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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Dr. Romance Video: Dating Advice Every Single Mom Should Know - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2013 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance asks: Are you a single mom? Wondering whether you're too old to be back on the market? Well, wonder no more. Watch the video on YourTango.com Dating Advice Every Single Mom Should Know In this video, author, therapist and YourTango ...
Views: 2034(4 votes) - Dr. Romance Video: How to Propose Marriage - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2012 from Tina TessinaIf video doesn't load, click here OK, guys, you're (gulp) ready to pop the big question. But you've seen those videos of lavish proposals that went wrong. How do you ask her in a way that's got an excellent chance of getting a happy ...
Views: 1906(4 votes) - Dr. Romance Video: Reluctant to Marry Again - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2013 from Tina TessinaTo view the video, click here. Video: Dear Dr. Romance , I'm reluctant to get married again. When a relationship that probably began in hope and joy has ended in failure, grief and pain, It's very understandable to be concerned about repeating an action that was so hurtful. ...
Views: 1669(4 votes) - How to Choose when to Help and when Not to Help - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2009 from Christine SherborneSometimes I find that I am helping the same person repeatedly, and nothing improves. Have you found that you do the same? For most of us it is natural to want to be helpful and fix problems for friends and family if we can, but very often the best action you should take is no action at all. ...
Views: 1699(4 votes) - Letting Go Of Patterns In A Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2011 from Adam BenedettoIt is easy to get locked into patterns with another person and to find yourself expecting things to always stay the same. Patterns evolve usually because we are not allowing change to take place. We behave in set ways to either make ourselves feel comfortable or to protect ourselves. Patterns ...
Views: 957(4 votes) - Long Distance Relationships....Making It Work For You! - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2016 from Debbie SchaeferYou can make long distance relationships, including a marriage, work if you and your spouse are willing to work at it and be flexible with one another. Personally, we have never had to deal with this ourselves, but we know several couples who do, including a brother and sister-in-law, and they ...
Views: 1138(4 votes) - ***Why You're Dating and Not Finding Quality Men - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDating can be a real pain in the butt, right? It can be a lot of work that leads to a lot of nothing. I conducted a survey recently and asked women what their biggest challenge was when they date. The #1 response was: I’m not meeting quality men. Can you relate?? I hear this from women ...
Views: 2936(5 votes) - 3 Simple Steps For Getting Your Ex Back in Record Time - This Works Freakishly Well! - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2013 from Jeff ThomasIf you are reading this article chances are that you your relationship with your partner has come to an end. Emotions such as denial, sadness, frustration and even anger have probably become your best friends since you broke up with your ex. The simple reason why most people fail to get back ...
Views: 693(5 votes) - An Energy Tool To Bring You Closer To Alignment - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2010 from Nanette GeigerEverything is energy. Even medical science measures the electrical impulses in our cells with EKGs. Stress is energy. Albeit negative energy. Stress is the experience we encounter when the brain sends out electrical signals that lead to an emotion (perhaps anxiety, depression, or anger), a ...
Views: 1458(5 votes) - He’s Either Attracted… Or He’s Not - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2010 from Kara OhA man is attracted right away, or he's not. They are way more visual that we want to admit. Women often tell me they think a man will 'become' attracted after he gets to know them. It doesn't work that way. That's how women often fall in love. We might be attracted initially, but then he does ...
Views: 2147(5 votes) - Law of Attraction Coach Explains How You Can Get Your Power Back With Energy Management - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2010 from Nanette GeigerUnmanaged energy can be a huge stepping stone for someone first learning that they can manifest their desires in reality. Consider that the Law of Attraction is always, continuously true, and is always acting on the desires and thoughts of all people. The energy of your mind (your thoughts) is ...
Views: 1455(5 votes) - Law Of Attraction Coach: Important Questions On Keeping Cool Concerning Money - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2010 from Nanette GeigerWhat's the most efficient method to manifest wealth when I do not have enough? How do I become aligned with my desires for enough money when I do not make the money I need presently? What do I do to get an increased amount of money to manifest when I get anxious and even sometimes ...
Views: 1933(6 votes) - Chemistry--What is it and how do I recognize it? - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellI define chemistry as “the feeling or desire that compels you, when in the presence of a particular person, to want to please them, touch them, and make them happy.” That’s it! Too many singles associate chemistry with the desperate feelings, longing, and compulsive thoughts that are ...
