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Nothing is more important in your home than the safety of your child and since your baby will spend a large portion of his or her early years sleeping, at least you hope so, you need to know that the crib you purchase is safe for those precious restful hours. But how can you be sure. It is ... Views: 737
Q: What factors are considered into child support calculation?
Each state has its own method of calculating child support. In most states the calculated amount will depend on the incomes of both parents which is called the Income Shares formula or the income of absent parent alone which is ... Views: 1013
Fred and Kate clashed constantly over how to parent their six year-old son, Jerry.
“Kate lets Jerry get away with murder.” complained Fred. “It’s anarchy!”
“Fred’s always on Jerry’s case.” Kate countered. “He jumps on Jerry for the slightest infraction.”
Fred saw Kate’s parenting style ... Views: 1591
My cousin Anna is a pediatrician who recently shared with me the experiences she had improvising her office’s waiting room arrangements. As a mother of a 6 year old myself, I could completely relate to the problems they have been facing with their doctor office set up in Sacramento. They have ... Views: 1349
Defiant children need to be in control. Their power struggle can often make life tough for you. Keep in mind that defiant children are actually as apt to be under stress as more sensitive kids. In an effort to acquire a sense of security, they act defiant and give you a bossy attitude. To really ... Views: 849
Biting can be a normal toddler behavior and of course mothers and fathers dislike it. Toddlers may resort to biting when they do not know how to express themselves. Once you acknowledge that their behavior is normal and they are not misbehaving on pupose, you can be more open to teaching them ... Views: 888
Infertility is defined as being unable to get pregnant after attempting to have a baby for 6 to 12 months without resorting to contraception. 10 percent of couples in The United States are affected by infertility. It is easy to become overwhelmed with the wide variety and scope of infertility ... Views: 697
By the time your newborn is three months old, you should be able to have them sleeping during the night. When that doesn't occur, it can become a strain on your health and your well being. It can become obvious to family and friends if it persists. You will get a great deal of suggestions from ... Views: 959
Shopping clothes for Newborn is always an exciting time for mothers, especially first time moms. Simply look at the cute designer little clothes can make a mom want to buy everything she puts her hands on. However, there are several things you should think about buying baby clothes.
Avoid ... Views: 706
It is a wonderful experience being able to shop and get your kids all dolled up in some of the most unique kids clothing available. After all, shopping is fun and shopping for your children is even more pleasurable. Your kids have to look good; after all, they are a reflection of their ... Views: 1237
Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. ~Plato
I just read a fascinating article about some research about being kind. I had never really thought of it, but the authors make a good point that kindness is the “other side of the coin” of gratitude.
In their words, they said ... Views: 1187
Last weekend, families in the United States celebrated Mother's Day. I actually just learned that some 70 countries celebrate Mother's Day on the second weekend of May. Of course, in those families that forgot to get a present, the refrain is, “Every day is Mother's Day!” And every mother would ... Views: 1259
Winning is overrated. The only time it is really important is in surgery and war. ~Al McGuire
We all want our kids to be successful. And we are willing to do just about anything to make that happen. Here is a way to help your child succeed that is a lot of fun. Simply put, get them involved ... Views: 1327
In an ideal world, we would like to see a positive attitude that promotes a productive action. But, as most parents know, we don't always get both. So what ought to be more important? The action or the attitude? As parents, should we be more concerned with the child's attitude or, if a child ... Views: 2194
When jealousy rears its nasty head, it is not a good thing. It’s not fun, but it does go to show you how many levels there are in this life. When someone looks a certain way, maybe you use to look like that, or you want to look like that. It should be motivational if you don’t look like the way ... Views: 1585
Imagine going through your divorce with billions of people around the world following your every move. That’s the reality Maria Shriver and Arnold Schwarzenegger are facing as they explore the options that lie ahead for their family.
