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Listening is one of those skills that really doesn't seem like it's all that difficult. Why then do so many children report that their parents don't listen to them?
Maybe it's because there are a lot of ways for parents to unintentionally stop conversations with their kids. For example, if ... Views: 1198
This is the 2nd article in the series “The Impact of Technology on Childhood Development.” If you missed the 1st article covered the Hidden Hazards of Blue Light and Digital Devices on Kids Eyes.
My friends 3 and a half year old was showing signs of delayed speech development. As parents, ... Views: 1197
I was saddened to read that Gloucester High School in Massachusetts had a record number of 17 pregnant teens this year. Apparently this happened after a number of them, all 16 and younger, made a pact to get pregnant. According to the article some girls expressed that they felt their parents ... Views: 1197
Surrender, as a spiritual principle, teaches us to yield to a Higher Power, to give oneself up to the power of the present. I have often suggested to clients that they needed to surrender to what IS... for example, if their partner wants out of the relationship, let them go, accept that things ... Views: 1197
It is estimated that about 1 in 8 children experience some form of an anxiety disorder. Anxiety can be mild, and very temporary, as in simply being nervous about an upcoming event, to more severe and long lasting forms such as panic attacks, obsessiveness and traumatic stress responses. ... Views: 1196
As a physician and a parent I'm keenly aware that there are certain conversations that a parent never wants to have with the medical team caring for their newborn. As a life coach I believe that within each of us is the capacity to face the truth.
Deciding to pursue a career in medicine is ... Views: 1196
If you celebrate Christmas then you're going to love the ideas given here. You will be guaranteed that your child will love the present they receive and but can also be assured that the gift you are giving is appropriate, meaningful, and will help your child explore their own sense of curiosity ... Views: 1196
When was the last time you spoke to your teen about drinking? This may include your drinking, their drinking or just the topic in general. This may seem like a silly question, but in fact it is an extremely important and often overlooked step in combating underage drinking.
In working with ... Views: 1195
There are many different things that happen in our life that are going to be monumental. One of the more important things that can happen, however, is when we have a child. It is an event that is not to be forgotten, so when it is time to have the baby shower, you must make sure that everything ... Views: 1195
As a child I learned VERY early on to NEVER say "I'm bored". We'd get a job handed to us in no time flat! That didn't mean we never got bored - it just mean we quit verbalizing it.
What if, instead of punishing our kids' boredom and putting a negative spin on it we prevented the boredom in ... Views: 1193
Hi parents,
Learning to communicate with anyone can be challenging at times and yet it is a skill that is crucial to life. Communicating with children, who don’t think in the same way that adults do, may be even harder. One of the primary distinguishing features of autism is that these ... Views: 1193
Father's Day has been celebrated for years around the world, but usually on different dates. Do you know the origin of this beautiful day which is meant to honor fatherhood and celebrate paternal bonds? We tell you the story behind the first Father's Day.
The history of Father's Day
As ... Views: 1193
Here's a question to ask yourself: Is a family that is constantly out and about, going here and there, attending music classes and swimming lessons, etc. better than one who stays home most evenings, and doesn't have their children in a bunch of different classes? Thought provoking, isn't ... Views: 1193
No matter how progressive society becomes, there is always some element of bullying and prejudice that brings us right back to an unwavering constant of love and hatred. Displaying and teaching a child about the various acts of compassion, is a powerful life lesson that will stay with them ... Views: 1192
There is a fun and simple way to get your kids started recognizing some basic words. You can do it easily without even having to spend any money. Simply label things in your house. The kids will enjoy getting involved in the ongoing process of labeling things, as well.
You will need some ... Views: 1192
Is your child’s self-esteem spiraling downward because of grades? Do you feel helpless? Inside find out how being a detective can help you.
Self- Esteem and Childhood Wisdom:
A father asked his son, “How do you like going to school?” His son answered, “Going to school is fine. Coming home is ... Views: 1192
With all the recent news about the recession, even young kids are likely to hear some scary things from the TV, from older siblings, or overhear conversations between Mom and Dad. This can be unsettling and upsetting for kids.
