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I often hear from people who want step-by-step instructions on how to repair their marriage. Often, they know that some change needs to happen, but they just don't know where to start. And, they are afraid of doing something that is only going to make matters worse. Many tell me they think that ... Views: 529
Are you trying all the strategies you've heard of or read about on how to win ex back and nothing seems to be working?
You've tried begging, had swallowed your pride and apologized a hundred times. You've even gone as far as stalk him just to find out if he's back in the dating scene already. ... Views: 1389
If you desire to have a satisfying intimate relationship but haven’t been successful until now, you can probably “predict”, your chances at success next time around based on your past experiences. In all likelihood, if you have failed until now, there is no reason to believe you will succeed ... Views: 2385
You might have heard somebody tell you recently: “Don’t shoot the messenger”. The sentence has become kind of a catch phrase, but what does it really mean?
In short, it means that you shouldn’t react. That when something is “triggering” you, upsetting you, you shouldn’t act out or lose ... Views: 1338
Stopping premature ejaculation need not be just a dream. While it is important to work on the remedies for premature ejaculation, you must also know what NOT to do and the mistakes to avoid in solving this problem.
In fact, your quest to solve this embarrassing problem would become much more ... Views: 1786
Here is the thing, a lot of people don’t know how to be High Performers, the Masters of their lives. Most people don’t know how to create the most from their lives by increasing productivity, creativity, peacefulness, joy, love and connection… They don’t know how to stay healthy, have increased ... Views: 903
Some people are capable of doing many things well while under stress, but being in the mood for sex and/or feeling sexy usually isn’t one of them. Stress is pretty high up there as one of the top reasons for why couples are not having sex!
Here are 5 common stressors that might be getting in ... Views: 1071
We, Individuals, are too secretive about our emotions. Somebody will secretly like you, and you won’t come to know.
Subconscious signs of attraction are signs that tell you who all are crushing on you and who you are crushing on.
We will die but not accept the facts that you like someone. ... Views: 735
Wouldn't it be great if human beings came to this world with a well functioning, inbuilt relationship software? Indeed, we do come with an inbuilt capability to form deep, lasting, successful relationships. How then does it happen that so many relationships run into problems? Reports about ... Views: 1061
Suffocation or Existence
When a child is asked to fulfil the needs of a parent, especially its mother, then it faces one of the biggest dilemmas that can continue well into adulthood and later years. If at a young age we exist to fulfil the needs of our mother then the main way in which ... Views: 2985
This article takes a light-hearted look at what it takes to be an expert sulker.
The first step out of sulking is to gain awareness of what it is to sulk. The remainder of article describes an alternative to sulking.
Sulking is a primitive way to deal to feelings of being hurt. We all ... Views: 12111
I say we focus on really enjoying the next two months and getting ourselves ready for weather what’s coming in the fall. Are you with me?
What does this type of getting ready mean for you? For me it means:
- Maintaining and upleveling my Self-Care Practice for great health, wellness, ... Views: 678
If you have already discovered your woman's G-spot, then certainly it will be a lot easier for you to stimulate it. However, it is still essential that you stick to a number of basic rules so as to make both your experiences a pleasurable and harmless one. Listed below are things that men ought ... Views: 821
When asked what ‘boudoir photography’ is, it isn’t complicated to work out. We all understand what a ‘boudoir’ is – a lady’s dressing room or bedroom, and photography goes without saying. Essentially it is a style of photography which shares many similarities with glamour photography, but are ... Views: 1358
“For one human being to love another: that is perhaps
the most difficult of all our tasks, the ultimate, the last test
and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation.”
