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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Taking A Break From Relationships - Is It A Good Idea? - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Mika MaddelaTaking a break from relationships is a good move for people who usually go from one relationship straight to another. If you have problems with your partner in every relationship you're in, then please keep on reading. If you don't give yourself some time alone, there's a chance that you ...
Views: 2007(1 vote) - Taking A Break In A Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Mika MaddelaAre you struggling to find out if taking a break in a relationship will destroy your relationships or help make it better? Several people think that taking a break in a relationship will kill a relationship but that's where they're wrong. If you want to know more about what you can do to help ...
Views: 1280(1 vote) - Taking Interpersonal Realtionships to a New Level - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Azriel WinnettI want to tell you a little story. Not about anything dramatic. On the contrary, it's very ordinary. So ordinary, in fact, that the many onlookers who must have been standing around didn't bat an eyelid when they overheard this brief conversation in a busy butcher shop. Hardly surprising that ...
Views: 1587(1 vote) - Taking Off Your Masks is a Prerequisite to Succeed in an Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Masks you wear might have a heavy toll on your relationships. You are not “who you really are”. You can’t develop a truly intimate bond. Acknowledging the masks and removing them is a prerequisite for a successful intimate relationship. DO YOU PRESENT TO YOURSELF AND OTHERS ...
Views: 2681(1 vote) - Taming the Butterflies! - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2010 from Azzrian VisionsOh that new feeling ... the tummy flutters, the palms are sweaty, heart races, constantly checking email. Its the tale tale signs of a new relationship! But how do we keep our wits about us and know for sure that its really a love connection and not just the excitement of the possibility of ...
Views: 2179(6 votes) - Test Your Own Marriage Satisfaction - by Marital relationships are complex institutions! In order to improve the quality of a marriage, it helps to take a systematic look at how it is functioning.
Here is a questionnaire you can use as a general guide for evaluating your marital satisfaction.
After each question below write down ...
Views: 4787(1 vote) - Thanksgiving: Learn How to Develop a Successful Relationship and Thank Yourself for Doing So! - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Thanksgiving is a perfect holiday to begin your process of Self-Awareness, learn how to succeed with relationships, and thank yourself for having the courage to doing so. You can attain self-growth each time you go on a date or start a relationship. It is a matter of willing ...
Views: 1124(1 vote) - The 150 Myth: You Actually Know More People than You Think - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsAll the literature and studies that claim that people can only build relationships with maximum of 150 other people is only half true. The "150" number is often referred to as the Dunbar number after anthropologist Robin Dunbar. As covered in Gladwell's Tipping Point and CommonSenseAdvice: ...
Views: 669(1 vote) - The 3 Revealing Signs Your Ex Is Over You - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Mika MaddelaDo you resemble a train wreck now after your ex broke up with you? Along with the emotional roller coaster ride your mind experience, it also takes major toll on your body. While you've done everything you can to get your ex back, you have no clue whether or not they're over you. There are a ...
Views: 2679(1 vote) - The 3 Secrets to True Law of Attraction Success and Using Law of Attraction Affirmations for Wealth Attraction - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2010 from Nanette Geiger1. Your desires should be perfectly clear to you. Do you get the feeling that you don't really know what you want? Society teaches us that we shouldn't shoot too high, and as a result people close off their ability to really accept what they want out of life. You don't have to tell anyone ...
Views: 1412(5 votes) - The 4 Secrets of Successful Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Gudrun FrerichsWouldn't it be great if we were born with an inbuilt manual that shows us how to relate successfully to others? Although everyone has the capability to relate successfully to others, often people react in ways that are distorted by past experiences. The culprits are usually one or all of the ...
Views: 2592(1 vote) - The 5 Questions to Ask When You're Meeting Your Girlfriend's New Man - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2009 from Katie KrienitzThe 5 Questions to Ask when You’re Meeting Your Girlfriend’s New Man I pulled up to the restaurant and sat in my car for a moment. I couldn’t believe that I was actually nervous! One of my best girlfriends, Angelina, had been talking about Charlie for a few weeks now. They had shared ...
Views: 2168(1 vote) - The A-Z Guide For Successful Singles – E is for Energy! - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2009 from Susanne JorgensenEnergy is physical and emotional and both your physical and emotional energy affect each other. Have you ever been through a difficult emotional time – a break-up or divorce, or a difficult financial situation? It drains your physical energy doesn’t it? And when you are physically exhausted ...