Children will not understand what is going on in the financial ... Views: 1192
Good parenting skill behavior is not a ability set which you could learn by taking courses of parenting skill growth program. You will have to study the parenting abilities out of your individual experience.
Are you in want of some pointers pertaining to parenting skills which you can keep ... Views: 1191
When asked to author a chapter about improving one’s life, I immediately thought of improving the lives of children. Most parents would agree that when their children are happy, they themselves are happy. Therefore when parents improve the lives of their children, their lives also improve. The ... Views: 1190
Would you like parenting tips when your kids are on vacation and you're not? Inside you'll find some fun ideas to bond with your kids and build character too.
A few days ago I received a phone call from a child I didn't know. "Mom, can I go out and play?" The child sounded about 8 or 9. "You ... Views: 1190
Teenage Wellness is a curious concept, is it not?
Let’s imagine you are on the hunt for the perfect plant, an orchid, maybe. You bring your beautiful flowering plant home from the nursery - place it in front of the TV in the dark, attach a cellphone, ipod, and a notebook computer (or tablet ... Views: 1190
According to a recent survey, stress affects 30% + of the population on a daily basis. Too much stress can contribute to a long list of health problems as well as family problems. The good news is that there is plenty you can do to help get balance back into your life.
The Tell Tale Signs of ... Views: 1189
According to McAfee’s, “2014 Teens and the Screen study: Exploring Online Privacy, Social Networking and Cyberbullying,”
52% of students have reported having experienced some form of cyberbullying. Of these, 20% experience electronic harassment on a regular basis.
87% of young respondents ... Views: 1189
As we all know children are more hyperactive and full of energy than before which can have its benefits as it keeping the younger generations much healthier however it can also be dangerous and the need to safer surfaces are increasing. Many more children are having injuries caused by falling ... Views: 1188
Nowadays everyone has an easy access to the world of internet including children. So, whether it is a computer, tablet, an iPhone or an Android, the parents can install a good monitoring app to be aware of what their kids are doing.
Monitoring is not a bad thing and being a parent it is your ... Views: 1187
Do you wonder how self-esteem and chores fit together? Do your children play outside, watch TV, or play computer games while you do their tasks? Look inside to learn how giving children a list of chores builds their self-esteem.
Childhood Wisdom:
Amy’s mom was going to clean the car she ... Views: 1185
Is the after-school, after-work routine creating a crazy, chaotic homelife for your family? Will all the end-of-the-day pressures that descend on the typical family these days, it's no wonder parents feel frazzled and out-of-control.
I've been parenting for over 2 decades and have 4 busy ... Views: 1184
Question:
Gary, I heard another psychologist state that counseling is not beneficial for children under 12 because they see things so literally and are not able to consider the concepts and abstract. Would you agree? ( I think I paraphrased her correctly). I am curious about your thoughts on ... Views: 1184
Having trouble convincing your kids to swallow a healthy dose of greens each day? Try some of these quick tricks for boosting their veggie intake.
1. Grating is Great
Small mouths like small pieces, and grated food is just one step up from a puree or mash. Kids enjoy eating grated carrot or ... Views: 1184
"Instant Princess", a small guide that empowers adults to get to the bottom of low self esteem- causes, symptoms, and antidotes is now being offered for free to anyone with internet access, by going to http://www.highprincess.com and clicking on "party like a princess".
It's a travesty when ... Views: 1184
It is important to all parents and caregivers who have young children to be able to take a break away from the children and go out together. I can remember the first time we got a baby sitter for our little baby girl. We went somewhere close in case we needed to rush home. We weren't needed, but ... Views: 1184
“No!” “I don’t want to!” “You can’t make me!”
Dealing with a defiant child can be exasperating!
Children who are defiant will readily enter a power struggle and wear a parent down. The key is not to enter the power struggle with an oppositional child. Listed below are nine options you can ... Views: 1184
When looking at the language we use with our autistic children it is useful to break it down into categories. There are four things on which to focus when you want to use appropriate language with your child.
1. Stay Away from Negatives
One thing to remember is that the subconscious mind ... Views: 1184
Every small child loves to play. “Playing Pretend”, or role playing, can not only be educational, but also one of the cheapest games a child can play. Creative play such as role playing can not only teach your child about the world, but can also teach you a lot about your child.