~Rainer Maria Rilke
The movement towards emotional intimacy is the process of getting close enough to ... Views: 1259
There are many people who think that a relationship is one sided. For most women, they feel that their boyfriends must have the best effort to always pamper them and to make them really special, thus forgetting the needs of their significant others. It is important for boyfriends to be taken ... Views: 5550
6 Things Women Need to Know About Dating a Swinger Man.
Establishing relationships with swingers is not an easy matter. Many people still think that swingers are a disease. If you are a swinger or have a relationship with swingers, then you should not be normal. although there are many ... Views: 829
Whether you have in the swinging lifestyle for a while or you are just curious about the lifestyle, SwingLifeStyle is for you. It will immerse you into the culture thanks to the thousands of members, as well as their blog, forums, stories, and much more. By joining the website you will get ... Views: 3665
This Type A biz mom has fully embraced the concept of regular recreation and downtime to fuel excellence in my business. I need no convincing that the quality time—away from work and with my family and friends— charge my creative juices for optimal business results.
So finally,
the kids are ... Views: 1128
Stress kills a great sexual experience, on so many different levels, including, and maybe most importantly, in the mind. Brainwave entrainment is a clinically proven neurological tool that uses sound to coax dominant brainwaves into a specific frequency, that is conducive to remove stress, which ... Views: 1917
You’re living in the most powerful time in consciousness.
A time when everything is being uprooted, exposed and upleveled (have you noticed - it’s cray-sauce out there?!).
Now, it’s time to take our romantic relationships to a Higher Love frequency too.
But have no fear — we’re going to ... Views: 666
In this new age of psychobabble, open sexual expression, and deeply rooted need for healing the Earth and ourselves, Tantra is a perfect practice for finding love. Unfortunately, it is so misunderstood. Contrary to popular belief, Tantra is not sex and sex is not necessarily Tantric- yet sex is ... Views: 1868
TANTRA: The Art of Conscious Loving® By Charles Muir & Leah Alchin
It is generally accepted that there was a “sexual revolution” which began in the mid-sixties. Many feel that this revolution is dead, some having tried all there is to try sexually, and growing bored with it. In truth the ... Views: 3415
Success In Sex?
You are probably wondering what kind of title THIS is, or is it just some kind of scammy hook to get you to read yet another bland article about another bland topic!
Nope! Neither. This time around, I am venturing outside my normal business/lifestyle topics into the spicier ... Views: 1175
The time has come to decide who you really are, who you are meant to become, what kind of relationship you want and what kind of life you want. This is it! Do you want an extraordinary life?
Have you noticed that more and more systems are breaking down and revamping (deconstructing and ... Views: 653
Online Games - Discussed informally or perhaps sometimes officially, but generally referred to as video games that can be enjoyed on the personal computer and an Internet connection. You will find video games that can be played on the Internet that require different devices, for example, video ... Views: 108
1. Exploitation is not partnership. A virile or impetuous man and his girl should trust themselves in relationship, they should have just regard for each other and should not do not take unfair advantage of each other. A girl who is a ball and chain to her man do not give him a shot in the arm ... Views: 1050
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When it comes to toxic love and relationships, there are two kinds of people, those who love too much (the Love Addict), and those who love too little, (the Love Avoidant). If you vacillate between the two you are an Ambivalent Love Addict.
Love Addicts:
Love Addicts obsess about someone, ... Views: 10367
There is an African saying goes like this:
A friend is someone who knows your song and sings it to you when you have forgotten it. Those who love you are not fooled by mistakes you have made or dark images you hold about yourself. They remember your beauty when you feel ugly; your wholeness ... Views: 1236
Many people have been studying and discussing the mysteries, the pains and the joys of love as long as humans learned to communicate with each other. With the discovery or reading and writing, personal experiences, as well as emotional and logical theories about love were left by earlier ... Views: 1443
Have you heard of vibrating panties? If not, you don’t know what you’re missing! This discreet sex toy has quickly become of the most popular products on the market. You can use them alone or with a partner to spice things up. Some vibrating panties are equipped with remote controls ... Views: 580
Probably the biggest challenge to those of us wanting to live conscious spiritual lives in these rapidly transforming times is the changing form and expectations of romantic courtship, relationship, and marriage. The traditional models are rapidly disappearing, and the foundation for new forms ... Views: 1177
A Healing Toolbox, Best Practices in Energy Healing article
When we are stuck, we almost always are facing multiple problems--and do not recognize this.
