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I was born in the early 1970s with spina bifida when not much was known about it and life goals for me were rather limited. However, my mother, even then, lived in the thought of possibilities on my behalf, raising me to be the best I could be. It was stressful. She strived to gain all the ... Views: 1056
Whether you are a first time parent or have welcomed an additional child into your family, parenting is a world filled with love, happiness and self doubt. Children, unfortunately, do not come with an instruction manual and it is quite normal to question your actions on a daily basis. Here are ... Views: 674
Tara (not her real name) couldn’t listen to her mother bad-mouthing the next- door neighbor to her friends for another minute. Tara had always found this neighbor to be friendly and helpful. She couldn’t understand why her mother enjoyed making fun of her.
Jordan closed his eyes in disgust as ... Views: 1549
The desire for enrichment classes geared towards babies and toddlers have become very popular in the United States. Teaching sign language to children as young as 6 months, and in some cases younger, is a growing industry, and the demand for baby-signing videos and classes have gone up a over ... Views: 1964
Many people feel inadequate when they first become parents. This is a natural feeling, but you should also realize that continuing to prepare yourself as a parent is a vital part of the process. This article gives you tips about parenting, and it explains what you should focus on and attempt to ... Views: 614
Let me ask you a question. Are you ashamed that your child is an introvert?
An honest answer to this question is a positive step toward improving your relationship with your introverted child, now and forever. How can you support your child in finding his or her place in this world if you ... Views: 11708
In today's society, so many of us feel that children are growing up with unhealthy values and unproductive attitudes. Children and teens are sometimes viewed as self-centered, seldom thinking about others in their family or community. While there are many factors that contribute to their ... Views: 644
Do you remember what it was like to play as a child? A time when you had no worries and completely enjoyed the now? Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and for a moment remember one of your best childhood experiences and try to relive it. Remember what you were doing, the sounds, the people (if ... Views: 1300
It still doesn't seem real. I can't believe it. It's taken me this long to get into a routine of things. Don't get me wrong, I had what I thought were routines. Then a week or two passed, and I would tweak them trying to see if something worked better. Sometimes routines put you in a rut, but as ... Views: 1346
It's normal, it's real, and it's understandable ... so what's the answer?
We all think it - and most of us say it when we share children with an Ex who has a new partner. The phrase 'the kids are with me or you - but not her' is equally valid when read "but not him" in place of her however ... Views: 2118
It was more than twenty five years ago, and it was a day that I will never forget. I had given birth to my second son in the beginning of September. I brought him home to a one bedroom apartment. The bedroom was big, both of my sons slept in there and my husband at the time and I slept on a ... Views: 1711
The Secret Science of Change: Stop Being So Hard on Yourself
By Suzie Wolfer LCSW
www.suziewolfer.com
Most people have an Inner Critic that tries to brow beat or guilt them into change. You may hear that little voice saying “You should . . . “or “You shouldn’t . . . .” I call this ... Views: 3489
Have you been tripped up by any of these situations?
Nap Trap #1: "My baby wakes up the instant I put him down." He shouldn't fall asleep in your arms in the first place. Remember the rule: to bed semi-awake.
Nap Trap #2: "My baby refuses to nap." Typically, the problem is timing. A baby won't ... Views: 20975
Thinking happy thoughts at will is a skill that we can learn and teach our children, and certainly one we should teach them, after all happiness is what every parent wishes for their child right?. But how do we instill habits of happy thinking in ourselves and our kids?
First, it helps to ... Views: 1611
Finding time for yourself can be difficult. Here are some exercises that, once learned, don't take long, and can really have a positive impact on your day.
Tip one: Calming Breath is a basic Take a Break Strategy. When tense or annoyed we often take a quick breath in and then forget to let ... Views: 1390
1-All contact should be kept to a minimum
One phone call a day is excessive, several text messages a day is extremely excessive. If you have a subject related to the kids- speak briefly and clearly about your expectations. Emails are better than phone calls, if your issue is not an ... Views: 5291
Of course I knew that headline would get your attention.
