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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Letting Go of Love - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2011 from Christine Arylo3 ways to feel super loved even when your relationship is ending Most of us have been trained to believe that when a relationship ends, we lose the love of the person who we once felt so loved by. This belief is an instant misery-creating lie that is simply not true. The truth is, love is ...
Views: 1847(1 vote) - Life Coach Shares Insights and Hints on Expanding your Conception of the Law of Attraction - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2010 from Nanette GeigerThe intention for the helpful hints and knowledge is that you will actually attain a new insight and and opening for yourself. In particular, on how to acquire more mastery with the 3-part equation of manifestation. The three parts of this equation are: Creative Energy + Attract = ...
Views: 1039(5 votes) - Life Coaching and the Law of Attraction Accelerate Your Results - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2009 from Nanette GeigerHow do I have faith? That's an age-old question, is it not? I think for most of us it takes practice. Learning the best tools that we teach in Law of Attraction Life Coaching takes practice, but the exercises work. So it is well worth it to help yourself. Training with a law of attraction life ...
Views: 836(3 votes) - Little Things In Marriage That Make a Big Difference… - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2013 from Yvonne and George LevyI remember the first date I had with my husband George. He picked me up in an economy rental car (his car had just been in a small accident and was getting repaired at the body shop) and he took me to a trendy Japanese restaurant in the neighborhood. As we stood at the restaurant’s bar ...
Views: 1532(1 vote) - Looking at the Significance of Relationships in Career Advancement - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2004 from William G Jr Covingtoncopyright 2004 William G. Covington, Jr. PhD God created us as social entities. We influence other people and they influence us throughout our lives. Being aware that this is the way we are can be an advantage if we use this information in a positive way. This article offers some insight on how ...
Views: 1430(1 vote) - Looking Beyond One's Physical Appearance to Find Their Inner Beauty - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2010 from Sharon MikrutHow many times have you seen a person and judged them strictly on their appearance? Or, how many times have you turned away or avoided someone simply because of their appearance? If you find yourself making judgments or avoiding people based on their appearance, you are missing out on ...
Views: 6976(1 vote) - Looking for Love - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2015 from Natalie MooreI was recently in a New York City café, sipping a cappuccino and observing couples at different stages in their relationships. The age-old story: two people meet… and the ritual of courtship ensues. They’re looking for love. Some couples will find “love” for a day. Other couples will create a ...
Views: 814(2 votes) - Looking for That Perfect Relationship? - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2004 from Susan DunnIf you ARE looking for that perfect relationship, stop reading this article and do one of two things: (1) Go to one of those websites that promises something like that and be “taken” again, or (2) Brush up on your emotional intelligence skills. Looking for anything perfect is an ...
Views: 4546(1 vote) - Losing Yourself In A Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2011 from Adam BenedettoLosing yourself in a relationship is a common occurrence. It happens when we forgo our own happiness for that of another, when we give up on our self so that the relationship stays as how we think it should. We give our identity over to the combined effort of keeping the relationship in ...
Views: 3221(1 vote) - Love And Lust: Setting The Record Straight - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraSometimes, when the passion in the relationship is intense knowing the difference between love and lust can be misleading. The lingering effect of great sex chemistry can blind the couple into believing they are meant to be. You get to wonder sometimes, is great sex enough as basis to have ...
Views: 850(2 votes) - Love is in the Air - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2009 from Allan HardmanI am writing this from my winter home in Chacala, Nayarít, Mexico. The moon is full, hanging softly overhead in a warm tropical night sky. I can hear the ocean waves caressing the sandy beach, and mariachi music is playing in the distance. What could be more romantic?? In fact, this scenario is ...
Views: 1341(1 vote) - Love Myth: Love is Blind -- Love Truth: Love is Consciousness - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2009 from Dr. Lisa Love - Best Selling Author - Attract & Keep Real Love, Law of Attraction, Soul SuccessIt’s a common saying, “Love is blind.” And, it’s a phrase that has been stated by numerous well known people. Many movies also proclaim it. Yet, is this really true? Or, is it just another myth about love that prevents us from knowing what love really is, and therefore, stops us from attracting ...
