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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Husband Changed After Marriage: Husband Changed Personality - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from John BraxtonHusband Changed After Marriage: Husband Changed Personality When you first marry it is so easy to just gloss over what you know are differences. So you begin your marriage full of hope and with the belief that whatever problems may arise will be handled as a couple. You perceive your spouse ...
Views: 879 - Husband Said Hurtful Things I Can't Get Over: What To Do When Your Husband Says Hurtful Things - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from John BraxtonHusband Said Hurtful Things I Can't Get Over: What To Do When Your Husband Says Hurtful Things Do you sometimes feel you might be in a verbally abusive marriage? Is your husband nice, kind and polite on a certain social level, but the way he treats you in private leaves you wondering if it's ...
Views: 2865 - How To Save A Marriage When You Have Nothing In Common: We Have Nothing In Common But I Love Him - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from John BraxtonHow To Save A Marriage When You Have Nothing In Common: We Have Nothing In Common But I Love Him Personality compatibility in marriage is all about a couple's ability to stand in the marriage and be true to their vows in spite of years of being together. "Opposites attract", and this is one ...
Views: 1823 - My Husband Takes Me For Granted And Doesn't Really Appreciate Me: Feeling Taken For Granted In Marriage - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from John BraxtonMy Husband Takes Me For Granted And Doesn't Really Appreciate Me: Feeling Taken For Granted In Marriage Can you clearly see that your man is starting to take you for granted and you are feeling completely hopeless? Would you like things to change but don't really know what to do? Before I ...
Views: 751 - I Kicked My Husband Out: I Kicked My Cheating Husband Out Should I Feel Guilty About This - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from John BraxtonI Kicked My Husband Out: I Kicked My Cheating Husband Out Should I Feel Guilty About This Occasionally, I hear from women who are being judged for their reaction to their husband's cheating. Many wives don't really want to be around their husband immediately after the cheating is discovered, ...
Views: 757 - I Want To Convince My Husband To Go To Church With Me To Save Our Marriage: Trusting God To Restore My Marriage - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from John BraxtonI Want To Convince My Husband To Go To Church With Me To Save Our Marriage: Trusting God To Restore My Marriage It can happen to the best of marriages, that there will be disharmony in the relationship. Christians in particular can come under attack in this area and if this is the case then ...
Views: 654 - Preparing For Separation From Husband: Things To Consider Before Separating - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from John BraxtonPreparing For Separation From Husband: Things To Consider Before Separating Some couples decide to try a legal separation, a smart decision before jumping into a divorce. The legal separation itself is much like a divorce, as it involves a written agreement in which a couple outlines the ...
Views: 569 - Does Marriage Work After Separation: If Your Spouse Moves Out, Does It Mean That Your Marriage Is Over - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from John BraxtonDoes Marriage Work After Separation: If Your Spouse Moves Out, Does It Mean That Your Marriage Is Over Even if it seemed like a good idea at first, a separation and divorce is rarely an easy fix for relationship problems. Sure, it can be exciting at first, to think about new beginnings and ...
Views: 570 - My Husband Can't Get Over My Past: Husband Obsessed With My Past - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from John BraxtonMy Husband Can't Get Over My Past: Husband Obsessed With My Past Hurting the person you love can make the both of you suffer. Human beings are full of faults and we often do things that we later regret. When you hurt your romantic partner or spouse, sometimes, you're not only hurting them, ...
Views: 2540 - Husband Refuses To Apologize: My Husband Never Apologizes For Hurting Me - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from John BraxtonHusband Refuses To Apologize: My Husband Never Apologizes For Hurting Me Is it difficult for your spouse to apologize and tell you that he (or she) is sorry? Or is it hard for you to offer an apology? Some individuals can say "I'm sorry" easily while others can't ever seem to choke the ...
Views: 1621 - Apology Letter To Husband For Hurting Him: How To Say Sorry To Husband In Romantic Way - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from John BraxtonApology Letter To Husband For Hurting Him: How To Say Sorry To Husband In Romantic Way "I'm sorry." Those can be some of the toughest words that we ever say. It's especially difficult to say when we're naturally strong-willed or stubborn. But remember that old adage about actions speaking ...
Views: 1566 - How To Give Your Husband Space During A Separation: I Can't Stop Myself From Trying To Communicate With My Husband - by Submitted on May 01, 2019 from John BraxtonHow To Give Your Husband Space During A Separation: I Can't Stop Myself From Trying To Communicate With My Husband Once you get past the inevitable fear that your spouse may decide he or she wants to be single - a trial marital separation is actually a good tool if you use it ...
