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Snapshot Management: Leaders under the Spotlight Use Emotional Intelligence - By Reldan Nadler- How To Have It All - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2011 from Roseanna LeatonWe are frequently cautioned that we just cannot have it all. We are taught that wanting to have our cake and eat it as well is a recipe for great disappointment. When one hears such cautionary phrases and sayings often enough the tendency is to lower ones expectations and to dare not to dream ...
Views: 1070 - Latest World News Covers whole World - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2011 from Nikita VermaLatest world news may demonstrate you with number of addendum and postscript at a time on the particular screen. You can come across news by medium of internet and other means. The world news consists of all the latest matter of India news headlines, latest news occurring all over the world, ...
Views: 2435 - Be Who You Are - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2011 from Geoffrey CanavanFairytales may not be quite as fanciful as they appear at first glance. Think of the frog who was really a handsome prince, or the Sleeping Beauty and Snow White who just needed a kiss to restore them to life. The hidden message in every fairytale can teach us a very valuable lesson. The ...
Views: 1968 - Taking the Wrong Road - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2011 from Roseanna LeatonLife presents us with many choices. Sometimes we feel that we have taken a wrong turn and chosen the wrong road. When we look back we can see that there were signposts visible at that junction, although at the time we didn't pay them sufficient heed. Many things are easier with the benefit of ...
Views: 1421 - Be open to change - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2011 from Angela Schulz-HenkeOur task is now to change and to transfer our mental consciousness into the heart consciousness. This change has already begun. As long as we deny the change, we get in trouble: stress, sickness, accident, depression etc. Mother Earth is sacred to all beings. And we do not have the permission ...
Views: 1696(1 vote) - My Soul Song - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2011 from Abigail SteidleyA year ago, I was sitting here at this same desk, planning last year’s Mind-Body Coach Training. I was imagining a great group of trainees, fixing up the forum where they would interact, and sending out the announcements in my newsletter. I thought I knew exactly what my plans were for the next ...
Views: 1345 - Feeling Bad? Have a Tantrum - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2011 from Abigail SteidleyIf you’ve been following my blog for a while, you know the drill. You know you have to feel emotions that arise on a daily basis, because avoiding and therefore storing them in your body creates tension and pain. Obviously, no one is going to be perfect at feeling emotions. However, I, like you, ...
Views: 1921 - The Skinny on Intentions - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Adela RubioHave you noticed that one of the habits that trips up your intentions is getting stuck in the disempowering stories? Those stories can be so overwhelming that sometimes it may seem as if they were the ONLY truth. However, most of what you remember of an event is filtered through a collection ...
Views: 1164 - When Sexual Desire Covers Up Self-Sabotage -- We Can Easily Get "Turned On" by People Who Spell Trouble Down the Road - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2011 from Peter MichaelsonWhat are some important features of human sexual desire? Two neuroscientists falter badly in their attempt to answer the question in their book, A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the World’s Largest Experiment Reveals About Human Desire (Dutton, New York, 2011). Scouring internet data, the ...
Views: 1549 - Hanging a bicycle Rack inside the Garage - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2011 from Daryl BrewerHomeowners will discover any sort of home is smaller than their storage necessities. In the kitchen area, a homeowner may have built sliding cabinet racks. These make it possible for more utensils and dishes to be stored in a small, well-organized space. Within the bathroom, hanging a vanity ...
Views: 1941 - 7 Early Signs of Stress - by Submitted on Nov 01, 2011 from Gerrianne ClarePeople think of stress as being burnt out, crying alot, feeling overwhelmed and unable to cope. While these are definitely signs of stress, they are often preceded by some earlier warning signs that people do not necessarily attribute to stress. Ponder the statements below, ask yourself, ...
Views: 1343 - Anger: Is It Good Or Bad? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThe word anger and the behaviour that it creates is not something that is typically looked upon with acceptance or positivity. Anger is often portrayed as a troublesome emotion; an emotion that leads to destructive and abusive behaviour. And there is no denying that anger can be extremely ...
