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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- The Basics Of Recovering From A Breakup - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2010 from Andrew HunterIt's never easy to get over a breakup. The deeper your love, the greater the pain. Being alone and living your life is tough once you've gotten used to having a special relationship with someone you love. It.s over. This is a fact you must admit, finally, if you're really going to move ahead ...
Views: 2548(4 votes) - The Ferris Wheel - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2010 from Gina HardyDear readers...I have created my ferris wheel analogy in response to years of observations in friends and my own love relationships. This is the scene....you are in a relationship that is beyond the honeymoon period, where the rose coloured spectacles, viewing your once perfect partner, are ...
Views: 1927(4 votes) - Time to Have the Talk - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from Rachel MohebanIf you’ve been seeing each other seriously for a long time, have the talk. If you’re in a committed, long-term relationship, you must have the talk – the gender roles talk. Did you grow up as a fixture in a Leave it to Beaver rerun or did you hear Free to Be You and Me over and over and ...
Views: 1308(4 votes) - Dr. Romance: Divorce-Proof your Marriage - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2013 from Tina TessinaFor Adult Children of Divorce, 3 Tips for a Better Marriage than your Parents Had If you're an adult child of divorce in a marriage that's been struggling, you can learn good marriage-building skills to keep your relationship from going the divorce route. Here are three tips to help: 1. ...
Views: 1898(6 votes) - 8 Beliefs that Affect Our Relationships - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2013 from Amy RosenthalyEstablishing a new relationship comes with unique obstacles as well as thrilling expectations and feelings. However just like anything in life, starting out on the wrong foot could make anything more complex or perhaps unattainable. Having the incorrect thoughts in relation to relationships may ...
Views: 1169(3 votes) - Are You Sex-Starved? - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2013 from Tina TessinaIf You're In A Sexless Marriage, You Need These Tips Now Sexless marriage is a complaint I get often from clients. While sometimes, in case of illness or injury, a complete sexual experience is not possible in marriage, it is always best to have whatever sexual experience is available to the ...
Views: 4264(3 votes) - Can You Use the Law of Attraction to Get Rid of Relationship Woes? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsThere are many books, dvds, articles, lectures, courses and more about the Law of Attraction. You can learn how to use the Law of Attraction (LOA) to create more wealth, better health, a new car, a great job and, yes, a passionate love relationship or marriage. But here's the big ...
Views: 4759(6 votes) - Choosing A How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Guide - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2010 from Kevin A. HedstromIf you have searched the web for tips on how to get your ex girlfriend back, then it’s likely that you’ve read about products that say they can give you help in getting her back. I totally relate, and you should remain hesitant to use these, but I encourage you to not dismiss these products ...
Views: 966(3 votes) - Conflict Resolution - 3 Common Myths About Resolving Conflict - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2010 from Paul EndressMyth #1 - Every conflict can be resolved. When I conduct a conflict resolution seminar, I ask my class whether they believe that every conflict can be resolved, and a show of hands usually indicates that most of them think there is always a way to resolve the problem. Perhaps they only vote ...
Views: 4071(3 votes) - Help Becoming Confident Around Women - by Submitted on Aug 17, 2010 from Tom GarthBeing confident with your self is never easy - being confident around an intimidating woman is even tougher. If a man wants to become proficient at dating, approaching, and attracting women, then becoming confident very important for success. Confidence is yours! Anyone has the potential to ...
Views: 714(3 votes) - How Do You Mend A Broken Heart - 5 Amazing Tips - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Jenna JamesMany of us go through break-ups without knowing how to mend a broken heart. Sometimes we go down the drain unsure of our feelings to recover or wallow in self-pity. If you are decided to be a stronger self despite the hurt then you don't need tons of to-do list to recover just 5 amazing tips to ...
Views: 1139(3 votes) - How to Find Your Dream Man - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2010 from Susan SheppardHow to find your Dream Man To find your dream man when you are serious about wanting a committed relationship, just follow the steps below, and then apply my strategy. 1. Visualize the perfect mate for yourself. Get very specific. Be sure to include the values and principals that mean the ...
Views: 2303(9 votes) - How To Get A Girl Back - The Absolute Most-Do, Irrefutable, Rule For Success - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2010 from Jay HoldenThere are a lot of things you can do to get a girl back, but there's only one absolute, irrefutable must-do. Without it, you're setting yourself up for a life of disappointment. You've got to make yourself happy first. I know that sounds like stupid, new-age b.s., but I'm telling you, if ...