For the Child-Centered Divorce community, this very public ... Views: 1694
Do you need someone to help you take care of your children? You should consider hiring a nanny to assist you. You can find nanny services online that will help you to find the perfect nanny for your situation. If you need a live-in nanny you will be able to find one. You might prefer a nanny ... Views: 952
Sudden infant death syndrome or SIDS is one of the leading causes of deaths in babies below the age of 1. There is typically no underlying cause found in the autopsy so it can be quite difficult to pinpoint what the causes are. There are, however, several causes that have been found to be ... Views: 910
Children report moving, leaving friends, and changing grades or schools as being highly stressful. To assist them with transitions the following ideas may be helpful:
If the family is moving, take pictures of friends and familiar places and offer ways to keep in contact with close friends via ... Views: 1263
Children report moving, leaving friends, and changing grades or schools as being highly stressful. To assist them with transitions the following ideas may be helpful:
If the family is moving, take pictures of friends and familiar places and offer ways to keep in contact with close friends via ... Views: 1210
In-depth studies have found that violent programming, including cartoons, can have a negative impact upon children. Viewing violence can:
desensitize a child toward violent acts;
decrease a child's sensitivity toward victims;
increase a child's fearfulness;
contribute to a child’s ... Views: 1266
"There are little eyes upon you and they're watching night and day.
There are little ears that quickly take in every word you say.
There are little hands all eager to do everything you do.
And a little child who's dreaming of the day he'll be like you."
-- author unknown
What are ... Views: 1329
Family traditions enhance children’s emotional well-being by helping to create feelings of security, continuity and identity. Families with established traditions and those who actively form new actions or events as traditions are more likely to create strong bonds among members. Family ... Views: 2050
When the thinking of maternity clothes comes into your brain, you will picture it as something unattractive and quite costly. But the thought has changed a lot since the main part of women favor excellent designer maternity dresses to hide their rising tummy. It is not a wrong thing if you say ... Views: 665
If your child is around three years of age and showing an inclination to get rid of diapers then you should give the potty training in one day program a try. This concept is a good alternative for working parents who cannot afford extended potty training programs that can last for up to six ... Views: 978
I cannot count the number of times I’ve either heard my coaching clients or parents on the street say, “My child just doesn’t listen to me!” or “Why can’t he/she just listen?”
There are two issues here:
1. The child doesn’t have a healthy level of respect for the parents’ authority (as hard ... Views: 1225
Many of our clients (and we as parents) are striving to raise emotionally healthy kids and teenagers. Being a parent is a very difficult job. Many parents I know make a conscious effort to deal with their young child or teenager. They have found that being a conscious parent is even more ... Views: 929
Taking on a role of an expectant mom is not an easy task. Though certainly nothing can match the joy and excitement of child birth, still a lot of responsibility is bestowed on a woman’s back. Having a safe and healthy pregnancy should be the number priority. Aside from having regular visits to ... Views: 989
Sometimes as a parent of teenage children you can feel like your children are driving you crazy or that your children are crazy. Mood swings may be the norm and odd behavior can seem like a daily occurrence. What once was a happy, outdoorsy 5 year old may have turned in to a moody 16 year-old ... Views: 1757
Today I want to challenge each and everyone of you with my blog. I want to challenge you to be brutally honest with yourself and ask yourself just one question “Are you in Denial?”. I will bet that the majority of you will emphatically answer NO. I’m not in denial, I fully accept what has gone ... Views: 919
Be Blessed oh beautiful mother,
Let your heart be filled with Joy,
Let the love be ever flowing,
Let your voice be filled with song,
Let your smile be ever loving
As protected with angels be
Smiling, smiling ever loving
Gods light to the world.