Views: 2762(1 vote) - Women Golfers Tend To Get More Nervous Than Male Golfers - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2011 from Roseanna LeatonI don't mean to sound sexist here. Rather, I'm talking about facts. I have always noticed that female golfers have more trouble with self-belief in terms of trusting their alignment or their reads of the putting green. Women golfers also seem to suffer more from tournament pressure. I ...
Views: 1206 - We Have The Power In Our Minds To Overcome Our Emotions - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2011 from Roseanna LeatonOur emotions frequently drive our actions in a direction that is opposed to that which our conscious mind wishes. We will often describe such a situation as being in two minds. The impact of our emotional attachment to things can easily be seen in circumstances when we know what we should do ...
Views: 1060 - Introductions Please - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2011 from Kenny BrixeyIntroductions Please I would like to introduce you to an amazing person. This person is a wonderful human being and is full of love, intelligence and strength. The extent of their worth is unimaginable. The possibilities of what this person can do are endless. To look within them is to see ...
Views: 1124(2 votes) - I was talking to Bill Cosby yesterday... - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2011 from Steven BarnesYesterday I watched an absolute master. Bill Cosby performed at Georgia Tech university, and I was in the front row, not eight feet away from him, as he held an audience of thousands spellbound, just sitting in a chair telling stories. He had us howling, crying, nodding, laughing, ...
Views: 1069 - Remember What Matters and Forget What Does Not - by Submitted on Oct 23, 2011 from Roseanna LeatonIn life it is easy to get this the wrong way around and remember all too easily the things that do not matter whilst overlooking the things that do really matter. We tend to tie ourselves up in knots when thinking about silly little things instead of focusing upon things that have far greater ...
Views: 1309 - Is Humanity Safe To Be Self-Governed - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2011 from David SamuelLao Tzu wrote in the Tao Te Ching; ‘...To have harmony in the kingdom, keep the people’s belly full and bed warm.’ He was speaking of how to keep the country running peacefully through accepting the reality that if people are in want, they will react violently, even if that is ...
Views: 1170 - The Secrets To Using Emotional Intelligence To Get Ahead In Life - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2011 from Greg FrostThe term, “emotional Intelligence” refers to the ability to asses, identify and control your emotions or that of others or groups. The process can be acquired through learning although it can also be in born in some individuals. You can actually use emotional intelligence to get ahead in life ...
Views: 1489 - Fortune Cookie Forecast - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2011 from Vickie Griffith“It sucks right now!” Martha said with despair in her voice. “I just lost my job. My husband’s salary barely covers the necessary expenses. Our daughter needs money for a science project. Our son needs a cavity filled. I wrecked my car. The dog is sick. And my credit cards are at their ...
Views: 1587 - Telling The Truth: A Human Deficiency? - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2011 from Sarah RuizWhy is it that our human race has such a difficult time telling the truth? The politician scandals mount each day as our own leaders think the best way to get through something is to lie about it. Almost always, especially with today’s technology and media resources the ones who lie get caught ...
Views: 1350(1 vote) - Asking the right questions helps us learn from our mistakes - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2011 from Sarah RuizI grew up hearing that “no question was stupid” or “the question NOT asked was an opportunity missed”. I heard it all the way through school and college and even through graduate school. It was no surprise when I heard these same words echo out of my mouth to my own two little girls. I know ...
Views: 1049 - Emotional Intelligence Training Evaluation Should Go Beyond Just Feel Good Results - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2011 from Byron StockOccasionally I come across a "case study" for an Emotional Intelligence training program that concerns me. Generally there is a very thorough write-up explaining the program process, including rolling out the program to the organization. However, what concerns me is the program "results" that ...
Views: 1576 - Emotional Maturity? Not in America! - by Submitted on Oct 09, 2011 from Janis EricsonJust this morning, I witnessed a large truck speeding down my street, honking at a double-parked car (do cars move themselves??). Over the weekend I heard so much gossip it made my head spin. And tomorrow I’m likely to hear one of my clients badmouthing a co-worker. One thing I’m quite ...
Views: 1514 - How Your Thoughts Can Affect Your Happiness - by Submitted on Oct 03, 2011 from Rhonda RabowDid you know that the average person thinks 60,000 - 80,000 thoughts per day? Did you know that over 80% of these thoughts are negative and over 85% of the thoughts you think today are the same thoughts you thought yesterday, last week and last year? How do you think these negative thoughts ...