Views: 734(3 votes) - Is Love Something to Obtain? - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2010 from Gina HardyI get an overriding sense these days, upon observation of the many trials and tribulations in 21st Century relationships, that the ultimate goal is about getting love from a partner like it is something to be owned....a possession or a thing; but how that method is working less and less and ...
Views: 863(3 votes) - Keep Your Friends and Family Out of Your Business - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2010 from Dr. D. Ivan YoungInvolving third parties in relationship matters doesn’t solve your problem, it compounds the issue. If you discuss your private affairs in public, it is going to backfire. Managing relationships by committee condemns them to a premature death. The best approach is to allow time, patience and ...
Views: 10529(6 votes) - Law Of Attraction Coach: Do You Tell Yourself You Can't Have What You Desire? Learn To Expect And Believe You Can Attain Anything - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2010 from Nanette GeigerAre You getting what You expect out of life? What are your expectations on attracting money, financial success and wealth? What are your expectations on thriving in your life and career? What are your expectations for joyous and fulfilling outcomes in life overall? Most likely they are ...
Views: 2273(3 votes) - Law Of Attraction: The 3 Most Prevalent Common Roadblocks Preventing You From Lasting Wealth - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2010 from Nanette GeigerDo you know what your money vibe is? Here's the absolutely easiest way to tell what your vibrational equivalent to money is. Take a look at your bank account. What's your present life experience with money? Your bank account will tell you every time. What you're presently experiencing is a ...
Views: 1880(3 votes) - Secrets to Attracting Your Heart's Desire - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2010 from Nanette GeigerI attracted emotionally unavailable men, men who lived out of state, or traveled a great deal of time. Even though my father was an emotionally absent father, I thought that since I consciously knew it, I'd consciously choose loving relationships with men that were available. Even up to the last ...
Views: 3092(6 votes) - Self Development and Effective Communication Skills for Good Relationships - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2010 from Igor SilvaLet us all admit that there is no perfect relationship in this world. As we individuals are not perfect. Everyone has their own flaws and weaknesses. Amidst these issues, every person dreams to have a happy relationship. We always search on advices on how can we keep the relationship unbroken ...
Views: 3368(3 votes) - Six Steps to Dating Men Effectively in Today's World - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2014 from Lorraine JacksonSimilar to a job interview, a date should be used as a screening process to determine if both you and he have the same objective in mind and would be compatible. Implementing the following six steps will allow you to immediately weed out less suitable men and stay focused on attracting what you ...
Views: 4801(6 votes) - The myth of the complex woman - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2010 from George ForderWoman are really simple creatures. I've had enough of hearing how tricky they are and how men will never understand them. In fact the more Neanderthal the man the better he will understand them. The more feminine and well adjusted the woman, the easier she is to understand. Don't comment ...
Views: 1569(6 votes) - What's Narcissism, What's Abuse? - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2013 from Tina TessinaNarcissistic Personalities & Sociopaths Conscience is a type of judgment, that tells us what is right and wrong. It begins in early childhood, when (hopefully) parents teach a child what he can or cannot do (beginning with "no!"), then gradually how to tell right from wrong. ...
Views: 1510(3 votes) - 3 Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tips To Make Her Regret Leaving - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2010 from Andrew HunterSo, you've been dumped and now you want to make your girlfriend jealous so she'll go on bended knee to get you back. Of course, I don't know how your breakup came about, but maybe it was a little too hurtful and she needs to really understand that. Maybe you want her back in a way that she ...
Views: 17477(5 votes) - 4 Simple Tips To Win Back Your Guy - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2010 from Andrew HunterYou may want know how to win your guy back once the pizazz is gone. Using 4 simple steps, you can get your relationship back on track as you were before – even if your boyfriend is dating someone else. The first step is to become a person he can trust. Be around him as much as possible, let ...
Views: 1387(5 votes) - Apologizing to Your Girlfriend Isn't Easy - Here Are 5 Ways That Work - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2010 from Andrew HunterFew things in a relationship are as difficult as apologizing to your girlfriend. Have you grown tired of the bickering and shouting, the arguing, punctuated by long periods of the silent treatment? What happened? If you'd like to get your relationship back on an even keel, you're going to have ...
