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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Winter Solstice Resolutions - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2007 from Julianne BentleyDo you want your next year to include sexual fulfillment? Do you want to improve communication, change your body image, and make more time for fun? What if you could create or welcome into your life a new relationship reality? The Winter Solstice, the time when the new Sun is born, is an ...
Views: 3643 - WISDOM: A NECESSITY FOR AN IMPACTFUL LIFE - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Felix OginniWISDOM: A NECESSITY FOR AN IMPACTFUL LIFE By Dr. Felix A. Oginni Every being needs God’s wisdom in thoughts, utterances and in whatever he or she does. What is wisdom? Wisdom can be explained as follows: (i) Good sense that enables one to make sensible decisions and judgments based ...
Views: 2493 - WISDOM: A NECESSITY FOR AN IMPACTFUL LIFE - Dr. Felix A. Oginni - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Felix OginniWISDOM: A NECESSITY FOR AN IMPACTFUL LIFE By Dr. Felix A. Oginni Every being needs God’s wisdom in thoughts, utterances and in whatever he or she does. What is wisdom? Wisdom can be explained as follows: (i) Good sense that enables one to make sensible decisions and judgments based ...
Views: 1332 - Woman and choice Mother - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2011 from Fardhie HantaryInvocation and Peace for them Woman and choice Mother. Many people already travel on this earth lives either in large or small an achievement or a desire, which is considered a success and a symbol of the success of someone or a group, actually really can not be separated from the active ...
Views: 1862 - Women Can Enjoy Sex More - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2012 from Donna TurnerWomen all over the world enjoy their special private time with their partners, and many women also enjoy time alone. But how can you make these two valued moments, “extra special?” Well, by incorporating sex toys of course! It is easy for men to get off, but for some women, it may ...
Views: 1241 - Women Get Help With Marriage Counseling Expert's Work - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2012 from Deborah LindstromOne out of every three men will most likely cheat, based on Gary Neuman's book "The Truth About Cheating". Even worse, their partners will most likely never know about it. In writing the book, the writer questioned hundreds of men, both unfaithful and faithful. With his investigation, Gary ...
Views: 903 - Women In Abusive Relationships - The Issue In Plague Proportions That Hardly Ever Gets Mentioned - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2008 from Leo RyanWomen in abusive relationships is a scourge that is a plague throughout the world. Before I proceed I need to comment on the widely held belief that abounds today that abuse in relationships is as likely to be perpetrated by women as it is by men. My comment is - poppycock. In other words, ...
Views: 741 - Women over 50-3 “Hot” Dating Tips for Building Your Dating Confidence after 50 - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2012 from Lisa CIf you’re dating again for the first time in a long time, you could probably use some confidence builders in the form of what I like to call ‘Dating Updating’. More than likely it’s probably been a while since you’ve done something different with the way you look so a few changes can take ...
Views: 1764 - Women over 50-Find out Why Quality Men of All Ages Want to Date You as a Mature Dater - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2012 from Lisa CI hear so many women mistakenly think they are too old to date now. Not True! One of the coolest things about dating over 50 is that you NOW have CHOICES when it comes to dating men of all ages! Believe it or not younger men are standing in line to date you along with men our age as well as ...
Views: 2612 - Women over 50-How to Handle Being Single and Alone for the First Time –after 50 - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2012 from Lisa CI am now involved in a wonderful relationship with a man I love and adore (who I met at an online dating site!) but do you know what most terrifies me about it? The idea of giving up my “Single Status.” You are probably thinking, “Is she nuts?” Nope, I’m not. I love being with a guy but I ...
Views: 4799 - Women Should Not Be Judged By Their Looks - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2019 from Humayoun ShakeelImage is very powerful. It gives us conscious and unconscious impressions about any person. We may sometimes make quick judgments about the people from the way they dress; we may think these thoughts whether the person is wealthy or poor, conservative or liberal, well-educated or plain, ...
Views: 650 - Women's Flirting Body Language - The 5 Skills You Need to Decode What She Really Means - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2009 from Mark TaylorIt is a fact that the women's flirting body language is definitely not just something obvious and predictable - that's definitely far from it and what's more, it is an art that should be learned and mastered. Now, when a woman starts flirting, you may sometimes think that maybe it's just your ...
