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"I often seem to create the one who is emotionally unavailable. What can I do to change that"? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the strongest negative vibration I had from my lengthy string of failed relationships. They were either emotionally ... Views: 1414
After observing thousands of love relationships as a matchmaker, and over 25 years of empirical research involving relationships, spirituality, and personality assessment, including writing a book about soul mates, we’ve concluded that there are many love life expectations and traps that ... Views: 1414
Conflicts are undoubtedly reasons why most mature or immature relationships end in a break, and you definitely need to be sure to avoid them as much as possible.
Humans are very emotional to some degree. Therefore, if you want to get your ex back and get him back, you have to make before ... Views: 1414
Richard and I just indulged in our early December tradition – we watched our favorite Christmas movie, "Scrooge!." the musical starring Albert Finney, which kick-starts our holiday spirit every year.
No matter what you observe: Ramadan, Kwaanza, Chanukah, Solstice or Christmas, this is a ... Views: 1414
Rejection can be hard on anyone and sometimes it can make you think you aren’t worthy of love. Newsflash, you are, and here’s how to remind yourself of that!
A person can only take so much rejection, be it in person, on an app, or on an adult dating site, before they start to doubt their ... Views: 1413
Imagine clothing racks where all the items are stuffed on hangers and shoved onto the racks in no particular order. Crumpled shiny shirts like the ones John Travolta wore in Saturday Night Fever, co-mingling with pairs of brightly colored spandex leggings circa 1980. In between the disarray of ... Views: 1413
Sometimes we might look at a couple and wonder how they found each other. No matter how they outwardly seem, act, appear, we see that they can express love, care and affection. How do they do this? What keeps their glue going? How can we find a similar feeling with our partner?
We think we ... Views: 1413
If you want to achieve success in life whether it be in your relationships, health or finances – you must establish a solid foundation on which to build on – working on your internal world from ‘the inside out’ addresses self-imposed obstacles stopping you from reaching your full potential in ... Views: 1413
"I do not want to be hurt again, but I really wish to reach my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate"?
You have two options to pursue here. 1) You can stall until you have had enough time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start moving on and ... Views: 1412
You meet, you date, and you have fun. You go out together and you look forward to seeing each other when you are apart. You start to spend more time with one another and less time doing things you used to do separately. Is this the point when your relationship begins to get serious?
When do ... Views: 1412
In marriage, what do you think “forever” means?
• Till death do us part
• Until the divorce is final
• Until someone more interesting comes along
• Even after we are dead and buried
The choices are too numerous to list. Are you aware that most people don’t have a ... Views: 1412
While some people end up in relationships that have a positive effect on their life, there are others that don’t. And while this can mean that they are used to being with people who are not a good match, this could be an understatement.
Instead, they could find that they end up with people ... Views: 1412
Ah, the joy of a New Year! The endless possibilities, opportunities to set new goals, to achieve new heights! To break old patterns that no longer serve you, like nixing the danish and choosing fruit, actually going to the gym rather than just donating your membership fee as if to charity, ... Views: 1410
Sex is an essential, physical expression of love! It is often seen in the context of a meaningful, lasting, love relationship. It is more of emotional experience and how the partners feel about each other determines and influences their sexual desire and performance level. It satisfies our ... Views: 1410
Life is full of changes. We move through our lives with hopes and desires. Yet, we often find ourselves unhappy, stressed and with a sense of feeling hopeless and undesirable. Wouldn’t it be an amazing and a wondrous experience to live life feeling healthy and sexy? Instead of having that, ... Views: 1410
As a single mom, it's a big step to date, no matter how old your kids are. You put yourself out there wanting to find love and hoping to find quality men. Talk about having faith. Well, I do. I have faith that it will happen. It might not happen when I want it to, but I KNOW it will when it's ... Views: 1410
Isn’t it great to be alive? Translating middle class, American jargon into plain language is a challenge. Taking a concept like ‘Love Languages’ and explaining it in a way fit for a Building site canteen is more of one. Often the fluffy language used by professionals has ordinary people, ... Views: 1410
Healing the broken heart is a multifaceted process that takes patience and self care. The first step is to acknowledge that indeed our heart is broken whether it is through the death of a loved one, a relationship ending or a betrayal in a close relationship.
