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Our minds like to think of the worst case scenario at times. It is one of those traits that can be useful when we are fighting for survival. However it can also be a trap that can keep us from trying new things, pursuing our dreams and sleeping soundly at night.
One of my clients was ... Views: 1209
Accidents are the parts of every one’s life and may harm anybody at anywhere. In several places especially in USA daily thousands of accidents transpire including severe or minor. These may happen while crossing road, at work space, inside the homes and so on. However, there is much need to get ... Views: 382
When you look for a way out of any corner, the first thing you usually ask yourself is, “What do I need to do?” It’s an okay question to begin the process of moving into solution. But an even better question is, “What was I focusing on that led me into this corner?”
You can trick yourself ... Views: 1649
For me the hardest type of “bad” days are the ones that happen all in my head. Nothing horrible or traumatic happened to me today. In fact, several lovely things happened.
But it just goes to show that what is “out there” really isn’t all that indicative of our internal state of mind. So ... Views: 1000
______ THE PROCESS IN A NUTSHELL ______
The real-life benefits of Creative Visualization are immense. Simply put: Intensely "see" your target desire through the eyes of your mind, as situations or events already happening now, until they become a part of you.
This positively affects the ... Views: 1754
Do you have a challenging time with your schedule?
Well, you're not alone! Nearly everyone I know and nearly everyone I've ever coached can relate to this in some way. This includes: feeling like there is too much to do, feeling like there is not enough to do, feeling overworked, overtired, ... Views: 1246
OUR INHERENT NATURE
We are all teachers and students and we are all leaders and followers. Why do I say this? It is the nature of existence. We have to engage in life-long learning if we want our success to continue. So we have to humble ourselves and get other people, be they younger or older ... Views: 1226
As we prepare for the American Thanksgiving, Christmas and Chanukah, my friends talk of plans to go home to be with their families for the holidays.
What’s surprising to me, is that the tone in their voice isn’t one of excitement or anticipation, but more of dread and obligation.
Looking ... Views: 1447
Creative visualization is the skill of creation, management and projection of images in the mind. The practice of creative visualization can improve mental and physical sight.
Since the act of visualization is a cognitive process, it is suited to helping people overcome their negative ... Views: 8571
In basic terms, wholeness is the ability everyone has to utilize all of our strengths, skills and abilities --without limitation -- in order to live our best life and be our best self. While '-ness' represents the quality or degree of something, the Merriam-Webster dictionary provides two ... Views: 2131
The definition of a fool is……..a silly or stupid person; a person who lacks judgment or sense.
How many of us have been fools for love and the sake of love? I was out to lunch with my girlfriends a few days ago and I posed the question, “why are we fools for love?” They all replied, ... Views: 2016
Going through a divorce can leave you feeling unhappy or disconnected with yourself, even hopeless sometimes.
How to raise self esteem after a divorce may not have even crossed your mind yet.
But the main area of your life that is affected is your self esteem. Because self esteem is ... Views: 2239
Do you wonder how to get what you want in your life? Does it frustrate you that some people seem to get everything they want while you always struggle and yet only get lucky now and then? How come that some people succeed easily while others do not? Is there a secret recipe?
Here are some key ... Views: 1516
Life is often like a river with its own current. Sometimes we are just floating along, other times we are caught in a rapid. Occasionally we get stuck in an eddy. The ebb and flow can be welcomed or feared. Our world seems to be moving in a very fast current. Just when we get accustomed to the ... Views: 1195
Equipment can malfunction for many different reasons. Mechanical contacts and parts can wear out; wires can overheat and burn open or short out; parts might be damaged by impact or abrasion; etc. Equipment may operate in a way far different than it was designed to, or not work at ... Views: 3016
Before you start bear in mind that wallpaper removal will be labor intensive and could bring about severe damage to your walls if it is not completed properly. Most removal damage is as a result of lack of a wallpaper primer before the walls were papered, resulting in the glue being absorbed ... Views: 1020
The first thing most of us assume we could learn from billionaires is how to make more money, not how to save more money. But the fact is many billionaires are quite frugal, a habit developed by years of pinching their spending in order to put as much money as possible into investments. From ... Views: 4116
They say that it's better to give than to receive. But givers sometimes bemoan the lack of appreciation from the recipients.
