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  • The Best Things in Life - by Martha Lee
    Submitted on Mar 01, 2011 from Martha Tara Lee
    Released in 1992, ‘The Best Things in Life Are Free’ is a song by Janet Jackson and Luther Vandross. The song went to number one on the R&B singles chart and debuted at number 24 on the U.S. Billboard Hot 100 the week of May 30, 1992. Three weeks later, the song peaked at number 10 for three ...
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  • The Best Way To Attract and Date Gorgeous Women - by Mac Robin
    Submitted on Jul 20, 2011 from Mac Robin
    Do you really desire to date beautiful women? I'm not really referring about mediocre-looking woman at your school grounds or even the mediocre brunette at the club. What I am talking about is the kind of woman that can seize the scene and make every single man's world to stay still for just ...
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  • The BIGGEST Mistake Women Make with Men (without even realizing it!) - by Cherry Norris
    Submitted on Jul 13, 2009 from Cherry Norris
    Gina is a great coach. She's smart, beautiful and successful. She's well traveled and well respected. She has great friends. Gina's life is full. Gina loves to make people feel special. She loves sharing ideas and giving advice. When Gina meets a man she likes, she gives him phone calls, ...
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  • The Business of Creative Living - by Sherry Anshara
    Submitted on Aug 12, 2009 from Sherry Anshara
    THE BUSINESS OF CREATIVE LIVING! Life is certainly interesting, the ups and downs that come your way. As you reflect to your past for lessons of your experiences, you probably engaged in some of those situations and wondered why did I even go there? You could easily say for the lessons. ...
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  • The Capability of Blushing! - by Katrina Gurl
    Submitted on Dec 28, 2012 from Katrina Gurl
    This is a true story that every couple should ponder for today... A man went on break at work and as he sat down to to drink a cup of coffee, he scrolled through some of the pictures he'd secretly saved on his cell phone. After scrolling through about 12, he decides to text his ...
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  • The Challenge of Letting Go - by Gian Fiero
    Submitted on Jul 16, 2009 from Gian Fiero |
    There comes a point and time in everyone's life when they need to let go. It's easier said than done, and even when most recognize the need to let go they can't do it. Letting go is about freedom; freedom that can only be experienced through the disconnection of the things - or the person - ...
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  • The Differences Between Emotional Maturity And Immaturity - by George Bielay
    Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from George Bielay
    Why should you care about emotional maturity? Because it can mean the difference between a happy, rewarding and satisfying life and relationship versus a stressful unhappy existence with crises that never seem to go away. This newletter introduces the signs of emotional immaturity, qualities and ...
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  • The First Date Ideas & Rules - by Neil Ward
    Submitted on May 08, 2010 from Neil Smith
    The First Date Ideas & Rules The golden rule is to meet somewhere: public, chilled out & relaxed. A coffee shop is a great venue for this during the day and a wine bar is a great place for the first date idea in the evening. The first date should be kept casual. If you want to fully ...
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  • The First Wedding Anniversary: Extended Honeymoon - by Ruth Purple
    Submitted on Jan 13, 2010 from Menno Spijkstra
    Ah… the first wedding anniversary is always something newly weds look forward to. They not only look forward to it but have a count down for it by celebrating their “monthsary”. The first year of marriage is still considered as the honeymoon stage. The couple is still very idealistic and very ...
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  • The Freedom of Maturity - by Tina Tessina - Dr. Romance
    Submitted on Jun 09, 2014 from Tina Tessina
    And then, not expecting it, you become middle-aged…You achieve a wonderful freedom. It is a positive thing. —Doris Lessing Maturity or middle age means different things to different people, but for most, reaching a mature age means developing a new set of ...
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  • The High Price Tag of Anger: What is it Really Costing You? - by Janet Pfeiffer
    Submitted on Feb 19, 2014 from Janet Pfeiffer
    There's no doubt: anger takes its toll on every facet of our lives. From on the job, to our personal relationships, to our health and overall enjoyment of life, destructive anger can wreak havoc in our daily lives. On the job it cost businesses over $4.2 billion, yes -billion, a year. ...
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  • The Influence of Life Experiences On Personality During Adulthood - by Joseph Coleman
    Submitted on Feb 01, 2010 from Joseph Coleman
    There are many theories surrounding the effect of one’s behavior on his/her personality. The more humanistic approach as stated by Clinical psychiatrist Carl Rogers in his theory of personality explains that human behavior is “exquisitely rational” (Rogers, 1961, p.194). Rogers went on to ...