In full disclosure, I'm a bit heated today and will use this week's article to vent. A reader recently forwarded me a poll conducted by The Angus Reid Strategies Group which surveyed 624 Canadian parents and revealed that "overall, ... Views: 1216
We can be quick to judge our parents. There are so many things they could have done better. That is, if they had been better trained.
We tend to compare our parents -- at least during some stage in our lives -- with an ideal that virtually no parent measures up to. If we must compare them, ... Views: 1166
First Reactions of Parents Crucial in Coming Out
When gay and lesbian teenagers come out to their parents, the parents' initial reaction is crucial to their teenagers well being. Parents must examine their own homophobia, grieve lost dreams and support their teen.
The way parents first ... Views: 1681
With all the affectionate care and coddling of our babies, isn’t there a risk of spoiling them by “loving them considerably”, and of forming beings that will be persistently demanding of all the things under the sun? The response to this interrogation is a definite “No"!
A baby wants ... Views: 1299
Newborn Senses
Continued
An interesting characteristic of a newborn infant is its quite unremarkable vision. In fact, it is only able to focus on a subject that is about 18 inches, or 45 cm, immediately in front of its face. An initial impression might point to the fact that this could ... Views: 1253
7 Tips For Parenting From Afar
Whether afar is across town or across the country these tips will help any parent who is not currently sleeping under the same roof as his or her children, due to divorce or some other reason.
1. Remember that your child is a digital native. On the other ... Views: 1813
We can feel the chill in the air but nothing says it’s the end of summer and beginning of fall more than the start of a new school year. With curriculums on a tight schedule, many children have already had their first assignments of homework, even on the first day back to the classroom. The ... Views: 2297
Few parents in the world are aware of the fact that the best time to learn for a child is between 0-5 years.
You can actually teach your baby to read, and both parents and baby will have fun with this.
The American Psychologist and Brain researcher Dr. Glenn Doman has proved this in his work ... Views: 1684
Do you have moments throughout the day when you feel great as a parent? When your kids are happy, you are happy, you are all hugging, laughing and kissing one other? You know the feeling of wonderment. Now, do you also have times when you don’t love being a parent? Have you felt at your wits ... Views: 1489
Babies are always more trouble than you thought and more wonderful. ~Charles Osgood
Expecting a baby is a very exciting time in the life of couples wanting a child. As this precious new family member is carried in its mothers womb, the couple immediately begins to connect and care and ... Views: 1823
“I feel so guilty!” is a common phrase with most moms. We tend to feel guilty about everything, even if we’re doing something away from our kids that’s good for us!
Where does this guilt come from anyway? Dads don’t seem to have the same issue. They are more matter-of-fact about things. ... Views: 1450
Single men and women may complain about never having time to run errands during a busy workweek, and God forbid they take time out of their plan-packed weekends to do so. Ok, ok, I cannot tell a lie - I'm one of those single people. But as someone with friend after friend with children and more ... Views: 589
Take the mix and put it in a bowl, add one cup of flour. Then add a dash of salt and add in 3 eggs. You can translate this recipe into the life of a child; a child that will learn how to walk, talk, run and play. The cup of flour symbolizes the love and encouragement that you instill in them. It ... Views: 1468
Preparing to break the news to your kids that you’re divorcing their other parent? Feeling insecure about how to broach the subject? Wondering how much to share during and after the divorce? How your children will react? How to handle their questions? How to deal with your special ... Views: 2091
Does this sound familiar? Your teenage son is taking forever in the bathroom (again), but you need him to get ready so you can get to work on time. You’re thinking, “How could I have raised such an inconsiderate kid? He’s so disrespectful!” Meanwhile, your child is locked in the bathroom, ... Views: 2757
What is leadership and why should parents care? Leadership is the ability to inspire yourself and others to take positive action in life. Every individual and organization needs leadership. What is an organization exactly? An organization is a social arrangement that pursues collective ... Views: 2076
You've heard all the nasty rumors about day care. Too many kids and too few caregivers. Lots of sneezing and wheezing. That little guy who’s always grabbing your child’s toy. Everyone’s got a story. But you have to get back to work and you have no choice. What’s a good parent to do?
