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Last summer, I bought two Adirondack chairs. My husband had been talking about wanting this kind of chair for at least ten years.
He’d routinely stop the car to test out Adirondack chairs we saw displayed in front of garden centers and furniture stores. ... Views: 1377
Whether I’m gazing at a majestically sculptured building, reading of a startling medical breakthrough, or soaring over the earth during a transcontinental flight, I’m always awed by the genius of humanity.
The world is millions of years old, and yet, in only a comparatively short period of ... Views: 1377
"Most people don't live aware lives. They live mechanical lives, mechanical thoughts -- generally somebody else's -- mechanical emotions, mechanical actions." -- Anthony de Mello
"Of course I'm conscious!" you reply. But are you really?
The truth is that most of us are basically asleep all ... Views: 1376
Best Resources on Emotional Intelligence
So much has been written about emotional intelligence over the years. For many self help gurus, this is the key to living a more happy and fulfilled life. The definition of emotional intelligence varies depending on who you ask, but most agree that ... Views: 1376
When’s the last time you had a good laugh? Take a moment to relive the good feelings that come with real laughter.
We pay money to laugh. At the movies and a comedy clubs. We stay up to catch the jokes on late night talk shows. We delight in finding something funny in our lives to laugh at. ... Views: 1376
Gratitude
Count your blessings!I remember sitting in my sister’s yard (my home at the time) with my dog, beauty all around me, the neighbors’ roosters running around me; and feeling a sense of calm and fulfillment. I was so grateful for my surroundings and my family and good friends.
Not ... Views: 1375
I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.
This quote from Jimmy Dean carries within it the secrets of success, in most circumstances, no matter how terrible the situation is or how hopeless the state of affairs seems to be. If you ... Views: 1375
October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, but in light of all the recent publicity I decided to write about it now. A few years back I wrote a 4 part series, you can go to Blogs and then Domestic Violence to find the articles, they are broken down by the following categories: The ... Views: 1375
Mumbai is the financial capital of India and is really different from other cities in terms of a lot many things like the employment ratio and standard style of living. Mumbai is also known as the land of dreamers, a lot many people from across the world come to the city in search of a better ... Views: 1375
For your daily lunch choose a fresh vegetable salad which is not only nutritional but also economical in these hard times. Whether it's a salad off a salad bar or one made at home it's an energy booster full of exceptional nutrition. It can help boost energy to complete your day on a high ... Views: 1375
We all hold others in high regard. When we give all of our love and devotion, we expect others to live up to the same expectations. When we call others to catch up or to show our concern, we expect the same when we are going through things as well.
When we reach out, you shouldn’t have any ... Views: 1375
This is the story of misuse of scientific attainments the more it is becoming advanced wherein joy is less and sorrow/anguish rule the roost. This trend has just not stopped and in fact day by day it is spreading its vicious net everywhere. Till date all harm faced, all problems undergone are ... Views: 1375
As we move toward the end of a remarkable year, you are in our thoughts and hearts. In the midst of the busyness of the holiday season, we want to express our profound gratitude for you.
To best express our appreciation, we offer you the blessing that Debbie Ford wrote for her newsletter ... Views: 1374
When it comes to choose furniture color for home it is sometime very daunting, because it confuses and leaves you in fear that if you commit mistake there is no way out. Furniture is a kind of depreciating asset and also need a good sum of money to buy. Hence, you have to be very smart while ... Views: 1374
We live in a world where you can educate yourself on any topic you choose, within seconds. You have a question? Google it and get your answer, simple. In fact, it’s a little too simple.
Once upon a time you would need to open a dictionary to learn the correct spelling of a word, go to a ... Views: 1374
He is… she is…, they are… Go ahead. Complete the sentence. Fill in the blank. About anyone you know. What words would you use? Mean, grouchy, controlling, sneaky, nosey, conniving, kind, caring, funny, loving, giving, sexy…?
