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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- How to Tell if a Man Is Interested in You - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2012 from Marni BattistaFive Sure-Fire Ways to Tell He Is Definitely Interested in YOU! Whether you are making eyes at some hunky guy over your latte, or on a first date with a man you think might be a keeper, you need to know how to tell if a man is interested in you. Check in using our Five Point “Is He Into Me” ...
Views: 2670(2 votes) - How To Uproot Anger - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from David SamuelAs an example, when people speak about the roads on a snowy day and say it is a mess, that is a negative attitude. Even if it is true, it may be messy but it is what it is. You will deal with whatever you must to get where you are going and it will be over with. There is nothing that can be ...
Views: 1268(1 vote) - How To Win Back An Ex Boyfriend Who Broke Your Heart - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversHow To Win Back An Ex Boyfriend Who Broke Your Heart; If you are still in love with the man who broke up with you, your sole purpose in life becomes winning your ex boyfriend back. However that often causes you to become desperate and drive him farther away. It almost seems that for many women a ...
Views: 6100(2 votes) - How Well Do You Practice Empathy Quiz? 5 Tips to Raise Your Empathy Quotient - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Monica Strobel"Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing." Rollo May Empathy. This pleasant-sounding attribute—like the overlooked compliment—is one of the most important skills we can acquire. Through empathy, we gain recognition and understanding of ...
Views: 2974(1 vote) - How Your Personality, Life and Relationships are Created - The Crucial Key - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2005 from John CoroneosYou are not what you seem to be. Or, perhaps more accurately, you are far more than you have ever experienced yourself to be. Within you right now, exist undreamed of talents and abilities. They are simply waiting for the correct call, to bring them to the surface and enrich your life in a way ...
Views: 1018(1 vote) - Husband Cheated? Here’s What to Do Next - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2011 from Lisa Penn-JamesWhen you learn that the husband cheated, the partner you built your life around was unfaithful to you, the sense of betrayal can be almost unbearable. In a single moment, you are ripped from the life that you knew and have felt safe in. Your relationship and marriage was an important foundation ...
Views: 1735(2 votes) - I Am Having Trouble Dealing With Break Up - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2010 from Jancar TsangWhen you are having trouble dealing with break up it is only natural. There is nothing to be ashamed of because everyone does. The important thing to do is to decide HOW you are going to dealing with break up. You have two ways that you can go about dealing with break up. The first is to let ...
Views: 1350(1 vote) - I Am Tired and Sore (And What That Has To Do With Saving Your Marriage!) - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2010 from Lee BaucomI admit it! I am tired. I am sore. I have discovered muscles I didn't know I had, and ones I didn't know could hurt! Here's the thing: for years, I have been a trail runner. I love being in the woods, seeing the changing seasons, and running with my Yellow Lab, Sunny. We have a blast! ...
Views: 2033(3 votes) - I Can’t Live Without You! - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperA number of months ago, I heard someone say that they couldn’t live without their partner. Now, this wasn’t because this person was disabled and therefore, needed this person in order to be able to handle life. No, this was someone who was perfectly capable of handling life by themselves. ...
Views: 849(1 vote) - I Do But Not With You - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2009 from Delete DeleteWhy your man is stalling commitment, and what you can do to set him straight. As a spiritual counselor, I've been asked this question many times: How can I make my man commit? The cold truth is that you can't. You can't make someone do anything that they don't want to. Well, you can, but ...
Views: 1570(3 votes) - I Don't Need a Man - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2013 from Joyce Dolberg RoweWhen a woman has been hurt deeply she sometimes develops a strong, tough, or negative attitude about relationships and trust in general. If she stays single for a long time, she may tend to believe that she can only rely on herself to the exclusion of all others. She can go so far overboard ...
Views: 1209(2 votes) - I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Change - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Kelly ChicasHow often have you heard the phrase “opposites attract”? This principle is based on the idea that we are attracted to other people not because they are similar to us, but because they possess certain talents, skills, and qualities we lack. When we are fascinated with someone, we often hope ...
Views: 1262(2 votes) - I Want To Get Married - You Truly Don't Have To Mislead Your Boyfriend To Wangle A Proposal - by Submitted on May 25, 2012 from Tony CimbaYou don't have to put a great deal of exertion into getting your boyfriend to want to marry you. You genuinely shouldn't have to hoodwink your boyfriend to finagle a proposal. A permanent relationship focuses on two individuals that share the same beliefs and love one another. As a matter of ...