Let’s ... Views: 13379
There are numerous definitions for playgroups. The dictionary defines a playgroup as a place for children not currently eligible for a formal education in elementary. In Singapore, it is a place where children can socialize and have fun. It is where kids can play and exercise with other ... Views: 1995
Grandparent DNA testing is an excellent way to find out for sure if you share a biological relationship with a grandchild.
There are many situations where a grandparent needs to be tested against a grandchild when the father is not available. For example, if you want to find out but not ... Views: 1987
Grandparent DNA testing is an excellent way to find out for sure if you share a biological relationship with a grandchild.
There are many situations where a grandparent needs to be tested against a grandchild when the father is not available. For example, if you want to find out but not ... Views: 1987
It is so simple yet not understood. It is so accessible but not utilized. It is so desired but not conquered. It is right in front of our eyes yet oftentimes we don't see it. Some possess the wisdom of it, while others search all their lives for it. What is it? It is our own personal power. The ... Views: 871
I’ve worked with many parents and children caught up in power struggles in the home—they argued over bedtime, homework, curfew, video game time—you name it, they fought over it. And the more these parents fought with their children, the better at arguing and manipulating situations their ... Views: 2809
The story of Pinocchio may be more profound than we initially thought…
A perfect creation gradually gets influenced and tarnished by its surroundings before thankfully finding its way back to its true nature.
Up until the ages of 7 or 8 children are literally being programmed by their ... Views: 2620
One of the greatest problems that families have in improving the quality of their lives together is the common reality that the parents themselves don’t always agree on what the family priorities should be.
In fact many men find themselves confused and saddened by their family life; especially ... Views: 1283
There are three things that all young people strongly dislike.
1. Being preached to
2. Being put down by others, especially parents and teachers
3. Being yelled at
As parents we know how difficult it can be to refrain from doing all three. When we’re angry things just come ... Views: 2598
There are three things that all young people strongly dislike.
1. Being preached to
2. Being put down by others, especially parents and teachers
3. Being yelled at
As parents we know how difficult it can be to refrain from doing all three. When we’re angry things just come ... Views: 2598
Raising kids is hard; raising kids alone is near- impossible. It’s absolutely not easy to raise kids when you’re a single parent. However, although it seems awful, (a lot of times it is!) it offers quite a number of astonishing benefits that can make everyday life easier for everyone. According ... Views: 4652
When an adult regards a child's behavior as disruptive, disrespectful, or defiant, the adult commonly complains, "That child needs more discipline." How rare is it that one will say, "That child needs more understanding." Sometimes more firmness may indeed be in order, but even then the ... Views: 1353
The newborn baby is looking out, ready to embrace the wonderful world, a new life.
The baby is coming from a place totally free of limitations, materialism, violence and war. He is enveloped in a glow of safety, unconditional love, the light and the freedom to be…himself. The devoted love a ... Views: 2625
Dear Dr. Romance:
If the child has not had a real relationship with her father for many years and does not see him more than 2 times per year, should a mother keep pushing a relationship with the father and child? Will it do more harm than good?
Dear Reader:
There is no way I ... Views: 2196
Dr. Romance asks: Are you a single mom? Wondering whether you're too old to be back on the market? Well, wonder no more.
Watch the video on YourTango.com Dating Advice Every Single Mom Should Know
In this video, author, therapist and YourTango ... Views: 2030
"Educating" Teens
My wife and I were talking today about our oldest child, who is almost eleven years old.
He is a very bright, compassionate, and mature young man, and he has been a great help to us with chores and in dealing with the younger kids. But he is getting quite bored, maybe even ... Views: 1534
"Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They came through you but not from you and though they are with you yet they belong not to you."-- Kahlil Gibran Symptoms of enmeshed parenting:Your children's good or difficult ... Views: 4370
Ask most parents about when their family experiences stress and getting out the door in the morning comes in among the top answers. With the right routine and words, mornings can flow and be one of the happiest times in your family’s day.
As with any major parenting issue I always look at ... Views: 1331