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  • The Journey To Success When Finding The Perfect Christian Mate Online - by Dorian Milon
    Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Dorian Milon
    Christians find it difficult in finding other Christians to date. Where dating proves difficult for Christians, this does not mean that Christians should lower their standards. The goal of anyone on the dating scene should be to find someone who is compatible and this is no different with ...
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  • The Key to Getting Past Your Breakup - by Marni Battista, Dating with Dignity
    Submitted on Sep 09, 2012 from Marni Battista
    We’ve all been there. You just  broke up with a boyfriend, husband, or long-term partner. Whether you thought he was The One, or the one for the year or month, it never feels good. Breakups are hard because they represent the loss of a shared commitment. Even breakups that make logical sense ...
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  • The Kindest - by Michele O'Mara, LCSW
    Submitted on Feb 02, 2011 from Michele OMara
    Today is the first day of Spring Break for my kiddos. They were promised a treat of their choice if they get through their last week of class without “moving their apple,” which is 1st grade code language at their school for “ummmmm, you’re in big troooouble!” I sweetened the deal a bit, ...
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  • The Law of Attraction Allows Your Thoughts to Turn Into Possibilities - by Nanette Geiger
    Submitted on Apr 05, 2011 from Nanette Geiger
    Ever observed the swimming section of the Olympic Games? Out of thousands of possible candidates, only 3 will location. The Gold Medal will be awarded to only 1 swimmer. The differences in times are so tiny that they have to be registered by a special machine. They have all trained with ...
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  • The Law of Attraction and Building New Relationships - by Karen Kleinwort
    Submitted on Jun 22, 2011 from Karen Kleinwort
    While it's undeniable that being in a loving relationship can be incredibly fulfilling and full of positives, it's also undeniable that finding relationships like that can be difficult. We've all experienced the defeated and heartbreaking feeling of rejection or an otherwise failed relationship, ...
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  • The Life-Changing Power Of Appreciation - by Gregory Newman, M.S.
    Submitted on Mar 10, 2005 from Gregory Newman
    Appreciation is one of the most powerful actions in the universe. When you are sensitively aware of a unique quality that makes someone who they are -- and are willing to communicate it to him or her -- that person’s life and your own can change forever. Let me give you an ...
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  • The Main Reasons Why Some Relationships Fail - by Bellaisa Filippis
    Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Bellaisa Filippis
    Why do some relationships fail while other relationships stay strong? Why do some people seem so happy in their relationship while other people are miserable and bicker all the time? The number one reason for it is expectations, or what they want or desire to happen in the ...
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  • The Mind of Love - by Luminessa Enjara
    Submitted on Mar 06, 2011 from Luminessa Enjara
    I have found relationship to be a deeply spiritual process. It will reveal to you all of those unpleasant aspects of yourself that you would never face without one. It can be used to purify those aspects, to grow beyond them. It is a spiritual journey. This is where we get to learn about ...
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  • The Number Three—How to Tell When Relationship is Over—Determining When to Leave - by Cindy L. Herb
    Submitted on May 09, 2010 from Cindy L. Herb
    All of us want love. We will do just about anything to obtain it. Many of you are in dead-end relationships, but remain in those situations despite the fact that there is abundant evidence that the relationship is doomed. Why do you stay, despite opposing data? Furthermore, how can you ...
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  • The Only Relationship Article You Will Ever Have To Read (Really) - by William S. Cottringer, Ph.D.
    Submitted on Jan 31, 2010 from William Cottringer
    The Only Relationship Article You Will Ever Have To Read (Really) By Bill Cottringer “Good relationships are when your head, heart and hands agree most of the time and besides it doesn’t matter quite that much.” ~The author. Centuries of research would agree that relationships fail ...
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  • The Other Marketer - by Dr Robin Rushlo
    Submitted on Mar 24, 2010 from Dr. Robin Rushlo
    Whether you are in multi-level marketing in a small way or a big way, if you live with anyone else, there is another multi-level marketer in your business. They may not be officially in your business (although if you are a committed relationship they should be), but, like it or not, they are ...
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  • The Perpetuation and Termination of Low Self-Esteem - by David Samuel
    Submitted on Jan 05, 2010 from David Samuel
    This article is directed towards people with low self-esteem and so is one sided to that view. A child is born very intelligent with an excellent learning capacity. This is based on the fact of how quickly a child learns to speak possibly several languages, walk, etc. The child is ...
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  • The Relation of Unhealthy Lifestyle to Diseases - by Nhel Arreza
    Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Nhel Arreza
    What type of particular person are you currently? What are the typical factors you do within the morning the moment you open your eyes? In case you wake up in the morning with no power, no enthusiasm, and no determination to create the day productive then you could be experiencing the signs of ...