Views: 6783(1 vote) - Love Recipe to simplify your life - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2010 from Michelle ConboyThey are guaranteed to simplify your life and make is easier for you to hold on to yourself. 1 CUP Identify Your Values 1) Make a list of your top 10 values...love, honesty, fun, freedom, intimacy, $$, family; whatever they happen to be. 2) Prioritize your list. Put at the top of your list ...
Views: 1617(2 votes) - Low Self-Love Is Halting You From Experiencing What You Want - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Nanette GeigerMost people fail to truly understand that they have limiting energy or emotion in childhood experiences. Negative emotion, whether strong or mild, feels bad and many of us simply figure out how to disregard it, live with it, or project it farther into the unconscious. People tend to not ...
Views: 1270(4 votes) - Make Your Difficult Ex Boyfriend Reverse The Breakup - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversMake Your Difficult Ex Boyfriend Reverse The Breakup; Psychological tips on how you can make difficult to handle ex boyfriend reverse a breakup. Men are desirous of pleasure. A complete solution to help you get your ex back into your life is provided at the end of this write-up (Author's ...
Views: 14078(2 votes) - Make Your Ex Boyfriend Desire You So Much - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversMake Your Ex Boyfriend Desire You So Much; If you are one of the thousands of women in the world today who are heart broken because they think the man they love is gone for good, you need to find a way to make him desire you again. Remember when he first met you and couldn't stay away from you? ...
Views: 3013(2 votes) - Make Your Ex Boyfriend See How Much He Needs You - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversMake Your Ex Boyfriend See How Much He Needs You ; The moment your boyfriend breaks up with you is a terrible time in your life, but the next day can be even worse. That's when the shock begins to wear off and you realize exactly what has happened. You have lost the only man you can ever love. ...
Views: 4118(2 votes) - Make Your Way Out of Abusive Relationships with Subliminal Messages - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Nelson BerryBy The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online. A lot of people nowadays let themselves get trapped in abusive relationships. What always happens is that they put all the blame on the one doing the abusing and thinks that the other person is the only one who has to make a change. But the ...
Views: 1006(1 vote) - Making Relationships Work - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2009 from Intent.com Authors“It may be that when we no longer know what to do we have come to our real work, and that when we no longer know which way to go we have come to our real journey. The mind that is not baffled is not employed. The impeded stream is the one that sings.” ...
Views: 727(1 vote) - Making The Connection: Tips For Getting Noticed - by Submitted on May 06, 2003 from Antoinette (Toni) ColemanChances are that you have had a wide variety of experiences in your quest for meeting singles. These can range from an event that yields several nice interactions and at least one offer to get together for a date, to going home feeling frustrated and convinced you are destined to be a dating ...
Views: 1335(1 vote) - Making Up with Your Ex - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2010 from Andrew HunterIf you are like most people, you probably want to get your ex back after getting dumped. You find yourself wondering if it's even possible to ever get that relationship back. I want you to know, from personal experience, that it is absolutely possible. But Let me first warn you that this isn't ...
Views: 1887(1 vote) - MAKING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WORK: HOW TO KEEP THE FIRES BURNING - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2010 from Lydia StrehlauOne of the more profound words that I heard is “every wo(man) gets exactly the relationship they want”. These words made me stop and think for a while, striking a cord within me. Is it possible to get a loving and committed relationship that lasts through the years? The answer is in the ...
Views: 1199(1 vote) - Male Body Language Flirting Signs: Reading A Man’s Body Language To Know If He Likes You - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2009 from Michael LeeDon’t you just wish you can read what men are thinking sometimes? Unless you’re in a movie or a comedy sitcom, that is very unlikely. But if you know how to decipher male body language flirting signs, who needs ESP? There is nothing complicated about reading body language, and interpreting ...
Views: 3015(4 votes) - Male Psychology Works To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversMale Psychology Works To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back; If you have been looking for advice to get your ex boyfriend back, you should be familiar with the term male psychology. You might have thought it sounded complicated and tried some other tactic to get your ex back. However male psychology ...
Views: 6346(2 votes) - Male Sensitivities And Love Pains - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Daniela RoherIn a paper published last year (“Non Marital Romantic Relationships and Mental Health in Early Adulthood: Does the Association Differ for Women and Men?” The journal of Health and Social Behavior, June 2010) the authors found that when a romantic relationship ends, young men suffer more ...
