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“I feel so guilty!” is a common phrase with most moms. We tend to feel guilty about everything, even if we’re doing something away from our kids that’s good for us!
Where does this guilt come from anyway? Dads don’t seem to have the same issue. They are more matter-of-fact about things. ... Views: 1450
Get Back My Ex Boyfriend - Simple Tips To Get Back Together After A Breakup; If you're struggling to get back ex boyfriend after breaking up with him, you are not alone. The majority of people have difficulty in their attempt at winning their ex back. This article will give you a few tips to ... Views: 1450
If your partner recently broke up with you, don’t despair for the world has not yet come to an end. You still have hope. Perhaps you want to grasp how to get your ex to fall back in love with you, especially if this breakup was unexpected. Here are a few tips to help you:
Know the real issue. ... Views: 1450
There's a lot more to the magic of love than we could ever cover in one short article, but here's a good place to start.
See, we're so used to hoarding our love - locking it up; hiding it; keeping it safe - that we often end up hiding it even from ourselves. So often, we don't allow ourselves ... Views: 1450
Nobody said that losing your boyfriend is easy, and despite of all the advices of your friends telling you to move on with your life, there will really come a time that you will be tempted to get him back into your life. This is normal, because each person can do such thing when it comes to the ... Views: 1449
The world of dating can be a challenging one, with first impressions being a make or break factor in the success of the entire evening. What to wear; where to meet; how many condoms to stuff into your wallet; there are so many decisions to make. But here at The Tooth, our resident lady has put ... Views: 1449
There is a reason you picked your partner, and there is a reason why you have friction in your relationship. The areas that are still unresolved are due to the inability to overcome the potentially meaningful challenges. If you are willing to take full responsibility for your life and make a ... Views: 1449
Remember the good old days when you and your partner used to laugh and play together? Do those days seem gone now? Perhaps you and your partner are hitting a rough patch in your relationship. When the possibility of losing someone we care about arises, it can be absolutely frightening. What ... Views: 1449
Dr. Romance wishes you a Happy New Year!
Every New Year feels like a new beginning. The sun, at its furthest point at Winter Solstice, has begun its annual swing closer to Earth, you change your calendar, and we all feel the renewal of the fresh, new year. With this sense of ... Views: 1449
THE FOOTHILLS FOCUS August 20, 2003
Parable: Putting Your House in Order
DR. BESS S. PERMUT
Focus Columnist
Once there lived a pontiff who was rich in land and wisdom. He had two beautiful daughters who were rich in nothing but these world goods. Now it came to pass that although ... Views: 1449
Almost every home in the United Kingdom features a photo calendar, purely on the basis of how useful such items are. Whether propped up on a desk or stuck to the fridge door, calendars of this type make it easy to jot down and keep track of important dates such as birthdays and vital ... Views: 1448
Is there a lesson for us in Tom and Katie’s (Tom Cruise, Katie Holmes) relationship failure?
Why Didn't It Work?
Why weren't their extravagant dates in helicopters, a marriage proposal on the Eiffel Tower, a wedding in an Italian Castle, traveling the world, having a daughter who wears ... Views: 1448
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The information that I get from my divine higher consciousness has transformed my reality and my way of life.
I hope this information will make a ... Views: 1448
Women, you know what happens when you confide your troubles to your girlfriend. She drops everything and listens. She understands exactly what you’re going through, tells you your feelings are completely natural, and you end up having a good laugh. In other words, you get empathy, big time. It’s ... Views: 1448
What’s this thing we call love?
Where and how do we find it?
Do friends lead us there?
They do.
But the love we find with them is not often THE one we seek.
But it is love --- warm and special and sweet ---
As comfortable as an old shoe --- as warm as a terrycloth robe.