Views: 5346(5 votes) - “How honest should I be about my past?”: Relationship Advice for those Tricky Situations - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsJake was a party guy in college. He stayed up late, was the life of every social event he attended and was never without a date. In fact, Jake had a lot of dates and sexual partners during this wilder time in his life. Now, 5 years later, Jake has settled down a bit. He still lives life to ...
Views: 7679(5 votes) - Law Of Attraction Love: Are You Failing To Grasp The Law Of Attraction? - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2010 from Nanette GeigerRecently I got an email from one of my subscribers. He asks ... I'm trying to manifest my desires but fear and anxiety keep creeping in. And then there are a lifetime of bad habits, lack conditioning, low self esteem and the tendency to focus on my previous disappointments. What can I ...
Views: 2896(7 votes) - 5 sexy, healthy foods for Valentine's Day - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2014 from perry anneChocolate prompts the release of the mood-boosting hormone serotonin as well as the amino acid phenylethylamine, which increases alertness … and passion. Just be sure to choose antioxidant-rich dark chocolate – look for one that lists natural cocoa powder high among its ingredients. Natural ...
Views: 1536(2 votes) - "Where's My Stuff?" - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2010 from Susan FoxleyWhere is the relationship? Where is the money? Why do other’s have it so easy and I have it so hard? Life is not fair! These are some of the questions and ruminations I hear from my clients. Well, this equation is quite simple. Lack breeds lack and abundance breeds abundance. If I want to ...
Views: 2193(4 votes) - "Why Are My Partners Always Needy?" - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Margaret PaulAngelo had been married to Serena for 15 years before divorcing. In his marriage, Angelo was a caretaker, always trying to please Serena, always trying to get her approval and avoid her disapproval. Serena was a taker - handing responsibility to Angelo for her happiness and often angry with him ...
Views: 5187(2 votes) - ***Is There Such A Thing As Sexual Addiction? - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2012 from Margaret Paul________________________________________ Is sexual addiction a real thing, or just an excuse for bad behavior? ________________________________________ In a recent article in CNN.com Blogs, ...
Views: 2073(2 votes) - ***Should I Waste My Time Meeting or Dating an “Imperfect” Guy? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi Palmer30 minutes. That’s about how long you generally have to “get to know” a man before deciding to have a cup of coffee or date with him. You meet online, or at the local bank, and that’s about it. But he seems imperfect. He’s clearly missing one of your must-haves. Should you gracefully decline? ...
Views: 2433(4 votes) - 4 Tips for a Cheater: Get Your Marriage Back on Track - by Submitted on Dec 15, 2013 from Tina TessinaTo recover from infidelity and save your marriage: 1. Tell the Truth. Assuming your spouse found out, you didn't confess—this is the time to tell the whole truth. It's probably best done with a therapist present, to keep a lid on the emotional reactions. 2. Give your Spouse the ...
Views: 1847(2 votes) - A Conscious Union - The Ultimate Relationship - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2010 from Gina HardyIn the past year I have endlessly blogged and chatted to radio hosts about the intricacies of intimate relationships from communication styles to self observation, with unending awe as I explore the certain mysteries of love and how it affects us all. There are heaps of experts and books out ...
Views: 947(2 votes) - Amazing Advice To Get Your Ex Back Now - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Jenna JamesYou're in the stage of acceptance where you acknowledge the reality of not being in a relationship with your previous partner. The emotional roller coaster experience was tough but you stood strong and coped up well from the break up. You have moved on, and able to be productive with daily ...
Views: 1048(2 votes) - Are You CEO Of Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2013 from Tina TessinaIf You're Fighting About Money, Read These Five Tips In our society, money represents power, success, and often even your value as a person. We say (misquoting the Bible,) “Money is the root of all evil," or “money is power;” or “he who has the gold, makes the rules.” We consider it ...
Views: 1563(2 votes) - Are You Willing to Receive Feedback from Others in order to Improve Your Success with Intimate Relationships? - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2013 from Doron GilA good friend of mine is writing a novel. But he resists getting any feedback from anyone: “Feedback?”- he says – “Anyone knows better than I how I should write my book? No way!” Success at writing a best-seller Just like my friend, so millions of people fantasize about writing and ...
