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- Resistance Is Futile - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2008 from Anthony CappelloI'm sure just about everyone out there has heard the term "resistance is futile". This doesn't just apply to war cries, but to our thoughts and emotions as well. Most of us try to avoid our "bad" feelings and emotions by methods such as running from them, stuffing them back down or repressing ...
Views: 1283 - The Power9: Getting Started With Our Longevity Secrets - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2008 from Dan BuettnerIn my book, The Blue Zone, I reveal the secrets of the Power9: the nine common denominators that all of the world’s longevity all-stars share. Here at BlueZones.com, we've organized these behaviors into four main categories: Move Naturally – Make your home, community and workplace ...
Views: 686 - Choosing Your Computer - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2008 from Mira RaduWhen you are off to buy a computer you probably already know what you need and want it to do. If you need it for business or you need it so you can work from home you probably know that your computer needs word processors, databases, and some spreadsheet software. If you are searching for a ...
Views: 1248 - How To Feel True Fulfilment - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2008 from Gina GardinerI wonder if you feel truly fulfilled? Do you look forward every day with glorious anticipation to the day ahead? Does your heart sink at the thought of what the next day will bring? Do you love bits of your life and wish that the rest of your life matched up? I believe that living a ...
Views: 1006 - Three Tips For Making Positive Change In Your Life - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2008 from Kelly RobbinsAre you sick of the status quo? Perhaps you are unhappy with your job...still. Maybe your copywriting business hasn't grown as fast as you expected. Or maybe you don't have the relationship you always dreamed of with your spouse or significant other. If you've experienced the same problems ...
Views: 1407(1 vote) - Is Having Fun Hard for You? - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2008 from Jane MorrisonIt’s a crazy question isn’t it...when given the choice to have fun or not, wouldn't it be crazy to let the opportunity for fun slip through your fingers? Not for me...you see, “denying myself fun” was something I was prone to do and could justify on many levels. Reasons (and excuses) to say ...
Views: 804 - I'm Happy, What's Up With You - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2008 from croz crossleyThis is quite long, but I think there may be some Aha's in there Here goes!! It is really funny when you think that someone has everything under control, and then you hear various comments from their family that obviously indicate that things are far from OK. We all look at other peoples ...
Views: 1071 - From Scarcity To Abundance - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2008 from Ellen BessoIf you wear blue glasses, everything you see looks bluish. If you wear scarce or limited glasses, the world seems that way to you and you think, emote and act that way.” Frederick Mann This works the same way in reverse: When we wear abundance glasses, we view the world as a place where ...
Views: 1146 - Cut And Paste A New Life For Yourself - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2008 from Ellen BessoLife doesn’t have to be a struggle. Life doesn’t have to be a race down the fast lane. I know, you’ve probably heard that before, but that doesn’t negate it. By cutting here, pasting there, snipping here, you can cobble together a life that uplifts you more. Please take ...
Views: 1169 - Nature’s Healing Power: How Nature Can Cure Negative Emotions - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2008 from Hale DwoskinTake a deep breath of fresh spring air, or feel the sun’s warmth on your face, and you will begin to experience nature’s unique ability to make you feel good. But nature’s impact is much more than skin deep. “Nature is beyond your mind,” says Hale Dwoskin, CEO and Director of Training at ...
Views: 1135(1 vote) - 7 Essential Habits For Loving Your Life - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2008 from Cherry NorrisLast summer I received an e-mail from my cousin titled, "5 Essential Habits to Protect Your Most Essential Commodity...YOU." (The author wasn't mentioned, although they referenced the Girl Scouts.) At the time, I was "releasing a toleration" in my life and this article hit home. It validated ...
Views: 1170 - 5 Questions hatT Will Help You Attract Like A Magnet! - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2008 from Cari Vollmer*I know some of you reading this article are not solopreneurs but that's O.K. Simply replace "turn your passions into profit" with anything else you want...new career, love, etc! It all works the same! Get to Know Your Brilliant SELF Better! The first and most important thing you must do to ...
Views: 1097 - A Hurricane Happy Ending - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2008 from Karen HallMy friend Grace is originally from San Antonio, Texas, but spent much of her childhood in Mexico, where her stepfather worked in the oil business. She recalls that once as a hurricane approached their home in Tampico, her stepfather put Grace and her mother on a plane to San Antonio, while he ...
Views: 780 - How To Make Better Decisions - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2008 from Jane MatthewsBlack trousers or brown trousers? Chicken or beef? If only all the decisions we have to make were so trivial – and came with a guarantee that the world won't end if we make the wrong choice. From what we eat, wear and watch to how we live, love and work, we have more choices than any ...
Views: 829 - Set Yourself Apart From Other Job Applicants - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2009 from Todd HicksHave you heard the phrase that says, “The cream rises to the top?” Do you love root beer floats, or drinks that are composed of ice cream on top of root beer? You can be “the cream that rises to the top” in your job search by doing things that will set you apart from others who are looking for ...
Views: 1496 - 10 Ways To Show Empathy When Listening - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2008 from Rebecca RengoWe all want to be listened to, to be heard. When we are hurting we want others to understand and be there for us. Unfortunately, many people do not know how to be empathetic or compassionate. They may mean well and don’t show it. Or what seems like a big issue to you does not seem that ...