For all to wonder
For all to cherish
For ... Views: 1372
The Seven Powers for Self Control
Lesson 1: The Power of Perception
No one can make you mad without your permission
It really is true that no one can make you angry without your permission. We all like to believe that someone outside of ourselves is responsible for the way we respond in ... Views: 2903
Your child is ready for potty training. He or she has decided to ditch the diapers and start wearing either pull-ups or underwear. Children love to imitate their parents, which is why potty training doesn't have to be all that difficult. With just a little patience and understanding, your child ... Views: 933
Being infertile means that one cannot bear a child even after a year or so of trying for one and many are consulting the Pregnancy Miracle references to find out how they can conceive easily. The span in conceiving becomes shorter as a woman gets older; some lessen up to six months if they ... Views: 1116
In my book, You’re One in Six Billion: A Confidence Building Guide for Teens (scheduled to be released Fall, 2011), I teach children that there is only one of them out of approximately six billion people in the world. If you take some time to reflect on that, it’s pretty mind blowing to know ... Views: 1313
Puppet is a general term for the likes of characters designed in cloth, paper or wood or even plastic that is operated by means of either strings or hand or fingers to enact a given story in a highly creative and artistic fashion. It is not an easy task to get hold of the coordination between ... Views: 939
Mom's set the example for their family. Saying No is a part of setting and holding clear boundaries which make the entire house calmer and smoother because everyone has clarity and knows those boundaries. Always giving in and saying yes to children creates an entitlement monster who are bound to ... Views: 1632
There is a saying that goes like this, “In life we mainly see what we look for”. I think that all of us at one time or another has looked for the worst in our situations, only to have it become our reality. Why is it that some people see themselves, and their lives, in such a negative way that ... Views: 876
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Just Be - by Micaela Bellopede, Miraclecather Photography, M.Ed, MIEM
28 years ago, I got my first job teaching children. I loved working with kids, singing songs, playing games, doing art, learning, growing. I did not know at the time that taking care of children would become the theme of my life.
Over the years, I have been a mentor and teacher to thousands ... Views: 1335
Despite years researching and treating this topic, I find it to be poorly understood but extremely destructive both to parents and to children of divorce. Parents who have lost their child through alienation have sometimes described it as worse than the death of their child because, for the ... Views: 2318
Have you ever consciously considered what you are modeling to your kids? Do you stop to consider that children are very susceptible to modeling? Modeling is the copying of behavior without understanding the thought process behind the behavior. Children need mentors. Children need to be equipped ... Views: 972
Spiritual parenting is about the intention to love, support and guide our child or children to what is best for them on all levels - body, mind, emotion and spirit. We divinely create these beautiful beings with Goddess's grace, birthing them into the world.
We cannot hold onto our children ... Views: 1825
Who would do this to a child?
In observations I made in my life, in my work and community I have noted many examples of behaviour towards children that can only be described as bullying. The families are not from those labelled as ‘problem families’ although they may have problems and ... Views: 729
If you're a Mom with children still at home, I'm sure you have concerns about how your dating might affect your kids’ lives. Issues such as jealousy and challenges with time-sharing are real. But I’d like you to consider the positives.
Yes, it’s true that "a happy Mother is a good Mother." ... Views: 2410
Taking a good baby care of your newborn is the desire of every parent and for fulfilling this purpose parents read books, surf on internet, get advice from their elders on pre parental, or post parental practices. In the beginning, it’s normal to get upset and nervous on how to provide flawless ... Views: 1075
Someone once told me that life is like taking a train ride. The unique part about it is that from start to finish, you and only you, will be the only one on the entire ride. Oh sure others will join you for part of your ride, but again you and only you, will be the only one on the entire ride. ... Views: 958
It's easy to find parenting advice when it comes to changing your child's outer behavior. But wouldn't you also like to get parenting advice that helps your child grow from the inside - and make changes on the outside happen almost automatically? The positive parenting principles outlined in ... Views: 2136
Probably, and you’re in the majority. The term “dysfunctional family,” once used only by professionals, has become popular jargon in America where dysfunctional families are the norm due to cultural values, a high divorce rate, and widespread addictions – from prescription drugs to exercising, ... Views: 1680
I have always said that I am the most blessed father in the world to have my children. Raising them on my own has definitely been a challenge, but with challenges come great rewards. I hope that I can just keep the two of them around long enough to realize this.
My son is now 17 and I am so ... Views: 1064
Happy Mother’s Day to you! For all the unselfish things that you do, hat’s off! Thank you for putting those extra little touches on all the birthday parties, graduations, etc. You put so much of your time and energy into every single little detail. I assure you, it never went unnoticed. The many ... Views: 1618