Dating Asian Women - How To Pick Up Asian Girls

Dating Asian women seems to be the preference of more Western guys every single year. So why has dating Asian women become so common, and why is it such a frequent lifestyle choice for Western men? I'm going to share with you a few critical reasons and some Asian dating secrets, and they're based upon my personal experiences with Asian singles -- in America, and during my travels in Asia. I explain this in more detail on my Dating Asian Women blog, but for now, let me share a few points:

- Asian women are spiritually grounded.

Many Asian women observe a religion and take it seriously. Whether she worships God, Buddha or whomever, religion tends to give Asian women a sense of calmness and inner peace that many Western women lack. The idea of "soul searching" and worrying about your future does not exisit in Asian cultures. For the Asian woman, a loving partner, a happy, healthy household, and the love of her family and God is enough.

- Hot Asian women have a hardworking nature.

In Asian countries from China to Indonesia to the Philippines, it is typical for women to start helping out their families from the time when they are small children. In Western countries, where the children tend to be spoiled (or ignored), this is not the case. Asian women also believe in the idea of studying and working hard, so that their families can enjoy a brighter future.

You see this is in the Western world, among all types of immigrant communities; they'll rise at dawn every day and work hard, and build businesses, in order to help their families back home and help them to emigrate. The bottom line is, most Asian women respect the value of hard work, which means that if you start dating her, she's not going to act like a spoiled, high-maintenance "princess."

- It is customary for Asian girls to take a lot of pride in how they look.

Even if they’re only stepping out to shop for groceries, Asian women always want to look presentable. Going to the salon is a ritual. Asian women really do believe it's important for them to stay beautiful and sexy for the man they love. This is a far cry from the way many Western women behave once they’re married and no longer need to worry about landing a husband. While the "white girls" are sitting on the couch, eating ice cream and watching Oprah, I can guarantee that the Asian girls are being meticulous about their appearance and staying slim and sexy.

(If you’re still wondering why Western women have negative things to say about Western guys who marry Asian women…can you say "jealousy?")

- Another reason for dating Asian women: they can truly love an older man, and appreciate what he brings to the table.

his is a huge (and valid) reason why so many American guys are dating Asian women. In the Western world, once a guy turns 40 (or even 35!) he begins to feel that he can only date women his own age, and that younger women won't be interested in him. I’m not just talking about guys who have reached retirement age. Even guys who are in their 30s start to think that women in their 20s are “out of their range!” Which is crazy to me…

Throughout Asia, it's common for men to date women who are 10, 15 or 20 years younger than they are. A 40-year-old Westerner is considered young by many of the local ladies in Asia! I've actually encounted beautiful Asian women who would NOT date me, because I was too young! They wanted an "older man."

When you’re in Asia, it’s common to see men dating women who are 20 years younger than they are (or even more). The age difference isn’t even an issue. At first, it can be jarring to see so many middle-aged (or elderly!) men strolling hand-in-hand with their sexy, much younger girlfriends…but as long as these men treat them with respect, it can all work out blissfully. I've seen many of these relationships work out better than you can imagine.

I should add, however, that relationships that involve drastic age differences are obviously going to encounter difficulties in the West. (For one thing, the old guy is going to face constant competition from younger, fitter men hitting on his lady.) For older guys who are in Asia and dating hot younger Asian women, these relationships work best if they remain in Asia. These relationships can, however, stay intact after the move to a Western country, as long as the Asian woman truly loves her man and isn't only interested in his money (or getting citizenship).

This is because Asian women see older guys as being more responsible and stable than guys their own age. In their culture, elders are respected because of this (whereas in America, the elderly are often pitied or even ridiculed).

So, those were a few of the reasons that millions of men from the Western world prefer to be dating Asian women. Be sure to visit my Dating Asian Women blog for more secrets on meeting, attracting and dating hot Asian women.