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Stress, Anxiety and the 'tapping' therapies
What is stress and anxiety? How does it affect you? It is a common and normal fact of life that no matter who we are, where we live or how old we are most of us experience some form of stress and anxiety throughout our daily lives. Be it work ... Views: 1746
What you take along with you-just in case you might need them-and in what type of handbag you place them can be quite self descriptive.
Activity Handbag:
Taking with you lots of reading material and other things to do, and actually being admired by others for putting every spare moment to a ... Views: 1648
The hair color that you choose as well as your hairstyle, broadcast specifically how you want to impress others.
Aryan Complex:
Beauty, epicureanism, tempered with limitation and worldly wise indicate the real you.
Black Hair:
You prefer to be viewed as mystic and secretive, not to mention ... Views: 1532
Your gift to someone, how you thought about them-if at all- tells about you. As an example, jewelry is an “easy” gift for a man to give to a woman. Clothing have more intimate overtones.
Extravagant:
You want others to keep in mind what you put out for them.
Gifts (That Are Really ... Views: 886
What Are Ego Defense Mechanisms?
When you accidentally injure yourself, your body automatically begins several self healing processes, aiming to restore your body to its original healthy state. But what if you're emotionally hurt? What if you face a sudden shock or a tremendous amount of ... Views: 2717
What The Place, Time And How You Eat Betray
You are what you eat.
All Day Long:
Although actually full, you feel the need to give just a little bit more to yourself. Essentially feeding your lack of self assuredness.
Anorexic:
Taught not to give in to basic pleasures even moderately, this ... Views: 795
What Your Driving Discloses:
Many psychoanalysts and probably the multitude of drivers state that the automobile in the driver’s hands is an extension of themself. Let’s see to what extent.
Above The Speed Limit:
When you drive above the speed limit, it is the rebellion in you that ... Views: 860
What Your Type Of Divorce Reflects:
The way a person goes about divorcing and all its variations are very telltale.
Analyst’s Divorce:
It was your analyst’s suggestion that you part. After all the therapeutic sessions, your analyst was comfortable with the both of you divorcing, ... Views: 758
What Your Favorite Color Signifies:
Psychoanalysts relate that the color a person most favors, reveals moods and mood swings. They suggest that the very colors themselves have a direct effect on our state of mind.
Beige:
A tannish grey color exhibits impartiality. Though you certainly are not ... Views: 2594
What Your Body Language Signals:
Why we make the gestures that we do with our bodies, is directly caused by our state of mind at that particular point in time and place. The following is an alphabetized list of the traits we exhibit:
Aggressive, Defensive Or Hostile:
When one is feeling ... Views: 15574
What Your Appearance Says:
One’s facial formations and body gestures are very telltale.
Eyes:
How much people open or close their eyes while talking to you is an indication of how much they are revealing of what is on their mind. Wide open eyes tell everything, those with extremely wide ... Views: 1732
What your address book shows:
The type of address book that you purchase and the way in which you keep it discloses your relationship with others.
Cheap address book:
Besides their being inexpensive, they’re actually quite disposable as many of your relationships tend to be. You do not ... Views: 841
What is termed ‘madness’ or ‘mental illness’ is for some the only means for expression of their being lost and confused in a world which has caused them deep hurt and pain. Such is not disease but behavior with metaphorical meaning. There has been received through life mixed messages and ... Views: 2542
The Systemic Constellation approach, as developed by Bert Hellinger, is a powerful tool for unlocking hidden family dynamics and events that may still influence and entrap individuals many generations hence. This approach has proved helpful in resolving issues of depression, suicide, physical ... Views: 2477
On May 1st 2008, so called DC Madam Deborah Jean Palfrey was found hanging in a utility shed at her mother’s mobile home in Tarpon Springs, Florida. A couple suicide notes were found.
The Pinellas County Sheriff’s Department has stated officially that it was a suicide and made the notes public. ... Views: 1495
The Power of Psychology
The Clothes that you wear, the way you walk, your face features, your body language, your tone of voice, Your doodles,your hobbies and the music that you prefer can reveal a lot about your personality. After studying psychology for years I discovered how naked do ... Views: 6143
The Presence Of Fear Is Proof You Are Focusing On The Wrong Thing
One day, I was asked, "What is the leading factor of all unfulfilled dreams?"
