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If you're like most people, you have probably preformed desperate actions in attempting to win the ex back. If you have discovered that desperate actions have not worked, you are likely looking for effective strategies in winning back the love of your life.
These are effective tips in getting ... Views: 1436
Recently, as we were eating in an Italian restaurant, the music being played transported me back to holidays with my Italian/American family. Traditional, sentimental Italian songs were such a large part of our gatherings for the holidays. After a huge, slow, multi-course dinner, Uncle Tommy ... Views: 1435
Dr. Romance writes: I was speaking with a client today about his burn-out in his career. This is a man who’s been very successful, earned a lot of money, and worked hard for a big, national corporation. I told him he was burned-out, and on strike, because he had put himself in a ... Views: 1434
Want to make sure your relationship is a success? Here are ten ways to bring the sparkle back and keep it going.
Dr. Romance's 10 Behaviors to Enhance Your Marriage
1. Talk frequently and honestly to each other --about your frustrations, about sex, about anger, about disappointment, ... Views: 1434
It seems to me that there are a lot of men out there who either A) Don't know what a women needs, wants or thinks or B) Plain don't care, or feel that caring would make them less of a man. Assuming you are a male in category A. please keep reading. If on the other hand your in camp B. go back ... Views: 1434
With Suitor #1, he and I talked via text and on the phone a lot. Then when we met in person, there wasn't any chemistry. A friend told me next time to not talk with the guy so much. That way there wouldn't be expectations. So I decided to try this tactic, because at this point, I'm willing to ... Views: 1434
Ahhh, that feeling! Your spirit soars. You feel like you're being lifted higher and higher. If feels so good it must be right. Right? Maybe you'd better watch out for those cruel rocks below! How many of us have taken that flight, only to plummet to despair when our illusions are shattered. ... Views: 1434
As we go through life we encounter different people and based on our initial impression, we form certain assumptions about them. They say “first impressions count,” right?
Based on how things went the first time we met, I may start to think of John as a “lazy person” or of Sarah as ... Views: 1434
Valentine’s Day: a joy if you’re blessed with a wonderful relationship, an annoyance (or worse) if you’re single and unhappy about it, or in a “challenging” (aka miserable) relationship . . .
But what if - splendidly coupled, despairingly single, or somewhere in between - you chose, this ... Views: 1433
According to statistics, 50% to 70% of men cheat on their mates. What type of man is most likely to cheat? Ruth Houston, infidelity expert and author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs says, “Some men are more likely to cheat than others. You can tell by looking at certain things ... Views: 1433
Hope for a generation. What does that really mean? We continue on with the only way we know how, live our individual lives, find a career, have our own circle of friends, and find someone to marry. Eventually we discover this doesn’t solve our problems, doesn’t fulfil our needs. So we have ... Views: 1432
There is never a fourth choice.
People have the right to choose what they say and do. We do not get to control the choices of another person—even when we know our way is better—and they don’t control our choices. A relationship is the natural result of the independent choices we make. If we ... Views: 1432
Most of us value the companionship, love and the intimacy of having a mate but how do these relationships impact our efforts at spiritual growth? Those of us who take a mystic approach to spirituality and who may utilize a particular Sadhana or yogic technique, have most certainly come across ... Views: 1432
So, you’ve read some first date horror stories and probably have a few of your own. Is your date destined for disaster, or are these omens all a matter of perception that needs a little tweaking? Signs that your meeting is heading toward failure can in fact be an indication of something much ... Views: 1431
John had a disappointing day at the office -- he lost a key account. His partner Jane had a fantastic day at the office -- her boss loved her presentation. After their commutes home, John and Jane sit down to dinner. John is still feeling down about this day, whereas Jane is happy and ... Views: 1431
INSIDE/NAKED RELATIONSHIPS
BY JAN DENISE
RELEASE: FRIDAY, DECEMBER 29, 2006
ANOTHER "NEW" YEAR
It feels like I've blown too many to get another one. Still, here it is … a brand new year.
Somebody knows what he's doing because, after all these years, I'm getting better at life, ... Views: 1430
If you are single looking for a partner and your friends ask: “Do you want a relationship?” you certainly answer affirmatively. But often, once you have one, something odd happens: you give up and ignore your own will. You tell yourself: “I have a relationship - and that’s what matters!