Views: 9824 - Is It A "Should" Or Is It A "Wow?" - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2008 from Reggie OdomWhere are you trying to make something work that doesn’t work? You might recognize it by how much time you spend looking at it, this way and that way, and then this way and that way again – trying to see something that isn’t there, feel something that you want to ...
Views: 749(1 vote) - How To Live A Positive Life - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2008 from Capri JonesAs we go about our day to day lives it is easy to fall into negative routines. Let's face it, the daily grind is not so full of inspiration. So how can we bring sense of the new into our lives to stay excited and positive? Personal development can help. By evaluating what is lacking in your life ...
Views: 1266(2 votes) - Train Your Mind To Be Successful and You Will Be - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2008 from Anthony CappelloWe all know that there are many avenues which will bring about success. One of the main obstacles is actually choosing something to undertake and putting all of your effort into achieving it. This is perhaps the most important step if you are to become successful. But what if you found something ...
Views: 1568 - Self-Love Empowers You - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggWhen you think of personal empowerment, you probably think of qualities like strength, confidence, courage and tenacity – but did you know that self-love is also an important aspect of empowerment? When you truly love yourself . . . • You treat yourself with respect and ...
Views: 841 - Knowledge is Power - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggPart of being an empowered person is having intimate knowledge and awareness of yourself as an individual, including your strengths, talents, weaknesses, capabilities and limitations. How well do you know yourself? You’d be surprised how many people don’t know themselves at all! ...
Views: 874(2 votes) - Forgiveness and Empowerment - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggOne stumbling block that can prevent you from feeling empowered is the inability to forgive – both others and yourself. Disempowerment often contributes to a self-image of weakness and powerlessness, which makes it difficult to forgive others for hurting or betraying you - or forgiving ...
Views: 877 - Empowerment in Relationshipss - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggPersonal empowerment often plays a big role in the quality of your relationships because of the beliefs and behaviors you express in your interactions with others. If you’ve ever expected a relationship to somehow “complete” you or make you feel strong or whole, you probably ...
Views: 1083 - Empower Yourself with Positive Self-Talk - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggThe way you speak to yourself mentally and verbally has a powerful impact on your self-image. Berating or belittling yourself, minimizing your achievements or doubting your capabilities will most definitely create a sense of disempowerment, limiting your potential in virtually every aspect of ...
Views: 946(2 votes) - Three Ways to Empower Yourself - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggWhen you’re feeling unsure of yourself or your capabilities, your options in life can seem few and far between. Not only do you have trouble recognizing opportunities to improve your life, you also resist taking action and end up feeling stuck and defeated much of the time. Empowering ...
Views: 1267 - How to Set Personal Boundaries - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggLiving your life as an empowered person often requires the placement of boundaries – invisible “lines” across which you will not allow people or events to infringe upon your time or resources. When you have clear inner boundaries in place, you know where you stand and ...
Views: 1219 - Exercising Your Right to Choose - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggWhen it comes to making decisions, a chronic sense of disempowerment often results in feelings of helplessness or hopelessness that can affect the choices you make and determine your quality of life. When you live your life as a disempowered person, you often feel like the majority of your ...
Views: 842 - Empowerment and Fear - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggDo you ever allow fearful thoughts to erode your confidence and diminish your sense of empowerment? It’s a common trend for many people, and when you’re stuck in the midst of fear and uncertainty it can seem like an impossible task to pull yourself out of it. However, fear and ...
Views: 1326 - Monotone- Recasting Vision For Your Life - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2008 from Josh PerezWho do you think of when you picture someone talking in monotone? I personally think of Ben Stein who did the Clear Eyes commercials a few years back. His voice remained at the same tone throughout the commercial. He did not show any excitement whatsoever in the product he was selling. He was ...
Views: 1065 - "Alternative Notions Of Life, A Different Path (2): Trying Too Hard?" - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2008 from Carl Pantejo“Prosperity: The eternal flow of all that’s good in life…” *Below is the second in a series of articles based on real life events experienced by the author. The only deviations from the truth may be the names of people and places. These stories are also incorporated ...
Views: 763 - Great Philosophies That Apply To Education - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2009 from Todd HicksEverything has a philosophy that can be applied to it. You can put your own spin on any event you encounter in your personal life. How about applying philosophies to your education? It is something that is very important; therefore, you should look for various ways to get the most out of your ...
Views: 734 - The Tao Of Positive Expectations - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2008 from Keith VarnumBe realistic. Expect a miracle! - Rajneesh How much do our expectations have to do with what happens in our life? Everything! Way more than most people give themselves credit for! The “Tao” means the Way of Nature, the Way of the Universe—the way things work. The Tao of Positive ...
Views: 1179 - Addiction - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2008 from steven giacaloneHeroin: Addiction and Treatment Heroin Information Heroin is a highly addictive drug, and its use is a serious problem in America. Current estimates suggest that nearly 600,000 people need treatment for heroin addiction. Recent studies suggest a shift from injecting heroin to snorting or ...