Views: 4325(7 votes) - Communication Tips for Talking about Tricky Topics - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2009 from Susie and Otto Collins“I want to quit my job and go back to school.” “I would like us to work with a relationship coach.” “I think we need to make some decisions about our child.” “I want to spend more intimate time with just you.” It's not always easy to speak what you want or how you see a situation in your ...
Views: 1455(1 vote) - Grow Closer After Kids: 5 Ways - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2009 from Carol Ummel LindquistYoung parents have precious little free time. So here are 5 quick tips: • Spend an uninterrupted 20 minutes each day face to face or side by side talking (and cuddling) and most important listening to anything the other wants to say. Yes, when you are desperate you can break it into 2 ...
Views: 1251(1 vote) - [Video] Dating New Men: How to Tell Him the Scary Stuff - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2013 from Bobbi PalmerTo Watch Video Click Here Ungrateful children. Mortgage that’s killin’ you. Surgical scars. Chronic health problems…these are all realities of life after 40. Let’s face it: we’ve been around a while. We have “stuff!” When you’re dating ...
Views: 1249(1 vote) - *** “I Don’t Fit In.” - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2012 from Margaret Paul________________________________________ Do you believe that you are supposed to 'fit in?' You might feel differently after reading this article! ________________________________________ The other morning, I opened our carton of eggs to make my breakfast. I looked at the beautiful eggs we ...
Views: 1905(1 vote) - ***"My Wife Is No Longer In Love With Me" - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2014 from Margaret PaulAre you willing to do the inner work you need to do to possibly save your relationship? Many people, like Aaron who asked the following question, seek my help because either their partner is no longer in love with them, or they are no longer in love with their partner. Aaron ...
Views: 1538(1 vote) - ***Given a Chance, How Men Can Surprise You! - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerAre you resisting letting men help you or do nice things for you? Maybe you’re thinking it threatens your independence or makes you seem weak. Or maybe you’re just trying to be low-maintenance; thinking that this is what men want. As I’ve said time and time again, letting a man do for you – ...
Views: 1763(4 votes) - ***It’s O.K. To Be Angry! Hostility & Aggression Is The Problem. - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2013 from Marc SadoffAnger Management skills can be helpful for people ranging from the mildly miffed to the violently vengeful. You do not need to be in a physically violent relationship to benefit from understanding and learning about communicating anger and hurt feelings constructively. Secondly, if you are ...
Views: 2014(1 vote) - ***Make Your List, But Consider It Twice (Or Thrice!) - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerCan you use a dating pick-me-up? Something to boost your hope of finding your fabulous life partner? If you’re wondering if dating and the nonsense that sometimes comes with it is worth it, read on. I have a spectacular success story to share, along with advice on two simple things that will ...
Views: 1207(1 vote) - ***When Do Men Expect to Have Sex With Us? A Single Man's Response - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerI get asked this question constantly. Women who are dating want to know this; especially women who are divorced and over 40, and haven’t been dating for some time. They also want to know how they can tell if sex is all he wants. Good questions. The truth is that whether you’re dating at 20, ...
Views: 3664(6 votes) - ***When Women Fall for Bad Boys: The Allure, Danger and How to Manage It - by Submitted on Dec 13, 2013 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishBad boys have edginess. They’re risk-takers, a trait that’s present in successful, charismatic men of power, status, wealth and savvy. So, what’s wrong with being attracted to them? The answer is “almost nothing,” as long as you don’t allow the exhilaration ...
Views: 2021(1 vote) - ***When You Reach for Help, Are You Loving or Abandoning Yourself? - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2016 from Margaret PaulBy Margaret Paul, Ph.D. January 25, 2016 ________________________________________ Discover the big difference between reaching out as your loving adult or as your wounded self. ________________________________________ Dorothy asked an important question: "What is the difference ...
Views: 1350(1 vote) - ***Why It Can Be a Good Thing When He Goes Cave-bound - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerLast week a smart, thoughtful woman left a comment on my post about Dating the Somewhat Disappearing Man. These are the guys I call “pingers” because they ping you (or contact you) just often enough to make sure you’re there when they need or want you. They keep you attached and interested, and ...
