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I grew up in an affluent area in Long Island, NY. Although my parents were very rich with love, they struggled financially. At a very young age, I attached my self-worth to my family’s net worth.
While growing up, I stuffed my face with food to hide from the feeling of worthiness. I was ... Views: 782
Write a list of your 101 personal accomplishments and 101 personal achievements for last year. Then write a list of your 101 intended accomplishments for the new year.
While you write, you may notice secondary thoughts or things you say to yourself.
You have likely heard it before that we ... Views: 1791
It's never too early to start thinking about sexy swimwear and fitting into that string bikini. With all of the stylish options for summer wear flying off the shelves just in time for the holidays, you can start getting ready now and start preparing to look your best on the beaches in the summer ... Views: 1044
Did you know that ‘unforgiveness’ is one of the single biggest Christmas ‘love’ blockages that causes all kinds of mayhem and unhappiness during the holiday season. It often gains momentum causing a domino effect of the blues not only within yourself but out to others who ... Views: 1374
Who doesn't want to be at their best for this festive season? You need some tools to support you to bring out your best. Utilize the success tool "visualisation". You can literally reincarnate yourself and your life as many people have throughout history. Find out how to do it by following a few ... Views: 1476
This is fun! Just score each issue, add up your score, and see who's your man . . . or woman!
It is important, really important I feel, to not only do our civic duty and responsibly research who matches up to our particular preferences, but to make sure and vote. As Thomas Jefferson once said, ... Views: 709
There was a very poor man who was very hungry and desperate for help. Hearing about the generosity of Prophet Muhammad he approached him and asked for his help and charity. The Holy Prophet instead asked him to bring whatever he has from his home. The man returned with an old copper mug. The ... Views: 2786
A big challenge in life is to fix the broken realities you don’t like and to create newer and better ones you want. Unfortunately this is much easier thought about in our heads than done with our hands. Most of us are still stuck trying to deal with undesirable realities that are getting in the ... Views: 715
I cringed at every loaded word in the title of Dale Carnegie’s celebrated book, How to Win Friends and Influence People! My mother—God bless her!—made me take the Dale Carnegie Training forty years ago when I was in junior high school. The idea that I had to change myself to “win” friends and ... Views: 1040
Did you know you can speed-listen to 60 minutes of audio in 30 minutes or less with full comprehension using special speed-listening software? You can even go faster with a little practice and blast through an hour of audio learning in 20 minutes or less saving you hours and hours of time.
If ... Views: 572
Each of us is endowed with an amazing gift. This gift is our physical body. In and of itself, the physical body can consume a life time of study and experimentation, and still we will remain ignorant of many of its mysteries. The physical body is our first fascination when we are infants. We ... Views: 2681
The First Time I "Covered" a Firewalk
Founder / Producer / Host
at News for the Soul:
www.newsforthesoul.com
I peeled down the deserted country road - my head a ball of puffy brown hair in the wind as I guided a sea blue convertible - top down ~ tunes up - toward my south ... Views: 1617
In your opinion, what is the single biggest reason many people don’t achieve what they are capable of? Is it because they don’t work hard enough? Maybe. Is it because they don’t have written goals and therefore have no idea were they really want to go? Yes, sometimes, but the biggest monster in ... Views: 1264
What are we all searching for in our lives? Life is not a search for happiness. You don't have to search for happiness, live your life the right way and happiness will be your reward. True happiness is always the by-product of a life well lived. We will also find happiness when we learn to get ... Views: 663
Oprahbama, the big O's, Oprah and the Obamas – sounds like a rock band on a road trip. As Oprah hit the campaign trail recently, her candidate played the celebrity card and the female fan base responded. When you need it, the value of support simply cannot be overestimated.
Oprah is a ... Views: 744
This is a question all of us might ask ourselves or others at least once. The real answer is that it is so much better to shop online for many reasons. Let’s list a few great reasons as to why the Internet is a better way of shopping.
1. When you go shopping at a mall you first have to get ... Views: 808
Using Conflict to Strengthen Your Relationships
Many of us have it in our heads that conflict with members of the opposite sex is a bad thing.