Views: 2102 - Losing Yourself In A Marriage: I Feel So Lost In My Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunLosing Yourself In A Marriage: I Feel So Lost In My Marriage There are few things more frustrating than feeling that you are being ordered around without having an opinion. While everyone would agree it is better to be asked to do something rather than be told, this nicety can get lost in a ...
Views: 659 - How To Compromise In Marriage: When Marriage Partners Have Different Values - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHow To Compromise In Marriage: When Marriage Partners Have Different Values There is one key to making a successful marriage that is probably one of the hardest things in the world to do. It's called compromise. Why is this so hard? Simple. We may be part of a marriage but we are still ...
Views: 524 - My Husband Married Me For Money: I Think My Husband Married Me For Money - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunMy Husband Married Me For Money: I Think My Husband Married Me For Money There's nothing like talking about money with our spouses that's guaranteed to get us fired up and on edge almost every time. So how can you, as a married female entrepreneur, have peaceful and productive money ...
Views: 526 - How To Make My Husband Realize He Is Hurting Me: How To Tell Your Husband He Hurt You - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHow To Make My Husband Realize He Is Hurting Me: How To Tell Your Husband He Hurt You I sometimes get emails from women who are sort of stuck in a holding pattern. They've found out that their husband has cheated and are devastated. They want to tell him, in great detail, just how much this ...
Views: 1081 - My Husband Is A Burden: I Feel Like My Husband Is A Burden - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunMy Husband Is A Burden: I Feel Like My Husband Is A Burden In "Resurrecting Venus", a book that teaches how to embrace your feminine power, Cynthia Occelli states the following: "Modern women routinely gab about their incapable husbands, who couldn't manage their lives without them. They see ...
Views: 1352 - My Husband and I Are Drifting Apart: Drifting Apart From Husband - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunMy Husband and I Are Drifting Apart: Drifting Apart From Husband It is quite common for a married couple to drift apart after a good few years of marriage. It's sad, but very true. The thing is they become so used to each other, that they end up assuming that the wife/husband knows how they ...
Views: 730 - My Husband Is Verbally Abusive and Blames Me: Miserable Negative Husband - Toxic Spouse Syndrome - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunMy Husband Is Verbally Abusive and Blames Me: Miserable Negative Husband - Toxic Spouse Syndrome Are you living with verbal abuse in marriage? Are you tired of feeling like a second class citizen? Are you afraid the abuse will become physical? Many people suffer with verbal abuse in marriage ...
Views: 2682 - My Husband Is Causing Me Stress: How To Deal With A Stressful Husband - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunMy Husband Is Causing Me Stress: How To Deal With A Stressful Husband You should manage stress so that you don't end up making your partner unhappy. A mind that is relaxed is able to think clearly. When you are relaxed you will socialize with people easily and more so feel at ease with your ...
Views: 2084 - My In Laws Are Ruining My Marriage: When In Laws Affect Your Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunMy In Laws Are Ruining My Marriage: When In Laws Affect Your Marriage Struggles with the in-laws is a common frustration for many. I have known couples that have split up due to issues with their in-laws. Relating to in-laws can be difficult, but it's important to remember that our children ...
Views: 887 - How To Improve Relationship With Mother In Law: How To Win Mother-In-Law's Heart - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHow To Improve Relationship With Mother In Law: How To Win Mother-In-Law's Heart How many times have you wanted things to be different with your mother-in-law or daughter-in-law, but when you think of making the changes necessary for that to happen, it just seems impossible? Change is hard; ...
Views: 673 - My Husband Is Angry With Me What Should I Do: My Husband Is Angry With Me All The Time - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunMy Husband Is Angry With Me What Should I Do: My Husband Is Angry With Me All The Time You're making a conscious effort to be more and more mindful lately. You're noticing what's going on in the present moment. You're paying closer attention to your partner and his/her cues. Perhaps you are ...
Views: 472 - How To Control Anger With Husband: How To Control Anger In Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHow To Control Anger With Husband: How To Control Anger In Marriage How can anger management help in saving your marriage? Anger management courses and programs allow people to solve a lot of problems in their marriage. It helps them relax and think positive, which are key factors for ...
Views: 523 - Should I Quit My Job To Save My Marriage: My Husband Doesn't Support My Career - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunShould I Quit My Job To Save My Marriage: My Husband Doesn't Support My Career Is Work Ruining Your Marriage? Learn How To Save Your Marriage Today! Currently, less than half of married couples have one spouse stay at home to look after children, clean, or cook. It is so expensive to live, ...
