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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- ***When To Compromise…And When Not To Compromise - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2014 from Margaret PaulDiscover when compromise is healthy and when it's self-abandoning. Compromise! What does this word conjure up for you? Is it is a positive or negative word for you? Does it bring up a sense of loving resolution, or a sense of losing yourself and losing your integrity? When you think about ...
Views: 1099 - ***When You Are Being Nice, Are You Loving Or Controlling? - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2016 from Margaret PaulBy Margaret Paul, Ph.D. March 21, 2016 ________________________________________ There can be a big difference in intent between being nice and being loving. Being nice might be manipulative, while being loving means being authentic. ________________________________________ Our ...
Views: 1472 - ***When You Love Yourself, You Love Others - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2015 from Margaret PaulAre you being selfish if you do what brings you joy, even if others don't like it? Do you feel trapped, believing you can't really take loving care of yourself without being unloving to others? One of the questions I often hear from my clients is, "If I take care of myself and do what brings ...
Views: 1596 - ***Where Did The Passion Go? - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2013 from Margaret PaulDo you love your partner but find that the intensity and intimacy have become muted? Discover why. Patti asked the following question in one of my webinars on sexuality: I am now going out with the man of my dreams. I have wanted to be in relationship with him for so long. We used ...
Views: 1557 - ***Where Kindness Comes From - by Submitted on Aug 15, 2014 from Margaret PaulDo you allow your natural kindness to shine forth? "Kindness is an inner desire that makes us want to do good things even if we do not get anything in return. It is the joy of our life to do them. When we do good things from this inner desire, there is kindness in everything we ...
Views: 1276 - ***Who Are You Attracting to Yourself? - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2014 from Margaret PaulAre you happy with who you are attracting into your life? "Everybody is like a magnet. You attract to yourself reflections of that which you are." Dr. David Hawkins, Psychiatrist, Physician and Researcher, author of Power vs. Force Are you happy with who you ...
Views: 1153 - ***Why Anger Arises in The Family (And How To Let It Go) - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2007 from Brenda ShoshannaThe family is the most common place for anger to erupt. It is also the place where the seeds of anger are sowed. When we live closely with others, when we are bonded to them, attached, dependent or vulnerable these individuals have the power to affect us deeply. In these relationships our ...
Views: 19872 - ***Why Can't I Commit? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2014 from Margaret PaulDo you have problems committing to a relationship, or are you involved with someone who has a fear of commitment? Louis wrote to me: "I have been dating an amazing girl, but recently ended it because I am not sure if she is good for me. Our relationship has ...
Views: 1279 - ***Why Do We Seek Approval? - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2011 from Margaret PaulMany years ago, I became aware of feeling anxious much of the time. Since this feeling had been with me as long as I could remember, it had seemed normal - until it stopped being okay with me. It stopped being okay when I went back to school to become a psychotherapist. I realized then that, ...
Views: 2885 - ***Why Have Animals In Your Life - by Submitted on May 15, 2015 from Margaret PaulDiscover the many good reasons for having animals in your life. “Until a person has loved an animal a part of the soul remains unawakened." ~Anatole France People who love animals know that there are many very good reasons to have animals in your life. Love and Presence Animals who ...
Views: 1499 - ***Why Loving Yourself Creates Sexual Passion With Your Partner - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2017 from Margaret PaulBy Margaret Paul, PhD February 13, 2017 Discover the great benefits to your relationship in learning to love yourself! What creates sexual passion? • First, there needs to be sexual chemistry between two people. Sexual chemistry can sustain passion for a while, but it isn't enough ...
Views: 1198 - ***Why Many Women Don't Think About Sex - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2012 from Margaret PaulAre you a woman who rarely or never thinks about sex? Have you believed that was something wrong with you? ________________________________________ Laverne wrote the following to me: "I have never had thoughts that picture me making love with my husband - or anyone else for that matter. I ...