Views: 2615 - Emotional Abuse: The invisible Killer - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThe name of this article might sound a bit extreme and over the top, however I thought it was relevant to create awareness around this often overlooked area. This is a general description of Emotional Abuse, which is based on my current awareness and observations. Physical Abuse Very ...
Views: 2781(1 vote) - The Great Equalizer to Fearful Thinking - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2011 from Tambra HarckIf you listen to the news media, or read it, or talk about what's being reported, it's easy to lose focus on how amazingly abundant and joyous life really is. Recently I asked a group of 30+ business people how they feel when they engage in the "bad economy" talk that has now been going on ...
Views: 1581(1 vote) - Are You A Mischief Addict? - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2011 from Roseanna LeatonSome people are addicted to excitement, fun or mischief. When I say mischief I mean a little more than regular excitement or good old fun. A person who is addicted to fun is always looking for a laugh. Mischief in the sense I have in mind here should also be distinguished from a pure ...
Views: 1414 - Emotional Intelligence: Slowing Turnover When Talent Demand Grows - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2011 from Byron StockAre absent employees leaving you short staffed? When you start hearing excuses for absenteeism like, "I got bit by a mosquito and my eye is swollen shut," or, "I broke my big toe and can't walk," or even, "My car won't start," it's a symptom that your people are sick - sick of work. The woman ...
Views: 1423 - Success Maker 101 - Facts On Emotional Wellness And Success - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2011 from Chris D'CruzEmotional wellness basically means being in a state where a person understands their feelings and doesn’t try to avoid them. Having a positive emotional wellness is a true success maker since one develops a positive approach to life, being able to approach feelings freely and effectively. This ...
Views: 966(1 vote) - ***Leadership Keys for Success - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2011 from Reldan NadlerFinally, an iPhone app that supports your rise to star performance as a leader. True North Leadership just introduced the FREE Leadership Keys app.Click the link or use your phone to scan this QR code to get your download. It’s usual for leaders not to realize that Leadership is like a ...
Views: 7604(4 votes) - Why Repetition is Hot For Your Brain - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Hal WechslerDo You Use Repetition in Your Life? When I asked this question of our staff and students, they answer with their own ‘defensive’ response, “Why should I?” My answer to them and you is, your parents were right. “About what?” “Repetition is the mother of “learning”. I know a ton of ...
Views: 2416(1 vote) - What's Synchronicity? - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Hal Wechsler--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What Picture Comes to Mind With The Word, Synchronicity? If you have to stop and analyze it – Latin: combining Syn (together) with Chronos (time), like I do, and still cannot get a handle on ...
Views: 1767(2 votes) - Lead Yourself into the New Changing World - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2011 from Andrew HortonBefore the advent of the computer age and globalisation, there were only two certainties in life, namely death and taxes. Since we moved into the new millennium and the rate of technological development has sped up even more, there is now a third certainty and that certainty is constant change. ...
Views: 1636(1 vote) - Just a Bit Controlling - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2011 from Vickie GriffithAre you in control? Want to be in control? Have a need to be in control? Bet you are rarely, if ever, in control. It is a myth that we are in control of anything except for one aspect of our lives, and it is the only component of our lives of which we are in control. You will experience ...
Views: 1121 - The Surprising Relationship Between Emotions And Brainwaves - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2011 from Greg FrostMany people are prone to marveling whether emotions and brainwaves have a relationship with each other. The answer to this is yes! This is because the brain is the central point for all the emotional communication with the body. It is the main producer of most of the current in the basic neural ...
Views: 5861 - Emotional Intelligence: Skills for Caregivers - by Submitted on Sep 13, 2011 from Byron StockI've heard stories from friends about the agony and stress caused by caring for their aging parents. Their rolls vary depending on the level of care their parents' need. Some are fortunate in that their parents require very little care; perhaps just a daily check-in to make sure all is well. ...
Views: 2457 - The Answer to Your Prayers - by Submitted on Sep 13, 2011 from Julie DonleyHave you ever prayed for something and wished for it and worked hard to get it but it just doesn’t come? We have all been in this place where we want something so badly we can almost taste it and it’s not here. We wonder ‘why?’ and often think, “Why me?” or “Why NOT me?” It is frustrating and ...