Views: 1715(3 votes) - If I Am Myself, I Will End Up Alone - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2007 from Margaret PaulPeggy had been married to James for 14 years when she first consulted with me for help with her relationship and her anxiety. "I can't stand being in this marriage anymore. We have two wonderful children and I don't want to break up this family, but I’m miserable and anxious much of the time. ...
Views: 3114(1 vote) - If Your Man Is Distant Read This - Relationship Advice for Women - by Submitted on May 17, 2011 from Sarah MichaelsThis woman is experiencing the pain of her man withdrawing from her, and wondering what she can do to turn her relationship around. Let’s read her story, and then I will explain what this woman can do as Rori Raye has taught us in Have the Relationship You Want…. I have been seeing this guy I ...
Views: 8586(2 votes) - Improving Personal Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2011 from al betzThe richness of life comes from our interactions with other living things. But many of us don’t interact with living things as much as we used to. For example, as I write this article it is appearing on my monitor, but on my companion monitor there is a screensaver. The screensaver image is ...
Views: 4622(1 vote) - In Order To... - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2010 from Denise PendletonLets talk about hidden agendas, shall we? The term “hidden agenda” can be a bit confusing. We may know we have expectations when communicating , and then again we may not. (An expectation is an underlying agenda that we hope to achieve.) Sometimes it’s even hidden from us. That’s why I ...
Views: 1116(2 votes) - In Praise of Marriage - How to Stay in Love and Joyously Married - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2010 from leonard rosmarinMarriages are going down the drain at an alarming rate. Many of those that seem to be surviving are fraught with terrible tensions and anxieties. Thus, it seems foolhardy on my part to sing the praises of what some people refer to contemptuously as "an institution." Yet, despite all this damning ...
Views: 1949(2 votes) - Intimacy in Relationships - Remembering How You Got There - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2010 from Beth Banning and Neill GibsonAre you starting to feel as though the intimacy in your relationship is dissolving right before your very eyes? If so, it doesn't have to be this way. Intimacy and relationships don't have to be mutually exclusive. You can begin to rekindle the intimacy in your relationship by learning a few ...
Views: 2300(1 vote) - Is He Dating other Women? - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2008 from Renee Piane/CampanellaDear Renee (Love Mechanic), I met a man at one of your Rapid Social events and I wanted your advice. Is there any way to find out if he is been seeing or dating other women with our scaring him away? He calls me regularly and we date two nights a week and one weekend night. We have fooled ...
Views: 8795(1 vote) - Is It Conceivable to get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Just after Having No Contact? - by Submitted on May 14, 2012 from Michael LoisAre you currently pondering on ways to get your boyfriend back? Is he ignoring you totally? Maybe he will not be answering your phone calls? It's important to accept the reality that finding your boyfriend back is absolutely challenging if he won't talk to you or perhaps bother to communicate ...
Views: 2133(1 vote) - Is It Good To Date A Married Man Who Is Not Happy In His Marriage? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Francis NmeribeOut there, there might not be any issues with the question of whether it is good to date a married man who is not happy in his marriage. However, in some religious orders, this is completely unacceptable. Dismissing with a wave of the hand any questions asked by young single adults, no matter ...
Views: 5423(2 votes) - Is it Time to Break Up Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeI like to talk to people for a few sessions, and let them determine why they want to break up. In many cases there are good reasons for the break up. In others, the emotional reasons are superficial leaving regret and pain on both sides after the break up. Sometimes a little ‘house cleaning’ and ...
Views: 1490(3 votes) - Is Love Enough? - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2011 from Gina HardyThe purpose of my blog on love and relationships? Well, my life as a spectator is constantly throwing me a vast array of love topics which propel me, often with great speed to my laptop. I love to write, offering up my perspective in a “me, you” discussion and then I like to offer advice as an ...
Views: 1195(1 vote) - Is Low Self-Esteem a Stopper to Attracting a Lasting Love Relationship? Law of Attraction Life Coaching Can Be the Answer - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2009 from Nanette GeigerA woman named Janice from Colorado contacted me with a common concern about keeping a love relationship in her life. Janice is troubled and feeling unworthy and is wondering of the answer to the question: "How do I start to feel capable of a soul mate relationship"? Getting help from a Law of ...
