Dating Asian Women - How To Pick Up Beautiful Asian Women

If you have a special interest in dating Asian women, then you and I have something in common. In my case, I have been dating Asian women for as long as I can remember, both in the United States and during my trips to Asia, and I've come up with a specific set of rules and strategies that you should follow if you want to learn how to date Asian women (or take your success rate to a whole new level!)

Be aware, there are some differences in how you should pick up Western women, versus Asian women. When it comes to American and European women, I will often use a "cocky & playful" approach to be a bit of a bad boy -- I'll mess with girls and playfully evaluate them, to let them know I'm really not "impressed" -- no matter how hot they might look. My normal strategy is to make girls feel that I am the one who need to be impressed.

This means never answering her questions directly (rather than giving a direct answer, play it off with a joke); don't ask HER the conventional queries ("so what's your name," "where are you from," etc), and instead using creative conversation techniques to keep things flowing; and it also means teasing women and "busting on them" from time to time. Not in a cruel, boorish way, but in a mischievous style that says something very important to her: that you're not a predictable, average guy who is hoping to impress her and "win" her.|One way to do this is to never answer a woman's questions directly. Instead, you always sidetrack her questions with jokes (i.e. "What do I do for a living? I'm a lion tamer.")

It also means you're not asking her the usual, predictable questions (such as "where are you from," etc.) You always want to use creative conversation tactics with Western girls, and this means turning the tables and playfully teasing on them. This demonstrates that you're certainly not an average dude.

So the question is, should you try to approach dating Asian women the same way, and take the same approach? Well, yes and no.

A specialized approach is required to successfully pick up most Asian women, and a lot of this has to do with their society and upbringing. When they were growing up, there's no doubt they watched a ton of "romantic serials" on television. (In America, we refer to these shows as "soap operas.") The plot of these shows always has to do with a handsome, sensitive guy who is madly in love with a girl, but there are challenges that he must overcome.

The usual storylineinvolves a desperately attempting to "win" the girl, but she keeps rebuffing him -- and so he keeps iat it until he does something remarkable to "touch her heart." Then she gives in and melts, and they live happily ever after.

Asian women are deeply influenced by this stuff. They're raised to expect this same type of courtship in their own lives.

Of course, there are Asian girls who are less traditional and will date "bad boy"-type guys. But most high-quality Asian girls, since they never want to shame themselves or their families, won't be seen in public with a foreign guy who dresses shabbily and has lots of visible tattoos.

This also means that you can't approach her like a "pickup artist" would, using lines and routines on her and trying to quickly escalate to a physical level.

The rules of attraction change a bit when you're dating asian women.

That being said, it's certainly OK to pay an Asian women a compliment on how nice she looks. With American women, I don't advise you to do this. (They take this as a sign that you're just another desperate guy trying to hook up with them.) Asian women, however, because they are so wonderfully feminine and take pride in how they look at all times, will be genuinely appreciative of a sincere compliment.

(Although she may act shy, and blush when you tell her, this just means that you've touched her emotionally.)

It's also really important for you to demonstrate masculine behavior (i.e. "be the man") when you are with Asian women. Asian women want to be around a masculine presence, because they are so utterly feminine. They are perfectly feminine creatures. This is not the case with a lot of American women these days. Not only do they want to "wear the pants" in the relationship, they'll also adopt a masculine style of dress -- such as wearing baggy sweatpants and baseball caps. You simply will never see an Asian woman dressing this way, even if she's just going to the store.