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- The One Secret to Intimacy, Trust and Love - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2012 from Ken EllsworthWhen we begin a relationship we start off by revealing parts of ourselves, our likes and dislikes, what I like to call our preferences. These include things such as politics, religion, our favorite movies, the food we like, basically our thoughts, views and beliefs. If we agree, like and accept ...
Views: 1940 - How Much Do You Get Your Partner? - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2014 from Emma ViglucciThe majority of the couples that want to improve their relationship identify that communication is an issue for them. They share how they can’t see eye-to-eye, convey their feelings and perspective, or understand each other. They report they end up fighting every time they try to address ...
Views: 1939(2 votes) - How to Get Her Back - 5 Tips to Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back! - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2011 from Charles WealthYou have got to know the do’s and don’ts of rekindling a relationship if you want to know how to get her back. Getting back together with your ex girlfriend may not be as complicated as you imagine. You could be back together sooner than you imagine provided that you know exactly what to ...
Views: 1936 - Things you should remember before sending nudes - by Submitted on Feb 29, 2020 from Grant DonovanWhether you are a twenty-something or not there are few things you should not do, before sending nudes of yourself to someone! Sexting is exciting, but you might live to regret it. You can enjoy the art of it, sending witty responses to sexting has its own charm. Also, just like physical sex, ...
Views: 1936 - How To Slow Down Ejaculation During Sex: How To Give Pleasure To Your Wife / Girlfriend - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow To Slow Down Ejaculation During Sex: How To Give Pleasure To Your Wife / Girlfriend If you want to know how to slow down ejaculation, then the information I am going to share with you is exactly what you are looking for. I am going to offer you three techniques that you can use straight ...
Views: 1934 - Listen to Your Love With Your Ears Closed, and You Will Finally Hear What They Are Saying. - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2011 from Guy RussellI have learned many things in my life. Most of what I learned was through trial and error. Mainly through error is when I grew the most. I believe the relationships I had in the past were to prepare me and make me ready to be the right partner for the one I was to be with. While I wish I had ...
Views: 1933(2 votes) - Relationships: Is The Fear Of Abandonment Causing You To Get Attached Too Soon? - by Submitted on Jan 01, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperThere are people who like to take their time when it comes to the beginning of a relationship, and then there are others who go in head first. And based on how they behave, it is safe to say that they are both having a different inner experience. However, just because one may have a pattern ...
Views: 1932 - The common denominator of "feeling stuck" - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Bruce DicksonA Healing Toolbox, Best Practices in Energy Healing article When we are stuck, we almost always are facing multiple problems--and do not recognize this. The other day a friend was sharing something of his inner experience that the secret of soul transcendence really works, that it's ...
Views: 1932 - Understanding Your Past Relationships and Preparing for the Future - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2012 from Sam VakninRomantic relationships with intimate partners (significant others) are comprised of three components: I. Mate Selection (Choice) II. Relationship Model or Hypothesis III. Termination Triggers Mate selection is critical, of course, but even more ...
Views: 1927(1 vote) - Relationships: Are Patterns Running Our Relationships? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThere are people who have relationships that are generally: supportive, secure, loving and what could be described as functional. And there are others who are in relationships that are: unhealthy, dysfunctional, disempowering and even abusive. Functional Now, for people in the first ...
Views: 1926 - "Being stuck" as a lack of simple, healthy discernment - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Bruce DicksonA Healing Toolbox, Best Practices in Energy Healing article To anyone feeling stuck in life, I wish to suggest a simple way to get UNstuck. "Being stuck" is exactly analogous to the "deer in head lights" phenomena, "Do I stay now or do I run now?" If where you are now is comfortable, both ...
Views: 1925 - Executive Marriage Coach – Top 10 Things Learned In My 35 Year Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2011 from Tom KingMy wife and I recently celebrated our 35th wedding anniversary. As I reflected on this I decided to share my list of the top ten things I have learned in 35 years, in no particular order. 1. We’ve had to grow-up together. We all bring our unfinished business with us into marriage and it ...
