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- 21st Century and Your Children's Listening Skills - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2007 from Joshua UebergangMany studies (such as listed in USA Today, MSNBC, and University of Oregon) conclude children are suffering from a lowered attention span due to activities such as television and computer games. Peter Jensen at the National Institute of Mental Health concluded, "Extensive exposure to television ...
Views: 1448 - How Not To Be A Wicked Stepparent - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2015 from Tina TessinaAre you a stepparent? Are you struggling to make the right decisions for your newly created family? If so, here are four tips to help. 1. Give your blended family a chance to bond. Don’t worry if everyone doesn’t settle in right away; bonding takes time. Hopefully, you all got to know each ...
Views: 1448(1 vote) - Take A Chance! - by Submitted on Dec 29, 2007 from Denny StreckerThis is one of my favorite articles. It’s by Tom Peters, the author of “In Search of Excellence,” and “Passion for Excellence.” Risk Taking: Let’s say you were playing poker and you thought you had a decent hand. In fact, you were willing to bet on it! Out of your five poker chips, you bet ...
Views: 1448 - What Do Adolescent Girls Need? - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2008 from Dr. Mona SpiegelIntroduction What makes it so difficult to understand adolescents? Adolescents have their own language, and it’s not always audible. She’s so quiet that I can barely hear her when she speaks, which is not often. She looks at me with doe-like eyes, helpless and forlorn. I ...
Views: 1448 - How Safe is Your Home? Simple Home Safety Test - by Submitted on May 07, 2012 from Linda Le PhanAccording to the National Safety Council, there is one death every 16 minutes due to an accident in the home and a serious occurs 4 seconds in the home due to poisonings, suffocation, falls or fire related injuries. It's easy to see the importance of home safety. You may think your home is ...
Views: 1447 - Trick Or Treat? Organizing Tricks For Halloween - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2008 from Beryl WestbyHalloween has changed dramatically since I was a little girl. Then, Halloween was asking Mom for an old sheet or raiding her fabric stash and then fashioning my own costume with lots of imagination. Then I got to visit a few of the neighbors (most of whom were relatives) for treats and that ...
Views: 1447 - 10 Discipline Approaches to Avoid - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2018 from Marvin MarshallIf you’re looking for some discipline help so you can increase motivation, responsibility, and learning in young people, then stay away from the following 10 counterproductive discipline approaches. 1. BEING REACTIVE Parents and teachers too often become stressed by reacting to ...
Views: 1445 - Beware of Boomerang Words - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2009 from Kathy SlattengrenDo your children's words ever take you by surprise because they sound remarkably like something you've said? These "boomerang words" can be a good thing or not such a good thing. When we hear our children repeat our words, it's a strong reminder of just how much they are picking up from us. ...
Views: 1445 - Compassionate Communication - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2008 from Tracy LiebmannFirst I’d like to bring our awareness to the dangers of looking at children with a different quality of respect than we would an adult. The ideal states that all people are equal, it does not matter if you are 1 or 100, but is that what we really believe? Let’s say your neighbor comes over to ...
Views: 1445 - How You Can Really Prep Your Teenage Golden Child for Success - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2016 from Tyler JacobsonOne of the biggest questions on any parent’s mind is: “How can I do the best for my teenager?” The answer? Let go. You want the best for your teenager. The best we can hope for is that they know success like we never had, so they don’t have to go through the struggles and pain we ...
Views: 1445(1 vote) - The Five Most Common Mistakes in Parenting Teenagers - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2009 from Dolly YeoI have three teenagers and I have made all these mistakes. My eldest daughter does not want to tell me where she goes. I have to call her cell phone and drive around like a detective to figure out where she might have been. It was like a nightmare. I cannot get my son to stop playing computer ...
Views: 1445(1 vote) - A Parent's Guide to Childhood Nightmares - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2010 from Ken FieldsChildhood nightmares, or very bad dreams, are not uncommon and often need nothing other than a parent’s consoling embrace to remedy the immediate situation. Nightmares may occur for several reasons. Because children are very impressionable, watching a scary movie at night before bedtime can ...
