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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- How to choose your next summer vacation - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2019 from Hotels Etc.comHave you and your family made the decision to plan a summer vacation this year? If you have, you are not alone. Each year, a large number of families decide to vacation in the summer months. If you have already selected your summer vacation destination, you are one step ahead of most ...
Views: 1738(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I don't want to be the victim of any Jezebel - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a gentle young graduate of about 30 years. Throughout my staying on the campus, I decided not to enter into any real relationship that could eventually lead to marriage (I mean I had nothing in common with girls). Now, I need a life partner, wish must be a graduate like ...
Views: 926(1 vote) - Boundaries: Do Other People Walk Over You? - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperThere are a number of elements that make up ones experience of reality, and these include what they see, hear and smell. What also play an important part are their feelings and thoughts. When it comes to what they see, hear and smell, these are going to be things that other people will also ...
Views: 724 - How to Know They Are Truly Sorry: 6 Signs of Remorse After Infidelity - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2019 from C Mellie SmithOne of the major issues in relationships that attempt to mend and stay together after infidelity has been discovered is the lack of not knowing whether what you are seeing, and hearing is genuine and real. Your affair partner may say that they are sorry but provide you with simplistic and ...
Views: 1839 - Double Your Love with this Quick Survey - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2019 from Mary HorsmanHave you ever thought about exactly what it would take to double your Love? As it turns out, simply asking the right questions is a fantastic way to jump start your progress to getting what you want out of life. And if you want to get the most out of answering these questions, share them ...
Views: 474 - Are You in a Relationship or Partnership? - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2019 from Tanisha Snipes-DixonRelationships can develop through friends, family, neighbors, co-workers and the people we interact with every day. Relationships are built over time, as well as trust, and the commitment placed into them. Relationships are not permanent. They can end at any time for no reason at all. They hold ...
Views: 685(1 vote) - 7 Amazing Ways To Bring Out The Best In Your Wife - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2019 from Saminu AbassMen, by your words and your actions, you have the power to bring out the best OR to bring out the worst in your wife. Your choices will either build her up or tear her down. I hope these lists create healthy new habits and help bring out the best in your marriage! 7 Ways to Bring out the ...
Views: 996(1 vote) - Stepping Divinely with NeCe Lenore - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2019 from Tanisha Snipes-DixonWe all have experienced some form of happiness that warmed our hearts and uplifted our spirits. We express it through our smiles and joyous sense of humor as we try to share our happiness with others. There's a vibrant light that shines through our aura attracting those around us and naturally, ...
Views: 830(2 votes) - Women Should Not Be Judged By Their Looks - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2019 from Humayoun ShakeelImage is very powerful. It gives us conscious and unconscious impressions about any person. We may sometimes make quick judgments about the people from the way they dress; we may think these thoughts whether the person is wealthy or poor, conservative or liberal, well-educated or plain, ...
Views: 603 - Dear Dr. Romance: I don't know if this is retaliation - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I recently read "The One Who Got Away." While my situation doesn't parallel the situations you described in the article, it's very similar. About 8-9 mos ago, I ran into a high school crush on a social media site – I took the first leap, and shot her a "hey how you ...
Views: 1034(1 vote) - Grit and Your Inner Critic - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2019 from Paul HannigI don't know about you, but I have an internal critic. He's a constant complainer. Have you ever wondered why people get married? Everyone needs someone else to complain to. Some complaining is necessary. Complaining offers you the opportunity to solve a problem. However, that doesn't work ...
Views: 816 - Threesome chat - a kind of adult dating - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2019 from Fur LindaThen one day, I found out that my husband joined an adult dating site, but at the beginning I felt he was watching some diffrient - porn. Because this is a website we have never heard of, but then I know this is a bisexual website (the site named coupleseekingbiwomen.com) to meet more couples ...
Views: 1407 - Your Spiritual Love Reading for June - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2019 from Tanisha Snipes-DixonYou may feel the need to make a decision, yet unable to move one way or another due to feeling confused. Look at the situation logically and try a new approach to break the deadlock. You are not trapped and have full control on what you choose to do. Things are moving quickly and feeling chaotic ...