Views: 1925(1 vote) - The 5 Keys to Sexual Wholeness - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2012 from Amrita GraceWholeness is defined as an undivided or unbroken completeness or totality with nothing wanting. Because our sexual energy is the life force that creates us and animates us in our bodies, I believe sexual wholeness encompasses all of who we are. When we free our sexual energy and use it to feed ...
Views: 1925(1 vote) - Chocolate Anyone? How to Create More Intimacy in Your Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill GibsonDo you wonder what happened to that yummy closeness you used to have with your mate? Is the sweetness of that chocolate-like intimacy missing from your relationship? Read on to discover 7 simple ways you can whip the confectionery delight of intimacy back into any relationship. So what do ...
Views: 1924(2 votes) - How to Treat Premature Ejaculation And Be In Control Like A Real Man - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2012 from Wisey LimStress is one of the biggest contributing factors of premature ejaculation. To know how to treat premature ejaculation, you have to know how to take control of your stress level when you are in bed. No doubt, it is easy to get stressed up during sex, especially for a man. This could be due ...
Views: 1923(1 vote) - Prostate Pleasures to Circumvent Prostate Cancer - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2011 from Paul RodgersThe raising number of prostate cancer has encouraged amount of scientific tests from numerous nations around the world. Each country would like to understand what is the root of this scary pattern. Shortcomings in a several nutrient or excessive intake of a mineral has been seen as to have an ...
Views: 1923 - Relationships: Are Boundaries Important In Intimate Relationships? - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperA big part of being intimate involves being able to share ones reality with another person. Here, one will share what they are feeling, thinking and sensing. And while this may sound clear enough to understand, it is not always the easiest thing to do in a relationship. One of the primary ...
Views: 1916(1 vote) - Relationships: Do We See Others As We Want Them To Be? - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperIt is often said that in the very beginning of a relationship, one doesn’t see the other person for who they are, what they see is their own projections. So here, one will create all kinds of associations in their mind and attach these to the other person. The other person may even posses one ...
Views: 1916 - Building A Better Relationship With Your Partner - by Submitted on Aug 19, 2009 from Paul RodgersAlthough erectile dysfunction affects you physically it could do severe damage to your self-confidence and self-esteem. It is a well known fact there are over 200 million men , suffering from erectile dysfunction all over the world. And yet, most of these men refuse to change their ...
Views: 1913(1 vote) - How to Satisfy a Woman's Lust: How to Make Sex Extremely Pleasurable For Her - by Submitted on Mar 06, 2018 from Melvin SheltonOnce things have heated up to the point of intense foreplay, you're really making an implicit promise to give her a fulfilling sexual experience. Indeed, any woman would get excited at the prospect of getting an evening of intense sexual pleasure. However, if you can't deliver on that promise ...
Views: 1913 - Good Sex on the Brain - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2009 from Melody BrookeI have a little experience with bad sex. I’ve been married three times. This last one took. To tell you the truth my first two husbands would say my current husband was lying if he told them how often and how amazing our sex life is. Honestly, I have been one of those fortunate women who have ...
Views: 1912 - Is It Male Midlife Crisis? - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2011 from Kara OhMost men don’t want to admit they might be going through midlife crisis. When a man does, it’s meaningful. I wrote a book on the topic, and right before I was ready to publish it, my computers were stolen and that book as well. I need to write it again, but first, because I have so many women ...
Views: 1912(1 vote) - Can You Prevent Your Boyfriend From Ever Leaving You? - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2013 from Eduard EzeanuDo you want your boyfriend to be with you forever but you are worried that one day he will eventually leave you? Then it’s important for you to understand the events that can truly occur and set the right course for your actions. Many women are worried that one day their boyfriend will lose ...
Views: 1910 - Discovering Authentic Feelings - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2010 from Tom WrightThere is a balance point between feelings, that when practiced, makes for harmonious relationships. We're not usually at that point, due to the masculine/feminine bent toward opposites poles in relationship to the way we use feelings, not feelings themselves. And it's this "use" where our ...
Views: 1910(1 vote) - How Do You Express Love? - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2014 from Karen CardWe all want to feel love; we want to give it and we want to get it. But, what happens if we don’t feel it? In order to have a healthy, loving relationship we need to recognize that our partner may have a different description of love than we do. What does love mean to you? Your partner? How ...