Views: 1444 - Control and Autonomy of Infants - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2013 from Vinod AnandControl and Autonomy of Infants (Vinod Anand) Parents everywhere set limits on their infants’ behavior. If they did not, there could be no more babies, since babies creep and toddle right into danger, whether it be off the platform of a house built on poles over the sea or under a station ...
Views: 1443 - Do Grades Matter That Much? - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2007 from Judy WrightParents and the home environment are the most important parts of the equation of a well rounded education. It is in the home that the love of learning for learning’s sake takes place. Babies are born eager to learn, create, touch, explore and investigate their world. We want to offer an ...
Views: 1443(3 votes) - Potty Training Without a Power Struggle - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2011 from Caron GoodeWhen our children reach age two, it can be very tempting to push our children to potty train, whether or not they are ready. As a parent, when we see our children's peers master something new, it can be hard to sit back and wait for our child to naturally achieve the same developmental ...
Views: 1443 - Main Reasons Why Most Parents Prefer Online Parenting Classes - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2012 from Ari NovickOnline parenting classes are effective for new parents and those adopting children because they teach them how to raise their child in a positive manner. These online classes teach new parents how to streamline their parenting activities for quicker organization and response time. Parents who ...
Views: 1442 - Mindful Motherhood: Feeling - by Submitted on May 13, 2009 from New Harbinger PublicationsIn every situation you’ll encounter as a new mom, whether it is chaotic or mellow, there are three things happening. Examine what’s going on for you right now. You are probably having some thoughts, or your mind is focused on reading and digesting this information. You may be having some ...
Views: 1442(1 vote) - Parental Peace – The Real Christmas Gift for Kids - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2013 from Gary DirenfeldEven though parents argue as to the best residential schedule, choice of school, faith, holiday time, Christmas and extra-curricular activities, these issues are simply not as predictive for the outcome of children of separated parents as conflict alone. More to the point, the greater the ...
Views: 1442 - A Parent's Guide to Dog-Bite Prevention - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2007 from Colleen Pelar“If my dog ever bites my child, he’s out of here!” I hear that all the time. It just makes me want to scream, “But that will be too late!” Each year nearly 2.8 million children are bitten by a dog. Most of these bites are not coming from some scary dog that got ...
Views: 1441 - OVERCOMING FEAR in a AGE of TERROR - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2016 from Mike MooreToday, more than ever, we need to learn how to handle fear. We are definitely a frightened people and our fear seems to be increasing every day. If we don't learn how to confront and control fear, we risk losing our emotional and physical health and ultimately the joy of living. A life ...
Views: 1441(3 votes) - Parenting Tips - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2010 from Sheila KennedyAs a mother, grandmother and great grandmother, I have spent many years being around the 'younger generation'. There have been some easy times, some tough times, some heartbreaks, and a lot of love. My General Tips on Parenting or staying sane are as follows:- 1 As often as possible share ...
Views: 1441(4 votes) - Parenting: 21 Positive Steps - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2011 from Scott Wolfenden1. Provide loving but firm discipline for your children. Try to be consistent and don’t over-discipline a child or be overbearing. Endeavor to provide your children have good, positive companionship with suitable friends. 2. Give attention to diet and nutrition, in a balanced way. Low sugar, ...
Views: 1441(1 vote) - Life… some thoughts… - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2010 from Pearl Shanti Lodur-LionheartThis evening, when we were putting Leopold Light, 4 1/2, to bed, we talked about: “ What is life ? “ He looked deeply into my eyes and answered: “ Don`t you know ? ……..“ “ It just is…” Children are philosophers and our greatest teachers. What is life ? A little seed – ...
Views: 1440(8 votes) - Parenting Children with ADD and ADHD: How to Praise Children So It Doesn’t Backfire - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2011 from Sherrie HardyMany parents of children with ADD and ADHD will read the title and throw up their hands. Come on. Really? Praising children has been a technique used for motivation since the beginning of time. It can backfire? Hold on. Don’t throw up the white flag yet. Here it is boiled down to three ...
Views: 1440(2 votes) - Decreasing Sibling Rivalry - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2009 from Isabel KirkWhen talking about relationships and families, dynamics are complex. Why? Because especially the closest we are the more we expect and therefore, the more disappointed we can be. For example, one of the biggest dreams every parent has is that their children get alone. It sounds simple and easy ...
