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Starting a family as a recovering addict can present many emotions, from joy and delight to fear and stress. Per Wickstrom recently spoke with me about how to handle new parenthood while in recovery.
As the owner of several successful rehabilitation facilities, Per has seen many of ... Views: 1176
I got thinking today about how helpful it is for children when their parents and teachers can communicate and collaborate well. I happened to run across two good examples among the families I work with. This is true even if your child does not have learning problems, but it is especially ... Views: 1174
When you give birth to that new addition, one of the many things that will change drastically in your lifestyle routines is your workout schedule. Whether it is a daily quick run before work, or hardcore training for a race, your new baby can challenge that old routine that you were so ... Views: 1174
We can be quick to judge our parents. There are so many things they could have done better. That is, if they had been better trained.
We tend to compare our parents -- at least during some stage in our lives -- with an ideal that virtually no parent measures up to. If we must compare them, ... Views: 1174
Surrogacy has been one of the many options for childless couples to have their own baby. This process involves the mutual agreement between the intended parents and the surrogate mother who would carry and nurture the unborn child until birth. Normally there are two types of Surrogacy and they ... Views: 1173
Imaginative play should be encouraged and fostered in children because not only is it fun for them but it is also a significant part of growing up and learning. Playing through imagination is an essential part of childhood. Through this, the child learn more about the world and about himself and ... Views: 1173
The benefits of a musical program in your child’s education, whether being offered by the school or if you hire someone to teach your child how to pay, are numerous and huge. Many researchers are claiming that a musical program can help your child in school, society and in overall life. While ... Views: 1173
“Help! My sweet, nice, lovely 3-year-old has begun lying to me. What should I do?”
First thing you should do is feel pleased, maybe even proud that your child is learning how to lie.
“Whaaat? You’ve got to be kidding”
No, I’m serious. Lying is a milestone in cognitive development. It ... Views: 1172
It is important to keep your baby’s room neat and orderly not only for aesthetic purposes. By putting everything in proper place, you can avoid accidents that can happen by stepping on toys lying around the floor. Wheeled toys or rattles can cause serious injuries if you accidentally step on ... Views: 1172
Not a day goes by that someone I encounter doesn't stop and ask me - "wait, your dad is DEEPAK CHOPRA?! Oh my God, what was it like to grow up with him as a father?!"
I try to be as candid as I can, sugarcoating the fact that he was a physically abusive, self-obsessed, substance abusing ... Views: 1171
Checking the infant hotness is one of the most important tasks when you are taking care of a child. The body heat of the child is a good indication if your infant is feeling well or not feeling well. Everybody knows that a infant is really special and precious, therefore it is just good to keep ... Views: 1171
An innocent smile on pearly white teeth can truly lighten up your day. But, as a kid’s deciduous set of teeth may look sparkling, parents are often under the impression that their child’s spotless teeth are dirt-free. The truth gets revealed when the child’s pediatric dentist discovers painful ... Views: 1171
Continuing with my current theme of strengthening relationships, now I am focusing on my children.
The second most important relationship that I will ever have is with each of my three children.
Not only will our bond be a model for the bond that they one day have with their kids, but our ... Views: 1171
With the advent and rapid adoption of the iPad and overall tablet technology, kids are not developing fine motor skills.
Today, many arrive at school without enough hand strength and coordination to use scissors or hold a pencil correctly.
In fact, only about half can hold a pencil ... Views: 1171
More than ever, schools are spending minimal time helping kids to develop handwriting skills. At the same time, we have more children with autism, sensory processing disorder, and developmental delays who need extra help with handwriting. If you're a concerned parent, you CAN help your child who ... Views: 1170
As the single and sole parent of my five children for over 18 years now (2 boys and 3 girls), I hoped I would be a natural role model to my boys for the way to grow to be successful men. I wanted my boys to man up as soon as they were old enough. Work hard, be a leader, be kind to everyone, ... Views: 1169
Some fun kids educational games are all you will ever need to teach your little preschooler their basics. Weather we are talking about learning to tell time, recognise the coins, know their letters and numbers or any other skill, kids educational games can be a great way to teach.