It’s not difficult to do, is it? We can think about anyone we ... Views: 1374
David Dardashti of Ibogaine Clinic has pioneered an alternative treatment using Ibogaine (extracted from Iboga root bark, a natural psychedelic with dissociative properties. Ibogaine in its purest form offers true perception of one’s brain body and subconscious, possesses anti addictive ... Views: 1374
I can't tell you how frequently I coach and remind students and clients of the need for building consistency in a daily fitness regimen and program. Using the principles of Pilates for active movement, I admonish people to heed and act on Plato's statement, "lack of activity destroys the good ... Views: 1374
Ah, the holidays. Time off to spend with family and friends, food and drink, comforting surroundings, warmth, joy and goodwill. So why are so many of us stressed, depressed and exhausted? It really doesn’t have to be that way. Here are some ideas to help you have a more relaxed holiday ... Views: 1374
Just the word Christmas can warm your heart and put a smile on your face. For some it is a time of year that they have come to dread. It is the loneliest time of year for many, and a joyous time for many more. But the true meaning of Christmas is not about what lies under the Christmas tree ... Views: 1374
This is the world as I see it:
1) People are usually kind and supportive, and have good intentions, even it does not seem that way.
2) The universe always sends people and situations to us for our soul growth.
3) Once we know what we want, the universe will give us 100% support by ... Views: 1374
If you are an entrepreneur, you know that your success cannot depend on the opinions of others. Like the wind, opinions change...like the weather, opinions change frequently. To succeed at any endeavor, you must stay the course...no matter what the cost! Here are some surefire tips to help you ... Views: 1374
During our most intense moments in life we reach for a hand to hold. As we sit and wait for the doctor to come and speak to us, as we wait for results, as we watch someone attain their goals, we reach for another soul.
Through the joys and pains, the excitement and tears we hold on to another ... Views: 1373
It is said that the first thing a man does when he wakes in the morning is to look out of the window to see how the weather has changed overnight, and the first thing a women does on waking is to look in the mirror to see what the night has done to her face. Enough said ... but if your look in ... Views: 1373
The Greek word “genealogia” refers to finding family history or tracing family heritage. The root of the word “genealogia” is “genea” which refers to a descendant or generation.
Genealogy as we know it today has come a very long way, but has been around for hundreds of years. Basically ... Views: 1373
Hypnosis has been around for at least as long as we humans have kept records. Hypnosis is a natural human ability. Every time we focus our attention we enter a kind of hypnotic trance. Our normal awareness involves us being aware of many things at the same time and our mind jumping around. So ... Views: 1373
Nobody -- whether single, in a long-term committed relationship or anything in between -- is completely immune from that often-painful feeling of loneliness. That is, however, until you can see it for what it is: an attitude that's completely within your power to change.
Merely being alone ... Views: 1373
Square Life
By April Lugo PhD
Chirp, chirp, chirp, you reach over and press the square button on the alarm begging for just a few more moments of rest. Your head is resting comfortably upon your square pillow as you lay resting on the square mattress covered with your square blankets. Warm ... Views: 1373
How many times have you put things away only to find piles a few weeks later? Where does it come from, and how can you control it?
Let’s begin with the first question. How does clutter get into your home or office? Through the front door. You (and the people around you) bring it in each ... Views: 1373
Hiking the mountain range behind my home is where I often receive my most inspired ideas. The other morning, a phrase bolted into my head in a very dramatic fashion just as I reached the apex of my climb. Standing there, scanning the horizon, satisfied with my morning’s accomplishment, clear ... Views: 1372
Whether you deliberately do it or not, you’re always looking for an ideal person.
In business you look for ideal customers and/or team members who are a perfect match for the job that needs to be completed.
You look for the ideal mechanic, computer repair person, babysitter, mate, ... Views: 1372
Most people are familiar with the term CAM (Complementary and Alternative Medicine). You may think that energy medicine falls into those categories. It is that plus so much more. The International Society for the Study of Subtle Energy and Energy Medicine defines Energy Medicine as that which ... Views: 1372
I came across an interesting phrase in a novel by Terry Pratchett - "Rumour can have gone around the world before TRUTH has got its boots on!"