After thinking about it awhile, I realized the answer was obvious. Fear! Fear imprisons a person and keeps them from going after their dreams.
The ... Views: 1191
You asked for a transformational dream and so I give you this one which came at a time in my life when something had happened with an individual with whom I worked, that was very difficult. This was the first time in my life I felt hatred for another person to the point that my waking life was ... Views: 1577
Do you want to be a mind reader? Well, lets get the disappointing part out of the way: You won't be able to hear the thoughts of others, and there is little evidence that anyone has ever had this kind of ability. Most of what passes as mind reading is a mix of nonsense and psychological tactics ... Views: 1303
Are regrets, bad memories, or losses keeping you from enjoying each new day? Is the past keeping you from moving into the future with hope and anticipation?
I recently heard a man say that it was not until he made peace with his past that he truly began to live. It changed his life so ... Views: 1133
Philosophical counseling is a method of therapy where the practitioner combines the insights and methods of philosophical discourse with traditional psychotherapeutic approaches. Often this combination creates a powerful therapeutic atmosphere for the client. It is a recognized profession which ... Views: 1171
"I've dreamt in my life dreams that have stayed with me ever after, and changed my ideas; they've gone through and through me, like wine through water, and altered the color of my mind." - Emily Bronte, English novelist and poet
Dreams have the tremendous power to transform our lives in so ... Views: 1339
AIR RAGE, like road rage, is the inability to cope with the challenges of congested traffic. Just like aggressive driving and road rage, air rage is so common that most travelers are unaware that they have it. It's just part of the background feeling that goes along with the stress of travel and ... Views: 2418
From my clinical training, research, and experience as a family-systems therapist since 1979, I have come to believe that normal human personalities – like yours – are composed of a group of unique, talented “subselves” or “parts (discrete brain regions). This “inner family” of subselves acts ... Views: 3782
Why did they hurt me?
How many times have you felt that someone did hurt you on intention?
How many sleepless nights have you spent because of the feeling of being hurt?
Have you ever tried to know whether people really intended to hurt you or whether its jut your lack of understanding of the ... Views: 13765
Cognitive development focuses on how children learn and process information. It is the development of the thinking and organizing systems of the mind. It involves language, mental imagery, thinking, reasoning, problem solving, and memory development.
By general consensus, Jean Piaget stands as ... Views: 1550
You are not alone. We are all here together and all you have to do is reach out to others and they will be there for you. You'll have to make yourself available to others or you won't be able to have "right fellowship." Go to the spiritual circles in your area, go to events and gatherings where ... Views: 2680
"If the dimension of presence or awareness is missing, then you are lost in the reaction. Then you become the reaction, and you don’t know who you are." - Eckhart Tolle
Being very reactive to life, with high sensitivity, can be a distressing and disorienting experience. Probably starting ... Views: 1200
"As a child, I was very shy. Painfully, excruciatingly shy. I hid a lot in my room. I was so terrified to read out loud in school that I had to have my mother ask my reading teacher not to call on me in class." - Kim Basinger
Many of us were shy as children, and continue to be. In more extreme ... Views: 1668
All of my life I have been a student of psychology or study of the soul. Being a professional Astrologer for 33 years, from the first I had wanted to be a Jungian Analyst, but family concerns made that dream impossible. They didn't keep me from Jungian analysis nor from years of studying Dr. ... Views: 1505
Partnership Driving
Partnership Driving, is a method of driving in which the passenger is designated by the driver as a partner in driving. The two set up an informal contract between them that expresses the terms they mutually agreed on. The contract is for one trip only, and needs to be ... Views: 1529
From Infancy to Adolescence by Viola Morgan
From infancy to adolescence, environmental influences play a major role in the development of our personality. Similar to animals, our social adaptation is stemmed through the process of observational learning. Therefore we can conclude that ... Views: 884
For far too long “vs.” has designated a combative stance which has interfered with a useful combination of psychotherapy and medication.
Medication can be a vital aid when prescribed properly especially for severe depression, bi-polar disorders and psychosis. Of course each patient ... Views: 2099
Question:
What happens to a narcissist who lacks even the basic potential and skills to realise some of his grandiose fantasies?