After all, we women are supposed to be demure, accommodating, and agreeable in order to be attractive, desirable, and appealing to men.
True?
False. ... Views: 552
Are you strapped for time? You can get small things out of the way, but don't have time for those big projects until the weekend; so what can you do to fill in those spaces of time and help keep your home controlled of clutter?
One minute or less projects to help keep your cleaning and ... Views: 1420
We humans don’t have much patience any more… not that we ever really had a lot of it, but technology has increasingly enabled us to practice our dysfunctionality with quite a flair. For example, people are checking their voice messages and mail while driving. Instead of exercising with a ... Views: 2421
Have you ever heard someone say you must take inspired action, especially in law of attraction circles, and wondered just what it meant? Inspired action means that it is action that is directed by your higher self, God, the universe or whatever you want to call the super intelligence, which ... Views: 1566
The most important gifts are not those that you can hold in your hand.
These, in their purest form, are simply an outward representation of the gifts that are the most lasting: the gifts of Time, Attention, Thought, Caring, Peace of Mind, True Friendship, Acceptance, Patience, Tolerance, ... Views: 998
It was the ancient Greek philosopher, Heraclitus, who said, “You cannot step into the same river twice.” By this, Heraclitus meant that permanence is an illusion. There is a constant in the universe and that is change. Nothing is permanent and the entire universe is in a constant state of flux ... Views: 8007
"Celebrate life's events"
So, I decided to focus on this topic this week because it is my sister's 35th birthday on Wednesday. Tami, Happy Birthday! As we get older, it is easy to push celebrations aside for more "important" things in life. I remember many birthdays over the past ... Views: 1047
"The meaning of our existence is not invented by ourselves, but rather detected." - Victor Frankl
There comes a time in life when we stop trying to play and start focusing on our life goals. For some, this happens very early. Sadly, others will never recognize this revelation no matter how ... Views: 1930
Sanity Savers for the Holidays
Sanity Saver#1. Remember What’s Important.
Remind your family members about what the true meaning of the holiday’s are, compassion, generosity of spirit, gratitude and giving. Suggest a gift exchange in which each family member randomly chooses someone for whom ... Views: 1074
Let’s not waste our time not making decisions when we are out there in the executive world.
What are some of the steps we can take in making great decisions?
We have all spent years and years teaching some of the most effective and successful executives on the planet how to make quality ... Views: 901
It's a day at a time life. That's the only way to live. Think about it yesterday is gone, tomorrow in not here . So, what do you have? Even if you have to take it a minute at a time, enjoy it, stop being so hard on yourself. When doors close, lets open the new one's. Just remember your not ... Views: 593
Most people think that procrastination is just an annoying or funny habit. They might joke that they have a mile-long to-do list or a stack of books that they never get around to reading. Those examples would be a very mild form of procrastination - but it can get much more serious than ... Views: 574
Most of us use the New Year as a time to take stock of our lives. The break over Christmas gives us a bit of a breathing space between the turkey, mince pies and the round of jollity. Many of us make promises that we convince ourselves we’ll try to keep this time. Those more cynical simply ... Views: 658
Every success starts with a decision. The biggest waste of time, the biggest waste of life, for most people is the decision they need to make but haven’t made because they can’t make up their mind.
There is power in a made-up mind. Every one of us is a decision maker. We have 50,000 ... Views: 758
It's often said that the first step to getting what you want is knowing exactly what it is that you want.
But, once you have a clear objective in mind (whether it's a new career path or a personal goal), you need to figure out the simplest and most effective way to achieve it.
That means ... Views: 498
"Don't just do something, sit there." This could be a slogan in my messages from the universe lately.
I was at the computer tonight, when suddenly my office (and entire building) went black. I carefully groped my way down stairs, found matches, a candle. I was planning on writing and ... Views: 2159
Is self care selfish? Is having fun irresponsible? Or are these ways to make a positive difference in the world? I'm feeling newly inspired by a little book, Your Life is Your Message by Eknath Easwaran. (This title was inspired by the author's hero, Mahatma Ghandi.) He tackles the grand agendas ... Views: 671
If you answer yes to any of these ten questions, you may be
a victim of low self-esteem...
