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1. Pretend to yawn – and welcome the real one that will inevitably follow ! (Not for use during corporate meetings…)
2. When working long hours on the computer, make sure you take a break at least every hour. Stand up, stretch, drink some water, yawn…
Use a friendly timer if you tend to ... Views: 2783
You may be thinking that the title of this article is too dramatic... But in actual fact it's extremely accurate!
Any Doctor will tell you that chronic stress conditions lead to thousands of serious illnesses and deaths every single year. A situation that appears to worsen as the pressures of ... Views: 1316
Scrapbooking Tips! Scrapbooking can play a huge role in how we feel about ourselves and our life. For many of us it is really just a hobby but the importance of scrapbooking can be much more than that.
If you really think about it, most everyone works all day in stressful jobs or are at home ... Views: 612
I had a meeting with a client last week and the discussion centered around how busy we all are. We had a lengthy chat about some strategies for taking control of each day. Here's a note I got from her over the weekend:
"Just thinking of you! Detoxing my office!!!! Big Time. Amazing how in ... Views: 1921
A lot of personal development teachers and motivational guru’s like to drill home that the key to success is ‘State Management’, i.e. your ability to manipulate your physical and emotional being so that you are constantly aligned with success producing thoughts and actions. In fact, much of what ... Views: 1895
Are you fed up with doing the same thing every day, feeling depressed, lethargic, usually miserable, knowing you will be doing the same thing, and feeling just as depressed tomorrow? Do you need to find ways of improving your life?
If you are seemingly "stuck in a rut" and obviously not ... Views: 1521
Feng Shui, very flexible art that brings out the best in your design choices by improving the flow of energy, allows you ample room to express your own personality and flair. Although implementing the ancient principles of Feng Shui to create balance and harmony in your environment, you still ... Views: 1130
Having a bad day OR ever had one?
Ok…I know…rhetorical question…but I’m here to tell you that you ABSOLUTELY can turn any potential bad day into a GOOD DAY by making a few mental tweaks.
Think about “one of those days” where nothing seems to go your way. It usually starts off with one bad ... Views: 823
You’ve felt this phenomenon before, right?? You’ve had a BRILLIANT idea that just popped into your head…and you did one of 3 things:
1) Completely ignored it because you subconsciously dismissed it as something you weren’t capable of doing. OR
2) You immediately TOLD SOMEONE ELSE your ... Views: 866
The Situation
Many people can be lonely, depressed and feel they are without friends. Rape victims and sexual abuse survivors are very prone to such feelings. In addition, they may subconsciously feel shame and guilt. This is not a fault issue...it is a matter of learned behaviors due to other ... Views: 2353
5 Tips to get your kids to do what you want them to without manipulation, bribery or threats. It’s a lot easier and more fun than you might think.
Whether it’s getting our kids out of bed and ready for school or getting them to do homework after school, brush their teeth or clean up their ... Views: 1621
We seek it here, we seek it there. We seek happiness everywhere.
Yet it eludes us. All of our activities — our pursuit of fame and fortune, our quest for meaningful relationships, our drive to build or change things — are directed searches for this ephemeral state. We get there, but we can ... Views: 1976
"Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action.” - Benjamin Disraeli
I believe we are living in very exciting times when it comes to our understanding of what makes us truly happy in the long term. Up until relatively recently (well, about 10 years ago ... Views: 1867
For many people, the front door to their home seems like something they can’t really change with Feng Shui. After all, that door has been put into place for only one reason – to let people in. But when you stop to think about it, you might begin to see what this is such an important space in ... Views: 1059
I developed a mini-project for myself this past week and that was to listen carefully to what people were saying.