Views: 789(2 votes) - Guidelines for Determining a Toxic Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2019 from Dr. Anne BrownShould I leave my relationship? This question is probably one of the top ten reasons people have come into my practice asking for help. I am a therapist who prefers to work preventatively. I would like someone who is in the market for a relationship to already be in therapy. A good therapist can ...
Views: 1616(2 votes) - Codependency and #MeToo: A New Way Forward - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2019 from Dr. Anne BrownRecap So, to recap Part One, we discussed our history as women as it relates to our relationship with men and how up until the middle to late 20th century we didn’t have laws to protect us from abuses. Women, along with children, were property of men. Men could abuse us with no consequences. We ...
Views: 1505(1 vote) - Codependency and #MeToo: A Brief History of Abuse - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2019 from Dr. Anne BrownOur History When we look at the history of women as it relates to men, we see that it has only been in the last 100 years that we were given rights. Before we had rights, women and children were the property of men. Men could do with us whatever they pleased, whenever they pleased. This ...
Views: 1496(1 vote) - Keep Your Love Alive - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2019 from Mary HorsmanWhen you fall in Love (With your partner, with your child, or even with a new kindred spirit friend) it’s easy to think that this amazing feeling will just last and last. In truth, any long-term relationship requires consistent dedication to keeping the Love alive. Here are some great ways ...
Views: 702 - First Date Idea for Women - What Colour Should You Wear when You Dating A Unicorn Women? - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2019 from jianghe chenIf you are like many other people, you will come across dozens of different outfits before meeting your unicorn woman for the first type. You might have been okay with the models of your apparels. But then, choosing the colors can be the most daunting tasks before proceeding. The good thing ...
Views: 858 - Relationships: Can Someone's Need To Save Others Have A Negative Effect On Their Relationships? - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to hear that their friend is going through a tough time, they could give them a call or go to see them. No matter what they do, this could still be a time when they will listen to what they have to say and offer their support. Conversely, if they are in a relationship and ...
Views: 740 - Not having sex? Here are some easy fixes! - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2019 from Gaia MorrissetteAs a holistic sexual wellness specialist, I have many couples come see me because they are unhappy or unsatisfied in their sexual relationship with one another. I want to share a story about one couple I worked with. The overall problem was they were not having good or frequent sex. Here is ...
Views: 888 - Passionate Purpose, Vibrant Health! A 30-Day at home Experience with Dr. Margaret Paul - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2019 from Margaret PaulPassionate Purpose, Vibrant Health! A 30-Day at home Experience with Dr. Margaret Paul The next course will start on June 26th, 2019, and is offered only once a year. https://innerbonding.com/video/mp4/Passionate_Landing-Page.apple.mp4 Are you ready to discover your calling, and have the ...
Views: 979(1 vote) - Ways We Damage Relationships - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2019 from Kare AndersonWhen things go wrong, we tend to blind ourselves to other’s feelings. We are more likely to fall into a destructive behavioral trap. Sadly, when we do, we cannot be empathic. We weaken that human bond that’s vital to re-grouping and resilience. These blinding mindsets make us feel dumb, ...
Views: 809(1 vote) - How to Remove Criticism to Improve Your Most Important Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2019 from Mary Kay CocharoThere are many models of Couples Therapy today. One thing that they have in common is the advice to eliminate negativity in communication. This is a hard thing to do, but is vitally important. Let's take a look at why it's essential to remove criticism and what to do instead. Does your ...
Views: 910(1 vote) - Stop Placing Boundaries on Yourself and Block Out Distractions! - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2019 from Tanisha Snipes-DixonI did some serious thinking about the obstacles I have in my life and it made me realize in search of finding a solution I have created boundaries. Boundaries are good things. They allow structure and discipline, however I realized that I was setting boundaries in the wrong areas of my life. ...
Views: 703(1 vote) - Emotional Expression: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Hide How They Feel? - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone is not in a good place emotionally, they could end up talking to a friend about how they feel. Now, this doesn’t necessarily mean that they will want this person to do anything; simply sharing what is going on for them could be enough. Opening up about what is going on for them ...
Views: 845(1 vote) - My Newest Book Release - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2019 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance's NEW book! Find it on Amazon! This is a perfect book for any woman who wants to do more than talk about changing her life, it's a road map to her goal. The 10 Smartest Decisions a Woman Can Make Before Forty 2nd ...