Views: 552 - Eliot Spitzer: A Lesson For All Of Us - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2008 from Harold Duarte-BernhardtThe Spitzer tornado has kept the media and political circles busy for the last few days. Mr. Spitzer’s fall from grace has wider implications than his immediate legal and personal troubles. (Though these are huge problems for him.) Each interest group has an interpretation of Mr. ...
Views: 1637 - Dreams Unlimited... - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2008 from nikhil joshi“You see things and you say-‘why?’, but I dream things that never were; and say-‘why not?’” George Bernard Shaw (in ‘Back to Methuselah’) Dare to dream….and dream to dare in life. Gandhi dared to dream to give British a strong fight of non-violence and history knows what happened afterwards. ...
Views: 1054 - To Risk Or Not To Risk? - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2008 from Reggie OdomThis is a BIG question. Should I enter this relationship? Should I marry this man? Should I take a new job? Should I move to a different city? What if I fail? What if I look stupid? What if I loose money? What if I can't survive? (If you're asking this question, it's probably best NOT to take ...
Views: 694 - Emergency Supplies Everyone Needs Inside Their Vehicle - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2010 from Marilyn BohnThis winter I went to a neighboring city for the day. When I left home it was partly sunny and I thought a light sweater would be enough to wear for the day. At the last minute I did take my jacket. In two hours time the weather changed to blizzard conditions. It was snowing, blowing, and the ...
Views: 1264 - Lighthearted Happiness - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggAre you yearning for a greater sense of happiness in your life but feel weighed down by problems? If so, try adopting an attitude of lightheartedness and watch how quickly it can inject an element of fun and whimsy into your life. Here are three simple ways to do it: 1) Play. Most of ...
Views: 1096 - Happiness In Giving - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggThere are many ways to create a greater sense of happiness in your life, but one of the simplest and most powerful is by giving to others. Why does giving to others make you feel happier? • You minimize your own troubles. Focusing on what you can do for people in need is a great way ...
Views: 884 - Gratitude And Happiness - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggA daily practice of gratitude can help keep you feeling happy more often, simply because gratitude smoothes the rough edges in your life and keeps you focused on the good stuff, rather than obsessing about things that might detract from your sense of happiness. Below you’ll find three ...
Views: 874 - Balanced Happiness - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggWhen striving to create a greater sense of happiness in your life, the power of living a balanced life should not be overlooked. An unbalanced, chaotic lifestyle is one sure way to create stress, fear and dissatisfaction in all areas of your life, and ultimately contribute to an overwhelming ...
Views: 888 - 6 Great Concentration Exercises - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2008 from Greg FrostIt is not easy to concentrate especially when we are surrounded by distractions, such as the people around us, the hum of the computer, or other background noises. In order to achieve greater concentration, we need to have a strong will in order to block out all other distractions except for the ...
Views: 849 - Visualize The Possibilities - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggIf you’ve ever felt stuck and unsure what to do to improve your life, you’re familiar with the challenge of being short on possibilities! Most often when this happens you’re not really short on possibilities, but rather your mind isn’t open to seeing the possibilities ...
Views: 963 - Using Visualization To Change Limiting Beliefs - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggIt’s easy to overlook the power of limiting beliefs and spend years wondering why you can’t seem to move forward and make lasting changes in your life. Though you might have grand dreams of living a better life, limiting beliefs will keep prodding you to act in ways that are ...
Views: 926 - Envision A Better Future - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggVisualization can be a powerful tool to help you improve your current circumstances, but it can also help you to be more purposeful about moving toward a brighter future. This can be especially effective if you often feel nervous, anxious or doubtful about your ability to improve your ...
Views: 910 - Visualize a Higher Purpose - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggDo you ever feel uncertain about your purpose in life, or wonder if there’s something more you should be doing? Feelings like this are common, and many people aren’t sure how to handle them. They can search for years for a sense of purpose and meaning – or worse, live their ...
Views: 851 - Using Visualization for Stress Relief - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from iain leggVisualization can be a powerful tool to help you improve your life circumstances, but it can also serve as a handy technique for transforming stress and anxiety into peace, happiness and confidence! Stress and anxiety can quickly become a vicious cycle that keep you feeling powerless and ...
Views: 847 - Outsourcing Is Picking Pace - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2008 from Geet SinghBPO or Business Process Outsourcing is a very common and mushrooming phenomenon these days. BPO can be defined as the accomplishment of a business task from some outside agency. For instance a company can ask or hire an external agency to maintain its old records and accounts. The phenomenon of ...
Views: 670 - Three Gateways To Freedom - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2008 from E. (anagarika eddie) Raymond RockThese very special gateways are usually spurned by just about everybody. When the gateways conspicuously pop up in our lives, as they regularly do, we do back-flips to avoid them. They are distasteful, in some ways frightening, and make us feel absolutely miserable. So why bother discussing them ...
Views: 583 - Migration Motivators - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2008 from Nick JaySo What’s Your Motive for Migrating? Being motivated and having clear goals will certainly help you on your way to being successful in your new life in Australia. The only trouble is when it comes to identifying our motives we seem to get a little confused and tend to look back at what ...
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