Kids love ... Views: 1169
Surrogacy is typically a medical practice, despite the fact that some legal squabbles could also turn it into a legal matter. The general bulk in the procedure is purely medical. The role of the intended couple, the surrogate, and also the agency has been discussed at length in other articles ... Views: 1169
When it comes to parenting our kids, most of us follow in the footsteps of our own parents as their parenting strategies are what we remember best. If this is the method you've been using and it's simply not working for you, then it's time to give some new parenting techniques and discipline ... Views: 1168
There’s a strange saying going around my house. Perhaps you may have heard it too? It sounds a bit whiny and even nasal at times. Often it’s followed by a gasp, annoyed intonation or a rolling of the eyes. Yes, you guessed it, it sounds like this: “But I don’t feel like it!”
This ... Views: 1168
One of the top issues in homes today is one where parents are completely frustrated at how picky or fussy their children are at mealtimes. Luckily, there is a very easy solution to this problem.
Meal times should and can be one of the most precious rituals in any family's home. It's a time ... Views: 1167
My fourteen-year-old son and his friends travel the streets of the city like Oliver Twist and the Artful Dodger and co. -- not ripping off people's wallets and purses, but just hanging out in an excitable, ragged crowd, thrilled to be together and thrilled to be wandering, and certainly in no ... Views: 1167
Since the success of the program "Supernanny", many parents have begun using time-outs in one way or another. While they are finding time-outs to be very effective, parents often have the same questions regarding certain problems they encounter. Here are solutions to the top 4 most commonly ... Views: 1167
I live in the frozen tundra. For all of you in the warm climates, let me share what I mean by cold. Today it was in the low teens with a biting wind that caused you to curl up in your jacket with the collar pulled so high up you looked like the headless horseman. With the biting wind people ... Views: 1166
This week we all have our minds on the disclosure of sexual abuse of young boys by a coach at Penn State. I have been struck by the emphasis on who did what when rather than concern for the children who were abused. For many of us it raises the frightening prospect that our children or ... Views: 1166
Are you the parent of a child, receiving special education services,
that thinks your child may benefit from functional skill training?
Would you like to know what the Individuals with Disabilities
Education Act (IDEA) requires in relation to functional skills? Would
you like parenting tips on ... Views: 1166
Anxiety is one of the most prevalent issues among the young clients I counsel. Children feel anxious over events or something in their environment. They experience physical and mental symptoms such as increased heart rate, sweaty palms, stomach cramps, and persistent thoughts. These anxieties ... Views: 1165
Step by step instructions
Weather you decide to buy one or if your are looking for step by step instructions of how to make a pinata your self, pinata's are a great addition to any party.
Here are simple step by step instruction on how to make a pinata -
This is what you need -
Flour
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“Your imagination can help you heal.” This simple and elegant statement was the response nine-year-old Teresa gave me when asked what she had learned from our work together as we were wrapping up our counseling relationship.
Teresa is a beautiful, doe-eyed girl who first came to me a year ago ... Views: 1164
One positive discipline influence often overlooked by parents has to do with the quality of the child’s surroundings and routine.
To behave well, children need a number of essential ingredients. Among these are:
1.An orderly, stable home environment
1.An orderly daily routine
Both of these ... Views: 1162
Every parent has experienced the phenomena of their child begging for their favourite story to read, their favourite song to be played or their favourite movie to be watched for the 100th time.
