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Watch the child closely to recognize when you are really needed to step in to lend support verbally or physically, but give the child enough freedom to discover his safe limits for himself.
Raising children well involves a careful balance of providing the child with independence and ... Views: 1219
School is back in session. That means early morning risers, catching the bus, packing lunches, and who can forget...homework!
Homework was a part of the learning process when we were kids and it certainly still is today. Especially with younger children, we play a large part in holding them ... Views: 699
If you are trying to get pregnant and have tried every possible option that can help you to conceive without medical intervention, then it is time to contact a professional for help. Having a healthy and happy family is a dream of every couple and this is the first thing we plan about after ... Views: 995
Nowadays, with more and more children involved in accidents and traumatic injuries or life-threatening incidents, parents are wondering if is it safe to let the kids play outside without supervision.
Even authorities are worried of children doing unsupervised outdoor plays, as posted by a ... Views: 2942
When you have engaged parents the impact on a school can be significant:
- Academic achievement rises
- Children's behavior improves
- School events are well attended
- Fund raisers become much more successful
- The school community becomes tighter; parents interact with each other and ... Views: 709
Living away from home can put added stress on your financial situation especially if your family frequently contributed to your entertainment. No longer are family members treating you to dinner out or at their home. Mom and Dad are not conveniently saying “My treat.” If you continue to ... Views: 1491
Living far from home creates a void that can sometimes be difficult to ignore. Here are some ways to meet your emotional needs without the benefit of being close to home.
Volunteer:
Holidays can be a trying time when you are far from your family. It also gives your children a great ... Views: 1902
The Death of a Child
Originally Posted on July 14, blog Indestructible Relationship by Kimberly Pryor
Today, I’m turning The Indestructible Relationship blog over to an award-winning author and therapist I met recently at a conference in Philadelphia. Her name is Dr. Jane A. Simington, PhD, ... Views: 2203
Penn State and Syracuse University are facing national scandals! At Penn State in 2002, an assistant coach witnessed a sexual assault of a child, told administrators and no one reported it to police. Seven more assaults have now been reported.
Americans have heard horror stories about sexual ... Views: 2227
Many parents of children with ADD and ADHD will read the title and throw up their hands. Come on. Really? Praising children has been a technique used for motivation since the beginning of time. It can backfire?
Hold on. Don’t throw up the white flag yet.
Here it is boiled down to three ... Views: 1326
The Story Line.
This is such a great story, at least from my values perspective (more later on that). It’s really funny, too, but not ridiculous. It’s a very light couple of hours, nothing heavy. And, for most of us that’s a good thing, at least once in a while.
Frank and Helen, who were ... Views: 4304
Dear MrDad. I'm a new father. I haven't had much experience with infants and I want to be involved in my daughter's care, but every time I try to pick her up, she starts to fret. How can I feel more competent?
A: Few things can make a man feel less like a man than feeling incompetent. And ... Views: 1628
Dear MrDad: Everyone says that new mothers should breastfeed their babies but I've never really know why. And, I know this sounds nuts, but is there anything I can to do to stay involved while my wife is nursing? I feel so left out.
A: Before their babies are born, just about any expectant ... Views: 1969
Dear Mr. Dad: My three-year-old daughter has an imaginary friend named Maggie. She talks to her all the time, draws with her, and "reads" her favorite books to her. I even have to set an extra place at the dinner table for Maggie or my daughter won't eat. Is this okay or should I be concerned ... Views: 1745
Dear Mr. Dad: I'm a stay-at-home dad, and I'm worried that my daughter will get bored at home with me and with the same toys. What do I do?
A: Wow, what a great question! You've really hit on an incredibly common fear—not only for dads but for stay-at-home moms too.
Rather than come up ... Views: 1764
Dear MrDad: Since becoming a father my wife and I haven't been able to spend as much time with our friends as we used to. Some of them seem to understand but others don't. Is there anything we can do to keep our friendships alive?
A: Considering how small and helpless babies are, it's really ... Views: 1714
The greatest risk to our children doesn't come from strangers but from friends and family.