Views: 1329 - Wondering How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back-Some Advice That You Need - by Submitted on May 27, 2012 from Franklin FashayaYour ex has put a stop to a very interesting relationship between the both of you, and this end result has made you to be wondering why? You have come to the right place for solution. I know very well that meeting the right guy is not very easy these days and the only thing worse than never ...
Views: 874 - Words Of Congratulations For A Wedding: 3 Amazing Ways To Congratulate The Wedding Couple - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2008 from Michael LeeWhen someone’s getting married, it’s important that you give words of congratulations for a wedding. After all, marriage is a huge step and it’s supposed to be the happiest day of a person’s life! However, tradition (and perhaps poor creativity) has reduced words of ...
Views: 2121 - Words of Encouragement After a Breakup - Make Your Relationship Work - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2012 from Patrick UadialeYou'll hear all kinds of words of encouragement after a breakup. What you choose to do with them is completely up to you. It's a good idea if you take them to heart and appreciate them in the spirit they were given: out of love for you. Breakups aren't easy for anyone. Whether you were on the ...
Views: 3748 - Words of Respect to Husband: When a Wife Doesn't Respect Her Husband - What Happens When You Lost Respect for Your Husband - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2019 from Rodrigo ArjunWords of Respect to Husband: When a Wife Doesn't Respect Her Husband - What Happens When You Lost Respect for Your Husband Would you like to show your man that you respect him? Does the word "respect" make you balk thinking it is a romance-killer? Would you like to strengthen your ...
Views: 722 - Words Of Wisdom For A Happy Marriage: Words Of Wisdom For Married Couples - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2019 from Jamari MarvinWords Of Wisdom For A Happy Marriage: Words Of Wisdom For Married Couples The secrets of successful marriage is what everyone must pant after so as to have a healthy and comfortable home. The secret of a successful marriage and happy family life is one that has a foundation on God who is ...
Views: 695 - Words Of Wisdom For Newly Married Couple: Advice For A Long And Happy Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenWords Of Wisdom For Newly Married Couple: Advice For A Long And Happy Marriage After spending a considerable amount of time planning your wedding, things such as the dress, the tuxes, the flowers, the rings, the honeymoon trip, and the budget were the focus of your time. But how much time did ...
Views: 809 - Words To Say That Will Make An Ex Boyfriend Think Of Love Again - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversWords To Say That Will Make An Ex Boyfriend Think Of Love Again; Seeking for words to say or what to say that can make an ex boyfriend think of love again. What to do and how to approach your ex boyfriend to get interested in reconciling with you and possibly get back together in love. There are ...
Views: 4826 - Work from Home and Get Well Paid - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomPlease only come to us about this job if you are seriously interested and are able to give us at least ten hours each week... there is no expense to you and you do not need any relevant work experience but you do need to be kind and caring. Due to the virus becoming so devastating and ...
Views: 897 - Work from Home and Relationship Woes: Making it Work - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2021 from Clarissa LearyA Work from home job can be difficult under the best of circumstances, but when a relationship at home isn’t working, it can be even harder to manage running your own business. Pent up frustrations and all-out brawls can hinder creativity and hamper your energy for work. How can you manage the ...
Views: 829 - Working It Out At Work - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2008 from Lauri Allison LaBadieFrom the threat of lay-off to balancing work and family life, today’s work-related problems are increasingly complicated and stressful. Job-related stresses frequently lead to a great deal of frustration and discontentment. Fortunately, there are many ways you can create a more enjoyable work ...
Views: 1677 - Working on your Marriage with Good Communication - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Burrow HillEveryone has heard the saying “marriage takes work” or “you’ve got to work on your marriage”. Exactly, what does that mean? I never had a class in school for that. In college, I never saw that class listed in my choices. The local community college doesn’t advertise this type of course. On-line ...
Views: 671 - Workplace Romance - Should You Or Shouldn't You? - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2008 from Keith and Maura Leon - Relationship Specialists, Best Selling Authors, Master Relationship Coaches and TrainersDear Keith and Maura, Do you think it means anything if a guy you like at work happens to give you his cell phone number out of the blue, or if you ask that guy – joking around – if he can give you a ride home from work and he has a big grin on his face? I work at a grocery store ...
