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Personal development
The Seven Deadly Realities are like the weeds in the garden of our mind.
Why Do We Need To Learn About Human Behavior and the Seven Deadly Realities?
If personal development is like a garden, books are like the tools that we use to tend to our crops. The book Mastery, ... Views: 1239
Transforming Stress in to Ease and Empowerment
Is your life feeling hectic and stressful? Are you someone who tries to please everyone? Are you one of the many who feels responsible for everything and is therefore busy all the time? People complain they have no time for themselves or even ... Views: 1239
I was out with friends for dinner and when we decided it was too early to call it quits, we went to a dance club adjacent to the restaurant for a drink. While we walked over, we laughed as we recalled our previous experiences in clubs. When walked in, we were stunned to find that we felt ... Views: 1239
You are just a pebble that washed up on the beach. You glisten in the sunshine and it reveals your sparkle and uniqueness. You are just one on a beach filled with millions. You can be found in streams, rivers, lakes and oceans. Wherever you are someone is always drawn to you. You are a ... Views: 1239
It's that time of year again when we start talking and thinking about New Year's Resolutions even though they're old hat and we instinctively know they don't work. Because your friends, family and colleagues may chat about what Resolutions they're going to make, do you find yourself wondering ... Views: 1238
When most people go grocery shopping, they will purchase enough food for a few days or perhaps a week. However, there may be many instances when one week of food is simply not enough for the family, and it may be difficult or impossible to visit the grocery store to purchase more food for a ... Views: 1238
Women in Love
In his poem Don Juan, Byron said; “Man's love is of man's life a thing apart, 'Tis woman's whole existence.”
For many women, this statement is mildly offensive. Sick of being branded as irrational, over-emotional and easily swayed by love, any woman who reckons she’s got her ... Views: 1238
Dear friend, if trying to maintain balance in your life makes you feel like a tightrope walker, you’re not alone. Most of us have so many demands on our time and energy; life can feel like a three-ring circus. Take this quiz to see how well you are meeting responsibilities, while also ... Views: 1238
Have you gone through the Netgear N300 setup successfully but still it won’t connect to your WiFi network? Relax! Don’t bang your head! Here, in this article, we will make you familiar with some proven Netgear extender troubleshooting tactics to fix N300 not connecting to the internet issue. ... Views: 1238
Dear friend,
Is it that you are always confused when you have to take a decision to gift someone either for their birthday or anniversary?
Do you have a tough time in taking the right decision in finding the appropriate gift for them?
Do you fail to understand what shall be the best ... Views: 1238
The stresses and strains of modern living, combined with the ubiquity of the computer, cell phone, blackberry etc., seem to draw us in, collapsing us forward and down and giving us a one version of 'bad posture' (another version of bad posture would be sitting up rigidly straight. It doesn't ... Views: 1237
Every time when you want to cook something very delicious, you do not do it, because it smells too bad. Well, when you read the article you will be able to cook whatever you want. You will learn how to get rid of those smells, which bother the members of your family.
Do you know, which are ... Views: 1237
Everyone has critical skills and knowledge that are important to many other people in the company.
Use Better Titles for Each Person
Some years ago, when I started in business, the job of the receptionist was to answer the telephone and direct the callers to the appropriate people. Today, ... Views: 1237
Lately I have been thinking a lot about the concept of entitlement -- that feeling so many of us have that we are owed something, that we have rights or deserve something to be the way we think it should be. Think of the times you have thought or had someone say to you:
• “I deserve to be ... Views: 1237
A gentleman is a chivalrous, courteous, honorable man, according to the dictionary. You may think gentlemen are people from the past, but thoughtfulness never goes out of style. Basically, a gentleman is considerate of others, and that’s something to which anyone of any age should aspire. Here ... Views: 1237
I've been thinking a lot about success and achievement lately.
I've come to believe that our success is not something that
“just happens”. Our success or lack of success is a direct result of the decisions we make.
If we want to become wealthy, we must make wealthy decisions.
If we want to ... Views: 1237
What is it?