Views: 858(1 vote) - 5 Important things You should Know about Dating with Herpes - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2019 from Jaclyn TengHaving herpes is not the end of the world. You can still have an amazing relationship where your partner would appreciate your value and you can rest assured that you are not loved just because of sex. However, dating with herpes demands that some things are put into check so that both parties ...
Views: 629(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Do Some People Hide Their True-Self In A Relationship? - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIf one is in a relationship, it could show that they are with someone who they share every part of their being with. What this means is that they will talk about what is taking place in their mind, reveal what is taking place in their heart and share their body. As a result of this, every ...
Views: 908(1 vote) - Love and Heartache - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2019 from Mary HorsmanIt hurts so bad. It can make you physically ill. It feels like it’ll never get better. Trust me. It does. It gets better. In fact, this edition of The Love Post is here to remind you that heartache is actually a demonstration of the strength and power of Love. If you didn’t Love, your ...
Views: 617(1 vote) - How to Love Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2019 from Mary HorsmanLove itself is simple. It’s a pure creative energy. It feels good. But relationships have a way of getting pretty complicated sometimes. That’s why it’s extra important to focus on Love as we embark on the adventure of sharing life with another person. Here are some basic principles to ...
Views: 544(1 vote) - Should I Marry Him or Live With Him? by Beth Shepherd Psychic - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomShould I marry him or live with him? by Beth Shepherd psychic. A case study. Names etc have been changed. The time has come to make an enormous decision, one that will change my life for years if not forever. My boyfriend of six years has suggested that we get married. He has also said ...
Views: 657 - Why Did My Girlfriend Flirt with my Friend? by Beth Shepherd Psychic - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomWhy did my girlfriend flirt with my friend? by Beth Shepherd psychic. A case study. Names etc changed. She has really upset me. We have been going out together for a whole three weeks, I love her and want to be with her for the rest of my life, nobody else ever but her, she is my twin flame, ...
Views: 788 - Should I End my Marriage? by Beth Shepherd Psychic - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomShould I end my marriage? by Beth Shepherd psychic. A case study. Names etc are changed. I have been wondering about this on and off for over a year, ever since I met another woman who is sexier and more beautiful and young than my wife. Please do not get me wrong, she is quite nice, and ...
Views: 785 - Should I Marry my Boyfriend? by Beth Shepherd Psychic - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomShould I marry my boyfriend? by Beth Shepherd psychic. A case study. Names etc changed. You know that I am unsure about this for lots of reasons. Have dated guys before and it always starts to get boring after a year or so. But I do not want to be single and John is telling me that if I do not ...
Views: 730 - Dear Dr. Romance: How can I find a good man to love me for me? - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm a single mom, of a teenage son. I was never married to his dad (if you want to call him that). I have the hardest time finding a relationship cuz I am on SS income and I am judged by that. I am a loving person, the good guys want a woman that works or is very ...
Views: 894(2 votes) - Speaking Up: Does The Fear Of Being Harmed Stop Some People From Speaking Up? - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was asked to share their views on something, they might not have a problem speaking out. Also, if another person was to do something that they disagreed with, they could also be happy to speak up. What this can illustrate is that this is someone who doesn’t have any trouble ...
Views: 609(1 vote) - KEEP HAVING THE SAME OLD FIGHT? - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2019 from Emma ViglucciLife can be as hectic as can be this time of year with End-of-School and Summer Planning. These stressors create great strain for couples as they juggle the multitude of demands and additional expenses in their homes. There are a few times of year when things get really hairy, and this is one of ...
Views: 699 - Relationships: Is Your Emotional State Controlled By Other People's Moods? - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperAs to whether or not it is a good idea for someone to go along with another person’s emotional state can all depend on what state they are in. If this person is happy, embracing the same state is likely to have a positive effect on ones wellbeing. On the other hand, if this person is angry ...
Views: 635(1 vote) - How to Write a Love Story - by Submitted on May 31, 2019 from Mary HorsmanOnce upon a time there was a former nun and a former seminarian (student of the priesthood). They met as chaperones at a church function. The first time Cal laid eyes on Paul, he was flailing around in his poncho, trying to rid himself of a bee. His energy was so attractive to Carolyn ...