Views: 1575 - Worst Chat Up Lines – What To Avoid When Chatting - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2011 from Roxie GutierrezMen have tried to attract women with chat up lines only to fail most of the time. In fact, some in society that a chat up line is the worst way to approach a woman with. Nevertheless, if a man chooses to use one, he should be reminded of the worst chat up lines to use. Here are a few ...
Views: 844 - Would You Know If Your Spouse Is True To You? - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2008 from Bill MitchellSOUTH CAROLINA — It’s hard not to flip on a news channel without hearing another story of a picture-perfect marriage destroyed by infidelity. Mistresses, prostitutes and membership to cheating internet sites are bringing a close on the chapter the great American way of life. A wife and a ...
Views: 1513 - Would You Like To Know How to Get A Girl Back? - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2011 from Teecee GoWhatever the reasons are for your break-up, you may want know how to get a girl back. Although many couples are breaking up, many of them still like to get back together again. There are a number of ways that you can apply in your efforts to get your girl back. However, you need to bear some ...
Views: 524 - Write It On Your Heart - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2011 from Cornelia Powell"Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year." - Ralph Waldo Emerson This is not news when I say that weddings have become outlandishly expensive, extravagant productions. If you're a bride-to-be, and no matter what wedding industry hype says, your wedding day is not ...
Views: 1602 - Writing Love Letters - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2011 from Francis HoseinTo some people writing love letters is a thing of the past and many do not see the sense of doing it because of emails yet for many of our parents age this was the way they communicated and this also help them to get to know each other and when the times were rough this help them to make it ...
Views: 1103 - Wrong Perceptions Can Be Lethal - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2007 from William CottringerWRONG PERCEPTIONS CAN BE LETHAL By Bill Cottringer “You are only as wise as others perceive you to be” ~M. Shawn Cole It would be amusing if it weren’t for the destructiveness that wrong perceptions of people and situations can cause. What is amusing is that we are convinced of the truth ...
Views: 13614 - Year of Peace - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2014 from Tina TessinaHappy New Year, everyone! This is the time when a lot of energy is spent on making resolutions, most of which we don’t manage to keep. So, this year, I propose a different kind of resolution. Will you join me in resolving to create a year of peace? Peace begins inside yourself. When you ...
Views: 1587 - Yes, I got Triggered Again! - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2015 from Valerie LipsteinOur most intimate partners know how to trigger us. Sometimes we get annoyed or even angry. We take the bait and we’re in reactive mode. It’s not a matter of “if” we will get triggered, it’s a matter of how often and what we can do to stay grounded and accept the gift being offered. Yes, you ...
Views: 1388 - Yesterday is History! Tomorrow is a Mystery! - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Larry JamesCouples who dwell or live in the past seldom are the ones you notice moving forward with anticipation to the future. My belief it that you should only look back to see how far you've come and to learn from the experience. To break free from the past you must look at the future as a mystery. ...
Views: 981 - Yin Yang Relationships - How to Find YOUR Perfect Partner - by Yin Yang is the ancient, Chinese symbol for balance. It depicts the strong attraction and complementary nature of opposites. Just as magnate and metal attract, while oil and water repel, we too are subject to these laws of nature in our relationships. For example, we have all met people for whom ...
Views: 2883 - You (Don't) complete Me... Dispelling the Jerry McGuire Myth - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2012 from Lisa DaltonHow many of us felt the tension as Jerry McGuire and Dorothy Boyd, fresh from Jerry’s meltdown and Dorothy’s impulsive support, stood in that elevator as the couple beside them shared those romantic words, “You complete me”? Dorothy’s panic over what she had just ...
Views: 3331 - You Are Capable of Unconditional Love - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2009 from Tony GrantIt has been quite some time since my last posting and oh so much has occurred in my life that words find it hard to express. However, I have been seeing a lot of articles lately about unconditional love and how we, as adults, seem to lose that ability to see love for what it is rather than ...
Views: 1558 - You Are Everything To Me - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2010 from M.Farouk RadwanHe is everything to me, life without him is pointless I want nothing except being beside him But now he is gone and my life is meaningless Desperate Girl The problem with making someone everything in your life is that when you lose him you will find yourself having nothing. One of the ...