Answer:
Such a narcissist resorts to deferred Narcissistic Supply which generates an effect of deferred grandiosity. He forgoes his grandiose schemes and gives up ... Views: 3087
Therapy, in most cases, cannot cure the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), only mitigate and ameliorate the condition by modifying some of the narcissist's behaviours.
Only narcissists, who go through a severe life crisis, tend to consider the possibility of therapy at all. When they ... Views: 5307
About Things That Need To Be Changed
Question:
There are tough times in our family due our two teen aged kids. They are not obeying the house rules. How can we maintain their discipline?
Answer:
We can miss very quickly the point once we concentrate on the issue of obedience and discipline. ... Views: 1242
Haven't heard of evolutionary economics? It's not surprising. This is a new area of study that looks into the biological and evolutionary forces that shape our economic decisions. It is related to behavioral economics, another discipline you don't hear much about.
The behavioral perspective is ... Views: 769
No One Is Blinder Than He Who Will Not See
by Alexander Green
Last April in Washington D.C., a young man in blue jeans and a T-shirt emerged from the metro and positioned himself against a wall beside a trash basket.
He removed a violin from a small case, threw in a few dollars and pocket ... Views: 3578
There are good people everywhere, but how do we define good? Pope Sixtus IV loved Tomas de Torquemada (arguably the most evil man that has ever lived)! Good and evil seem entwined with society’s expectations. Behavior can be considered good by some, bad by others, and volumes are written on this ... Views: 1105
Many pet owners are faced with their dog’s phobia of thunderstorms and severe weather. It is relatively common for dogs to retreat under a bed in hiding, to whine, shake, drool or pace when the weather gets nasty outside. Though it may not seem like much more than a nervous habit at first, ... Views: 835
Values could be defined as beliefs in which we have an emotional investment.
If we study the values of rural areas throughout the world, we see that a pastoral, agricultural life naturally propagates ethics and ideals that create harmony between people, such as thrift, honesty, quietness, ... Views: 1169
Note: As this subject needs a deeper explanation the article is broken down into three parts.
1. The first deals with the nature of natural freedom
2. The second with misconceptions about freedom
3. The third about how to experience freedom.
What are those possible “understandings” that might ... Views: 1428
Note: As this subject needs a deeper explanation the article is broken down into three parts.
1. The first deals with the nature of natural freedom
2. The second with misconceptions about freedom
3. The third about how to experience freedom.
The Reality of Freedom.
The reality is that we are ... Views: 1322
The cosmos is gigantic. But the inner frontier, the brain's potential for the imagination, supercedes it.
Contrary to myth, the brain's plasticity exists into old age and is highly adaptable to change.
Frequently the brain is easily misled, but the organ's deep intellect is priceless ... Views: 2225
Note: As this subject needs a deeper explanation the article is broken down into three parts.
1. The first deals with the nature of natural freedom
2. The second with misconceptions about freedom
3. The third about how to experience freedom.
Freedom is the absence of internal or external ... Views: 1341
In considering what I've learned over the years that has most served to guide me, I believe that the following principles have significantly shaped my work.
The relationship between therapist and client is not exactly a partnership after all.
It's the therapist's job to serve the client. ... Views: 1060
Developing an Empirical Awareness of the Four Freedoms
You can do simple experiments to comprehend that all elements of you are interconnected.
For 30 seconds think a very negative thought, for instance, your partner has left you, you have been fired, or your home has burned down. Stop the ... Views: 735
It’s difficult to think about seeing a counselor. We ask ourselves, “Shouldn’t I be able to solve my own problems? Is my problem too small to bother [someone else] with? Is it too big—is there help or hope for it? For me? This is embarrassing! What happens in counseling? How can I know it will ... Views: 1439
Ultimate Reality: Consciousness
If the difference between particles and waves is so slippery, and if time and space are so easily transcended, what is the fundamental nature of reality? What is real? One answer is consciousness. Consciousness is original and fundamental, everything ... Views: 702
The key to making your subconscious mind work for you is in your attitude. Having a positive self-esteem and confidence in yourself can go a long way towards achieving the goals that you have set out for your mind. Whilst many people believe that confidence and esteem comes with your ... Views: 4373