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  • The Secret to Dating Success - by Amanda V
    Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Amanda V
    Want to know an often-overlooked secret to dating success? What you tell yourself about yourself can radically improve not only the quantity of your dates, but also the quality of your love life. It’s true: You will boost your odds of finding a fantastic partner if you become convinced deep ...
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  • The Secret to Successful Relationships - by Gary Jordan, Ph.D.
    Submitted on Dec 04, 2009 from Gary Jordan
    Have you ever been in a conversation where it was obvious the other person couldn't wait for you to finish talking in order to say something? We all have I’m sure, and it’s not a great feeling. You see, relationships are like lengthy conversations. There is a back-and-forth quality that ...
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  • The Seeds of Enduring Relationships Are Obvious: Inner Truth Will Determine Our Outcomes - by Destiny K. Coleman
    Submitted on Mar 03, 2013 from Destiny K. Coleman,
    When we come into this world we actually enter it as gardeners, tenders of our own land and fields; who will be ultimately responsible for the crops that we produce or otherwise allow to grow in the garden of our experience. Even the mediocre gardener understands the potential latent in the ...
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  • The Single Man's Mission Statement - by Don Diebel
    Submitted on Mar 12, 2011 from Don Diebel
    Every man should develop a mission statement for succeeding with single women. This will give you purpose, a plan for doing better with women, and motivate you to take action to seduce women. Here's the mission statement that I recommend that you use: 1. I have supreme confidence in ...
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  • The Singular Most Essential Factor to Winning Your Ex Back - by Raymond Ehoma
    Submitted on Nov 13, 2012 from Raymond Ehoma
    Many people nowadays end up battling with disheartening break-ups, without having any kind of idea about how to attempt recovering from the actual pain. The break ups at the same time make a lot of people to get panicky, psychologically dumb and unable to think properly. Indeed, it's quite ...
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  • The Stimulus Plan - by Wendy Strgar
    Submitted on Jul 12, 2009 from Intent.com Authors
    “I am convinced, both by faith and experience, that to maintain one’s self on the earth is not a hardship but a pastime- if we live simply and wisely.” Henry David Thoreau Franklin D. Roosevelt is most famous for his statement “there is nothing to fear but fear itself.” He uttered these ...
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  • THE TIGER WOODS AFFAIR: WHY NICE GUYS CHEAT - by Lisa Daily
    Submitted on Dec 05, 2009 from Lisa Daily
    By now you've probably heard the sordid details of Tiger Woods alleged affairs with cocktail waitress Jamiee Grubbs, New York city nightclub hostess Rachel Uchitel, and Las Vegas party planner Kalika Moquin. The scandal comes as a bit of a surprise to his many fans, especially considering his ...
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  • The Truth about Being an Entrepreneur - by Tricia Dycka
    Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Tricia Dycka
    What exactly is the truth about being an entrepreneur? It boils down to your own perception of what you feel it should mean to you. To me, being an entrepreneur means empowering others by sharing my gifts and experiences and living my life to the fullest. When I decided to travel the path of the ...
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  • The Truth About the No Contact Rule After a Break Up - by Steve Steiner
    Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Andrew Hunter
    Have you heard of the “No Contact” rule that many people say you should follow following a break up? What is this rule and how can it help you heal after a break up or even win your ex back? That’s what we’re talking about today. What is the No Contact rule? It’s fairly simple really. ...
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  • The Ultimate Holiday Gift: Nurture your marriage this holiday season - by Dr. Richard Nicastro
    Submitted on Dec 14, 2009 from Richard Nicastro
    If it's the season to be jolly… …then why am I seeing so many stressed, beleaguered couples walking around? Is it more apt to say, 'Tis the season to feel tense, frustrated and constantly on the go? Whether you're feeling totally overwhelmed or slightly frustrated, it's easy to lose ...
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  • The Ultimate Relationship Checklist - by Rachel Moheban, LCSW
    Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Rachel Moheban
    Ever wondered what happened to the passion and intimacy in your relationship? Remember the days of sparks flying, feeling that you are the only two people in the world? Generally, relationships start in this way, but as time passes and day-to-day life intervenes, many couples find ...
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  • The Value Concerning Astrological Compatibility - by Marie Malacaman
    Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Marie Malacaman
    In a relationship-personal and also professional-compatibility is a must. Personal associations particularly, expect compatibility in its most complicated levels. That is why each time looking into particular factors of personal emotional bonds, men and women will search almost everywhere in ...
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  • The Value of Knowing What You Feel - by Patrice Wolters PhD
    Submitted on Oct 16, 2011 from Patrice Wolters
    Healthy disagreements and constructive communication are nearly impossible when couples can't share their true feelings. Many people have difficulty putting names to their feelings, or they hold back and bury their feelings. This impaired communication can lead to anger, resentment and even ...