Even though we adults might be tempted to hide the favourite book or introduce a new book, CD, or ... Views: 1162
We’ve all been in uncomfortable situations with our children whether it was in public or at home in front of guests. It’s just a fact of life that our children are going to test us whenever possible. It’s not that they’re trying to be bad or disagreeable; they’re just trying to find out what ... Views: 1161
What will become of the mommy wars in the flailing economy? My fantasy (and it is just a fantasy) is that they will eventually fade into obscurity like, say, the Punic Wars -- relics from a past that seems to have taken place a very long time ago. The idea of working mothers pitted against ... Views: 1161
According to the National Safety Council, “drowning claims the lives of over 4,000 people every year. Although all age groups are represented, children 0-4 have the highest death rate due to drowning.” As a parent, there are several precautions you can take that can make water and swimming a ... Views: 1160
One of the hardest conversations I had with my teenage son was about substance abuse — not about illegal drugs or binge drinking but about prescription drugs. Because they are "prescribed," they might be misinterpreted as safe to use. So it was hard to communicate how they can still be ... Views: 1160
For many people, insurance is a big part of their financial plans regardless of their status. But for a single mom like me, it is a necessity. If there is anything that single parents shouldn’t be without, it’s a contingency plan. Having only one person taking care of the family means there is ... Views: 1159
Being infertile means that one cannot bear a child even after a year or so of trying for one and many are consulting the Pregnancy Miracle references to find out how they can conceive easily. The span in conceiving becomes shorter as a woman gets older; some lessen up to six months if they ... Views: 1159
From Aaliyah to Zvi, the range of name choices is dazzling. If you're a sleepless parent-to-be, it can look like a vast landscape with no roadmap. To make sure you keep your bearings, here are some basic principles for understanding names -- and finding that one perfect name that speaks to your ... Views: 1159
Finding recipes for kids lunch boxes can be tricky. Most parents just reheat last night's dinner left overs and send their kids on their way. Lunch is a pretty important meal during a child's day, though, so if you have more time to think about and make what your kids will be taking to lunch at ... Views: 1159
Helping your kids reach a level of fitness that makes them feel good and look good is NOT complicated.
If you or your children/teens are overweight, let’s be clear, the choices you have made and are making for yourself and your family have cost you. The great thing is your choices caused it, ... Views: 1158
No matter how angry or hurt you may be after a divorce, if you have children, you’ll still share a lifetime with their other parent, your ex. Dr. Romance offers guidelines for moving past the anger and hurt, and finding a way to co-parent your children that is good for ... Views: 1157
Many children don’t have a clue about social skills. They think bragging is the way to make friends. If this is a problem with your child, look inside to see how you can help and build character too.
“I’ll talk about what I do if other kids ask me, but I don’t like to brag about it.” – Hunter ... Views: 1157
Leadership at home: this is about you and your children, not your politicians
Question:
There are tough times in our family due to tension between us, the parents, and our two teen aged kids. They are less and less obeying the house rules. How can we maintain their discipline?
Answer:
We can ... Views: 1157
The horrific murder and dismemberment of a young boy’s body last week has sent shock waves through the tight-knit Orthodox Jewish Community in Brooklyn, NY. When he was first deemed missing thousands of volunteers combed the area looking for him; his death touched them all and a multitude ... Views: 1156
For all parents the time to potty train their boy arrives sooner than later; the little angels grow so fast that soon it is time to help them learn how to use the potty. It is a big step forward for the little kid as well as a great time and money saver for the parents. Once your boy is toilet ... Views: 1156
The social behavior which we systematically reproduce from generation to generation interests me a great deal. When we are born, an adult takes charge of us, because, first, as a species which is not self-sufficient we cannot survive without someone caring for us in the first years of life, and ... Views: 1155
Dating - that crazy mix of butterflies in your tummy and awkward moments; holding hands with sweaty palms and first kisses followed by hurtful breakups that rip your heart out. My kids are WAY too quickly approaching this stage. On the one hand I want my kids to experience all the fun and ... Views: 1155
Children are bound to get a bump, bruise or break over the course of their little lives. You may end up finding yourself at the hospital with your kids very regularly. Luckily, a clumsy kid can be kept from the emergency room with precautions taken by them and their caretakers.
Burns and ... Views: 1155
Do your kids see you and your partner attacking each other? Do either you or your partner have to be right? Inside you'll find 5 ways true love helps when you admit when you're wrong.
To keep your marriage brimming,
With love in the loving cup,
Whenever you're wrong admit it;
Whenever you're ... Views: 1155
When children reach the age of one, they begin to be more aware of their feelings and emotions. They know that they want things but when they know they’re not in control your toddler would start throwing temper tantrums. They want to be in control and what better way to let their mommy know that ... Views: 1154