing this on the beach at La Jolla California, many years ago. It was a dark period financially and emotionally too. I needed at least $20,000 within the next month just ...
Views: 1581(2 votes) - How Clean is Your House? - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2010 from carl liSalmonella, Campylobacter and E. Coli are all unfriendly forms of bacteria. In fact one of these bad bacteria can multiply into 7 million cells in as little as 24 hours. Germs can spread fast, sickness can be transferred and infections can spread from a number items such as cutting boards, light ...
Views: 1138(2 votes) - Discover the Effective Personal Presentation Tips to Super-Charging Your Charisma - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2010 from Rebecca MillsPersonal presentation skills include correct, method of portraying oneself in public or a social surrounding. It is basically the ability to enhance our communication skills in an appropriate manner. Whether in a completely official set up or while dealing with situations in our daily life, ...
Views: 2324(2 votes) - Embrace the Season with Nature Journaling - by Submitted on Nov 01, 2010 from Mari L. McCarthyRefresh your Journaling Practice Few sights are more inspiring than rows of trees bursting into flame with the red and gold leaves of fall. Unless it's the fist pink blossoms of spring. No matter what the season, it's likely you'll encounter a few days that provide an ideal opportunity to ...
Views: 2169 - Terrorism - the Aftermath Continues - by Submitted on Nov 01, 2010 from James LeGrandThe strongest impact of terrorism lies not in the event itself, but in the fear-based responses it provokes. The 9/11 event itself destroyed almost 3,000 lives, some of the most famous symbols of commerce, and the sense of security that Americans felt while living within the borders of the ...
Views: 1288 - Masterminds and Their Groups - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2010 from PD RiversHave you ever wondered about all those big mastermind groups that are always being talked about in the news and on the talk shows? A Mastermind group comes together around a central thought. They also have control issues; they often want to control the world (or at least their little portion of ...
Views: 2228(3 votes) - Using Energy for Spiritual Healing - A Holistic Approach to Clear Pain and Suffering - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2010 from Cindy L. HerbHow many of you have gotten sick when your doctor's office was closed? Do you not agree that many times our bodies need attention either late at night, on the weekend, or during a vacation—all times when your doctor may be off-call? When a doctor is not easily available, is there an effective ...
Views: 2060(1 vote) - Universal Laws - Key of Success - by Submitted on Oct 23, 2010 from Mustafa YucelGOD intend each individual. to do well. Its God's plan that a human should grow to be great. Its God's plan that persons must not just utilize, but take pleasure in all goods in the universe. The universal laws of God and law of success denies man nothing. A human is born to be stuffed. The ...
Views: 1508(5 votes) - Pain - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2010 from Hugh DeBurghPain Pain; it’s a subject that most of us would rather not hear about. Others less fortunate cannot get out of their minds. Of course pain comes in many forms. Physical pain is the most obvious form. I am not a physician so I will not address the physical or psychological issues ...
Views: 1273(2 votes) - Writer offers healing, hope through radio show - by Submitted on Apr 18, 2012 from Sandy Brewer, PhDWriter offers healing, hope through radio show By LISA CRAWFORD WATSON Herald Correspondent Posted: 10/22/2010 Sandy Brewer had to get out. But it was going to take some growing up before she could manage it, which meant she had to survive it. More than once, she almost didn't, ...
Views: 2140(1 vote) - Organizational Products for Creative People - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2015 from Liisa KyleA confession: I'm an organization nerd. Call me crazy but I enjoy being able to find what I need when I need it -- be it a particular tool, invoice, ingredient or garment. It feels good to have my 'to do' lists prioritized, to know that the important things are not falling through the cracks. ...
Views: 2294 - Moving past anger and anxiety based life styles - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2010 from Monty RitchingsWhen I was a younger person, anger and anxiety were my "best friends". I never went anywhere without them. I did not like how they felt but I also did not like the feeling of being without them because they had become so familiar. It was almost like a void if they weren't present. My ...
Views: 2294(1 vote) - Quick and Easy Cheese Dip Appetizer Recipes - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2010 from Reggie BeanI have a special place in my heart for cheese; from Gouda to Colby, Parmesan or Mozzarella. Cheddar is better, but I would be remiss to leave out Swiss. In my book, if you top something with cheese, you only make it better. It explains why my favorite types of appetizers are cheese based, ...
Views: 954(2 votes) - Keep Your Eyes on the Prize - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2010 from Hugh DeBurghI have found that there are two approaches to achieving a goal. • You can focus on the process – that is, focus on the things you need to do to be a success • You can focus on the goal, and sort of let the process happen. The first method sounds more responsible; certainly you have to ...
Views: 1401(1 vote) - Tewnty Twenty Vision - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2010 from Terry WeberWhen I get up in the morning, I put my glasses on and find myself wearing them for the rest of my waking hours. I'm used to them I guess, but it sure would be nice if I didn't need them to correct my vision. Fact is, I have no choice. If I want to see what's going on around me I have to wear my ...
Views: 1261(2 votes) - Adequate Sleep Creates Increased Energy - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2010 from Terry WeberHave you ever stopped to think about the many benefits of adequate sleep? Because of our different life styles most of us look at sleep in one of two ways: (1) a waste of time or (2) we have the feeling we never get enough sleep. (1) If you are the kind of person whose life style makes you ...
Views: 1783(3 votes) - The Desire for Family Freedom - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2010 from Hugh DeBurghWhen I started writing about the Families Without Limits phenomenon, I really didn’t think much about the worldwide appeal of the concept. Like most North Americans, I was so wrapped up in my own world that I failed to consider the rest of humanity. What I have discovered, however, is just how ...