Christmas is fast approaching, surely, (or hopefully) there will be lots of presents in store for you! That's why it's not too late to brush up on your appreciation ... Views: 631
Definition of skimp: 1. To deal with hastily, carelessly or with poor material: concentrated on reelection, skimping other matters. 2. To provide for or supply inadequately; be stingy with; accused them of skimping defense funding. V.intr. To be stingy or very thrifty. Adj. Scanty; skimpy.
It ... Views: 950
THIS IS YOUR LIFE
Once upon there was a British television show: This is Your Life! which put under the microscope a real-life person when friends, family, associates would appear and rebuild the person’s life bit by bit in front of viewers. A highly popular show, the presenter with the aid of ... Views: 1050
In the midst of a faulty economic recovery, high unemployment, continuing foreclosures, and the prospects of inflation or hyperinflation, people around the world continue to focus more attention on things and people that cannot and will not help them in their daily lives than on the work that ... Views: 1550
Here's a list of 51 simple, and not-so-simple ways to improve the quality of your life. I added the "not-so-simple" not to be negative, but to keep things real. Some of these really aren't so "simple", but I promise the tough ones become easier when you master the more simple ones one step at a ... Views: 1829
Health is like wealth. Many people dream of being rich. They fantasize about what they would do if they won the lottery. Some people might even have ideas about how they could get rich. They know it is possible. They might even personally know someone who is very financially well off.
Then ... Views: 1542
The prevailing wisdom is that to be happy, fulfilled and successful, one must discover and pursue one's 'purpose' in life. There are no shortage of self-help books and programs designed to do just that. The problem, however, is that this is utter bunk. Especially for DaVincis -- multi-talented, ... Views: 1645
Many people find themselves in need of someone who can present unbiased advice from time to time. Personal friends or relations are not always a great alternative for supplying you with good counsel because regardless of their fondness for you their experience might not be adequate for giving ... Views: 5734
LIFE IS NOT FAIR
Sometimes we can be so right yet so wrong. This philosophy applies in the work place. In parts of Asia, there is the belief that the Boss is always right or more accurately, The Boss always thinks he is right!
TAKE A LEAF OUT OF THE BOOKS OF LAW STUDENTS
Law students are ... Views: 1419
Fact: I am a Christian.
Fact: I am straight.
Fact: For much too long, I have stood, just as much of the church has, on the wrong side of the gay/lesbian issue.
Instead of standing with homosexuals, many in my tradition, and I was one of these once, have mistakenly thought we were upholding ... Views: 1482
Unique personalized sympathy gifts express timely thoughtfulness to a bereaved person. They become treasured mementos of the life of a loved one who has passed on. There are a number of ways to personalize a gift. You can incorporate a photo, have an item engraved, or use a particularly ... Views: 2149
Thoughtful sympathy inspirational gifts combine spiritual support with encouragement in times of grief. They place an emphasis on celebrating the life of the deceased and challenge us to move on to honor our loved ones with courage and hope.
In times of grief, it is important to balance ... Views: 2007
For this article, I would like to start with a quote that resonated with me from the first day I heard it.
"Forgiveness is understanding."
-Jonathan
There's a lot of truth in those words. Forgiveness is a lot deeper than just simply saying to yourself "I forgive this person" or "I forgive ... Views: 1212
Fear can own you if you allow it. All we have to do is accept it for what it is …fear it is natural and everyone young and old, rich or poor no matter what walk of life every single person on earth will at one point or another will experience fear. There is no way to avoid feeling afraid every ... Views: 1478
How well do you build reserves? And we’re not just talking about money, although the concept is the same. Do you have reserves of time, resources and energy? Are you running your life, or is your life running you?
We are all familiar with the concept of building financial reserves. Your ... Views: 1795
"In the world of getting what you want, what is the first step?" I recently asked this question to a group of people I was speaking to recently and you would be surprised what they came up with. The example I used was, "Let's say you want to buy a car. What is the beginning?" Here are some ... Views: 1734
If you want prosperity, where do you start? It is no secret that we all want it, but how do we get it? Here is a list of FIVE things you can do to get well on the road to prosperity right now:
1.Visualize it. The Universe can't give you what you don't define. It's like asking your mother what ... Views: 1519
Choices; we all make them everyday. Some of us learn from the poor choices that we’ve made in life. Some of us regret the choices that we’ve made. A lot of us understand the repercussions of the choices we have made. A lot of people don’t understand the repercussions at all.