Views: 1439 - Today's Children Face Poor Health as Adults - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2011 from Lisa SiegleThe Centers for Disease Control announced in October that by 2050, up to one-third of all adults will have diabetes. That’s our teenagers when they hit middle age. Diabetes is the leading cause of blindness and medical amputations – usually feet or legs, and is a major contributor to heart ...
Views: 1439(8 votes) - Top 3 Ways to Teach Your Child to Accept Children Who Are Different - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2019 from Laura St JohnYour children are going to encounter other children who are different than them. Here's three ways to teach your children to accept other children. 1. Understanding: We all have situations. There are always underlying circumstances that people are going through that they don’t outwardly ...
Views: 1439(1 vote) - How and when to introduce solid foods to your baby? - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2009 from Luka MalgajWhen you want to give your baby new food, remember to wait at least four days between introducing new products. It will help you to notice if your baby has allergy and on which food. Allergy can lead to diarrhea, bloated tummy, increased gas or to rash. It will take some time for your baby to ...
Views: 1438(1 vote) - Parent-Teacher-Student Partnership - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2009 from FSB AuthorsThe conversation about changing our minds, our schools, and our nation to a paradigm that focuses on strengths begins with parents and teachers. Parents, teachers, and students can begin to form a strength alliance between the home and the school. If you are a parent and use this book at home, ...
Views: 1438 - Healthy Kids' Snack Ideas: 6 Must-Pack Snacks for Moms on the Go - by If you're a mom on the go, you know how tempting it can be to hit the drive-thru or the vending machine when your kids' tummies start to growl.
But there are healthier and less expensive alternatives. To ward off last-minute munchies, keep a bag packed in your car or in your fridge with ...
Views: 1437(1 vote) - Helping Kids Maintain Their Independence as Friendships Change - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2015 from Sharon BallantineFriendships are an important part of being healthy, but they can be rough too. Most people change over time and this affects their relationships, including with their friends. As a parent, it can be hard to watch your child go through a difficult time with their friends pulling away -- even ...
Views: 1437 - Investing in Relationships With Your Children - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2013 from Carolyn StoneLast week I gave a talk to a group of elementary school parents about ways to decrease nagging their children. The talk packed in the information from three or four parent coaching sessions. It was full of specific suggestions for behaviors for parents to try. I know that this approach works ...
Views: 1437(2 votes) - Jade Robinson’s Youth Foundation - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2013 from Jade RobinsonParents of struggling teens seeking help and a hope for their young children can now turn to Jade Robinson’s Youth Foundation, a NON PROFIT organization that operates a Residential Treatment Facility and School for Troubled Teens. The center works to bring families and relationships together ...
Views: 1437(2 votes) - REFRAMING NEGATIVE BEHAVIOR IN YOUR NAUGHTY CHILD - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2011 from Rachael MahThe best thing to do when your child has a negative behavior that needs to be changed is: 1. Assume good intent. If you assume he meant to do something bad, then he might end up continuing on with the negative behavior and/or becoming defensive. It is better to assume positive intent and ...
Views: 1436 - 5 Steps to a Calmer Evening - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2013 from Erin KurtWhether you work outside the house or stay at home full-time, the toughest part of the day is the same: those frantic early evening hours when there are mouths to feed, homework to do, and cranky kids to handle. The trick is to streamline your to-do’s so you can feel calmer and focus on what ...
Views: 1435(1 vote) - How To Say No When Your Kid Wants A Toy - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2008 from Lisa AustenFor most parents, saying no to their children is hard. Parents may feel that they are being mean, unfair, or that they are denying their children life’s pleasures by not letting them have their every heart’s desire. Often times, parents take the saying, “Ask and you shall ...
Views: 1435(1 vote) - HOW PEOPLE WHO SURROUND YOU CAN MAKE OR BREAK YOU - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2014 from D. OstaroHOW PEOPLE SURROUNDING YOU CAN MAKE OR BREAK YOU One of the most important ingredients in the formula of success is to surround yourself with the right people. Who are the right people? No one is right for all times and for every project or relationship. A person will enter your orbit, ...