Views: 1623 - ***Why Racism? - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2014 from Margaret PaulDiscover some of the underlying causes of racism and what is necessary to heal this scourge of our society. I do not pretend to be an expert on what causes a person to be a racist, but I would like to explore some ideas based on the principles of Inner Bonding. Those of you who have worked ...
Views: 1137 - ***Why We Take Things Personally - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2016 from Margaret PaulMargaret Paul, Ph.D. January 18, 2016 __________________________________________________________________ When others are mean or rejecting, do you tend to take their behavior personally? __________________________________________________________________ One of the biggest issues that ...
Views: 1551 - ***You Want A Relationship, But Are You Emotionally Unavailable? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2016 from Margaret PaulBy Margaret Paul, Ph.D. March 28, 2016 ________________________________________ Do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people or are you stuck in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable person? ________________________________________ Do you believe that you are fully ...
Views: 1399 - *Diffusing Anger Or Feeding The Flames - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2008 from Margaret PaulHave you ever had an argument with someone - a partner, spouse, close friend, child, parent or other relative, or a business associate - that started small and spiraled into an intense conflict? Have you ever scratched your head, wondering how it got so out of control? Let's take a look at what ...
Views: 2950 - *Emotional Intimacy - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2008 from Margaret PaulExperiencing emotional intimacy with others is one of the most satisfying experiences of life. Emotional intimacy, or a sense of deep connection with another person or a group of people, occurs when each person is completely open hearted and devoted to taking 100% responsibility for their own ...
Views: 2705 - *Relationships: The Power Of Good Will - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2008 from Margaret PaulResearch into good marriages indicates that the most important choice healthy couples make is to have good will toward each other. This may seems like a simple requirement, yet many couples have anything but good will toward each other. Instead, they make it far more important to: Attempt to ...
Views: 2956 - *The Greatest Gift - What Is It? - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2007 from Brenda ShoshannaThe greatest gift we can give one another in a relationship is our true selves – being who we are. For some this is not difficult, but for most it takes practice to take off the masks and become real. At first it can seem frightening to stop playing games, and just be. However, much of the ...
Views: 7077 - +91 9776190123-Love Vashikaran Specialist in India - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2020 from specialist astrologerGet the best love, marriage and family problem solution by vashikaran. Also know the real problem for your love life and get the immediate result for that problems by vashikaran. To improve all types of relationship status and to fix worst relations, vashikaran is very helpful. Vashikaran is a ...
Views: 609 - +91-8968620218 How to get back your girlfriend from another guy - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2020 from Rohit SharmaWhat do you do if you want your ex girlfriend back, but she has a new boyfriend and she hates you? If you've ever lost your ex-girlfriend to another guy, even if it seems impossible, it can be like a heartbeat. Just thinking about her with the other guy can tear you apart from top to bottom. But ...
Views: 766 - +91-8968620218 | How to remove Black magic with the help of black magic specialist in Bangalore - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2019 from Rohit SharmaAs we know that black magic a super natural power on this earth for get rid of your all problems in your life. many people want to know about Black Magic Removal Spell in their life. But firstly you need for proper knowledge about black magic. So I would like to tell you about prayer to remove ...
Views: 742 - --- Love Yourself: 30-Day Inner Bonding Experience - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2018 from Margaret PaulThe next 'Love Yourself' Course starts February 21, 2018. Are you ready to learn how to love yourself? Love Yourself: A 30-Day Home-Study Inner Bonding Experience with Dr. Margaret Paul, to self-heal anxiety, depression, guilt, shame, addictions and relationships. "I feel like I have ...
Views: 1081 - --- Love Yourself: 30-Day Inner Bonding Experience - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2018 from Margaret PaulThe next 'Love Yourself' Course starts February 21, 2018. Are you ready to learn how to love yourself? Love Yourself: A 30-Day Home-Study Inner Bonding Experience with Dr. Margaret Paul, to self-heal anxiety, depression, guilt, shame, addictions and relationships. "I feel like I have ...