What Are the ... Views: 1183
A friend shared a wonderful story recently in a seminar on
"Smart Parenting." She said that ever since her children were
little, she's set aside special one-on-one time with each of her
children. She made a commitment to do this once a week and
put it on the calendar. As her children became ... Views: 1182
As I was growing up, my parents worked very hard to make sure we had all that we needed - and also wanted - as most parents do; a comfortable home, food on the table and clothes on our back. Then there were the gifts and things that we wanted and asked for and also received; such as dolls, toys, ... Views: 1182
Moments of frustration can lead parents to issuing commands that really don't work. Any time we are ordering children to change their behavior we're not likely to succeed. Instead of producing the desired behavioral change, commands often lead to some type of resistance.
For example, when ... Views: 1181
Parents do an amazing amount of work for their children to ensure that they grow up to be healthy and well-balanced individuals. As one makes the transition into adulthood, they begin to realize the extent that their parents worked, as well as how they can finally have the opportunity to give ... Views: 1180
Parents would appear to decide on to want to see baby gender. A lot of reasons might envelope this need, for one it appears practical. Although, there are some folks also select not to know and keep it as a surprise as a result of it the baby's gender doesn't really matter for them. It's always ... Views: 1180
Let’s face it… kids are EXHAUSTING. And the romantic side of a relationship is often trumped by a need for sleep.
Parents don't want to talk openly about this topic, but I can assure you that many are experiencing this problem. It's extremely common for tired parents to opt for sleep over ... Views: 1179
1) Be A Proactive Parent: Children with proactive parents are more likely to excel academically. So what does it mean to be a proactive parent? Well, you are either a proactive or reactive parent. Taking a proactive approach to your child’s education means that you are not waiting until the ... Views: 1179
Let’s face it, when you’re young wearing patches or glasses isn’t fun. They can limit you from playing certain sports and there is absolutely no way to hide them from other people seeing them since they are right there on your face. Because of this, some kids are self-conscious about wearing ... Views: 1178
The First Few Years Of School
As a preschooler, your child was well behaved and didn’t exhibit any particular problems. Next your child enters school, perhaps Kindergarten, and then Grade one. Slowly issues with some classes and subjects appear. Maybe they are thought nothing of in Grade one, ... Views: 1178
If I asked you, "What is the main purpose of a parent?" I'd probably get the following responses:
1. To be their child's guide in life
2. To love their child unconditionally
3. To teach their child good values
4. To protect their child
5. To offer their child support through ... Views: 1178
Kathy was a happy-go-lucky child. Despite the constant moves from house to house, city to city every year or so she never had any problems making new friends and fitting into groups. She was out-going and enjoyed all sports activities never excelling in any one specific niche, but willing to ... Views: 1177
Many of us make New Year’s resolutions every year. We set goals for exercising, loosing weight, staying organized. But how many of us take the time to size up our family?
Are you conscious of how your time is spent together? How many meals are you eating together as a family? How much time ... Views: 1177
My ten year-old son, Kevin, was sitting at dinner last night playing with his food. I could tell something was wrong. Finally, he let it out, “I thought I wouldn’t be picked on, at least for the summer.” It turns out that he was being bullied again at day camp.
I contacted the camp director and ... Views: 1177
If your child has behavioral problems and you have a tough time dealing with his behavior, you can think of the boot camps for children. The parents can enroll their child in boot camps where the children learn discipline and better behavior. The trained staff and instructors at the boot camp ... Views: 1176
I have a confession to make:
When I saw Dr. Christiane Northrup’s post on Facebook I was dumbfounded…
Following my guest appearance on her radio show, Dr. Northrup wrote about my work of mentoring girls into womanhood: “Preventive medicine at its finest!”
The reason this statement was such a ... Views: 1176
We all want our children to do well. That is why we send them off to classes to explore art, sports, music, etc. We encourage them to try out for sport teams and school-sponsored shows and events. We spend our hard-earned money to get them involved in things we feel will help them discover and ... Views: 1176