Views: 1906 - For the Love of Your Wife - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2010 from Aryana HudsonA couple happy and excited about the birth of their first child is a lovely reality however there are hidden traps that will no longer be hidden if they are examined ahead of time. This question will open that Pandora's box: If you had to choose between the life of your wife or the baby which ...
Views: 1900(1 vote) - Use Natural Foods Instead of Viagra - by Submitted on Dec 13, 2016 from Leslie DutcherErectile Dysfunction (ED) is a serious problem. ED is found among men of any age but is most prevalent among males over 40 years old. Statistics say that 50% men over 40 years old will have had ED at some point in their lives. ED is caused by several things which include diet, ...
Views: 1895 - Your Relationship is the Key to Your Success!! - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2014 from Emma ViglucciOur relationship is one of the biggest, most powerful asset and gift we have in our life! It is a true treasure chest worth a fortune. It can deliver unimaginable heights of satisfaction, peace, joy, love, happiness and success!! To cash-in on this fortune we have to polish the gems on the ...
Views: 1895(2 votes) - Boundaries: Can A Lack Of Boundaries Cause Someone To Lose Themselves In A Relationship? - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperWhile some people can maintain their sense of self in a relationship, there are others who are unable to do this. As a result, their experiences are going to be radically different, and this could be how they have been for most of their life. A Big Difference When one is able to maintain ...
Views: 1892 - I Want My Ex Boyfriend to Miss Me - Ways to Make Him Realize How Much He Still Loves You - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2015 from Patrick Uadiale"I want my ex boyfriend to miss me." Have you said that recently? Do you wish for nothing more than a second chance with your ex? Sadly, many women feel exactly the same way you do. Going through a break up is hard enough. It's overwhelming when you are still in love with your boyfriend. It's ...
Views: 1891 - Stopping Premature Ejaculation - Are You Making These Mistakes? - by Submitted on May 26, 2012 from Wisey LimStopping premature ejaculation need not be just a dream. While it is important to work on the remedies for premature ejaculation, you must also know what NOT to do and the mistakes to avoid in solving this problem. In fact, your quest to solve this embarrassing problem would become much more ...
Views: 1886 - What Are the Payoffs & Costs of Who You Are Being? - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2011 from Rachel GrantRecently I wrote about the many false beliefs that we have and how these shape our expectations which then set us out to prove particular things about ourselves, others, relationships, the world. I want to now take a look at how we are showing up in the world as a result. We’re going to call ...
Views: 1885 - My Husband Said I Make Him Unhappy: Husband Is Miserable With Me - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Said I Make Him Unhappy: Husband Is Miserable With Me So, you want to learn how to keep your husband happy. It is equally important that both of you know how to make each other happy and not only on one side. Let's look at some things that we can do in order to keep your husband ...
Views: 1884 - How To Stop Premature Ejaculation Naturally - by Submitted on May 11, 2012 from Wisey LimAre you troubled by the problem which haunts 40% of the men? Are you not able to last longer in bed? Do you want to end this issue by using natural methods? If the question of "how to stop premature ejaculation naturally" keeps popping-up in your mind from time to time, read on! There are ...
Views: 1883 - The High Cost of Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2012 from Benny GilbetIt's well known that worry, stress, and anxiety contribute negatively to premature ejaculation. In addition to the degeneration of the feeling of control, when a man is "uptight," his lover will usually perceive it. If she then starts to stress about his anxiety, she is prone to have issues with ...
Views: 1883 - How To Get Your Ex Back After A Recent Breakup - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2011 from Gery WriterThe vast majority of us will have been dumped at some point in our lives and will be well aware of how emotional and distressing such a situation can be. When we get dumped our natural reaction is generally to want to get back together as soon as possible. If you are thinking that you want to ...
Views: 1880 - For Men Only: How to Add Zest to Your Marriage, Even if You Don't "Do Spicy" - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Eric KuhlThe average guy probably thinks that the ideal marriage consists of little else besides daily sex. But you’re not average. Why not be open to considering what’s important, even meaningful to your wife and then give it to her? You’d be amazed at how your relationship can be ignited when you ...