Views: 1500 - The Secret to an Amazing Life- Feeling Good - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2011 from Dorcas WoodI start my day in silence. Enjoying the peace I feel in my heart, being one with God. I start my day acknowleging the magnificence of who I am and all of the blessings God has given me. I focus also on what He's left in my authority. I know that I have the power to create my world with my ...
Views: 1426(2 votes) - The Heart: Is It More Than A Muscle? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThis article will look at the different aspects of the heart; this will include empathy, emotions and feelings. I will also explain my current understanding of what leads to an absence of empathy and an ability to feel. Inspiration I was also inspired to write this after seeing the Alfa ...
Views: 2131 - Emotional Intelligence Training Efforts: Analyzing Impact - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Byron StockIn the mid 90's, with the advent of Daniel Goleman's best-selling book, the concept of Emotional Intelligence gained popularity. Emotional Intelligence presented a new means to understand and improve people's performance because it could be applied to a wide variety of organizational development ...
Views: 1326 - Moonlight Becomes You - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Susan McNeal VelasquezOur outer surroundings supply nourishment for creative endeavors and the pursuit of fulfilling the dream of living a quality life. The not so obvious challenge that we each face is how to grow an internal life that matches the vibrancy and illumination that makes up our outer reality. Are ...
Views: 1784 - Developing Emotional Intelligence Skills Can Enable You to Manage Your Emotional Energy - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Byron StockThe rising levels of stress Americans experience was identified in the 2009 American Psychological Association's (APA) "Stress in America Survey." Concerned with the "prevalence with which Americans continue to report increasing and extreme stress levels," Dr. Katherine Nordal Phd., APA's ...
Views: 1579 - How To Attain Emotional Health - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Chris D'CruzTraining the mind to affect certain self development acts is very important for anyone interested in attaining any kind of emotional health. The mind body and soul are interconnected together in order to affect functions in the body. An individual mental health determines how best they achieve ...
Views: 1114(1 vote) - Listen With Your Eyes and See With Your Ears - by Submitted on Aug 21, 2011 from Roseanna LeatonWhen you shut down one sense the others are provided with more focus and attention and they will thereby be enhanced. In language you will often hear phrases used with promote one sense or another. A beautiful painting might invoke in you a whole range of sound as well as visual ...
Views: 1386 - Acting without Thinking Is Shooting without Aiming - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2011 from Chuck GallozziYou wouldn’t fire a gun without aiming, would you? So, why would we act without thinking? When we live as robots doing whatever feels good instead of whatever is best for us, there is a heavy price to pay. Replacing thoughtful behaviour with thoughtless acts leads to material, mental, and ...
Views: 2630 - Skinny Dipping is Better Than Double Dipping - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2011 from Arthur LevinePlease feel free to use this article as long as credit is given to the resource box. (C) Copyright, Arthur Levine 2011. Works: Keywords: Skinny Dipping, Double Dipping, Johnny Oops What has sex got to do with economics? I’ve come to the conclusion that swimming naked in the pool is a ...
Views: 2006(1 vote) - The Purpose of Your Life and How to Find It - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2011 from Teal ScottThe purpose of life is to live it. To be immersed in that which we call “experience” to such a degree that we may know what it is that we truly want. And because we are the furthest most ripple of that which we call source or god, when we reach out eagerly and without fear for that newer and ...
Views: 1333(1 vote) - You Have Everything You Need To Be Happy - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2011 from Jeannette KoczelaOne morning I was writing out a grateful list and I couldn't stop writing. I just kept thinking of more and more things to be grateful for. It made me realize that I loved my life. That wasn't always true for me. But here's what I know now. You have everything you need to be happy. Yes, it's ...
Views: 2000(4 votes) - Why We Read Our Daily Horoscopes - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2011 from Roseanna LeatonThere are some things in life, which we would like to happen, but which we at the same time feel uncertain about. The majority of us like to know, and to be assured, about important things, but it would seem that part of our learning curve in this life is to discover ways in which to deal with ...
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