I feel that there ... Views: 1900
I see the color of your skin. I see the color of your hair. Mine is straight and yours is curly. I am short and you are tall. My eyes are big and yours are small. We both love to play. I have a jump rope and you have a ball. My tummy’s big and yours is small.
All the kids are always ... Views: 2036
One of the key elements in our quest to improve the quality of our lives, is to reduce the number of unnecessary distractions which are causing our growth to either stagnate, or to move backwards. To fully understand what we need to focus on, we will need to ask ourselves a few simple ... Views: 1489
When a man is stumbling in his social success he wonders “what are the rules”? Is there a list of do’s and don’ts?
Here are some dating tips that will get your head straight about what you need to do to attract a beautiful woman.
1. Lead-A high value woman is looking for a high value ... Views: 687
Yesterday I was talking to my kids at dinner when one of them uttered those classic words, “I’m bored.”
I told her that there were only two roads away from boredom, and only one of those was permanent. The second road would lead her right back to the boredom she hated, but the first road would ... Views: 1387
The problem with big families is that they don’t fit anywhere.
I never thought about this problem until I experienced it, but everything in our society is designed for the family with 2.4 kids and a dog. If you happen to have four kids, a cat, a few kid friends, and a spouse, a lot of things ... Views: 3993
My mom had a dream when she was young. She wanted to be a surgical nurse.
Mom grew up as a middle child in a large family. Her family lived in the boonies and had little money. Her dad was a boat captain and was away all week. All of the children worked hard to take care of what little they ... Views: 1235
Amy was an adventurous blond, blue-eyed tomboy living an ordinary suburban life when her parents announced that the family would be purchasing an RV motor home and traveling the United States for one year on a journey of discovery.
She was a bit sad to leave her friends behind, and she wasn’t ... Views: 1470
Every emotion triggers different reaction or decision of us. The emotions we feel can change our decisions. Some emotions can make us avoid something or some can force us to reach for it. This is an important effect when we are making decisions. If we want to make decisions consciously we must ... Views: 1586
Well now, look at you--have you forgotten that you're unique? Sometimes, it's more than your looks, your personality or even your talents. Who knows, it was your heart, your passion, your kindness, your zest for living or even your your never-say-die attitude despite your countless defeats. ... Views: 861
People with psychic ability come in various appearances from varied backgrounds, yet they all have some common characteristics. Remember, we all have psychic ability. I’m talking about in this article the traits of people who live their lives fully tuned into and taking advantage of their ... Views: 4198
Happiness is the direct result of a choice. An agreement, between you and you. If you aren’t happy now, it’s because you have not made this choice, this agreement with yourself.
The question is, “Why not?”
Many people simply do not understand this basic rule of life. Apparently, nobody told ... Views: 2552
Internet Addiction- The Internet Webs We Weave Can Be Sticky
If you have had difficulty with obsessive on-line gaming, cyberporn, compulsive internet surfing, excessive emailing, Facebook, Twitter, myspace, ‘Second Life’, Skype, cybersex, on-line affairs, ebay surfing, or excessive time spent ... Views: 1204
"I have never found a better way to enhance the communications process than by reinforcing the points or concepts I wish to make with timely, memorable quotations." ~Carolyn Warner
Cleanliness is next to Godliness. This saying, while simple, has a very deep meaning.
When you are knee deep in ... Views: 1503
If I were to write lyrics to the song "These Are My Favorite Things" I would write--walking down the street hearing the crunch of leaves under my feet on a cool beautiful fall day. I also like the way the sun filters through the leaves that are still on the trees in the fall. And it is nice to ... Views: 1549
1. Get Them Comfortable: When guests first start arriving at your event, they might not recognize all your family and friends. Being in an unfamiliar environment is a common problem that you will want to address. A unique way to break the ice is to incorporate a interactive routine during ... Views: 931