Views: 829 - Husband Talks Too Much: Husband Talks Incessantly - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHusband Talks Too Much: Husband Talks Incessantly Yes, I know-lack of communication is one of the big problems marriage counselors cite as leading to divorce. But what if your spouse talks too much? Or worse yet, what if you are the one who talks too much? Unfortunately, quantity of talk ...
Views: 2852 - How To Handle A Flirting Husband: When Your Husband Flirts In Front Of You - What To Do When A Spouse Flirts Too Much - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHow To Handle A Flirting Husband: When Your Husband Flirts In Front Of You - What To Do When A Spouse Flirts Too Much Flirting is as old as man. In the past, flirting was viewed with disgust and a flirt was considered out of tune with morality. But things have since changed. Today, ...
Views: 1224 - My Husband And I Argue Everyday: My Husband Disagrees With Everything I Say - Stop Arguing With Spouse - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunMy Husband And I Argue Everyday: My Husband Disagrees With Everything I Say - Stop Arguing With Spouse Do you need to know what to do if you are asking 'how to stop constant arguing with my husband, and rediscover the loving feelings in your marriage?' If yes, here are 3 effective tips to ...
Views: 3309 - I Need My Husband To Love Me Again: Will My Husband Ever Love Me Again - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunI Need My Husband To Love Me Again: Will My Husband Ever Love Me Again Are you still on the look out for the most practical tips about "how to make my husband love me again?" Well, look no more. Read this article and take advantage of the tips that will be shared with you. That way, you can ...
Views: 882 - Is It Ok To Date While Separated: Can I Date While Separated Before Divorce - Is It A Good Idea To See Others While Separated - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunIs It Ok To Date While Separated: Can I Date While Separated Before Divorce - Is It A Good Idea To See Others While Separated For someone going through marital separation, they can experience a range of emotions, including relief, fear, loneliness, jealousy, and stress. On the one hand, ...
Views: 616 - Husband Didn't Come Home After Fight: What To Do When Your Husband Does Not Come Home - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHusband Didn't Come Home After Fight: What To Do When Your Husband Does Not Come Home Did you have a huge fight with your husband that ended by him leaving the house, not answering your calls and refusing to have a conversation? Well, I was in this kind of situation, I know how it feels and I ...
Views: 3121 - How To Win My Husband's Heart Back: My Husband Left Me Because Of One Mistake - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHow To Win My Husband's Heart Back: My Husband Left Me Because Of One Mistake Do you think you are not appealing to your husband anymore? You start to feel that your husband is no longer interested in you and you want to win your husband back by being more desirable than before. Relax You ...
Views: 773 - Should I Fight For My Marriage or Let Go: When To Stop Fighting For Your Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunShould I Fight For My Marriage or Let Go: When To Stop Fighting For Your Marriage I don't believe I have to throw a bunch of statistics at you for us to realize that marriages are failing at a staggering rate. If a marriage lasts more than 5-7 years you are looked like as a marriage guru. ...
Views: 1063 - How To Fight For Your Marriage Alone: How To Fight For Your Marriage And Win - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHow To Fight For Your Marriage Alone: How To Fight For Your Marriage And Win Many people have been wondering whether it is possible to save their marriage on their own without the help of their spouse. The good news is that it is possible! On the other hand, you have to be prepared to put in ...
Views: 649 - Tips on Dealing with Infidelity That Results in Pregnancy - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from C Mellie SmithWhen it comes to infidelity within a marriage, the insecurities that reign as a result are exceptionally difficult to deal with and overcome. Beyond the fact that it completely breaks the foundation of your relationship, a lack of confidence and trust in your partner creates a very unsafe ...
Views: 991 - Intimacy During Separation: Does It Mean That You're More Likely To Get Back Together If You're Intimate With Your Spouse - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunIntimacy During Separation: Does It Mean That You're More Likely To Get Back Together If You're Intimate With Your Spouse A separation can be the beginning of the end of a marriage or the beginning of a new and improved marriage. One important factor in whether the marriage survives is how ...
Views: 1167 - I Don't Want To Be Married To My Husband Anymore: How Do You Know If You Want A Divorce - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunI Don't Want To Be Married To My Husband Anymore: How Do You Know If You Want A Divorce At first glance, marriage is a good thing. You meet someone incredible, fall in love, get married and build a life together. You've now got a best friend, committed lover, and life partner all rolled into ...