Views: 1149 - ---Loving Yourself by Getting Organized - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2018 from Margaret Paul"Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone." - Pablo Picasso Do you struggle with: -Procrastination -Clutter -Overwhelm -Disorganization -Being late -Guilt over not getting things done or not following through with commitments -Anxiety over things ...
Views: 1093 - 1 Thing to Do as Soon as You Get Dumped - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2011 from Andrew HunterHave you been dumped lately? I know it can really hurt. I’ve been there myself. It can be truly agonizing to sit there, feeling while you’re life is falling apart. Maybe you are even haunted by all sorts of questions about why it happened. Well, here is a simple thing you can (and should) do ...
Views: 618 - 1 Vital Mistake You're Making If You Crave Affection From Your Husband - by Submitted on May 10, 2011 from Mika MaddelaMost married woman out there at one point wished their husbands gave them more attention and affection. It's pretty common for many women to feel as if they're not getting the love and attention that they deserve. Are you living with a man that seems more like your room mate than your husband? ...
Views: 12833 - 10 Benefits Of A Ministry to Strengthen Your Relationship - by Submitted on May 09, 2013 from Michael LoisMany couples today are clear who might need a little help in their relationships when the tension in the relationship is high and there is somehow constant arguments. Other couples feel that the relationship does not have much conflict, little things, but they really are not happy and feel as ...
Views: 793 - 10 Best Places to Meet That Special Someone - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Justin HansenIf you're single you probably already know how hard it can be to meet a new love interest. No matter if you live in a small town or a big city, now a days it just seems to be a challenge to meet someone different with whom you click and feel that there is an opportunity for a possible ...
Views: 2253 - 10 Best Things to Do on a First Date to Attract Single Women - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2011 from Don Diebel1. Read the newspaper and listen to the news on the day of your date. This will give you some good topics for conversation. 2. Before going on your date, rehearse telling some funny stories. Single women are attracted to men who can make them laugh. 3. Act like you are genuinely interested ...
Views: 1435 - 10 Best Ways To Recover To An Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2013 from Michael LoisCertainly love is the basis of a relationship. If you lost your boyfriend or girlfriend and want her back, then note despair. Crying in any way you can bring back your ex. You need to follow some strategies. Here las10 best ways to win back an ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend. Tip # 1. Be ...
Views: 8510 - 10 Easy Steps For A Health Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2007 from Dr. Grace Cornish LivingstoneAre you ready for real love? In this day and age of fast-paced and short-lived relationships, it’s challenging and many times difficult, to find good, solid, effective, and useful, information that helps to build healthy and long-lasting romantic relationships. Whether you’re ...
Views: 1668 - 10 Easy Ways to Learn How to Attract the Right Men into Your Life - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2019 from M Nasir Aziz10 Amazing Tips On How To Attract The Right Type Of Men Do you find yourself constantly dating losers? Maybe it's time to switch things up! Here are some amazing tips on how to attract the right type of men! To steer clear of toxic relationships and men who don't share the same values as ...
Views: 1178 - 10 effective ways to move on after a breakup - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2020 from Mann GhattOne of the toughest things in anyone’s life is breakup. It hurts when that special person is no more part of one’s life. Those conversations, text messages, and memories of the person keep haunting. Breakup is a great void and hurts badly, irrespective of the reasons why the breakup happened. ...
Views: 774 - 10 Habits for a Healthy Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2017 from Lou Worldweaver10 Habits for a Healthy Relationship A relationship is a partnership capable of enhancing every aspect of your life, emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually and sexually. Each couple is different and there are no hard and fast rules to a healthy relationship. The key is for both ...
Views: 1380 - 10 Incredibly Nice Things to Do For Her - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2012 from Jayant Gopinath KulkarniYou can demonstrate your love for the special woman in your life in a number of small ways. Flowers and candy on special occasions are always nice but you can also surprise a woman by offering smaller gestures on a daily basis. She will appreciate your thoughtfulness and understand that you ...