It was interesting to me that a theme developed – and it was one of regret. Now, the other interesting 'coincidence' (and I don't believe there is such a thing) is that, at church ... Views: 1936
In my experience, there is only one real way to increase your self-confidence, and that is through Self-confidence. Self-confidence, with a capital “S”, comes from focusing on the Self, your true Self, your actual Self. Self confidence with a small “s” comes from looking for stability, safety, ... Views: 1504
Non-attachment is your invitation to soar in complete freedom. Attachment to outer things is not the only attachment we have in our lives. There is a subtler, equally powerful but more insidious attachment that happens in our inner lives – attachment to our thoughts, our acquired knowledge and ... Views: 1470
“The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing…not healing, not curing…that is a friend who cares.” - Henri Nouwen
Friendship is an art. We are born into families but we must ... Views: 1434
Shyness can have a huge impact on your life. It can stop you socialising, getting on at work and generally living the life you want to. Do you often feel like there is no way to overcome your shyness? Have a hopeless feeling that stops you taking all sorts of opportunities?
Take heart! ... Views: 1787
I recently read a great quote from Ben Franklin that I hadn’t seen before. He said, “Joy doesn’t exist in the world, it exists in us.” While the quote was new to me, the concept wasn’t. However, as I began to think it more, I realized that even though I “understand” this wisdom and do my best ... Views: 1637
Today I realized that life lives within time and so we have to treat time with respect and not squander it. I was reflecting on the fact that we all have a
battery" so to speak with a certain amount of energy. If we are not careful we can waste most of it on unnecessary, irrelevant and ... Views: 1261
Attention, and its cousin, attitude, are the architects of our lives. A focused attention unleashes the energies of Soul, the creative power of our very beingness. Unfortunately, even when we know the truth about the power of attention, we make little effort to work on mastering it. More’s ... Views: 1779
What would you do if you had all the time & money in the world?
Answer this question and you have absolute clarity.
Many of you have *given up on your New Years resolution by now or never made one in the first place. After all, you didn’t want to disappoint yourself for not following ... Views: 1377
Many personal development ‘gurus’ lead people to believe that, once you follow their course of action, life will be plain sailing – only good things will happen –life will simply be one wonderful moment after the next. Nothing could be further from the truth.
I recently got a call from one of ... Views: 6069
There are many things to say about City-Traveling. Normally people tend to plan their vacation, using the usual so-called stereotype relaxation offers, coming from normal travel agencies. These can be about beaches, cruises, mountains, lakes, rivers and lots more. The good part on these vacation ... Views: 1767
It’s not uncommon to feel a bit blue this time of year. The holidays have come and gone, days are shorter and nights are longer, the mercury dips below your comfort level—and you can find yourself feeling a little low. Here are a few tips to stave off the blues—and before you know it, spring ... Views: 1172
Listening to the weather forecast one frigid day, I realized how much we are influenced by the catastrophic thinking of the media. The weatherman reported, "The weather has brought more misery to the St. Louis area." Certainly, the weather was causing problems that day. An ice storm caused ... Views: 1976
"Joy is a net of love in which you can catch souls.” - Mother Teresa
There are two things that have always astounded me about us Human Beings. The first is just how complex we can be with our thinking and behaviour. The second is that, despite all our complexities, what drives us at a ... Views: 1749
Our world of distinctions is built on paradigms, on the collective agreement of human-created models. Frankly, many of these models have outworn their welcome; many of them have stayed on the shelf long past their due dates.
There are numerous teachers today of something called ‘The Secret’, ... Views: 1289
I was reading a blog today and came across an interesting entry about failure in business. As I read through the entry it made me think about the parallels between failure in business and the type of failure we experience when we don’t live up to our own expectations of self.
According to ... Views: 1190
Ask anybody about the things he wants in life and he will tell you that happiness is one of them. Ask the same person if he is happy with his job and he will tell you no!!
One of the main reasons people are unhappy with their jobs is the incorrect priorities they assign for different things ... Views: 3906
Going From The “What To Do” To “How To Do It” Level Of Self Growth
By
Bill Cottringer
“Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow - that is patience.” ~anonymous.
The common purpose of life for us all seems to be ... Views: 1671
Happiness is not living in a fool s promised land. It is not Living in oneself unaware of outside world. Life is not a layer of rosebushes. Here one has to sputter and combat for justice. All our activities are with a opinion to such outcomes. But ofttimes we neglect to attain that result. ... Views: 2977
Can you remember a time when you became a little irritated with someone and made a sharp comment that may have hurt, one which you later regretted? Have you ever writhed in the pain of emotional agony over some loss or missed opportunity? Do you recall a time when you felt so overwhelmed by ... Views: 978
Have you experienced pain in your life? As a result, have you fallen into destructive behaviors of anger, depression, guilt or shame? Is there an easy way to end pain and any associated emotional responses? What is one such practical solution?