Once you acknowledge the pain and ... Views: 1409
Intimacy, Chemistry, Love & Desire
What is intimacy? I think it's about being ourselves with each other. When we can be completely free, to say whatever we want - no matter how personal or sensitive - then there is intimacy.
What is chemistry? I think it's when people feel a certain ... Views: 1409
You're Getting Married!! Congratulations!!
Now It's Time To Start Planning!
Getting married is a wonderful time in a couple's life and it is a gratifying experience for me to be part of the celebration of their joining together. With so many things to think about and plan, many people ... Views: 1409
Dear Dr. Romance:
I stumbled upon your article "Don't Make The Same Mistake Twice" while I was searching for advice on dating a divorcee. I can't help but wonder what advice you would give to a girl who has never been married who is currently seeing a divorcee. I ... Views: 1407
How To Make Him Feel Special Everyday: How To Make Your Boyfriend Feel Special With Words
Are you concerned with how he treats you that you have forgotten he has needs as well? How do you prove how much you love him? Have you been neglecting your man or assume he doesn't have needs like you ... Views: 1407
If you still love your ex you probably feel as though you're suffering through emotional torture each and every day. Loving someone you are no longer with brings with it a whole set of unique challenges. It's certainly not easy trying to figure out what went wrong while at the same time ... Views: 1407
Get Connected!
When I talked about getting connected, I am coming from a place of higher spirituality, not religion. I respect and honor all religions and believe that the core message is the same for most of them, they just have different ways of expressing it that will resonate with some ... Views: 1407
The ascension process can only occur with the proper development and nurturing of the inner child. This magical world of innocence and wonder has within its design a vast potential of unimaginable possibilities. It is sadly within our society abandoned and ignored through multiple influences all ... Views: 1406
Dear Donna Financial Advice Column #5 How to Send Love in a Big Way for Valentine's Day at a Small Cost 1/23/16 Sat.
(I am not a certified financial planner but a financial coach and I cannot offer any investment advice by law.)
Q.--How can I express my love on Valentine's Day in a Big Way ... Views: 1406
Psssst, wanna know a little divorce secret?
Your daily divorce drama is an illusion.
Sure, to you, it can feel all too real, but the fact is we get stuck in the drama mud because we have never been been taugt how to break ourselves away from it. People love to tell you to hold your head ... Views: 1406
Do you love anyone? Then, there is no other special day for you other than Valentine’s Day. What to gift her to make the day memorable. This will be question running in your mind when you get near to the day of celebrating love. There are several types of Valentine day gifts to select from to ... Views: 1405
What’s in a long distance relationship (LDR)? Continents, seas, and mountains stand between two people who apparently love each other. Different area codes, time zones, and often different cultures – a whole new world, in fact – are the realities that a couple in a LDR have to ... Views: 1405
Partnerships are in many ways like real, seagoing ships. Just like a sailing vessel needs regular, constant care and upkeep, your partnerships need regular care and upkeep. The crew of a sailing ship is knowledgeable in the standard practices of seamanship, which is absolutely required to ... Views: 1404
And then, not expecting it, you become middle-aged…You achieve a wonderful freedom. It is a positive thing. Doris Lessing
Maturity or middle age means different things to different people, but for most, reaching a mature age means developing a new set of ... Views: 1404
No matter what the reason and regardless of who broke up with who, if you know that you want to learn how to get your ex back, then you have to know that there are going to be a few things that you will need to take care of, and that there are a few tips that are really going to help you out ... Views: 1403
If the thought of vaginal atrophy worries you, know that you're not alone. For many women, the post-menopause years can mean a sexless marriage. But if sex is sometimes more painful than pleasurable, it doesn't mean it's over for you.