What does it mean?
What does it involve?
No one ever told me what being a mother actually meant. I observed my Mother but could feel her distance at times… I could sense her feelings of lack and doubt even though we were more than comfortable and provided for. Sometimes I ... Views: 1237
Most successful and beneficial relationships include an element of trust. Expecting loyalty, reliability and trustworthiness you assume that the other person will do what they say, that their word can be relied upon and that promises, commitments and agreements will be kept. When trust is ... Views: 1237
Another year passes by and I'm wondering; what the heck are we doing with society, this planet and the people on it? If this is the era of plenty and so much for so many, why are millions living in poverty or starving? As we gobble up natural resources and dump massive amounts of waste into our ... Views: 1237
You become fed up with your old mobile and want to buy a new phone with advanced features like S9. If you are using the branded mobile for the first time, then you can face many problems. Most of the people want to transfer their old files, apps settings to the new android mobile which they can ... Views: 1237
Latest discoveries for sugar free anxiety foods low fat recipes and diets loaded with nutrition over 100 sugar free recipes.Today's modern diets are filled with processed foods, saturated fats, sodium, and simple carbohydrates.
While these foods might be convenient they also contain toxins ... Views: 1236
The alarm rings, the day calls. You get up but are half-asleep. You start doing your morning rituals. One of them is brushing your teeth. In your half-asleep state, you open the tap of the bathroom sink. A while later you see water filling up your bathroom sink! Now, you are wide awake! Worry ... Views: 1236
Mind manipulation techniques are not only prevalent on TV shows or in movies. In fact, many people today make use of mind manipulation techniques to force an individual to do something against their will.
In order for you to avoid being controlled by these mind manipulation techniques, you ... Views: 1236
Occasionally I watch various TV shows where people display their talents. Inside each person was a level of nervousness. Sadly, I felt that some were judged by the way they looked before they even displayed their talent. Not every show displayed this, but there were some.
It is sad that some ... Views: 1236
Get up; go to work; shop; cook; clean, spend time with your family, go to sleep; wake up again the next day and do it all over again. No wonder you can't find time to get organized!
Here are some tips that will help you save time and create space in your busy life to make needed ... Views: 1236
What drives me to write my books and my blog is a consistent reaction I have when I see the eyes of people who think they are imprisoned by their lives. Mind you, these folks almost never say that they are imprisoned and I suspect that most of them would vehemently deny it if you asked them out ... Views: 1236
No one, regardless of class, profession, or location, can say that the current financial crisis is not having an impact on them. Yet, when I say to people that we need to repair our relationships with money first, they just look a bit uncomfortable and shrug their shoulders.
A while back, an ... Views: 1235
There is no question that many owners of power wheelchairs likely do not consider their personal mobility vehicles to be intended for use on the public roads, and because this assumption is true in general, owners of such mobility vehicles (along with personal mobility scooter owners) are not ... Views: 1235
I’m BORED !
I hear this from time to time from the few friends I have left who have survived living with HIV/AIDS. I have survived taking meds since 1986.
And, yes, at times, I have said the same thing myself - I am BORED. When in fact, in my mind, I was simply lazy.
It seemed easier to be ... Views: 1235
One of my early mentors, Thomas Leonard, advised people not to try to improve a weakness. He said that, when you try to improve a weakness, the only thing you get is “a stronger weakness.” I believe that is true. It is more important to focus on your strengths and maximize what you do well than ... Views: 1235
My mom had a dream when she was young. She wanted to be a surgical nurse.
Mom grew up as a middle child in a large family. Her family lived in the boonies and had little money. Her dad was a boat captain and was away all week. All of the children worked hard to take care of what little they ... Views: 1235
If seeds are sown at an apt hour there is a high possibility of getting a very good harvest. Seeds of corn, wheat etc sown at the start of monsoon season get the opportunity of growing in thousands of more such grain. If we miss this optimal time and sow the same seeds in other seasons, the ... Views: 1235
Recently singer Sarah Marie kidnapped me.
If you’re going to be kidnapped, she’s the way to go.