In light of the devastating events that allegedly took place at Penn State and Syracuse Universities, we now see fresh evidence of horrific child sexual abuse that continues to be all too prevalent in ... Views: 1448
Every parent, would-be parents, and those who are still planning to be parents always dream and want to be good parents to their children. However, being a good parent is not as easy as counting one, two, three. One has to strive and be determined to be a good parent.
Moreover, one of the most ... Views: 964
Praise can be very powerful when used correctly. Here are three easy tips to help parents implement praise in a way that motivates children with ADD and ADHD and boosts their self-esteem:
1. Be Genuine
“You are going to be the next Babe Ruth!” or “That is the most beautiful painting I ... Views: 1556
The Magazine was Published in the Fall of 2010. I Reviewed the Article in the Fall of 2010.
My “Good Housekeeping” magazine came the other day and I’ve finally had time to sit down and go through it. It’s a magazine with a long, great history and it has done well evolving through its ... Views: 2869
A Deeper Look at Parenting.
Alice’s style is balanced in Control (Over her Environment). She wants Jimmy to: (1) listen to her, (2) do small tasks he’s capable of, and (3) generally cooperate. When he ignores her cries, screams and does his own thing, she gives him a consequence: (1) a ... Views: 1716
A Deeper Look at Positive Parenting.
Sometimes, especially if our child/teen is doing well, we parents tend to forget about giving her that pat on the back. Or, we assume she doesn’t need it. Not so. Everyone enjoys being noticed or getting support. Your child/teen also wants to ... Views: 1483
Addiction is a disease that affects spouses and children as dramatically as addicts themselves. When people get sober, they often set out to right the wrongs they’ve done to their children. And though children of addicts are at greater risk for emotional problems and addiction than other ... Views: 4509
The job description for Parent is overwhelmingly long. One of the trickier tasks involves helping to guide children’s behavior in a constructive and effective way. It requires vast amounts of patience, self control and perseverance. To be successful, it needs a pocket full of tricks able to ... Views: 2123
Being a parent can be the most joyful time of your life.
You are responsible for protecting, educating, nutritiously feeding, disciplining and most of all loving your child. All of these tasks and more make your job as a parent the most important job of your life but noone says you have to ... Views: 1049
Pregnancy is both an exciting stage as it is a scary one for women. To say scary does not mean the strictest sense of the word. Scary here would mean a time for the woman to be anxious about what will happen in the next nine months of her life and how her unborn baby will change their lives. It ... Views: 885
Retail stores are beginning the Black Friday sales early this year as they open their doors on Thanksgiving evening. While many consumers will scurry through the aisles in search of sale items, it makes me wonder if our culture has lost touch with what’s truly valuable. Don’t get me wrong, I ... Views: 1207
One plus in being a summer nanny is that often the children under your care are school aged children and are a bit more independent and interactive than younger children and babies, which can make for a really fun summer for both the nanny and the children!
hiring a nanny
When hiring a ... Views: 743
nanny background check
Nanny Poppinz has the most rigorous and thorough background check in the Nanny industry. Having a former Federal agent as Vice-President of Nanny Poppinz, we feel confident that we are doing everything we can to make sure that your Nanny is safe to be in your home ... Views: 775
nanny
Tasks directly related to childcare can be within the realm of a Nanny's job description, however - depending upon the circumstances of your family. these may include:
baby sitter
Nanny Poppinz babysitters meets the same standards as our nannies, a minimum of 18 years old, each ... Views: 716
The 3 P’s of Dating After Divorce, With Children
Before I share some very important advice, I feel I must give you a bit of background on how and why this advice served me well. This article is designed to give a basic guideline on some of the most important attributes in looking for a ... Views: 1791
Parents of children with Attention Deficit Disorder often find that the hours and money spent on tutoring does not significantly improve their children’s grades. This is because tutoring and remedial programs do not address the root of the issue.