Views: 1304(1 vote) - Is Rebound Relationship Any Good - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2009 from Francis HoseinYou have just broken up and it is difficult to deal with, you are questioning yourself as to what went wrong because to you everything was alright, not great but things you felt that needed work with time you will both would work through. Comforting You realize that you are hurting and ...
Views: 1679(1 vote) - Is She Toxic To You And What To Do About It - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Frank RobinsWhat are some signs that you may be in a toxic relationship? You'll be able to tell because of the impact being in a toxic relationship does to you. You're probably not aware of it but your body is. It will affect you emotionally, physically and psychologically. What happens is you change ...
Views: 1316(1 vote) - Is the Economy Affecting How Men Date? - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2011 from Kara OhIf you find men not paying much attention to you lately, it might not be you, it might be money worries. With what is going on in the economy men tend to go inward when they are concerned about their finances or their jobs. They aren’t thinking about dating other than maybe to get laid, ...
Views: 1500(1 vote) - Is There Any Benefits To A Rebound Relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2010 from Yvonne FinnYour first reaction might be to answer the above questions with a resounding "No!" However, before you do, lets define what a "Rebound relationship" is and why people engage in them. If you have broken up with the love of your life and either one or both of you fall into a "rebound ...
Views: 5455(3 votes) - Is Your Relationship on Lockdown With Too Many Rules & Regulations? - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2016 from Christina MichelleTransitioning from “single” to “in a relationship” or “married” has its share of joys and struggles. It seems that when you are single, you long for someone to come home to, someone who’s waiting for your phone call and someone who anticipates the next time they’ll see you again. However, when ...
Views: 3208(2 votes) - It’s Not What You Think - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2012 from Geoff LaughtonDo you ever notice how much time you spend trying to “figure out what’s going on” in your life…and in your relationship, if you’re in one? If it ends up being a fair amount of time, how’s it working for you? When you do get some “answers,” what’s the most common result you get from having ...
Views: 1611(1 vote) - Jealousy Paralyzes Creativity, Productivity and Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Lauren MillerCNBC: Jealousy Paralyzes Creativity, Productivity and Relationships, Says Stress Relief Expert Lauren E. Miller Published: Tuesday, 12 Jul 2011 | 8:10 AM ET According to Harvard Medical School, 80% of disease is stress related. "Jealousy can create stress," says stress relief expert ...
Views: 1473(1 vote) - Lasting Change Starts From Within - by Submitted on May 07, 2011 from Curt GorlickIf you have finally had enough stress… overwhelm… over-compromise… anger and … disappointment in your life and… you’re ready to do something about it… CONGRATULATIONS! I remember back many years ago when I was a young boy my father would often say, “Talk’s cheap. Don’t be a talker, be a ...
Views: 1141(1 vote) - Law of Attraction Coach Explains How to Start Harnessing the Strength of the Law of Attraction - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2010 from Nanette GeigerLove is a super high vibration. Appreciation is also a super high vibration. Are you practicing appreciation, love and high vibrations regularly? Good. Even if you find your mood going down the emotional scale in only a matter of minutes you can raise it again. Use memories that make ...
Views: 952(3 votes) - Law of Attraction Coach Shares How-To Tips on Managing Your Vibration - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2010 from Nanette GeigerThis is an intermediate to advanced discussion on the Law of Attraction. It's very important to understand the role of your emotions in the attraction process. Let's take the example of a garden hose. When you have the water turned on water flows through the hose. When there's an obstruction or ...
Views: 1070(2 votes) - Law of Attraction Coach Tells You How to Attract More Of Your Desires - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2010 from Nanette GeigerFew of us go around truly knowing how we feel in every moment. Everyone has understand functioning on automatic pilot and going through the motions of life. Actually, putting your efforts on auto-pilot can turn out very useful. Especially if it involves doing a simple project such as cleaning ...
Views: 1088(5 votes) - Law of Attraction Coach Tells You How To Gain Peace of Mind from Contrast - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2010 from Nanette GeigerHave you ever noticed, at times life seems to throw us a fast curve ball? Something unexpected and often undesirable pops up. This unexpected situation interrupts the status quo and can create tension. Depending on the tools we have in our emotional tool box, how we handle these upsets can range ...
Views: 967(4 votes) - Law Of Attraction Coach: Appearance Isn't Everything - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Nanette GeigerHere are the findings from a study done by a popular dating site. What are the most important aspects in a lover: 1. Appearance 11% 2. Personality 30% 3. Physique 5% 4. Sense of Humor 14% 5. Eyes 10% 6. Popularity 0% 7. Smile 12% 8. Hair 7% 9. Education 7% 10. ...