We sometimes meet for coffee, and talk about everything from guitars and music to movies and dreams. We also “Nevillize” each others’ goals. She’s part of my support team for creating my own ... Views: 1235
Are you still hoping and waiting for someone somewhere to come to your rescue, wave a magic wand and instantaneously change your life for the better?
Are you praying that you will one day win the lottery and dramatically alter the financial quality of your life?
Are you sitting behind your ... Views: 1234
Whether you are looking for a simple saddle rack or one for several saddles and storage, Schneider’s Saddlery has what you are looking for.
Some barns have special rooms where all the riders and boarders keep their tack. Having an organized and clean tack room is essential for any barn. A lot ... Views: 1234
Our mind seems to wander on its own, seeming to escape our abilities to tame it. How do we go about harnessing our thoughts and controlling our mind so that we can be present? This is a very good question and one that many have tried to answer. But there is no one answer, for it really comes ... Views: 1234
Whatever behavior we praise we encourage to flourish in others – especially when they are around us. Whatever we criticize or “simply” snub goes deeper into their consciousness however. Hint: Speak to their positive intent, especially when it appears they may have none. That may be the best way ... Views: 1234
I.M. Heart came as a soft whisper one morning as I was barely awake. It was one of those whispers that you think you’ve dreamt about – and yet the word hangs in your semi-consciousness. It’s as if a messenger is trying to tell you, “Come on, it’s important for you ... Views: 1234
Regular readers of my blog know that I have expressed a good deal of thought on the topics of change and transition over the previous months. The words are used so interchangeably that it is easy to believe that they are one in the same thing. However, while related they truly are not. As I ... Views: 1234
Exploitation of the workers?
In a free and democratic society it is actually impossible to "exploit" workers. There is always a willing buyer/willing seller principle in action. The one harsh reality of a democratic society is that "Market Forces" rule. What the market thinks your services are ... Views: 1233
Printers are required for all kinds of institutions where paper work is compulsory. It isn’t only required for professional purposes but is meant for professional use too. For printers, it is simple to copy documents from computers and these get ready within no time. Inkjet printer is the most ... Views: 1233
At these times, I think all of us are aware of the hazards associated with carbon monoxide and natural gases, yet another kind of chemical gas that is actually a component of various products due to its low-priced value, is hazardous as well. Formaldehyde is the name of this gas compound. In ... Views: 1233
Throughout all of our lives we will say or do things that will cause great regret. These things may be said or done in the "heat of the moment" or while "temporarily suspended" from who we really are (i.e. under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol). The regret we feel may come instantly or ... Views: 1233
According to a recent poll 20% of the population are chronic procrastinators, does the following sound familiar:
…making a decision for no valid reason to delay or not complete a task or goal you’ve committed too, and instead doing something of lesser importance,despite there being negative ... Views: 1233
When people think about pursuing something, they usually first take a look at their resources to determine whether or not they can do it. That is a wise thing to do.
But where most people fail in this process is when they look at their resources to determine whether or not they can do it, they ... Views: 1233
Buying the best home appliances is never easy, which applies too when you are looking for a coffee grinder. However, things can be simplified if you plan properly, and if you think about the considerations that you have to make when you buy a coffee grinder.
First of all, you have to decide ... Views: 1232
Consumers Reports recently named Jenny Craig as the number one diet in America. Disbelief reigned throughout the diet community once this assertion hit the media. More egregious was those who came in second and third, Slim Fast and Weight Watchers. The other top programs were a combination of ... Views: 1232
'Have you read the Art of War?' someone asked me once. Fighting someone to get your way is definitely a valid strategy. But you don't need me to tell you about that one - we've all been arguing and manipulating to get our own way since we were born! And you may have noticed - often when you ... Views: 1232
How I wish that more people had the knowledge they needed to be healthy, have healthy children and grow to enjoy a ripe old age. But more than that I wish that it wasn’t necessary for you to need this knowledge, that when you ate a meal it would be full of nutrition and life giving energy. I ... Views: 1232