Do ... Views: 1430
The love of self is strong and powerful. It is the greatest gift you can give yourself. Everything starts with you. Every part of your life comes from you. The people in your life are from you. You are the one who chooses the experiences and events in your life. You are the one who allows ... Views: 1430
How many times have you been in love? And has it cost you grief? Of course you know of two-time Oscar winning actress Elizabeth Taylor: National Velvet, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, Butterfield 8, Cleopatra, and Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf? Despite her fame, however, it seems that now she is more ... Views: 1430
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am married 19 years and my husband and I have two children. We have a good marriage in so many ways yet we continuously cycle to a low point every couple of months primarily due to my change in mood and feelings about the relationship.
A bad case of ambivalence on my part. ... Views: 1429
For The Weak At Heart
The Best Things Are The One Given To Times Of People Seeing What Is Really Important To Them, Such As Our Children, Our Lovers, Family, Friends And Other Loved Ones
Because Some People Get Stuck In Spots Where They Think Only One Thing Matters Or They Are Hurt Or ... Views: 1429
Dr. Romance on creating a Happy New Year
Most of us are infused with good will and joy over the holidays, getting together with loved ones and friends, spreaking kindness, and being surrounded by reminders of holiday spirit. The holidays happen around this time of year for a ... Views: 1429
There are two paths we can follow to get to love:
Love and Non-love
They both take us in the end to LOVE
This may make perfect sense to you or you may be thinking what on earth am I writing about today.
Let me elaborate.
Throughout the course of my life (I am sure like most ... Views: 1428
As you probably can tell that I am passionate about golf. Anyone who plays golf or bowls knows that there are times when your mind can get you down. There are times that you wonder if you ever golfed or bowled before because nothing is working or you may have a good round or game going and want ... Views: 1428
Today, are going to take those lessons and learn how to apply that divorce gift so you can continue to move on with your life.
Don’t think of yourself as just a “divorcee.” You are so much more than that.
For years, you probably defined yourself as spouse, partner, and caregiver. Those ... Views: 1428
As a staff support officer I am seeing an increasing number of people who are sadly splitting up having been together, in a lot of cases, for many years. They say that the magic has gone and they have grown apart, and perhaps they have taken each other for granted over several years. Each has ... Views: 1428
I was recently discussing a so-called “relationship problem” with a young lady.
She is 35 years old and though she says that she desperately wanted to be married with children by now, it hasn’t happened.
This relationship goal of hers has been her target for a dozen years, and each year ... Views: 1428
Anniversary is one occasion that holds special importance for a married couple. It's the responsibility of both to keep the level of interest and affection alive. Sending gifts is the best way to make the other realize that he/she still worth a lot in your life. And it's not always the duty of a ... Views: 1428
Okay guys, put down the beer can, shut off the TV and pay attention; THIS COULD SAVE YOUR LIFE!
Your wife/girfriend has made some sort of comment that led you to believe that Valentine's day was no big deal. You took her at her word, because after all, you have an honest relationship, ... Views: 1427
Valentine’s Day may well have started as the Roman version of “match.com.” Young single men and women placed their names in a box, names were drawn randomly and couples were put together as partners for a year. After that it was up to them.
Robert Browning pointed to the essence of the ... Views: 1427
Discover How to Earn His Love: How to Make a Man Fall Madly In Love with You
Did you know that there is a way to earn his love? Do you love your guy and wish that he truly was in love with you as well? Are you tired of his nonchalant behavior toward you and desire more passion? There is ... Views: 1427
Love is a wonderful feeling. Self-love brings peace and acceptance, love for others and being loved brings feelings of gratitude and happiness. So today I am going to cover the 3 easiest ways to bring more of it into your life and relationships. I have developed several tools that have been ... Views: 1427
When you opt to send a greeting card to somebody, you’re explicitly acknowledging the fact that a physical card carries more meaning than an electronic greeting or message. This is because of the time you’ve obviously spent choosing the card, and the trouble you’ve taken to make sure it exactly ... Views: 1427
Listening with The Hear
Lots of people are talking about what December 12, 2012 will herald. According to the Mayan calendar, on December 21, 2012 our sun will align with the center of the galaxy in the sign of Sagittarius. While many in the media are predicting this may be the end of our ... Views: 1426
Poetry makes every expression more beautiful that marks an impression on everyone. It is the way of expressing feelings that can melt the hearts. It is a way to share the feelings of sadness, anger, love, beauty and happiness. Poetry or Shayri is the inner voice of the poet that engages the ... Views: 1425
Many people want to find their true essential nature, their soul, but of course, that is a very rare discovery, at least it is if you are honest about it.