Views: 1396(2 votes) - Couples who don’t have sex but insist everything is hunky dorey - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2013 from Adele TheronThere was a disturbing article in the Mail a few weeks ago. It was all about these couples who NEVER have sex but insist they are happy. The article states that most evenings, with their little girl safely tucked up in bed, Charlotte and Chris Everiss enjoy a kiss and a cuddle on the sofa in ...
Views: 1818(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: Can you make your wife fall in love again? - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I would like to know if it's possible to make your wike fall in love with you again? She just recently announced to me that she wanted to go our seperate ways. I am devestaded we have 2 kids together and she told me that she just grew appart from me. I'm madly in love ...
Views: 1786(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: How do I handle jealousy? - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: Just read a fine article of your from a link off the internet, and was wondering your best recommendation of the books you've wrote for jealousy and suspicious minds in a marriage with no real proof? Dear Reader: "Handling the Green-Eyed ...
Views: 1737(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I Just Want a Way to Resolve the Yelling - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I have been together with my wife for about 3 years now. We have worked on many issues in our marriage and resolved most of them; however, there is still one issue that has not been resolved. It seems that little mistakes I make, such as not taking out the trash when it ...
Views: 2225(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: Should he rent a room in his ex's house? - by Submitted on Aug 19, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance, Should a man expect a woman to want to become involved with him when he is still best friends with is ex-lover--and he is a renter in her house? He claims it is all over between them, but I don't see how he or the ex-lover should expect a woman to feel comfortable ...
Views: 1726(2 votes) - Desperate (a) Get Your Ex After Breaking Up? - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2013 from Michael LoisNot going to believe me when I tell you the following. When you’re desperate to make the work you do bear fruit in a second, is likely to ruin it all. And this just happens when you try to get back with your ex! Desperation to get your ex back? … Well, this is the scenario. Currently ...
Views: 855(2 votes) - Don't Put Your Life On Hold While You Search For That Special Someone - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2009 from Royane RealAre you looking for a mate? Sometimes people have the belief that their real life won’t start until they meet and marry their one true love. In the meantime, they put their life on hold. This belief is a fallacy. Your real life is going by right now, whether you are married or not. A single ...
Views: 4330(2 votes) - Dr Romance Video: Should you stay in your marriage? - by Submitted on Aug 15, 2013 from Tina TessinaClick here for video. Dr Romance: Should you stay in your marriage? Marriage can be frustrating and disappointing, especially if you don't have the skills to fix it. But giving in to the frustration and leaving may turn out to be the worst thing you ever did. Consider these ...
Views: 1780(2 votes) - Dr. Romance on Ten Things People Don't Know about Therapy - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2013 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: I recently had a first session with a client who said, about halfway into the hour “Wow. I like you. I’m surprised.” I laughed, but I knew what the client meant. As a psychotherapist in private practice, I encounter a lot of people who waited far too long to come in for ...
Views: 1673(2 votes) - Dr. Romance: Finding your Next Spouse - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2013 from Tina TessinaYou're divorced and ready to look for a new love. Here are three tips to help you as you search for a new partner in life. 1. Know the difference between fooling around and building a real relationship. You can mess around with anyone (if you’re careful and have safe sex) but before you ...
Views: 1609(2 votes) - Effective Methods To Win Your Ex Back - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2013 from Elizabeth DavisAfter keeping a relationship for a long period of time, it must have been devastating to lose someone who you feel is your soul mate. When moving on seems to be not an option, all you want to do is rekindle the passion that you once had for each other. A lot of people would’ve asked, “Why ...
Views: 1178(2 votes) - Ending Baby Boomer Burnout: How to Stop Parenting Our Adult Children and How to Start Reclaiming Our Own Lives - by Submitted on Dec 20, 2010 from Holli KenleyEnding Baby Boomer Burnout : How to Stop Parenting Our Adult Children and Start Reclaiming Our Own Lives Holli Kenley “Both my 23 year old daughter and my 29 year old son have moved back home. I find myself doing more for them than for myself. I am exhausted, but they seem to need ...
Views: 8303(2 votes) - Everything Is Just Memories - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2010 from David SamuelEverything we are, meaning our reactions to situations, thoughts and emotions, is all based on our memories. Many of our pains and pleasures are felt when we think about, or associate the current moment, to an event that happened in the past, thus a memory. As soon as you realize something ...
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