Let me get right to it: There is no failure, only an unwanted result.

That being said, at times I know that unwanted results can feel like failure. To make matters worse, if you continue to try the same method you will risk getting the same result again and again.

Examples of an unwanted results:

* Low test mark
* Undesirable outcome when you approached your boss for a raise
* A disagreement that lead to an argument
* Weight gain (which was not what you were shooting for)
* Loss of a potential new client
* A contract was not signed that should of been

Have faith though: All that is stopping you from success is a new something…

So what does one do when they want a different outcome from the situation? Try something new:

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Talk to your coach
2.
Brainstorm ideas for new actions
3.
Learn something new
4.
Use new communication (words, voice tone and body movements)
5.
Take a step back and think about it from the another perspective
6.
Get a new perspective from someone unbiased
7.
Get a second opinion
8.
Google your desired outcome to learn new tips
9.
Read a book on the topic
10.
Get feedback: From your coach, friend, coworker or the person directly involved
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Ask: What do you suggest? What have you done? What would you do?
12.
Change your behaviour to get the outcome you desire
13.
Find a new way
14.
Learn a new skill
15.
Model someone who has what you want
16.
Self coach: What can be changed? What can I do differently to get a better result?

Author's Bio: 

Mackenzie Pearce trains people as coach trainers for www.BecomeACoachTrainer.com. Her mission statement is: "To show people how easy and awesome life can be and to help them show others, as God decides and as God directs."