The physical body operates on impulses received ... Views: 1944
Over the last year, increasing numbers of regular readers of my weekly Ezine have pointed out that, in the current economic environment, it is very difficult to “keep your head” whilst everyone around you is losing theirs. (I should point out that they’re grateful to me for the weekly ... Views: 1727
Passion - and knowing what yours is - is a big topic of conversation these days.
Since the Law of Attraction has come to more of a forefront in the past few years, and people are learning that they can create whatever kind of life they want, they are asking themselves, "Ok, what DO I ... Views: 1970
Eat this healthy food. Avoid eating this food. You will gain weight if you eat this. There is too much fat, sugar, salt, or empty calories in this food. We have all heard so many warnings against eating so many foods that many of us have lost the pure joy of eating food that makes us feel ... Views: 3562
Do you sometimes feel that your children are driving you nuts? Maybe it's not them. Maybe it's what you're doing, or better yet, what you're not doing.
Are there times that you sit down and think to yourself, I wish I was a better mother, or I wish I was a better father?
Do you know that ... Views: 3908
If you’re anything like me you’ve probably spent more time than you’d like to admit trying to “fix” your various “flaws.” Although I may pretend otherwise, many of my own goals, desires, and even my motivation to “grow” has often come from a deep place of insecurity within me - thinking that if ... Views: 5716
"Remember, happiness doesn’t depend upon who you are or what you have; it depends solely upon what you think!" - Dale Carnegie
Do you know what makes you happy? If so, what's currently driving you towards happiness?
So do you know what would make you really happy? Do you think you are ... Views: 1217
Ever wonder what you’re doing here – what life is all about? Ever wonder why life’s ups and downs toss you around like a piece of driftwood – why life seems to go swingingly for some people but not for you? Ever wonder will there be an end to stress and worry – whether, some day, you’ll be able ... Views: 1824
Free Book Stuff is Worth Millions to ME?
OK - who doesn't love free stuff?
The big question is: could free stuff really be of value to me?
Just because the gift giving season is over - doesn't mean your most favorite gifts have to stop coming to YOU!
Consider these three ... Views: 1913
TB Wright
*This article is specifically designed to start a thought process that will lead us away from dissatisfaction, and on to satisfaction, through practice. This takes time. The invitation is to give yourself that time, and to practice the "tell the truth now, tell the truth later" ... Views: 1078
With another night of ball-dropping and champagne-drinking behind us all, I’m sure more than a few of us have made New Year’s resolutions.
And I’m sure by next year at this time, a lot of us will be making those same resolutions again.
We resolve to eat better. To exercise more. To “be ... Views: 1484
I’m back from Maui, and spent yesterday planning for 2010 with my team. While that’s all fabulous and exciting, I also want to reflect on my vacation, and the state of mind I had which enabled ideas to flow freely, love to grow and compassion to deepen. In looking more carefully at this, I ... Views: 1973
Every morning, my four year old daughter runs into my bedroom and jumps onto the bed with glee that the day has begun and she is ready to play. Throughout the day, she feels her energy and is in tune with her desires. When she doesn't get what she wants, she uses innate strategies to try to ... Views: 959
Happiness is a choice, but it’s hard to choose happiness when the world around you is down in the dumps. Rather than decide to “be happy,” a goal so ambitious that it can feel impossible to achieve, make a resolution to take specific steps toward happiness. You need to retrain your brain to ... Views: 3498
Let It Begin from Within in 2010.
It's a cute jingle but what does it really mean anyway? How can this be helpful to you in your real life?
The intention of this article is to provide you with something that is both inspirational to feel and practical to do to begin from within in ... Views: 1156
Awakening to Wholeness: My Personal Story
The Limits of Positive Thinking and the Four Principles of Awakening to, and Living in Wholeness.
I recently received an email inquiry from my SOULutions website that stated; “Can you help me think more positively about myself and feel more ... Views: 1432