Views: 963 - You Are Loved: 5 ways to feel more loved today, regardless of your relationship status - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2011 from Christine AryloIt’s natural to want a companion to walk this earth with. To face the big stuff and the small stuff with A witness to your life, as you are a witness and cheerleader for theirs. We all want to feel loved. But what if you haven’t found that soul partner yet? Are you destined to feel lonely ...
Views: 1837 - You Are Not The Problem: Why it’s Not Your Fault You Were Cheated on - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2018 from C Mellie SmithWhen you discover that the person you trust the most has betrayed you, whether that be with an emotional affair or a physical one, it can have devastating effects. From getting stuck in an endless cycle of bitterness, depression, and loneliness to being convinced that you somehow were the ...
Views: 3381 - You Are Somebody's "10" - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2007 from Jan DeniseINSIDE/NAKED RELATIONSHIPS BY JAN DENISE RELEASE: FRIDAY, JULY 20, 2007 You Are Somebody's "10" In desperate moments, we just want somebody to have dinner with … but in our heart of hearts, we want to be cherished. We want to be completely known and loved by somebody who thinks we're ...
Views: 864 - You Are Your Soul Mate - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2008 from Richard Singer Jr.Within your own house dwells the treasure of joy, So why do you go begging from door to door As human beings we are consistently involved in an endless search for something external to fill the void within us. We search for the perfect partner or our Soul mate, with the hopes of finding ...
Views: 1701 - You Call Your Ex What Are Your Intentions? - by Submitted on Nov 01, 2012 from Michael LoisAt some point you are reviewing all the numbers you have stored in your cell phone and one of those numbers seem to be capturing all your attention. Every time you see it, you get a feeling and you know there’s a reason that seems nevertheless still appear always in sight. But ofcourse, is ...
Views: 1102 - You can create instant attraction in women by using alpha male traits. - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2012 from Jacobs jesseMen who are using alpha male traits in their seduction of women find out that it becomes easy for them to instantly attract women. While many guys are envious of the few men who beautiful women are always coming close to and having regular dates with, these successful guys are busy enjoying ...
Views: 3691 - You Can Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Even If You Cheated On Her! - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2011 from Jay RuggIf you cheated on your girlfriend and now want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back, you are not alone. If you realized that you made a mistake and want your ex back.... You CAN get your ex girlfriend back! Here are the basic steps on how you can make this happen: A relationship fix may ...
Views: 3216 - You Can Get Your Girlfriend Back! - 5 Crucial Techniques - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2010 from Andrew HunterIt's not startling to learn that more than fifty percent of men involved in breakups want their girlfriends back. Instead of thinking it over and making a comprehensive plan to get their girlfriends back, though, too many men say or do foolish things on the spur of the moment that actually ...
Views: 3252 - You Can Have It All in Your Love Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2007 from Susie and Otto CollinsAfter many years of being in a love relationship, you might be asking yourself: “Can I have it all?” It’s a good question and here’s what we find in our experience working with couples…. --A couple may have friendship or compatibility, but little or no passion. --A person might feel like he ...
Views: 915 - You can have it all—in your Marriage and your Life - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Burrow HillBy Burrow Hill How you define “having it all” depends on your priorities, but typically people want accomplishments such as these: • The perfect spouse • 2.5 wonderful children • A beautiful home and yard • A wonderful, fulfilling career • A sincere and committed faith • An incredible ...
Views: 657 - You Can Make and Keep Your Relationships Harmonious - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2016 from Maria Khalife“As a teenager I was more of an anarchist, but now I want people to thrive and be harmonious.” ~ Nicolas Cage Bouncing your ideas off others can begin as a terrifying task when you aren’t completely sure about yourself. As you unfold that surety, though, you learn ways to adjust your words so ...
Views: 1450 - You Can Only Be Replaced If You Let It Happen! - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2021 from Dr Rick GoodmanIt was 1994 when the papers were delivered to my apartment; I had just joined the ranks of 50% of the population when my wife filed for divorce. As a single father my biggest fear was that someone would come in to my ex-wife's life and that person would eventually replace me as the figurehead ...
Views: 1573 - You can only manage your half of any relationship - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsI'm always struck by how opposites attract. I'm also struck by how attraction turns into frustration over time. It's a fascinating phenomenon that we are drawn to people with different characteristics and strengths than we have. Then we spend the rest of our lives trying to change them so that ...
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