Views: 1457(1 vote) - Man Up: The Art Of Non-Sexual Touch - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsIf you are neanderthal or cromagnum man reading this, your reaction to the title may be “What? Me must procreate!” If you are somewhat more enlightened you may be saying, “Yeah right, like there is such a thing.” We are all sexual beings. It’s part of our design. Sexuality plays a role in ...
Views: 1196(1 vote) - Manifesting Happiness and Self-Love for Law of Attraction Affirmations - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Nanette GeigerOne common question I get asked a lot is "How can I become more consistent with my manifesting?" Some people get embarrassed when revealing that they don't have the ability to attract what they want with absolute precision. Because at the end of the day, we can know all the theory and have ...
Views: 2191(2 votes) - Manifesting the Life You've Always Desired with the Law of Attraction - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2010 from Nanette GeigerIt doesn't matter what your history is, it doesn't matter what your fears, concerns and limiting beliefs are today. It doesn't matter what family, country or economic conditions you came from. You can change your point of attraction in a matter of seconds. The time it takes to change your ...
Views: 830(1 vote) - Marriage Advice: Work On The Fundamentals - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2016 from Debbie SchaeferMarriage Advice: Work On The Fundamentals It seems everyone wants to provide marriage advice to couples who are struggling, but unfortunately, sometimes that advice is coming from people who are not doing so well in their own marriage. In fact, this advice may be coming from someone who has ...
Views: 1008(1 vote) - Marriage Help: One Question Couples Should Avoid - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Richard NicastroQuestions have power. They can open our minds up to new possibilities and ways-of-being, they can alter the course of our thoughts and shape our behavior in positive ways... ...and questions can have the opposite effect, shutting us down with the force of a jackhammer. And some questions ...
Views: 1693(4 votes) - Marriage Proposal Ideas: 3 Romantic Marriage Proposals To Make Her Say Yes! - by Submitted on Aug 21, 2009 from Michael LeeWant to know some of the most romantic marriage proposal ideas to make her say “Yes!” without a hitch? This article will reveal them to you. But first, why go through all the fuss? Well, the proposal is one of the most important parts of your relationship. Friends and relatives will ask you ...
Views: 4968(3 votes) - Men and Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2003 from Ray Kadkhodaian,CAC,LCPC,CADC,PsyD & Jean Kadkhodaian,MA,CH,Rev.The two words, "men" and "relationships", often are not mentioned in the same sentence without a "punch line" following them. In addition, men are often stereotyped as being "insensitive" or "uncaring" when it comes to the needs of their partner. It has been my experience in coaching men that ...
Views: 2534(1 vote) - Men and Women: How to Coexist and Be Happy Together - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2010 from Julian SaganIt is practically impossible to find a phenomenon that both men and women would have the same views about. We remain a mystery for one another and essentially live in two isolated realities that only rarely intersect. How can we better understand our other half in everything, including intimate ...
Views: 3757(1 vote) - Men give Advice - Spirit gives Guidance - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2009 from Gregory MorganA teacher told me long ago, "Never lead others without being led yourself." Pause for a moment and ask your heart, "What is guiding me?" We realize that your relationships can work for you or against you. They can stop you in your tracks or transform your life. Do you have the courage to ...
Views: 1179(1 vote) - Missing My Ex - How To Be Friends With Your Ex - by Submitted on Oct 17, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldHow To Be Friends With Your Ex – Missing Your Ex? So you want to learn ways to become friends with an ex lover. You being able to re-establish friendship with an ex is surely a springboard to stop your ex from leaving you… and turn the tables completely. In this write-up, I’m going to talk ...
Views: 1645(2 votes) - More Men Now See a Marriage Counselor - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2009 from Lyn McDonaldCall them SNAG’s – Sensitive New Age Guys or men that are genuinely trying to rescue an ailing relationship. Our practice now sees as many as 75% of males seeking counsel. So what has lead to this new revolution? Once upon a time, the first stages of a marriage breakdown saw the wife looking ...
Views: 1250(1 vote) - My Boyfriend Wants More Space - What Do I Do? - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2011 from Charles UadialeWhen a woman is saying this she feels panic. When your boyfriend whom you love approaches you and let you know that he needs more space it is confusing. That is particularly true if you two have been getting along well. Regrettably, we can't see inside the heart of a guy as a result even if you ...