It’s wonderful. A ... Views: 1448
When a Constellation is “set up,” we always try to start as small as possible. After you state your issue to the group, which generally consists of 15-20 people, I then check in with you about how you are doing. When you are ready, I tell you who needs to be represented in your Constellation. We ... Views: 1446
Vitality ? since you just split up? Do you experience feeling lost being unsure of how to proceed next? Could it be winning back your ex now nearly impossible? In case your response is yes to the 3 questions STOP everything you are doing. The thing is, if you're attempting to win your ex back ... Views: 1446
Although catching a man's attention is easy-peasy, getting him to develop real affection for you is a whole different story. Yes, it is pretty much easy for any guy you like to like you back. The hard part is mastering the art of making him feel weak in the knees whenever he thinks about you. ... Views: 1445
Money arguments and problems are one the most significant factors that can lead to divorce according to numerous studies. Research by Kansas State University found that this is because money arguments decrease relationship satisfaction and are harder to move on from than other marriage ... Views: 1445
Have you always wished to attract your life partner, a love that is blessed and sacred, but have been having difficulty making your dream come true?
We have been married in what we call Sacred Partnership since 1992 and would like to share the process that we used to find each other. This ... Views: 1445
Husband Midlife Crisis Moved Out: Midlife Crisis Husband Left Me
Is your husband going on a rampage trying to recapture his youth? In other words, has he tweaked his wardrobe, hair or changed his vehicle to something trendier? Has he announced that he is no longer "in love" with you? Are ... Views: 1445
My Husband Resents Me and Wants A Divorce: My Husband Resents Me How Do I Fix It
If you've been putting in a lot of effort trying to get better at understanding men, then you may have already stumbled upon this perplexing predicament when you are trying to work together with your man. There ... Views: 1445
“What is the meaning of love?” This is a question that we always ask ourselves. Each one of us has our own concept of what genuine love truly means. You may have sought for the real answer to this question because you seriously want to know whether or not it is what you are feeling right ... Views: 1445
You know that feeling. Some of us know it all too well during divorce and after divorce.
When one of your grown children, after spending the weekend with your ex, tells you about the "new friend" that is at your ex's house.
Or when you hear about the trip your ex is taking to Europe ... Views: 1444
Most healing modalities engage just one or two levels of consciousness to support healing: talk therapy works mostly with the mind; energy healing like Reiki works mostly with energy; and many forms of body work focus entirely on physical structures. But the whole person includes all of these ... Views: 1444
Make Her Jealous To Get Her Back: How To Make A Girl Jealous And Want You Back
Do you want to make your ex girlfriend jealous and want you back? Actually, it's never too late to get her back again for good. It is a fact that every break up can be reversed only if you know exactly what to do ... Views: 1444
Most couples believe they need better communication skills and that would change their relationship for the better. They claim that they either argue because of misunderstandings or that one or the other don’t discuss their problems openly.
Communication (or lack of it) is often NOT the ... Views: 1443
“Love is patient, love is kind.” But love, the kind we share with another, requires courage. Courage to stand in the world of unknowns and harness the intimacy that comes with the practice of being authentic with one another. It requires something akin to standing in a room completely naked, ... Views: 1443
is the most important question you’ll ever ask yourself. Let’s face it, our relationships are extremely important. Yet, often they are the cause of pain and struggle. Single or not, societal standards convince us that we can have it all. Much of the available relationship advice compels us to go ... Views: 1442
This is a topic close to my heart, as I am married to a techie geek. I'm not insulting him - he would probably take it as a compliment, actually. And well he should. Were it not for my husband's tech prowess, I'd still be rolling paper into our old dot-matrix printer and trying to figure out the ... Views: 1442
A Deeper Look at the Defenses of Criticism and Blame.
Have you ever heard the phrase, “emotionally unsafe,” but didn’t quite know what it meant? Or, have you ever really felt emotionally not safe but weren’t sure why?
You feel that way when you’ve been treated badly by ... Views: 1441
One of the most important steps to Creating Your Perfect Life is to take the time to know and acknowledge the talents that you came here to use. When we come into our bodies, into our lives, we arrive with many specific properties and propensities. We come with a certain eye color, a certain ... Views: 1441
Dear Dr. Romance: I think I am missing myself
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am a women in my early twenties from India. I have gone through your website and i think u can help me. For the first time in life I am so confused, so helpless, and I don't know what i want. Everything ... Views: 1441
People are starved for love. Starved to the point of ruin, anxiety, lonliness, disorders and addictions. Every day people come to me spiraling out of control and beg "please help me".