1. Are you afraid to take risks?
2. Do you usually anticipate the worst in any given situation and fear the outcome?
3. Do you simply fear the unknown?
4. Do you worry so much about what others ... Views: 2244
There are a few mistakes that most people make when working with the law of attraction, and most people make them right from the start. Knowing about these mistakes can help you avoid getting little to no results with the law of attraction. Here are the biggest mistakes people make.
1. Testing ... Views: 4847
I have gotten pretty good at noticing when my body is in need of some down time. Especially this time of year, with all of the parties, shopping, and family get togethers, it's crucial to stop every now and then and just let your body relax. We all get so consumed with work, family and ... Views: 913
Bamboo has become a boom product during the past few years after it was once given scant regard in the western world. While most wouldn't consider decorating an entire room with bamboo products, it's appeal lays in it's ability to lighten up a room or give it a touch of the exotics.
While ... Views: 1999
Open Your Wallet!
We are writing this because we want you to open up your wallet and start giving. We want you to open up your heart and start living. We want you to put your wealth in flow, so your world can grow.
When you give it away, it multiplies. Every gift you give comes back to you ... Views: 933
It seems cliché to say the most important question you will ever ask yourself is “Who am I ?” It is the question that has led to a thousand self help books yet do we ever have the courage to sit naked in the truth of our identity?
Often it is easier to create an illusion of who we are based ... Views: 1256
To many car interested people, the thought of buying a pre owned luxury car is out of the question. But for those of us who may not have the capital to purchase a brand new luxury car, a pre owned vehicle is the only option available. And when it comes to the wish of owning a luxury car, ... Views: 668
Yep, folks, it’s that time again--a time to set resolutions which we seem to assume we won’t keep, a time to think about really getting the job of our dreams. Here are some ideas/steps for making 2008 the best year of your career. So, why not take 2-3 hours to think about how you can ... Views: 1168
Another contribution that can outlive you is your role in politics and social activism. Leadership is needed in our world now as never before.
Gandhi became immortal through guiding India to freedom from British rule.
Churchill became immortal for inspiring the British people to courage during ... Views: 819
Do you have the desire to be a substitute teacher? Do you think substitute teaching is easy?
I was a substitute teacher for five years and worked for two school districts in St. Louis, Missouri. Substitute teaching can be rewarding; however, it is very challenging.
If you mess up, the ... Views: 868
Are you looking for solutions to a problem? Here are five steps for problem solving that will make this task easy and effective.
Set Aside Time
Find an hour or two where you can focus on problem solving without distractions. It is important to chose a time when you are most alert and ... Views: 942
Why do you need to record the computer?
"What's wrong with my computer/this tool?" When you have problems of trying new applications or system, and have no idea of how to describe what happened on your computer, you may need a tool to mirror your operations, and then send it to a computer guru ... Views: 732
Angel figurines are popular items. Collectors fill their homes with shelves of ceramic and wooden angels, pictures are hung over the doorways that read, "This house is protected by Angels!" and key chains are given as gifts that plead, "Never drive faster than your guardian angel can fly!" The ... Views: 898
Now that you have distanced yourself and learned how to edit images internally, it’s time close the distance to the image you fear to see how you did.
This should be done one step at a time.
First, move from the third to the second position. Go down from the blimp to the bleachers or from the ... Views: 676
Implementation is the key to making your dreams come true. It's what separates the sort of successful from the super successful.
However, a lot of people have trouble with implementation because they let self-sabotaging behaviors get in the way of their best intentions. Below is a list of ... Views: 1170
Just about everyone has heard, and most people agree to some extent, that goal setting is a great way to get yourself where you want to go in life. If you feel you can’t seem to reach the life you know you were born to lead, then effective goals can be a great motivating force.
As you ... Views: 473
I’ve worked with Toyota and helped with consulting and moving their factories. They work at an unbelievable speed because they are totally focused on one thing, which is the principle of kaizen: constant, never-ending improvement all the time every day.
In other companies an employee has ... Views: 683