Views: 1284(2 votes) - When It Hurts Say OUCH! - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2010 from Hugh DeBurghThat's Got to Hurt! I recently had a Twitter friend ask me to post some uplifting quotes related to “taking kindness as weakness” and “being pushed too far.” Of course I did my best to find a few that might assuage her pain. At least I hope they helped a little. This reminded me of a common ...
Views: 2113(2 votes) - Why Do I Write? - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2010 from Hugh DeBurghWhat drives me to write my books and my blog is a consistent reaction I have when I see the eyes of people who think they are imprisoned by their lives. Mind you, these folks almost never say that they are imprisoned and I suspect that most of them would vehemently deny it if you asked them out ...
Views: 1236(2 votes) - The Four Stages of Life Transformation - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2010 from Michelle CastoSeptember 11, 2001 was the world’s wake up call. After the chaos and confusion, we awoke to the realization that life is a precious gift and that it is our responsibility as a citizen and human being to lead and live our best life. For most of us, that meant looking at our current state of ...
Views: 1863(2 votes) - How Do Leaders Climb the Ladder of Leadership? The Ten Defining Moments of Leadership - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2010 from moses kihikoIs Barak Obama enjoying the loftiest leadership stage any leader can reach? What about Nelson Mandela? Who between the two has reached the highest leadership stage? How can we know this? How do the leaders gain public fame? How did they take on the stage of public arena? Is there some defining ...
Views: 1517 - Superman, Lex Luthor and Self Promotion - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2010 from Jorge OlsonWhat Superman can Teach You about Unselfish Self Promotion? Can Unselfishness and Self Promotion even be placed side by side in a sentence? Aren't Self Promotion and Unselfishness mortal enemies? A comic book scene comes to mind were the Hero called "Unselfish" battles the Villain "Self ...
Views: 1646 - Do You Breathe With Your Right or Left Brain? - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2010 from Sharron CalvinDo you know what side of your brain you're using when balancing your checkbook or listening to music? The left side enjoys facts and figures, while the right enjoys daydreaming. You can develop both sides of your brain and learn to shift when appropriate through the breath. Breath is the ...
Views: 1868(2 votes) - I Ain't Got No Money! - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2010 from Hugh DeBurghLet’s face it. The number one reason (or excuse) that most of us use to avoid even thinking about making a major change in our family’s lifestyle is fear about our financial situation. Especially in today’s unstable economic environment most folks are holding their breath and hoping that they ...
Views: 1338(2 votes) - The Costs of Adventure - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2010 from Hugh DeBurghThe Cost of Adventure How Much Do You Need? Recently I wrote about why you need not fear making a change to your lifestyle simply because your financial situation is uncertain. Today I am writing about what living a more adventurous lifestyle will really cost you. My family has traveled to ...
Views: 1272(1 vote) - A War of Words - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2010 from Hugh DeBurghYou Are Wrong! I was distracted today by a vigorous “debate” that I stumbled upon on Amazon.com. I never realized just how active the discussion groups at Amazon are and regarding much more than books! One such subject was the health care battle that is currently raging in Washington. Now I ...
Views: 1420(1 vote) - Avoid the Risk of Injury - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2010 from sarah labdarExercise is essential for proper body weight, muscle tonicity and body functioning. Although when we exercise we are putting stress on the body, to build muscle, burn calories, and burn fat. Unlike mental stress, physical stress is good to keep the body maintaining proper function. However, ...
Views: 980(1 vote) - How the Power to Forgive Frees Us to Love - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2010 from Krystal KuehnOne of the greatest challenges in loving others is to forgive them when they have wronged us and caused us pain. Every time we are wronged, we have to choose how we are going to deal with the hurt. Ultimately, we have to decide if we will forgive the person or persons who have wronged us, or if ...
Views: 2411(1 vote) - How to Choose a Good Therapist - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2010 from Mary Jane Hurley BrantEver wonder about how to choose a therapist? Today I would like to share my thoughts on this important question. I believe a client can feel more understood when the therapist has clinical experience with the situation the client is bringing to therapy. And, if the therapist has the same ...
Views: 1860(2 votes) - My Life IS My Message - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2010 from Hugh DeBurghMy Life IS My Message My Life IS My Message. Sometimes new acquaintances ask me, “So Hugh, what is it you do?” It seems like a straight-forward question but for me answering never is. Consider the following possible answers: • “I help awaken people to the life they should be ...
Views: 1739(1 vote) - Looking to the Stars and Planets Reminds You of the Energy within Your Body - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2010 from Cindy L. HerbHave you been dealing with low energy? You may have noticed the strong power being output in the universe and therefore, perhaps it is taking a toll on you. None of us is exempt from the energy in the universe. Each human is made of not only a physical body, but also a spiritual soul that emits ...
Views: 1911(1 vote) - Setting Goals and Shaping Your Future - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2010 from Dr. Nathalie BeauchampI often start my Wellness On The Go™ workshops with information about the importance of setting goals. By a show of hands, I ask the audience to demonstrate how many of them have goals, and whether or not these goals have been documented. Throughout the course of my workshops I have come to ...
Views: 3418(5 votes) - What Do My Dreams Mean? - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2010 from Dr Laura UmferWhat Do My Dreams Mean? There are many books and websites that attempt to interpret dreams. Many of us have had dreams about being chased, falling, losing teeth etc. and there are many interpretations for them. There are many kinds of dreams. Dreams are like hallucinations filled with ...
Views: 1659(1 vote) - Negative Empowerment - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2010 from Denise PendletonEmpowerment, that’s a good thing ~ right? Any time we have the ability to empower someone to do their best or make good decisions, it’s a positive in their life. So how do we get caught in the trap of negative empowerment? And what exactly is negative empowerment? Have you ever noticed ...
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