Views: 4222(4 votes) - 10 Things You Should Ask Yourself If You're Considering Whether To Stay In or Leave a Relationship - by Whether you've been in your relationship for 2 months, 2 years or 20 years, we don't have to tell you that making the decision to stay in or leave a relationship is one of the most important decisions you'll ever make.
We've both also made this decision ourselves in our previous relationships, ...
Views: 1740(1 vote) - 12 Awful First Date Tips: Drink Chablis With a Straw - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2010 from Tracey BennettWondering what to do on a first date? Here are 12 awful ways to impress a woman. Good first date tips include conversation on first date, flirting & etiquette. That’s just silly. Women readers: see if your dates have pulled these stunts on you….er, I mean, perhaps you could pick up some tips, ...
Views: 1671(7 votes) - 14 Ways to Say "I Love You" without Words - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2013 from Tracey FarmerWith Valentine's Day right around the corner, I wanted to give my husband a gift this year that was a little different from the usual "I love you" accompanied by a card. I decided that for the two weeks leading up to the big day, I would do special things to show him how I feel. Inspired ...
Views: 2028(2 votes) - 2 Important Things You Should Know To Save Your Marriage - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2012 from Olivia PeterNo wedding is excellent, however some actually truthful higher than others. And many marriages fluctuate between periods of things going very well and periods of struggle. But when things get particularly dangerous, you may realize yourself wondering what things you'll be able to do to save ...
Views: 1414(1 vote) - 3 Easy Ways To Improve Any Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2009 from Laurie-Ann MurabitoRelationships are all around us, from our family members to fellow colleagues to customers and to our friends. There are three easy things you can do today to instantly change the relationships in your life. Listening When was the last time you really felt you were heard? Many of us do not ...
Views: 1164(1 vote) - 3 Major Signs to Know When A Relationship Is Over - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Mika MaddelaHas your relationship been experiencing some trouble for quite some time now? Our relationship with our significant loved one is very important to us. When our relationship begins to turn for the worse, it can be absolutely frightening. If you're torn about whether or not you should stay or ...
Views: 970(1 vote) - 3 Sneaky Psychological Tricks For Getting Your Ex Back in Record Time – Use Them Before It’s Too Late! - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2013 from Jeff ThomasThere are a few things in life that can give you a better feeling than being in a relationship with someone who you share a strong connection with. However, as the relationship continues, certain things don’t continue to be as blissful as when it started out. It may, for whatever reason, hit a ...
Views: 4689(3 votes) - 3 Step System Designed to Get Your Ex Back Before It's Too Late - Don't Wait, Do It Now! - by Submitted on Nov 26, 2013 from Jeff ThomasBeing in a relationship with someone who you care deeply about and share a strong connection with brings out the best in both you and your partner. In the beginning everything seems perfect as you go through the so-called "honeymoon" phase of the relationship. However, every relationship has ...
Views: 890(4 votes) - 3 Tips Single Parents Need To Know - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2013 from Tina TessinaHow To Be a Happier -- and More Successful -- Single Parent Are you a single parent struggling with how to make it all work? Dr. Romance offers three tips to happier single parenting. 1. Be a Grownup. I know you’ve probably had a tough time, but you’re a parent, and your child’s ...
Views: 1755(1 vote) - 3 Unique Ways To Mend A Broken Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Mika MaddelaIs your relationship falling apart? Do you feel despite your efforts, you're failing to take your relationship in a positive direction? If your relationship is struggling to survive, check out these 3 unique ways to mend a broken relationship. Powerful Ways to Mend a Broken Relationship # 1: ...
Views: 870(1 vote) - 3 Ways He's Telling You He Is Not Going To Marry You - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2013 from Virginia ClarkI want to spare you the disappointment of getting your hopes up over a man who's going to waste your time, get you to fall for him and then leave. You can find out early in a relationship which men are good prospects for marriage and avoid a lot of heartache. But you need to pay attention, ...
Views: 1009(1 vote) - 3 Ways to Make Conflicts Healthy for Couples - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2012 from Jean CapangpanganWhen we don't understand what happened in the conflict, we always look for WHAT or WHO caused the conflict. While trying to figure things out, it's helpful that we trace and discuss things over. However, if people are quick to put a blame on people frantically, this is a problem. Blaming is ...
