You want to find out if you are really in love - and your find a quiz that is going to help you do that. But do the answers of the quiz really tell the accurate truth, or are you putting too much value towards those quizzes.
Sometimes you can get an answer that you don’t like and worry about the relationship because of it. And sometimes you can get an answer that tells you everything is okay when you know it’s not. And it's when you let the answers affect you and your relationship negatively or confuse you in some way that you may start to find trouble.
That said, love quizzes can also help you figure things out as well! So here are some guidelines to make sure you make the most out of your quiz.
Why a Love Quiz Can Be Good For You and Your Relationship
Your gut instinct is a powerful thing. It lets you know when there is danger ahead and when to turn around, and it also lets you know when to trust in what you see.
The problem with love is that it resembles infatuation, and that emotion can cloud your judgement and get in the way of your gut instinct, thus affecting your ability to properly determine what’s really going on and whether your relationship is really good, bad, or non-existent!
A love quiz can help you answer questions separate from your emotions that are clouding your judgement and give you a clearer view of what is going on. They can be a like an honest friend - except you will not make the quiz feel bad for being honest with you!
A love quiz can be very helpful for you when you are in a negative relationship and just can’t see it because of your emotions. It can help you see the light!
What a Good Love Quiz Should Look Like
What’s the difference between a good love quiz and a bad one? The questions.
If you look at the quiz and find yourself looking at a grade 3 level thought process then you may want to find another quiz to help you in your real and important relationship. Questions like “Do you think he’s/she’s cute?” may not have the most revealing answers.
A good love quiz will ask you more meaningful questions that you may not ask yourself such as “Do you feel comfortable sharing your REAL self with your partner?” The questions should really make you think about your relationship and dynamics inside of it.
It should allow you to determine whether or not your relationship is made of love or infatuation. It should allow you to have a better understand of whether your relationship is healthy or not. It should give you some ah-ha moments that you never had before.
Where to Find Good Love Quizzes
Even though magazine quizzes are fun, they may not be the deepest love quizzes you can find. You may be taking a quiz from a person who is in a horrible relationship and doesn’t understand the first thing about being happy in a relationship.
A better idea is to find relationship experts and take their quizzes. You can find relationship experts online, and you can also read books written by these experts. Love quizzes are a common part of the way they help you figure out things for your unique self.
So remember that love quizzes have the potential to help you in your relationship if you answer them honestly and openly, and if you can find a quiz that is really meant to get to the bottom of things in your mind and relationship. So, find a credible source and get ready for your quiz!
Bellaisa if the owner of the Relationship Circe, a website with relationship advice for women and men on dating, intimacy, and relationship problems.