I have another way of searching for that answer which is a bit simpler and perhaps answers more questions about why we are the way we are, ... Views: 1425
It is never good when a relationship ends because of the difficult strain and pressure that often comes from such a relationship. However, there are a few things that people can do when it comes to moving on after such a relationship ends. These four ideas should be seen so you can get a better ... Views: 1424
Daily Insight from the Story of The Little Prince
The announcement from Clarence House in London, city home of Prince Charles, of the engagement of Prince William, eldest son of Prince Charles and Princess Diana, to Ms. Kate Middleton has already captured the attention of much of the ... Views: 1424
All of us have scars from past experiences that cause pain and conflicts in the present. Until we allow healing of the wounds from those things long ago hidden away they will continue to surface in one form or another; self-destructive behaviors, physical or emotional symptoms, or recurring ... Views: 1424
Ever had an opinion about something, or someone, and you felt it in your entire body that your opinion was based on solid facts and therefore the only right opinion? (Read: believe system) Every vessel in your body is telling you that you are so right about this!
The only resolution at that ... Views: 1424
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Become a Love Magnet - by Candace Czarny CFM, ASID, LEED AP, Subtle Energy Expert
The odds are good that you have seen those people who seem to magically draw people to them. They always seem to have a date or someone who wants to date them. You're not alone. Many people feel like everyone else is more successful in love than they are. It has less to do with physical ... Views: 1423
We all know that, in a relationship, men look for beauty and women for security. We also know, however, that money tends to play an important role in love for both men and women. So, when things go awry financially, what happens to love?
Love suffers, as most couples who are going through ... Views: 1423
What are regrets exactly? I think I’ve come to a place in life where I don’t believe in them….don’t buy into or sign up for them. After all, I love my life today. And the road I’ve traveled to get here has made me who I am. So yes, mistakes have been aplenty but each one has gotten me here, to ... Views: 1423
Selecting just one from the many photo cards which tend to be arrayed on the shelves of your average high street card shop can often be somewhat difficult. The point of greeting cards is that they’re entirely personal in nature, and the mass produced state of the cards you can purchase from the ... Views: 1423
Submission is the "S" word in church. In this modern day of equality, women's rights, and women working, many pastors avoid it or quickly skip over it, focusing on the man having to love his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:22-33).
There is still confusion about how women in ... Views: 1422
If your ex has walked out on you after a major row, you are devastated and cannot think of living in this world alone.
In your heart you know that your ex has left you never to come back. Is there any hope of getting back together again?
Read the writing on the wall and learn to accept the ... Views: 1422
The range of Mothers day gifts available is extremely wide, but many people still make the mistake of falling back on old favourites such as perfume and boxes of chocolate. Whilst these may be better than nothing, they do tend to smack somewhat of ‘making do’, whereas something like a bespoke ... Views: 1422
Letting go
“How would I let him go?”, this is the exact question my best friend asked me 2 days ago. I decided to write something about this topic, for her and for you to know my end. Letting go is easy to say, but hard to do. How would we let go to someone we treated as our world, whom we have ... Views: 1421
As you may know, I am big believer in The Love Diet.
This means that I do my very best to consume positive, Loving food and media. I focus on having joyful and peaceful experiences with kind and Loving people. And I stay aware of what I’m thinking, saying and doing in order to strive for my ... Views: 1421
Hey! I know it's a truly a stretch to establish real conversation beyond the superficial as it relates to love and relationships. I will passionately press this topic as far as I must to offer a helpful contribution to the conversation. To those that may be following this conversation I thank ... Views: 1421