Views: 4188(1 vote) - My Boyfriend Wants To Take A Break- What Does That Mean - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangThe college aged daughter of a close friend of mine recently asked her mom "my boyfriend wants to take a break, what does that mean?" Her daughter was confused, heart broken and a little angry and was looking for advice. If you're in the same situation here are a few tips than can help you ...
Views: 22251(3 votes) - My Girlfriend Dumped Me - Learn From My Mistakes - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Andrew HunterThe first thought that I thought of as my girlfriend dumped me was to speak to her trying to get her to give me a second chance. Things will be better this time. I've improved.. I'd come to my senses and recognized I needed to start treating her better. It is fine for your ex to have fun with ...
Views: 6745(3 votes) - My Guide for Dealing with Breakups - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2009 from Andrew HunterDealing with a breakup is no small task to do. Upon first being dumped, most people will tend to go a bit crazy for a while. I know I've had to experience all that myself. I've made phone calls and written e-mails that I wish I hadn't. This is obviously not the correct way to deal with a ...
Views: 1439(1 vote) - My Guide on How to Fix a Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2009 from Andrew HunterThere are no 100% perfect relationships. It doesn't matter how many people you date, there will always be a few issues that come to light. Whether or not you know how to fix a relationship is often the determining factor in determining if your relationship with make it. Don't panic if you think ...
Views: 1143(4 votes) - My Personal Advice on Breaking Up - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2009 from Andrew HunterBreakups can be very difficult and painful. Here is some advice I've picked up over the years on how to help you move on, get closure about the breakup or even giving your relationship a second shot. The reasons behind the split up don't matter, all relationships that end have either one or ...
Views: 1198(2 votes) - New Ideas for Things to Do This Weekend - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerWhen I was single I had a love/hate relationship with weekends. I loved having the extra time off work; I hated that I didn’t have a man to spend the time with. The truth is, though, that I didn’t need a man to have fun or accomplish something meaningful. In many cases, I just needed ME! I ...
Views: 2280(4 votes) - NOT ATTRACTED TO MY HUSBAND – BIG PROBLEM? - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2009 from Diana Weiss-WisdomThe Birds, the Bees, and Blended Families Dear Dr. Weiss-Wisdom, This is my second marriage and it’s the second marriage for my husband too. My first husband was very good looking and we had great chemistry. I was very attracted to him but within a couple of years it was clear that we were ...
Views: 2376(2 votes) - Nurture the Most Important Relationship You'll Ever Have - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2011 from Susie and Otto CollinsAre you in a love relationship or marriage with your soulmate? Have you found “the one” for you? Maybe you haven't yet found “Mr. Right” or “Ms Right” and are trying to attract the relationship of your dreams. If you're in a relationship with someone you love and you want this ...
Views: 2055(1 vote) - OLD FASHIONED RELATIONSHIP PRINCIPLES THAT WORK - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2012 from Sam OwenWind back 20-30 years. People lived together as family or housemates, rarely as lovers. Those who were in loving committed relationships often chose marriage as a way of consolidating their commitment to one another. Children were created as part of the growth of a marital relationship. ...
Views: 8438(1 vote) - On Laundry Lists - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2012 from Michael ClearmanAre you a list freak? I have attempted to be one many times in my life but without success. I even bought a fancy organizer to remind me to start every day by making a priority list. Problem is I keep forgetting to open the organizer and fill in the spaces under the “Today’s Tasks” column. You ...
Views: 1264(2 votes) - On Moral Responsibility: I'm Sorry I Screen Your Calls - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2009 from Intent.com Authors"The answers to our problems don't lie beyond our reach. They exist in our laboratories and universities; in our fields and our factories; in the imaginations of our entrepreneurs and the pride of the hardest-working people on Earth. Those qualities that have made America the greatest force of ...
Views: 564(1 vote) - One Moment At A Time - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Sheryl PaulOne of the slogans in the 12-step programs is One Day At A Time. In the life of someone enduring a transition - whether in the midst of a break up, becoming a mother, trying to conceive, or retiring - a more appropriate and helpful phrase is One Moment At A Time. This topic recently emerged ...
Views: 1920(2 votes) - One Secret That Will Redefine Your Marriage - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2014 from Janet PfeifferI've been assisting couples and former couples professionally for nearly thirty years. Regardless of who comes into my office, there seems to be one common thread - people are seeking to learn how to better get along with one another. Their usual approach is to inform me of everything that's ...
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