Views: 1141(2 votes) - The Do's Of Talking Dirty In Bed - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraTalking dirty is an art form; it may seem a little too much for some, while it simply isn’t something that others usually do. However, doing it right can actually fire up the bedroom and perk up a flagging relationship. A person wishing to learn how to talk dirty is always faced with the dilemma ...
Views: 2857(1 vote) - The Essence of a Better Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Ray Kadkhodaian,CAC,LCPC,CADC,PsyD & Jean Kadkhodaian,MA,CH,Rev.If there is anything I have learned in my own life and the lives of those I have helped, it is that we are all here to create a better relationship with all those around us as we individually experience our own joys, sorrows and overall discoveries. It is in our attempt to share these ...
Views: 1674(1 vote) - The Fine Art of "Squirrel Hunting" - by Submitted on May 24, 2011 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: The most frequent problem I hear from single clients is that of how and where to search for a partner. Other clients are searching for friends. Many of them have been searching for a long time, without success; others have been afraid to go out and search at all. Most of ...
Views: 1226(1 vote) - The Four Basics of Deciding to Stay Married or Get Divorced - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2010 from John KuypersI feel prompted by the Holy Spirit to reach out to both of you. My intention in this note is to summarize the basics of deciding to say married or get divorced – what’s going, what your choices are and where things can go for you. Basic #1. You both appear to have concluded the status quo ...
Views: 2095(1 vote) - The Healing Power of Love - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThis week my friend, Caroline Sutherland, a brilliant medical intuitive, shares her story with us on how she met her soulmate. When she was 40 a famous astrologer told her that her life” would begin at 60.” Not what she wanted to hear but at the age of 60 she found and married her soulmate, ...
Views: 582(3 votes) - The Law of Attraction Can Help You Manifest Your Desires, Including Wealth Attraction - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2010 from Nanette GeigerPeople often ask me how to manifest their desires. One person asked how it was possible to stay positive when faced with the prospect of losing his house. Imagine you're in a car barreling towards the edge of a cliff. There's already a lot of energy and momentum racing forward. The only way ...
Views: 1723(6 votes) - The Magic of Reassurance - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2013 from Tina TessinaThere are a few simple communication techniques that work like magic in relationships, whether with committed partners, friends, co-workers or relatives. One of the most effective is reassurance, which is simple to do, and calms both of you down, which allows your discussion move on without ...
Views: 1795(1 vote) - The Oil of Life - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2009 from Gerald AnthonyOne day while taking a visit to the grocery store, I heard a customer in front of me say, “????? (phonetic- yo may yo yo? Pinyin- you mei you you?)” As I waited in line, I watched as the cashier understood this complex logic of using the same words of pronunciation to form a question and also ...
Views: 2378(3 votes) - The One Who Got Away - by Submitted on May 04, 2013 from Tina TessinaWhen I was a girl, growing up in the small township of Rockland, New York, there was a tiny post office, which was a small room with a separate entry in the house next door. Rockland’s official postmistress was Clara Weiss, who seemed very elderly even when I was a very small child. She was what ...
Views: 1578(1 vote) - The Real Reason Why Men Won't Commit - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Mika MaddelaThe reason why men won't commit actually stems from biological reasons rather than those social reasons so popular today. It basically stems from human sexuality and how it functions. Simply put, the male has the ability to produce multiple children with different women. The younger the guy ...
Views: 2186(1 vote) - The Secret to Break Up Nicely with Someone You Like - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2010 from Joshua UebergangYour relationship has sizzled out. You want your girlfriend or boyfriend to be an ex, but you don't know how to get them there. After all, you don't yourself to be a mean person. You don't purposefully hurt others. How do you break up nicely then with your girlfriend or boyfriend? There is ...
Views: 1349(1 vote) - The Tao of Instant Liberation (in Dating and Beyond) - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThis article is about how your perpetual happiness is pretty much in your hands right now. And I will state without proof that being a healthy, happy, optimistic person makes you more fun to be around. And that people who are fun to be around are just going to be more successful in the dating ...
