Romantic Ideas To Keep The Love Alive

Spontaneous romantic ideas mean so much more when done for no occasion, but "just because". Everybody else can remember your partner's birthday or holidays, but spontaneous thoughtful acts make an otherwise ordinary day into a special one for your partner and is what will set your action apart and memorable. Here are some ideas:

Surprise your partner at work - or wherever he or she is going. Send roses or have a favorite lunch delivered to her or him at work, with a note saying that you are thinking of him /her when you are apart.

Have a video made featuring pictures of him/her and both of you (plus kids of you have) using a romantic music as background, and upload it in youtube, give him / her the link in an email.

Random notes -post-it notes in the kitchen, car visor, bath, in the pocket of clothes he/she will use, pillow, gym bag, anywhere,...

Contact family - find out a favorite place, or a gift he/she has always wanted when he or she was a kid. This will show your partner that you went the extra mile knowing what he/she likes and bringing pleasant childhood memories is always a fond moment.

Have a tarpaulin or billboard and "announce" or profess your love for the public to see.

A thoughtful gift - is your partner fond of certain sports? Hobbies? Your mutual friends can help you find out what he or she wants lately if you are running out of ideas. Slip it into his or her things, inside the car trunk, or have someone bring it on his/her desk before he or she arrives at work.

Surprise trips - pack his or her things...snatch him /her after work, then go for a surprise romantic getaway, bring some favorite music and take time to slow dance, to sit watching a sunrise or sunset. Lay by the shore or grassy field and just stare at clouds, reminisce of good days, remind your partner why you have fallen in love with him or her.

When partner is at desk or busy with some work, come up from behind and give a back or shoulder massage, or a spontaneous hug with a light kiss. Get his or her bath ready and give a massage complete with candle lights, a romantic room scent and music.

When you notice your partner has been stressed lately...treat partner to a surprise spa or a favorite restaurant.

When having dinner in a restaurant, have his or her favorite wine served and have special wine glasses engraved with your names and the special date in your life.

Compliment your partner whether in front of others, or alone...learn to see the good in every effort he or she does. Make him or her feel how proud you are of your partner.

Learn to have random childlike fun - a walk through the rain, have fun getting wet with the garden hose. Learn to laugh at yourselves for childlike fun such as these.

Spice up intimacy. Take time to pleasure each other, lots of caresses, tactile stimulation and the like. A deeply passionate lovemaking is one of the most powerful of arsenals in keeping the relationship alive and exciting, and brings such unexplainable connection between two people like no other. It gives one of the strongest bonds between couples and will keep the partners looking forward to be together more.