Views: 2921(4 votes) - Law of Attraction Life Coach Gives Knowledge on Creating Anything You Truly Want - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2010 from Nanette GeigerWhat things in your life do you love? I mean, ponder this for a second. What is absolutely unique and wonderful about you? Here is an assignment: Make a listing of everything you love about yourself. Alright, if love is too intense a word, look around for what you really like and admire ...
Views: 1091(2 votes) - Law of Attraction Life Coach Teaches How to Attract the Life You've Always Wanted - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2010 from Nanette GeigerWhat you want is seeking you. Have you ever considered that what you want is seeking you? What a curious idea. How could that be? Well, it makes sense that if I have an idea, it came from somewhere, my intellect, my imagination, my creative genius. And it makes sense that if I have a ...
Views: 843(2 votes) - Law of Attraction Relationship Success - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2009 from Nea Joy JusticeLaw of Attraction is a Universal Law, thus it impacts every part of your existence, including your love life. If dysfunctional or otherwise unsuccessful relationships are your pattern, do not give up hope. It's easy to feel scared, mistreated, or even cursed if you've had a series of ...
Views: 1902(2 votes) - Law of Attraction: 7 Steps to Create a Fulfilling, Loving Relationship #3 in a series - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2009 from Lorna Sophia LevyGet yourself a nice notebook – one that you can write in and make notes. Let it be one that makes you feel good when you look at it. Then follow the steps below. 1. Make a list of all the qualities you want your partner to have – looks, personality, job, attitudes, etc. Make it as long as ...
Views: 1354(3 votes) - Learn 2 Ways You Can Save Your Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Mika MaddelaIf you're married, you've at least come across a point in your life where your relationship was rock or unstable. The stress from external experiences kept you and your spouse from living a harmonious and peaceful life. This is a common occurrence when it comes to many long term relationships. ...
Views: 757(1 vote) - Learn how to Feel Secure and Seek True Love - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2009 from Nanette GeigerA lot of people transfer over trust issues from past relationships, or sometimes childhood events and traumas. The strong emotions from these memories can be a real factor in our ability to create and keep a lasting loving relationship. This was absolutely true in my case, and I was not able to ...
Views: 2470(5 votes) - Learning about Yourself While Going on Blind-Dates Will Help You Develop Better Relationships - by Submitted on May 29, 2011 from Doron GilIf you have been going on blind-dates for quite some time now and haven’t yet succeeded in extending a date into a meaningful relationship, you may want to take a careful look at yourself and understand the reasons. OBSERVE YOURSELF WHILE GOING ON A BLIND-DATE Looking at yourself doesn’t ...
Views: 990(1 vote) - Learning How To Communicate in a Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2010 from Rachel MohebanWe’re living in an era that is all about communication…instant, constant, easy communication. So why is it that often the most challenging communication is the one that takes place within your closest relationship? It goes without saying that the more emotional and physical intimacy you share ...
Views: 1221(1 vote) - Learning the Lesson - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Timothy MeadLearn the lesson! How many times have you been told to learn the lesson? How many times have you offered this advice to others? The questions follow, “What lesson?” and “How do I learn it?” First some background: All life forms are symbiont beings. The physical shell is a vehicle which ...
Views: 1194(1 vote) - Learning to Trust and Believing What is Right - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2010 from Beatrice ElderDuring our life time, we meet people from all walks of life. Some may go on to be lifelong friends, while others may flit in and out of our lives for whatever reason. In the meantime we may have doubts and disbelief about the friendship, this will create a sense of mistrust between the two ...
Views: 1412(2 votes) - Leave the Last Minute Behind and Get Organized - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2010 from Jimmy WagnerWith our busy lifestyles, appointments and schedules, we are all hoping to stay organized. Often times, important dates are forgotten until the last minute and we find ourselves scrambling and frantic to be on time, meet the deadline or finish the project. It’s easy to lose sight of what’s not ...
Views: 468(1 vote) - Letting Go - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2012 from princessgen patrisLetting go “How would I let him go?”, this is the exact question my best friend asked me 2 days ago. I decided to write something about this topic, for her and for you to know my end. Letting go is easy to say, but hard to do. How would we let go to someone we treated as our world, whom we have ...
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