Views: 1558 - 10 New-Year Resolutions Which Will Enable You to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship Next Year - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2011 from Doron GilIf you wish wholeheartedly to succeed in cultivating a successful intimate relationship but haven’t been able to doing so this year, here are10 New Year Resolutions which, if you decide to adopt and follow, will empower you to develop the relationship you so much desire: 1. TAKE TIME OFF from ...
Views: 1708 - 10 Qualities Men Want in Women - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2012 from Cynthia PriceIs it beauty, booty and brains? Ready, willing and able? Sexy, sweet and hard to get? What is the magic combination of ingredients men look for in a woman? Certainly all of the stereotypical traits are on most men’s wish lists, but once you break through the initial barrier and get his ...
Views: 11914 - 10 Reasons For Not Falling in Love - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2014 from Tina TessinaAlthough you might think of “falling in love” as romantic; we all fall in love many times in life: with a new lover, a new friend, a particularly cooperative co-worker, an appealing movie or TV star, a caring neighbor, siblings, relatives and even pets. Any close relationship ...
Views: 1891 - 10 Red Flags You Should Never Ignore in a New Relationship - by Submitted on May 22, 2019 from Carmen HarraYou meet someone who’s simply charming, irresistible. You’re excited about this person and begin dating, spending more and more time together. Everything is going great, except that your new partner slips into certain “bad habits” here and there. You reassure yourself that this is normal. But is ...
Views: 1137 - 10 Rules for a Great Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2007 from alex blackwellEffective and mutually beneficial relationships do not need to be complex or difficult to develop and maintain. Often times when relationships or marriages fail it’s because one or both partners just give up. In successful relationships, both members work at building and growing the relationship ...
Views: 2948 - 10 Signs He’s Falling For You - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2017 from Lucy ClarkeSo you've recently started spending a lot of time with the guy you are into, and things seem to be going great. Like, really great. You spend hours together, go out to dinner just the two of you, and have a connection that goes way beyond just friendship. But are you an item? Is it ...
Views: 6259 - 10 Signs That Your Relationship Is In Trouble - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2012 from Thomas M TurnerThe reason why a lot of people end up in broken and failed relationships is because they simply fail to see and recognize the signs before the break-up happens. Hence, couples who are experiencing rough waters should be very sensitive and observant for these specific signs. Read on if you want ...
Views: 1134 - 10 Simple Ideas To Improve Your Relationship - by Submitted on May 24, 2011 from Eng Hou NgGetting along with your partner or spouse is not just about sex. Communication plays a very important part in every relationship. Poor communication skills can be a source of anger and low libido for a relationship. On the other hand, effective communication serves as a springboard to a stronger ...
Views: 798 - 10 Steps to Detect and Stop Secret Self-Sabotage - by Submitted on May 23, 2012 from Guy FinleyIt's a little known - yet much denied fact - that people treat you the way you secretly ask to be treated. Your unspoken request that determines how others behave toward you is extended to -and received by - everyone you meet. What is your invisible inner life? It's the way you actually feel ...
Views: 1706 - 10 Strategies To Troubleshoot Couple - by Submitted on Apr 18, 2013 from Michael LoisIn reality, even the happiest marriages and relationships have their ups and downs more stable. The best relationships can settle their differences when couples are struggling to figure things out. No doubt we all have problems in our relationships from time to time and we must resolve these ...
Views: 595 - 10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles – Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2009 from Deborrah CooperI believe the growing preference for texting has a lot to do with its impersonal nature. It’s much easier to launch a new relationship by exchanging texts than it is to talk. It’s also very easy to say and do things over a screen that one would never have the nerve to do face to face (or say ear ...
Views: 10489 - 10 Things I Like About..... - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2008 from Tony TellsI was inspired to do this writing after a friend of mine kept complaining about his father. I told him to grab a pen and paper and write out: “10 Things I Like About My Dad” And to focus on that list every day for a minute or two a day. What this does is it sends out a positive ...
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