Views: 872(2 votes) - The Three Myths of Flirting - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2009 from Meghan GehanANYONE can be successful at flirting and dating, however there are certain misconceptions that you must overcome in order to flirt effectively and naturally. After all, isn’t the goal of flirting to improve not only the number of dates you have ahead of you…but also the quality, strength and ...
Views: 2164(1 vote) - The Top 3 Reasons Why Women Dump Men - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from Mika MaddelaIs it the women who constantly break up with you? Trying to read a woman's mind is usually difficult as they are shrouded with mystery. However, if you're wondering why women dump men, here are some things that might be able to help you. Why Women Dump Men - You're Ignoring Her Have you ...
Views: 1336(1 vote) - The Ultimate Ex Back Formula For Reconciliation - Ways to Win Back Your Ex - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from John OnyekaWhat is the best technique to get your ex back? A proven ex back formula can definitely boost your opportunities. Here is a blueprint to win back the one you love. To express it in mathematical terms: (S+W)T=Love The initial part of the formula is S + W. S equals separation. Breaking up with ...
Views: 2624(1 vote) - Things You Shouldn't Tell Her - Secrets That Should Be Hidden Forever - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2009 from Mark TaylorMost girls are just so cute, sweet and lovable --- but they can also turn into an absolute ice queen if they want to. Below are a few lines you should avoid by any cost. Learn the things you should never tell which would make you regret for the rest of your life. Just one false move, everything ...
Views: 1138(1 vote) - Three Essential Leadership Qualities - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2010 from Greg BakerAnyone who is in a position of leadership must be able to exhibit the following qualities in this article. From a parent to an employer to a politician, these leadership qualities are essential to being a good leader. LEARN TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY, A leader that cannot communicate his ...
Views: 2492(5 votes) - Tips For Men On How To Get Back With Your Ex - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2010 from Kevin A. HedstromAt the moment typical guys are trying to devise a method to get their ex wife or girlfriend back in their life, they realize that they are presented with only a handful of obvious options. They contemplate what might have worked before in earlier times and what they assume will work. It’s this ...
Views: 1074(6 votes) - Tips for Talking to Teens About Dating Violence - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2009 from Amy JohnsonAs part of your “back to school” preparations, have you talked with your teen or young adult about dating safety? Ideally, the topic has been discussed prior to your child dating. The important thing is to have conversations about this topic with your child, even if he or she is already dating, ...
Views: 1095(1 vote) - Tips on How to Ascertain if Your Ex Still Wants You Back - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2012 from Raymond EhomaWhen couples breakup after being in a loving union for a long time, they find it very difficult to overcome the break-up. The time soon after the break-up is one that generally gets really demoralizing. However, as time goes by, there is usually the thought of wishing to reconcile with your ex ...
Views: 3065(1 vote) - Tips To Win My Girlfriend Back - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Gery WriterIf you are wondering how to win my girlfriend back, then you may be in luck. That is because there are lots of ways that you can attract your partner back to you and make the relationship stronger than ever. Figuring out how to get back with your ex partner, is a great way to build upon a new ...
Views: 787(2 votes) - Top 12 Annoying Things Women Do In Relationships - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2013 from Amy RosenthalyAny relationship can benefit from some help day to day. To help your love develop for each other, it's best to know and comprehend the little problems that each person in the relationship is put through. Here are some innocent things women do that annoy the men they're with. Seeing your ...
Views: 2454(1 vote) - Top 5 Signs Your Relationship Is in Trouble - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2011 from Brooke AlexandriaMost of the time, you can tell when your relationship has taken a turn for the worse. But sometimes we are caught completely off guard or we don't allow ourselves to see the signs that are right in front of us. If you're having doubts or worries about your relationship, look for these five ...
Views: 3614(1 vote) - Top 5 Ways to Keep the Spark in Your Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2011 from Brooke AlexandriaUnfortunately there comes a time in every relationship where the rose-colored glasses come off, and the honeymoon phase ends. Little things that may have been considered quirky characteristics may now quickly get on your nerves. When reality begins to set in, and you begin to see your partner ...
Views: 2130(1 vote) - Treat Your Marriage Like A Client? - by Submitted on Aug 17, 2013 from Tina TessinaHow Your Work Skills Can Help Save Your Marriage If you and your partner tend to think the business end of a relationship is not a romantic topic for courtship, you may not discuss it until you can’t avoid it, and then you fight. You may not think of your marriage as a business deal, but a ...