Views: 1878 - Faking Orgasm – Good or Bad? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeWhen you fake an orgasm, you are essentially putting on a show for the benefit of your partner. Your reasons could vary from “getting it over with”, “sparing his feelings”, misleading yourself with “what he doesn’t know won’t hurt”, to the inner satisfaction of “pulling it off” and “getting away ...
Views: 1873 - Emotional Arguments and Explosions - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2009 from Donald WallachI’ve been working with a lot of couples over the years. One of the most common concerns they bring up are arguments that get too aggressive. Spouses end up getting emotionally hurt, upset and angry. While conflicts are a given in relationships, you can dramatically improve how you argue and ...
Views: 1872(3 votes) - Recovery From Co Dependency - Part 2 - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Caroline NettleIn part 1, we looked at rescuing and care-taking. In this article, we are going to be looking at people pleasing. This is a behaviour that is deeply entrenched in a vast majority of our population, and is quite a tough habit to crack. When a child learns that it gets attention for being good, ...
Views: 1871(1 vote) - Good Relationship Skills Encourage Intimacy - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2011 from Joan ChamberlainA Deeper Look at Relationship Skills. I call each of these items below “skills” because in order to become really good at them, we must practice and, sometimes, practice and practice some more. I saw Marci this morning. She came to talk with me about her marriage of 33 years. Her ...
Views: 1869 - How to Create a Fantastic Relationship, part 1 - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2015 from Clement McGrathRelationships are the core of Life, but they can be a challenge. The real challenge is the way you deal with the differences that start to show up. They always show up because you have two people with different communication styles, different ways of resolving issues, different needs and ...
Views: 1868 - Relationships: What Does A Relationship Mean To You? - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThere is no doubting the importance that relationships have in life. They have the power to create incredible happiness, meaning and fulfilment. And they also have the power to create extreme unhappiness, pain and emptiness. For some people, the good that a relationship brings, outweighs the ...
Views: 1864(3 votes) - Discovering & Uncovering Men’s Emotional Pain in a Healthy Way - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2018 from Geoff LaughtonToday’s blog is about pain and the prescription for it, all rolled into one! First, let’s talk about the pain. I hear all kinds of complaints about men from women. I hear frustration, genuine concern and fears that mostly centre around the fact that they don’t feel they’re getting what they ...
Views: 1863 - Come Back to Love: A Self Loving Lifestyle - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2017 from Robyn VogelIt’s a powerful time right now. The Earth is showing us her power, the dark is entering the light, it’s renewal time for those celebrating the Jewish New Year and on the Hindu calendar it’s the holiest of holidays – Navaratri. If you are feeling tired from all the energy swirling ...
Views: 1861 - First Be Happy Then Make Love! - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2007 from Alicia BayerFirst Be Happy then Make Love! How often are we depending on and expecting our romantic relationship to make us happy? Or anticipating that when we get into "that great relationship" we will be happy? Of course, romance, relationships and sex can bring tremendous pleasure and joy, but do they ...
Views: 1860 - If You Can See It, You Can Create It… - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2014 from Emma ViglucciYou might not have a chance if you keep this up: A tendency to look for weaknesses, gaps, holes, things to improve, deficiencies and the like, and miss the boat on capitalizing on strengths in your relationship. We bring this tendency to how we view our partner and how we relate with them. We ...
Views: 1860 - Learning to Last Longer: Relax. The Journey is its Own Reward. - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2012 from Benny GilbetPremature ejaculation affects not only you but your partner as well. Feelings of anger and resentment can arise from continued unsatisfying sexual encounters. The good news is that this does not have to be a permanent problem. Read on and learn what you (and your partner) can do to improve your ...
Views: 1857(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Does Viagra give him Insomnia? - by Submitted on Dec 29, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am 39 & my boyfriend is 51. He takes Viagra & Cialis (on an as needed basis). We have a terrific relationship. We seem to have no problem lying there & falling asleep for a short time after making love. I have a really comfortable bed, ...
Views: 1854(1 vote) - How Do I Start Using Sex Toys? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeFor starters, you can use a vibrating ring which looks like a hair band except it has an external battery with an on-off switch. Have your husband stretch the vibrating ring over his penis and rest it at the base of his erect or non erect penis, and watch the penis come to live as you turn the ...
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