Learning is like constructing a building. It ... Views: 1466
In March of this year, we marked the 100th anniversary of International Women's Day. While we should celebrate the significant progress in the last 100 years, we must remember that in too many societies, women are second class citizens, denied their fundamental rights.
Both houses of congress ... Views: 1164
If you celebrate Christmas then you're going to love the ideas given here. You will be guaranteed that your child will love the present they receive and but can also be assured that the gift you are giving is appropriate, meaningful, and will help your child explore their own sense of curiosity ... Views: 1093
According to a recent survey, stress affects 30% + of the population on a daily basis. Too much stress can contribute to a long list of health problems as well as family problems. The good news is that there is plenty you can do to help get balance back into your life.
The Tell Tale Signs of ... Views: 924
Your kids are away at camp and although you thought you’d be using this time to flop on the sofa and vegetate, you find yourself ancy, walking around, wondering what to do with all this time on your hands! The very fact that you have some extra time is, funny enough, stressing you out! You ... Views: 972
If I asked you what a typical day for your family looks like, what would you say? Often times when I ask parents this question most say, “There is no typical”. Family life today is more about randomness and improvisation than rhythm. Wednesday wash day? Snack and milk after school? Sunday ... Views: 1168
One of the most common expressions parents can be heard saying is, “I don’t understand why he’s/she’s doing that”. There are eight, very common reasons why children misbehave. It is extremely useful for parents to know these because if they can pinpoint the root cause of the misbehaviour, they ... Views: 1405
A common theme over the past 20 years has been how much children have changed from when we were growing up in terms of how they show respect. I know that for the most part in the 1960's, anyone in a position of authority commanded respect which included parents, teachers, police officers, ... Views: 875
When one of my newest coaching clients came to me a month ago, she was nearing her whit's end. Cody, her 7-year-old son, was talking back to the teacher at school and getting into arguments with friends.
"It's been getting worse over the last year or so since my daughter, Kayla, was born. I ... Views: 1001
We often hear people saying, “Gosh, life is more difficult than when we were kids.” Yes, it is very different in terms of how global the world has become and how the world feels faster-paced. This pace is what has caused parents to feel so overwhelmed by their responsibilities.
From my ... Views: 930
Every mom wants more me time. In fact some mom tell me they don't remember when they last had some! Luckily, there are some sneaky ways that you can find and enjoy some well deserved time by yourself. Here are just a few ideas:
1) Create an alone time or me time hour each day. Perhaps ... Views: 1192
Anticipating discharge home from the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) brings up almost as much parental anxiety as when you first learn of the need for admission to the NICU. For parents, admission to the NICU means something is wrong with your baby. Once the medical issues are resolved, ... Views: 897
Good manners are the backbone of a civilized society and make interacting with people a joy. Manners also create a strong first impression, and they pave the way to good jobs, smooth relations with family and friends, and an easier time out in the real world. The lesson here? Make it a ... Views: 1172
Our role as a parent is to guide our children through life which means setting boundaries and saying “No” quite often. I would like to suggest a slightly different approach, or at least one that puts the emphasis in a different area.
Here’s what I mean. My approach to dealing with children ... Views: 1640
Does trying to get your children to open up about their day feel like an inquisition? Do you feel like you’re giving your child the third degree to tell you anything about their life? If so, here are some simple, effective ways you can help your child open up and share more about their day and ... Views: 1012
As a physician and a parent I'm keenly aware that there are certain conversations that a parent never wants to have with the medical team caring for their newborn. As a life coach I believe that within each of us is the capacity to face the truth.
Deciding to pursue a career in medicine is ... Views: 1089
Children with Attention Deficit Disorder should not have to suffer from insomnia, headaches or nervousness in order to be able to focus on school work. Natural ADD and ADHD treatments exist without the side effects caused by many of the common pharmaceuticals available.
Millisecond Timing ... Views: 1425
Parenting children with Attention Deficit Disorder is difficult and often times exhausting. Parents often find themselves yelling and nagging their children to hurry up, calm down or help out. These parents need a solution for everyone’s sanity and happiness. However, the option of using a ... Views: 3804