Views: 1668(2 votes) - Trying to Follow - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsQuestion: I am trying to find my footing and go with the flow. I am very much in love with a man who came to me 2 1/2 years ago. He's been spending most of the work week by me, then flies home for the end of the week and weekend. Initially, he told me he was separated, but in a very short ...
Views: 567(1 vote) - Turn the Tables On Your Ex and Use 3 “Under The Radar” Tactics That Will Get Them To Ask YOU To Get Back Together With Them! - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2013 from Jeff ThomasSo you've broken up with your ex. Now what? You have a couple of choices and decisions to make. You can either wallow in self pity and feel sorry for yourself or you can pull yourself together, regroup and decide to do whatever it takes to get back together with your ex. Rather than relying on ...
Views: 794(4 votes) - Two Magic Words for Avoiding Becoming a Desperate Housewife (or Desperate Husband.) - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2013 from Yvonne and George LevyFrom the fictional ones at Wisteria Lane to the “real ones” in Atlanta, we’ve all seen or at least heard of them. Desperate housewives, they’re everywhere and deeply ingrained in modern culture. Not exactly something to look forward to if you are on your way to being, or already are, ...
Views: 1824(1 vote) - USING THE LAW OF PULL TO MAKE YOUR EX WANT YOU BACK - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2015 from Ayiba TiemoIn other to get your ex boyfriend back use the law of pull it is the simplest natural method to apply in wining your ex. I am going to introduce you to the law of attraction combined with another method, which will make your ex boyfriend crawl on his kneels begging to come back to ...
Views: 1327(1 vote) - Want Some Real Relationship Advice? Don't Fake It. Ever! - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2013 from Virginia ClarkThere are few exceptions to this rule and at the moment I can’t even think of any! If you’re faking it in any area of your relationship it’s only a matter of time before it comes back and bites you. Once you’ve faked it, you’ve painted yourself into a corner with only two options: staying in ...
Views: 1176(1 vote) - Ways to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - Get Him Back by Dating Someone Else - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2011 from Phillip TomGetting your ex boyfriend back by dating another man may look like a crazy idea. It seems totally the wrong thing to do and can worsen the situation of things. However would you start seeing another man if it can bring you closer to your ex boyfriend? When you have broken up with someone you ...
Views: 2529(1 vote) - Ways to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back in Love With You After Break Up! - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2011 from Phillip TomRelationships can be complicated things. You can be crazy about a man who someday lets you know that he is not in love with you any longer and he wants to call it a quit. It is shocking and it actually makes you feel as though you can’t move on without him. Your emotions are going to be ...
Views: 1725(1 vote) - Ways To Save A Relationship: 3 Simple Tips To Stop A Break Up - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2011 from Michael LeeLooking for ways to save a relationship? Determined to make it work no matter what? You're not the only one going through a rough patch. Everyone has, at one point in their life, encountered a dead end in their relationship. But I'm here to help you get through that. Read on for more ways to ...
Views: 4297(1 vote) - Wedding Proposal Tips: How to Win Her “Yes” - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2009 from Timothy SpencerIt’s time to pop the question and the first advice soldier is that you must come prepared. This preparation is both mental and physical; mentally you must expect that in reality there is more than one answer to the question “Will You Marry Me?” Once that comes to mind try to keep heed of the ...
Views: 856(1 vote) - What is Happiness? Change Your Mind, Change Your Life - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Kelly ChicasWhat is happiness? If you are thinking of changing your life for the better, one way is start identifying your goals. What version of happiness or well-being are you looking for? This might be any combination of the following: -Sense of Freedom -Self Esteem -Self Confidence ...
Views: 1595(1 vote) - What Keeps Marital Fights Going - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Jay LindsayDo you and your partner have the same fights over and over again? All couples do, some more than others. In my previous article, I discussed what repetitive fights are really about: the anxiety couples experience when recurring conflicts erode their closeness. In this article I will ...
Views: 1189(2 votes) - What Men Need To Know About Women - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2010 from Les and Leslie Parrott"Every woman is a science," said John Donne. And if we take the time to carefully study their needs, we'll discover some fairly universal principles about the differences between men and women. There are always exceptions to the rule, but here are some fundamental things that men should know ...
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