So, what is it about gossip and tittle/tattle that can generate such a blazing trail? It's easy to understand the urgency around "run for your life, the ... Views: 1372
Sometimes we self-sabotage ourselves by placing obstacles in our path, and we do this out of fear. What is fear? Fear is an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat. Fear starts in the brain and sends messages throughout ... Views: 1372
With eight GOP Senators joining the vote to repeal DADT, including much heralded Scott Brown (R) of Massachusetts now gays can prance in array around the military just like they now do in the classrooms, the media and everywhere else they aspire to. Is it a good day for America?
The Apostle ... Views: 1372
I've always been curious about what causes a person, hopelessly stuck in a rut in any facet of their life, to suddenly break free.
• How do you lose weight after trying every diet and exercise program and nothing works?
• How do you finally nail a financial target after being at the same ... Views: 1372
Author Hugh Prather from the Quiet Answer states, “you need never fear your desires or run from your fantasies.”
A woman, gentle as a flower, graceful like a swan – a most beautiful elegant species. Yes, WE hold those beautiful qualities and now to learn to embrace these amazing qualities in ... Views: 1372
Wall lights can surprisingly lift up the appearance of your house provided that you know where to and how to install them. Wall-mounted fixtures are very much different from that of the other lights like down lights or pendent lights. One has to keep this difference in mind; otherwise you may ... Views: 1372
While walking through Costco, I noticed the large bin of photographs that had been processed and were waiting for customers to pick up. There were probably a couple of hundred packets listed alphabetically according to customers’ names. I was struck by the fact that all of these personal bags of ... Views: 1372
Competition is a fact of life; the desire to win at games, get the highest grade in the class or bring home a blue ribbon from the county fair is a feeling most of us can understand. Playing sports provides an outlet for competitive urges; watching your favorite professional teams allows us to ... Views: 1372
Anxiety has a way of taking over before you realize it. It's important to be intuitive enough to detect problems in advance and maintain stability. A medical doctor is necessary if you experience severe anxiety or have panic attacks. In the case of daily anxiety, however, there are many ... Views: 1371
How we take care of our bodies relies in large part by what foods, nutrients,vitamins or supplements we put in. Of course equally valuable to be concerned about depending on our lifestyle must be to recognize our unhealthy intake habits, like alcohol, caffeine,fried foods, nicotine and tobacco, ... Views: 1371
People have been so obsessed with age that they have set limitations as to what one can do at a certain age but age is just a number and for as long as you take care of yourself there are no limitations. Have you seen people who look years younger than their real age? And people who look so much ... Views: 1371
Are you living your life, the way you want to live?
If your reply is in affirmative then you must be a very successful and powerful person in full command of your life and the circumstances. However, if your reply is in negative, then I am sorry to say that you are like millions of other ... Views: 1371
How do you know if a person is willing to attain self improvement? This is a question with no definite answer. It will all depend on the individual. Many people have goals, dreams or ambitions but do not know how to go about achieving them. They may have thought about what would make up self ... Views: 1371
In recent times, the popularity of epoxy paint coating for garage flooring has increased manifold, and it can be attributed to its many good points and the fact that it comes in a variety of colors that you can choose from. The durability of epoxy paints has always been talked about and another ... Views: 1370
We all started out with big plans, a to-do list and resolutions for the New Year. We are a few days into the year and one thing that is constant year to year is plans may have to change. And that is what so many of my clients are looking at as Mother Nature is spreading cold and in some areas ... Views: 1370
With the U.S. presidential election coming around again, there are now more and more political conversations going on around us these days, and politics – just like everything else in life – is all about relationships. You may hear people talk about ending conflicts and creating ... Views: 1370
Do you play the waiting game? In other words, do you procrastinate on your plans to the point of paralysis? It is one thing to be pragmatic about a given strategy or initiative; but once the assessment is complete, it is time to move onto the next step. Too often, people get caught up in the ... Views: 1370
It was a beautiful cold day outside. I know it is cold when my outdoor thermometer says it is 4 degrees. I thought it might be broken but when it warmed up to 6 degrees I knew it was working as the temperature had changed.
This is the perfect kind of day to stay inside and bake cookies, read ... Views: 1369