If you're currently in perimenopause, or that period in a ... Views: 1403
Has your husband had an intention to move out or told you that he needs his own space and time to find himself? It is not a surprise for a husband to take a step back and question the marriage. What can you do if it happened to you? Do you let your husband walk away for good if you still want ... Views: 1402
At times, simply by telling our loved ones that we love them, we are not able to express how much they really mean to us. And every once in a while, we come to realize that we would like to do something different for them.
For the times when you feel like doing something special for your ... Views: 1402
Jealousy is determined an impression threatened or terrified of losing a spouse due to this fact presence of others. So not only the lose our loved ones but there are factors at the intervention of third parties kinds. The jealousy appears fear of losing a precious for us.
Jealousy in ... Views: 1402
Psssst, wanna know a little divorce secret?
Your daily divorce drama is an illusion.
Sure, to you, it can feel all too real, but the fact is we get stuck in the drama mud because we have never been been taugt how to break ourselves away from it. People love to tell you to hold your head ... Views: 1402
Before you think that we are advocating censorship, hear us out. We’re all for freedom of expression and speech, but it pays to critically analyze what society embraces without contemplation, like the messages in pop music that can contribute to very unhealthy outlooks on love and ... Views: 1402
If you're single, Valentines might feel like a day of missing out. If you're between love, on the rocks — or if Cupid seems to have lost your forwarding address — Valentines may seem more like a day of vexing, instead of an occasion for romance.
May I suggest a thought or two?
Our ... Views: 1402
While exploring the answer to this question I came across a definition in Wikipedia on-line:
Love:
Love is a profound feeling of tender affection for or intense attraction to another. It is considered a deep, ineffable feeling shared in passionate or intimate interpersonal relationships. ... Views: 1401
How do you start to love everyone?
First you need to learn to love yourself. There is no reason to condemn yourself, or even to hate yourself. We are all from the one infinite energy; some call it God, Allah or Yahweh. For me it is the Universe. Since we are all energy, we are also a part of ... Views: 1401
How to make your ex miss you; If you have determined that you must try to get back together with your ex after breaking up there are vital steps you must take. If you still have love for your ex, try to think about why this break up happened. You need to be aware of what the situations are ... Views: 1400
Friendship or Love?
Friendship is the best relationship ever. Life is full of complications and surprises. Lucky are those who have a friend to call on in times of adversities. Someone you can hold on to when tough times come. A single real friend is more than enough than a hundred fake ... Views: 1400
Are you and your spouse having an immensely tough time relating to each other these days? Perhaps, no matter what you've tried, you just cannot get back on your partner's good side. Keep on reading if you want to discover two ways you can improve your relationship and get that thriving and ... Views: 1399
Before you start a relationship with anyone, you need to develop a friendship with them first, and make yourself comfortable with each other. Make sure that the person you are interested in is genuinely good to you in every way and he feels same for you the way you do. There are some key points ... Views: 1399
When couples begin my private online 1-to1 or group coaching packages, one of the first things they say to me is they have a problem with their communication. I often hear the following:
“We can’t communicate”
“They don’t listen”
“Everything ends up in a row.”
“We sometimes don’t ... Views: 1399
The relationship you have with yourself is the most important relationship you will ever have. Your personal relationship is the foundation all others will be built upon. Without this foundation, then it is a matter of time before the others crumble around your feet. We all have to remember to ... Views: 1399
There are two paths, the path that leads to love, peace and acceptance and the path that leads away. Most of us pray for, plead for and weep for love in our lives, while our actions, our words, and the behavior we accept from others with open arms is anything but loving. We justify, support and ... Views: 1399
Valentine love gifts are an integral part of Valentine’s Day, observed on the 14th of February every year. Romantic gifts like flowers, chocolates and the color red add to its fervor. Predominantly a western festival, Valentine’s Day has emerged as a popular celebration, the world over. Heart ... Views: 1399