Views: 687 - Does Saying "I Love You" Matter? - by Submitted on May 31, 2019 from Mary HorsmanThe short answer is “Yes.” The longer answer is “Yes. And here’s why . . . ” Saying “I Love You” is a simple way to keep Love flowing in all of your relationships. If you Love someone, tell them. Often. The Power of Words It’s pretty well known how much words can hurt, even if ...
Views: 570 - How to overcome after breakup - by Submitted on May 31, 2019 from waqar zafarI know how hard it is to find relief from the pain of breakup as I have got my heart ripped out from my chest and stomped on the floor. So, I will tell you how to come from another side of life where you can’t forget but can give relief yourself. #Switch The Links From Pleasure To Pain The ...
Views: 613 - Dear Dr. Romance: I have strong feelings for my boss - by Submitted on May 30, 2019 from Tina TessinaDr. Dr. Romance, I have strong feelings for my boss, he's 10 years older than me. I cannot explain why I have these feelings or why I think of him ....He's still my boss kinda, I'm working on a new mission and have a different boss now, its not the same. I miss my boss, I wander if he misses me ...
Views: 956(1 vote) - Welcome to find a threesome - by Submitted on May 30, 2019 from Fur LindaA happy life often cannot last long. When you feel happy, you should do something to save it. My wife and I live a happy life, this state of life lasted for two years, and my be, it will last some years. But we want to make our sex life more colorful. So we found that there are so many women and ...
Views: 1194 - Husband Makes Everything About Himself: My Husband Always Thinks About Himself - by Submitted on May 29, 2019 from Zoey MilaHusband Makes Everything About Himself: My Husband Always Thinks About Himself Many women sadly say the phrase, "my husband ignores me," each and every day. Marriage is a partnership that is built on mutual love and affection. When one side of that equation starts to disappear, everything ...
Views: 1363 - My Husband Relies On Me For His Happiness: Am I Responsible For My Husband's Happiness - by Submitted on May 29, 2019 from Zoey MilaMy Husband Relies On Me For His Happiness: Am I Responsible For My Husband's Happiness The wife occupies a very prominent office in the home and because of that, there are certain duties she must discharge to ensure that the marriage institution is well managed. Having realized that ...
Views: 1192 - My Husband Doesn't Fulfill My Emotional Needs: My Needs Aren't Being Met In My Marriage - by Submitted on May 29, 2019 from Zoey MilaMy Husband Doesn't Fulfill My Emotional Needs: My Needs Aren't Being Met In My Marriage "I feel alone in my marriage," is sadly something many women find themselves saying. This type of partnership can be incredibly fulfilling and also very isolating. When your husband stops showing you that ...
Views: 929 - My Husband Is Not Responsible: How To Make Husband Responsible - by Submitted on May 29, 2019 from Zoey MilaMy Husband Is Not Responsible: How To Make Husband Responsible For most married couples who are still in love but are experiencing issues, the biggest source of occasional arguments or fights is usually that of money. Any married person knows that issues related to money can be a huge source ...
Views: 683 - I Am Happier When My Husband Isn't Around: Happy When My Husband Is Away - by Submitted on May 29, 2019 from Zoey MilaI Am Happier When My Husband Isn't Around: Happy When My Husband Is Away Wondering constantly "What are signs you've fallen out of love with your spouse?" Do you look at your husband or wife and think, "How did I get here? How did I end up with this person who I once lusted after and now I ...
Views: 1453 - Expecting Your Spouse To Make You Happy: How To Be Happy When Your Partner Is Not - by Submitted on May 29, 2019 from Zoey MilaExpecting Your Spouse To Make You Happy: How To Be Happy When Your Partner Is Not You are going to crash land terribly if you have high hopes regarding marriage from a tender age. As a matter of fact, marriage is not at all a fairy tale episode which you always dream about after watching the ...
Views: 581 - Husband Putting Friends First: Putting Friends Before Spouse - by Submitted on May 29, 2019 from Zoey MilaHusband Putting Friends First: Putting Friends Before Spouse You must have just ask yourself "how to make my husband want me more" or you would not be reading this article. Whether or not you're feeling desperate, lonely or ignored, there are ways to make him want you like he did when you ...
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