Views: 1434 - Legal Immigration DNA Testing - How To Watch For Hidden Fees - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2012 from Maura LEmbassy / Immigration DNA testing DNA testing is increasingly becoming a required step in completing the Immigration process for family members. A biological relationship between the petitioner and the beneficiary must be proven when the birth certificate is deemed not sufficient by the USCIS ...
Views: 1434(2 votes) - Seven Powerful Ways to Get Your Kids to Eat Healthy - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsWith childhood obesity, autism and other childhood disorders on the rise, everyone from doctors to teachers and parents are seeking solutions for better health. At the most basic level, everyone can agree that kids can benefit from eating healthier. Truth is, with all the glitzy candy and ...
Views: 1434(16 votes) - Smart Shopping for Single Moms - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2009 from Samantha GregoryOne specific trait that single moms naturally acquire is smart shopping. It is an innate characteristic hinged on a mother’s survival instincts. We instinctively learn to take care of our offspring and provide them the best when there is no one else to depend on. Despite my limited financial ...
Views: 1433(1 vote) - Avoiding power struggles with your children - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2008 from Kathy SlattengrenIt’s easy to get into power struggles with your children. However, once you learn what triggers power struggles, you can avoid them. Let’s look at how to do this using a couple of examples. In the first situation, five year old Jacob has asked his mom if he can have a cookie. ...
Views: 1432 - Building Character ~ 3 Parenting Tips For Handling Your Bossy Child - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2008 from Jean TracyDoes your older child boss your younger child? Are you worried about your younger child’s self-esteem? Inside you’ll find 3 parenting tips for building character and handling bossiness. Childhood Humor: George bossed and teased his little sister every day. She screamed. She cried. She ...
Views: 1432 - Studies Find Birth Trauma Can Lead To Child Abuse - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2010 from Leah FriedmanBirth is a life-changing experience. Each birth brings with it a new and different set of experiences and feelings, but birth trauma can have serious and long-lasting effects. A Swedish study showed that those who have a traumatic and painful birth are more likely to end their life with ...
Views: 1432(6 votes) - Healthy Halloween Ideas - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2007 from Cheryl TallmanHalloween often means loads of sugary treats, but it doesn't have to. Here are some things you can hand out to the neighborhood children to make this Halloween a healthy one: • Cheese and cracker packages • Naturally flavored and sweetened gun or sugar-free gum • Small bags of pretzels ...
Views: 1431 - Mothering and Grand-Mothering: Weaving Spiritual Intergenerational Bonds - by Submitted on May 01, 2013 from Dr. Jane SimingtonAs we approach Mother’s Day, I am drawn to reflect on the beliefs and feelings that surface as I ponder my experiences of being mothered and on how those experiences directly and indirectly affected my own mothering and continue to influence my grand-mothering. Each night during my childhood, ...
Views: 1431(1 vote) - Babysitters: 10 Tips on How to Find the Best Childcare for Your Night Out? - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2012 from Kathryn KesslerWe all wish that we could have Mary Poppins to take over the childcare while we indulge ourselves with a night out. Unfortunately, that is not possible. So, what does a parent do to find the best person to provide childcare for their kids, for just a few hours? Here are five suggestions for ...
Views: 1430 - Breaking the Habit of Enabling Your Child in Co-dependency - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2009 from Francis HoseinIt takes courage and a constant action to break the habit of co-dependency that once may have been your normal way of behaving with your child. Becoming conscious of your role The way you have been going about your life may not have show you that you have created a co-dependency with ...
Views: 1430(12 votes) - Experts on child rearing: should you listen to them? - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Lynn DormanNo! Not if you are about to use them as a step-by-step methodology for raising your child. Now a disclaimer: I am a child development “expert.” Starting out as an Early Childhood Education major, on to being a Kindergarten teacher; through to a Ph.D. in Developmental Psychology and life as ...
Views: 1430 - Mindful Motherhood: Experience - Thinking - by Submitted on May 13, 2009 from New Harbinger PublicationsOne of the participants in our Mindful Motherhood Training for new moms (I’ll call her Cindy) told us a story about one of those moments that every mom dreads. At the park one day, she and her husband took their toddler and their four-month-old baby in her stroller to the pond to watch the ...
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