Views: 1830(1 vote) - 37 Ways to Make A Difference to Yourself and Others - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2009 from Anolia "Leah" Orfrecio-Facun“Making a difference” is not just a scheduled event or activity, but a moment anytime when a person finds it in his/her heart to do something good, to care or to share, or to make a voluntary contribution to another individual, a community or our society. When we consciously give or do ...
Views: 5288(2 votes) - 4 Easy Ways To Increase Chemistry In Relationships - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2011 from Kevin TeoChemistry is the sense that you get that you and another person are meant to be together when you're both perfectly at ease with each other and have a strong physical attraction for each other. And while chemistry in relationships can’t be created, it does not mean you can’t develop it. In ...
Views: 5610(1 vote) - 4 Reasons To Swap Regret Over Your Breakup for Excitement - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2013 from Michael BroderIf you’ve recently experienced a relationship breakup, regret is one of the many emotions you might be experiencing. But regret is usually just a form of temporary and needless pain. Here are a few perspectives to make the end of your relationship an exciting and bright start to a new ...
Views: 1973(1 vote) - 4 Reasons Why Couples End Up In Divorce-Are You Making Any of These Mistakes? - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Mika MaddelaThe last thing you ever expected in life was to be in crumbling marriage that was well on its way to divorce. It's heartbreaking to think back to the days when you and your spouse were so happy together. Your marriage doesn't have to end up in divorce. There are many couples who thought their ...
Views: 1175(2 votes) - 4 Signs Your Boyfriend is Going to Dump You - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2011 from Mika MaddelaAre you concerned that your boyfriend is falling out of love with you? Your relationship possibly has deteriorated fast and you're not certain how your relationship has gotten this terrible. Keep reading if you're interested in the top four signs he wants to break up with you. Signs He's ...
Views: 2805(1 vote) - 4 Steps to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Fast - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2011 from Kevin TeoThe way to get your ex boyfriend back fast is to first leave him alone for some time to allow him to cool down before you initiate to get back together with him, but you don’t want to leave him alone for too long in case the good memories that you both shared starts to fade or in case he meets ...
Views: 1001(1 vote) - 4 Tips on How to Win My Ex Back After Break Up! - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Phillip TomOne thing that takes a major emotional toll on all individuals is break-up. They bring in so much anger, hurt and pain. If you have in recent times gone through a breakup, it is rather usual to have emotions still overflowing within you. At the moment, you’re probably making effort to work out ...
Views: 1061(1 vote) - 4 Ways To Stop A Break Up From Happening - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2010 from Andrew HunterAre you seeing some signals that your boyfriend may dump you? Don't just let it happen, take these steps to prevent a breakup. It may be tough to do, working at making it work will be worth it if you love each other. The most important first step is to talk openly, searching for ...
Views: 1803(6 votes) - 5 Emotional Affair Signs You Ought to Know If You're Suspicious - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2012 from Jacob ElichmannAre you suspicious that your wife is having an emotional affair? Are you seeing emotional affair signs without even knowing it? If you have a sneaking suspicion that your wife is being a little too intimate with another man, then this article will help you discern the truth. As you ...
Views: 16193(1 vote) - 5 Great Ways To Feng Shui Your Bed - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2009 from Ken LauherDuring Feng Shui consultations, clients frequently ask me to evaluate the Feng Shui of their bed and share the key factors to look for when purchasing a new bed. I've found some common mistakes that people make or are making that may be having an impact on their relationships, health, wealth and ...
Views: 1692(2 votes) - 5 Interesting Signs Your Ex Girlfriend Still Wants You Back - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2012 from Raymond EhomaHave you recently broken up with your ex girlfriend? Are you still finding it challenging believing that she's gone? Is it still hard believing that your lady was an individual who couldn't live without you, but fully gone right now? Have you been considering trying to get your girl back again ...
Views: 9602(1 vote) - 5 MUST avoid silly blunders while impressing a guy - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2011 from Nirav M DaveDesire to get a guy to like you is good thing and you do your best for that. But many times one does something very inappropriate in overexcitement. If one does not want to face sudden rejection or sudden loss of interest by its crush, one NEED to avoid certain blunders. 1) Red carpet entry. I ...
Views: 1742(2 votes) - 5 Reasons Why Some Relationships Need to End - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisNot all relationships are going to stay strong and last forever. This is not a bad thing though. It just means that you have taken a chance on someone and when the relationship ends you have learned something new about what you don’t want in a partner. Essentially, it makes looking for the ...
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