Views: 2108 - Husband Needs Space Moved Out: My Husband Needs Space What It Means - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHusband Needs Space Moved Out: My Husband Needs Space What It Means He packed up his stuff and moved out. You are left waiting for divorce papers and stocking up on boxes of tissues. If you want him back, don't give up. Here's how to get your husband back after he's moved out of the ...
Views: 1898 - Should I Let My Husband Leave Me For A Separation: What To Do When Your Husband Wants To Separate - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunShould I Let My Husband Leave Me For A Separation: What To Do When Your Husband Wants To Separate OK, you been married for a few years, you think everything is going great until you hear the dreaded words: I love you but not IN love with you anymore. Now, if you been married like me for ...
Views: 489 - Husband Wants To Move Out Temporarily: My Spouse Wants A Separation Because He Needs Time For Himself - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHusband Wants To Move Out Temporarily: My Spouse Wants A Separation Because He Needs Time For Himself What are you supposed to do with yourself and your relationship after a separation? The idea behind a separation is to see if you can survive without each other for a while, and hopefully all ...
Views: 1099 - How To Get Husband To Go To Counseling: Partner Won't Go To Couples Therapy - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHow To Get Husband To Go To Counseling: Partner Won't Go To Couples Therapy Relationship counseling is often the final solution for couples on the verge of the break up or divorce. However, some couples use counseling early on when the first problems appear. As any other option, you must not ...
Views: 546 - How To Make My Husband Love Me Again After Separation: My Husband Says The Separation Made Him Realize That He No Longer Loves Me In A Romantic Way - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHow To Make My Husband Love Me Again After Separation: My Husband Says The Separation Made Him Realize That He No Longer Loves Me In A Romantic Way So you and your husband are separated, don't live together and act like a divorced couple but you still love him and want to find out how you can ...
Views: 2327 - What To Say To Husband During Separation: Words To Say To Finally Get My Husband To Come Home - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunWhat To Say To Husband During Separation: Words To Say To Finally Get My Husband To Come Home Before you start reading I just want to tell you that I am not going to give you some magic spell that will help you to win your husband back after a separation. But what I do want to share with you ...
Views: 2007 - Me and My Husband Are Too Different: My Husband Doesn't Love Me Because He Now Believes Our Differences Make Us Incompatible - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunMe and My Husband Are Too Different: My Husband Doesn't Love Me Because He Now Believes Our Differences Make Us Incompatible No one wants to think about divorce, but the truth is that it happens. There are many different things that work against a marriage and send it on the fast track to the ...
Views: 610 - Husband Suddenly Wants Divorce: Husband Says That Our Marriage Won't Work - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHusband Suddenly Wants Divorce: Husband Says That Our Marriage Won't Work I have been receiving question from wives like "What should I do when my husband wants a divorce and I don't?" They were telling me they have tried means and ways to keep the heart of their husband but it just seems so ...
Views: 1051 - My Wife Acts Like She Hates Me: My Wife Has No Feelings For Me - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunMy Wife Acts Like She Hates Me: My Wife Has No Feelings For Me "My wife has fallen out of love with me!" On your wedding day you never imagined you would ever hear yourself saying that, did you? Back then you felt that your wife and you loved each other immeasurably and that your bond was ...
Views: 1142 - How To Treat Your Husband With Respect: How To Respect Your Husband Without Being A Doormat - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHow To Treat Your Husband With Respect: How To Respect Your Husband Without Being A Doormat Are you a married woman? Does your husband often say words that hurt your heart? He may think that you are not a good wife. The following is 10 important tips that will help you be a good wife. 1. ...
Views: 1464 - How To Get Your Husband Interested In You Again: My Husband Can't Seem To Come To A Decision About Our Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHow To Get Your Husband Interested In You Again: My Husband Can't Seem To Come To A Decision About Our Marriage Are you fearing that your husband is losing interest in you? If you are in a situation that your love with your husband is not as strong as before, please stay calm. Many women will ...
Views: 556 - My Husband Says I Don't Respect Him: How To Respect Your Husband When You Don't - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunMy Husband Says I Don't Respect Him: How To Respect Your Husband When You Don't Learning how to be a good wife to your husband can be challenging, particularly if you're a newlywed. It takes a while for two people to learn to live together and coexist as husband and wife, but you make an ...
Views: 1514 - How To Prevent Divorce And Save Marriage: My Spouse Says His Feelings For Me Keep Changing While Our Marriage Struggles - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunHow To Prevent Divorce And Save Marriage: My Spouse Says His Feelings For Me Keep Changing While Our Marriage Struggles After many years of marriage, there are few things that could be more devastating than to hear your husband say that he doesn't love you anymore. While there are many ...
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