I love them and support them. I give them loving guidance and tell them all the same thing. The thing ... Views: 1441
After over 25 years of empirical research involving relationships, spirituality, personality and compatibility assessment, matching and observing thousands for love relationships as a matchmaker, and writing a book about soul mates, we've noticed that there are many love life expectations and ... Views: 1441
In today’s world, a lot of people are obsessed with celebrities, and there are a number of reasons as to why this is. For some people, this can simply be a way for them to avoid their own life.
This is likely to show that their life is not going as they would like it to go, and focusing on ... Views: 1440
For all humans, but especially the highly sensitives, one of the most difficult truths to accept is that all seasons pass, all stages come to an end, all beings die. Just as the gorgeous peach tree in full-tilt pink spring bloom drops its blossoms to reveal summer fruit, then drops its leaves in ... Views: 1440
We more commonly know Eros, which is a name for the figure of love, as Cupid. This figure appears around Valentine’s Day looking like a cherub, a boy, a young one. However, Eros is actually a very powerful aspect of our personality and hits us as adults in many surprising and penetrating ways. ... Views: 1439
Ahan, so you have eventually twigged that the girl you broke up with was actually the love of your life? You believe you can't live without her anymore? You suspect that she's the sole person whom you would wish to spend the remainder of your life with? Well, it is not ever too late to undo the ... Views: 1439
(An Excerpt from "Apprentice of the Heart")
Seated in the center of the heart, as surely as the essence of a tiny seed holds the promise of a towering tree, lives within us the Presence of a Power that can dispel any gathering darkness and change what is unkind into conscious compassion. What ... Views: 1438
Getting back with an ex can prove to be a joyous experience. Rejoining with someone you, love could be the best feeling in the world nonetheless it is not always the best concept particularly circumstances. Everyone has the need to love and to feel love. Infrequently, this wish can make us blind ... Views: 1438
How To Get Your Ex Back - What Should I Say To My Ex Boyfriend
Dear reader, do you feel like you have lost the love of your life? And everything you have built in your relationships is about to be wasted. Perhaps everything to do in an attempt to recocile with your ex seems to be pushing your ... Views: 1438
“You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.” Friedrich Nietzsche
When somebody you really love, you really care about hurts you emotionally and sometime even physically, what do you do? Do you get up, dust yourself up and keep ... Views: 1438
You might have heard somebody tell you recently: “Don’t shoot the messenger”. The sentence has become kind of a catch phrase, but what does it really mean?
In short, it means that you shouldn’t react. That when something is “triggering” you, upsetting you, you shouldn’t act out or lose ... Views: 1438
By keeping the romance alive in a relationship, you can ensure that your relationship passes the test of time and sees through even the most troublesome situations. Valentine's Day is the day to celebrate romance, but true romance lasts all through the year!
Let's now run through some ways ... Views: 1438
I suppose you might be wondering how long things can last without getting back together with your spouse, especially when you are hoping for reconciliation. There is no definite time frame when all hope of reconciling is cut-off, and I know this from personal experience. Some people can be apart ... Views: 1437
Love is a many-faceted topic. There is love between people, love for nature, love for animals and plants and love for the Divine. What is important in all of these different experiences of love is that you love purely. To know infinite love, you need not live up to anyone’s expectations but only ... Views: 1437
If you’re a single woman looking to find that special man in your life, you may want to consider moving to one of the cities listed below if you are having a hard time finding Mr. Right. Today’s women are extra busy going to school, working full-time, and trying to find the right balance of ... Views: 1436
“THE HUNGER FOR LOVE IS MUCH MORE DIFFICULT TO REMOVE THATN THE HUNGER FOR BREAD’ - Mother Theresa.
We all want to be loved and someone to love. We want to connect with people or groups that make us feel wanted, adding meaning to our existence helping us feel a sense of significance. ... Views: 1436
If you are anything like me, you probably have done a lot of “healing” work on your self.
A few years ago, I was introduced to the concept of “integration”. I was invited to think in terms of integration instead of in terms of healing. It made a lot of sense to me, and brought profound ... Views: 1436