The other day a friend was sharing something of his inner experience that the secret of soul transcendence really works, that it's ... Views: 1806
Let’s face it. We live in a consumer culture. At first it started with the material world, and unfortunately, this habit of disposable goods has leaked into the realm of relationships.
I see people leave their partners and here are some of the reasons.
“I’m just not in love with him.”
“We ... Views: 1540
Traditional sex – the heady cocktail of lust and emotional bonding - is all but dead. In a culture of casual, almost anonymous hookups, suppressing attendant emerging emotions is the bon ton and women and men drift apart, zerovalent atoms in an ever-shifting, kaleidoscopic world, separated by a ... Views: 1833
Not caring is an empty, dead feeling. Not being concerned is a very alive vibrant feeling that can come by keeping the awareness in the chest with no other thought, fully present. One is full and the other is empty.
For this to be a full feeling, training and practice of repeating a word ... Views: 1110
For most people, sex is a sensitive and difficult subject to talk about.
I have come across a man who, after 15 years of marriage, admitted that he and his wife have never talked about sex. Don’t get me wrong. They do have sex. They just don’t talk about it.
In other words, they never ... Views: 2355
Imagine a life, your life, where you're generating more joy in all your relationships than ever before. Imagine being in relationships where you can speak honestly and not be judged, criticized, blamed or told what to do. Imagine being able to learn more about yourself in every interaction with ... Views: 1047
When I was a student in college, I had to frequently use the public library for research purposes (and off course as a meeting place for friends, but let’s keep that as a separate issue shall we?!). I noticed that there was a whole section of the library which was devoted to romantic novels and ... Views: 1077
“The Universe is a stage on which your mind dances with your body, guided by your heart.”
As we enter into the month of Love, how is your relationship? As we examine the quality of our intimacy, we may be asking the question “What is love”? Is it an emotion, is it a feeling? Or is it ... Views: 989
When it comes to relationships with other human beings and with life itself; the heart has a unique purpose. At an emotional level; the left side (feminine) of the heart allows one to receive and the right side (masculine) of the heart allows one to give.
And when one of these sides is out of ... Views: 4169
We are attracted to people for many different reasons, some of them conscious, some unconscious. Some of the conscious reasons have to do with how the person looks, how they act, the sound of their voice, the sensation of their touch, and other sensory cues. These are things we can identify and ... Views: 1230
It's well known that worry, stress, and anxiety contribute negatively to premature ejaculation. In addition to the degeneration of the feeling of control, when a man is "uptight," his lover will usually perceive it. If she then starts to stress about his anxiety, she is prone to have issues with ... Views: 1781
The holidays are reminders that we want closeness yet unconsciously set up emotional walls of distance. This may sound strange and paradoxical as the holidays are supposed to represent remembrance and thoughtfulness, love and care. They also bring up all the early needs that went unmet ... Views: 956
If you accidentally touched a hot stove, the nerves in your skin would shoot a message of pain to your brain. The brain then sends a message back telling the muscles in your hand to pull away. Is that a bad thing?
No, you would answer. What a ridiculous question, you might retort. Hear me ... Views: 1115
Touch is the medium through which we first become acquainted with the world. It is the first means of communication between the newborn baby and the mother. Research has shown that many babies who are raised in an orphanage and are not handled and touched on a regular basis rarely live past the ... Views: 937
Lubricant is an amazing thing. It makes sex more comfortable, more slippery and just feels awesome. I am sure you have all heard the term ‘wetter is better’, and if you have used lubricant for sex, then you know this is completely true! There are also a whole lot of benefits to using lubricant ... Views: 1151
Romantic relationship has been both a blessing and nightmare for many people in this new millennium. In the past, the rules of relationship were relatively structured and well enforced by families and cultures. Many relationships were based on the need for security and financial well-being in an ... Views: 1392
If you’re familiar with relationship anxiety, you know that it doesn’t take much for a flyaway thought to send you into a tailspin of anxiety that then leads you to question if you’re with the right person. This thought could be, “I’m not feeling in love” or “My partner always irritates me” or ... Views: 1049