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  • There Goes Happily Ever After - 5 Reasons Why Couples Get Divorced - by Daryl Campbell
    Submitted on Dec 03, 2009 from Daryl Campbell
    There may be a difference of opinion on the exact number but there is no doubt that the divorce rate in this country is outrageously high. It's so out of control that one person in California is gathering signatures in an effort to have a referendum on banning divorce. Will it work? Not ...
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  • THOSE WHO HAVE SUSTAINED MARRIAGE - by YAMIN MEMON
    Submitted on Jun 29, 2003 from YAMIN MEMON
    Those who have sustained a successful marriage practice these qualities in their married life. I have listed some of their qualities below. Follow these tips and enjoy lasting married and family life. DO NOT SHARE YOUR PRESONAL PROBLEMS WITH OTHERS: There are a few exceptions to this rule, but ...
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  • Thoughts Become Your Reality - by Nanette Geiger
    Submitted on Nov 19, 2009 from Nanette Geiger
    Perhaps You've seen it said, "Emotional Vibration directly become things"? It's has been said that we have about 60,000 thoughts per day. Can you conceive that with sixty-thousand thoughts every day, all of those thoughts really materialize into your life experience? Don't worry, about ...
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  • Three Attributes of Someone Slow to Anger - by Greg S. Baker
    Submitted on May 07, 2010 from Greg Baker
    The key to control of your anger is to be slow to anger. No one can turn anger on and off like a light switch. But having a very, very long fuse is the key to anger management. There are three attributes that are common, however, to someone that is slow to anger. GRACIOUS People who have ...
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  • Three Keys to Busting Out of Bewilderment with Your Beau - by Jonathon Aslay
    Submitted on Nov 13, 2011 from Jonathon Aslay
    As the Heart Protector of Women I have come to the realization that when a woman feels connected with a man she is dating, she can sometimes end up in a quandary of emotions regarding future expectations. Females are still encouraged today from a young age to allow the male to pursue them, but ...
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  • Three Keys to Reboot the Romance in Your Relationship - by Jonathon Aslay
    Submitted on Sep 23, 2011 from Jonathon Aslay
    Women have probably heard this phrase many times in their lives: “If you really love me, you’d....” fill in the blank. Most of the time those comments are referring to the guy wanting her to prove her love by having sex with him, but today I want to hit on THREE ways women can put out that will ...
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  • Three Questions To Start You Down The Road To Happiness - by Becky Yancey, LCSW, CCFC
    Submitted on Aug 25, 2010 from Becky Yancey Waggaman
    Periodically it can be most beneficial to stop and ask yourself how “happy” or “content” are you with your life. You are really the only person who truly knows. Not only are you the only one who knows but you are the only one who is responsible and can actually choose happiness and purpose for ...
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  • Three Resons Why Guys Breakup with Girls - by Sarah Scott
    Submitted on Feb 04, 2010 from Andrew Hunter
    Many my women friends ask me why guys breakup with their female partners. I made a decision that this was really quite a fascinating issue. You’ll see other women complain quite often about all the reasons why they suddenly find themselves alone. But I made the decision to dig just a little ...
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  • Three Tips to Mending a Broken Heart - by Sarah Scott
    Submitted on Jan 04, 2010 from Andrew Hunter
    Are you suffering heartache from a broken relationship and you can't seem to move on? Do you want to know how to stop feeling miserable and continue living your life? Read these three best secrets that can help heal your pain and help you move on. First, you need to spoil yourself. Feeling ...
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  • Three Ways To Know That You're Ready For A Relationship - by Daniel Amis
    Submitted on Aug 02, 2011 from Daniel Amis
    Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put yourself in an environment where the type of person ...
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  • Three “Ice Breakers” For Starting Conversations With Women - by Chris Chandra
    Submitted on Dec 07, 2014 from Chris Chandra
    So you’re standing at the counter in the grocery store, there’s no one else in line and there’s a really cute girl at the counter. What do you say to start a conversation? Just saying hi usually doesn’t lead anywhere, and if you make it too obvious it’ll be embarrassing if you get ...
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  • Tips For Becoming Fluent In The Non-Verbal Language Of Dating - by Toni Coleman
    Submitted on Mar 28, 2003 from Antoinette (Toni) Coleman
    We are all too familiar with the term "body language". There have been books, workshops and endless discussions spawned by it. But do you really KNOW how to interpret the non-verbal messages that other people broadcast on a continual basis in their interactions with you? There are two levels of ...
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