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Remember Eleanor Rigby by the Beatles? All the lonely people. She kept her face in a jar by the door. We all have these faces, they are our defense mechanism to protect our vulnerable self. The problem is not that we have them but that we don't know the false from the true. We live ... Views: 1549
I was listening to the weather guy last night saying he knows that many of us are upset that summer is gone, but then reminded listeners that fall that is quite spectacular. I have to agree with him. Of course, it depends where you live. In the Northeast, we get to see all those incredible fall ... Views: 1549
Dear Dr. Romance:
My best girlfriend ever and I dated for about eight months, then had a long distance relationship when she went back to her home country. She just broke up with me over email and she is dating someone from her home city for the last month. I thought we were ... Views: 1548
Last week I talked about how easy it is to be caught up in a destructive cycle of enabling someone you love. You may have begun by trying to help. You covered up or filled in for someone who let his responsibilities slide due to dysfunctional behavior—often addition. Over time you got stuck in a ... Views: 1548
India is a Democratic country, every person has a right to vote for their favorite leader. Ever person above 18 years has this right to vote, given by the Article 326 in our Constitution. The country’s policy of the government is of the people, by the people, and for the people. The Lok Sabha ... Views: 1548
Touch of love we can’t get enough of it. It’s a need. According to Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs- men have five basic needs. One of these need are the physical needs like food, water, clothing and shelter, the safety needs like security and protection, the social needs which is the need of the ... Views: 1548
Love and relationships as they say are very complicated. There are a lot of unavoidable circumstances that revolves around a relationship and sometimes you have to part ways with the one you truly love temporarily or permanently. Of course if you truly love the person you do not want a permanent ... Views: 1548
Unconditional love is a power so universally recognized that we all aspire to its realization whether we are conscious of it or not. We yearn for it, pray for it and, at times, even fight for it. Throughout time great master teachers have come forth to remind us of it. On a deep inner level, we ... Views: 1547
Love is one of the most essential components of life. All human beings and animals need it to feel important, be healthy, live for a long time and thrive. To enjoy an existence comprised of love, you must earn love and often show strangers, your relatives, your pets and your friends you love and ... Views: 1547
Have you ever been in a relationship and everything was peaches and cream at the beginning? As time passed by, it seemed that the relationship started to take a nose dive to a place you never thought it could go. You find yourself silently wishing that he would stay out longer or roll your eyes ... Views: 1547
We are so happy when we fall in love and cannot understand why our world comes to a standstill when the love of our life decides to walk out on us.
Something in us refuses to accept the fact that our relationship has come to an end. We start working ourselves up in a frenzy, cry, plead, ... Views: 1546
Miracles happen when we love ourselves and are then able to give unconditional love.
When you love yourself deeper every day you are opening up for a juicy life. What is a juicy life? Get our and meet people. Experience yourself as a loving being in connection with people you meet. They will ... Views: 1546
If you have ever experienced things in your life that have hurt you, left you feeling as though you didn’t matter and no one cared about you, please don’t ever let anyone tell you to “get over it.” I would like to invite you to another way of thinking. Attempting to get over something will ... Views: 1545
Before one goes on a date, they can worry about what the other person will think of them, and this can cause them to put on an act. How they come across is then not going to be a reflection of who they are; it will be nothing more than a role they are playing in order to please the other ... Views: 1544
Many people have been studying and discussing the mysteries, the pains and the joys of love as long as humans learned to communicate with each other. With the discovery or reading and writing, personal experiences, as well as emotional and logical theories about love were left by earlier ... Views: 1544
Trust. It isn’t a tangible thing, but its importance outweighs any physical gift you could ever receive. What does it mean to trust someone though, and why is it important? Well the easy answer, is safety. In a relationship you want to feel safe and confident with your partner. If you feel ... Views: 1544
Real love is something so deep, so energizing, that you will not know it unless you experience it. Love is an expression of energy, not something that is transacted. Tell me one thing: can you love people when you meet them for the first time? (From the audience: No Swamiji! We don’t even know ... Views: 1544
1. Sit down comfortably, and close your eyes. Put your feet flat on the ground, and lay your hands on your legs, or next to you. Keep your back strait. Breathe in very deeply through your nose down in to your stomach, and then breathe out true your mouth, and let it go. Breathe in deeply, and ... Views: 1543
When my wife was pregnant with our first child, she really wanted a certain kind of baby crib. It even had a name—the Jenny Lind crib.
Frankly, at that point in my life, I didn’t have enough money to buy it, but I really wanted to purchase it because it meant that much to my wife. I was ... Views: 1542
Dr Romance writes:
As life develops, many of us have an urge to focus on the deeper issues -- our dreams and goals, and our emotional and spiritual development. When this happens, life gradually becomes more about meaning and satisfaction and less about obligations and ... Views: 1542
Some people believe that relationships shouldn't need "work". Others appreciate that there can be difficult patches that require some delicate navigation. Sometimes outside circumstances can act to pull you and your spouse together, but often things can happen that propel you in opposite ... Views: 1542
Love is a wonderful feeling to have for someone or something. Through life’s travels, everyone will experience the emotion of love. True love in a relationship with a significant other, will make you surrender your heart to the extent that no other person or thing can penetrate that love you ... Views: 1542
In 1843, there was a certain British novelist who was experiencing some uncertainty in his financial situation. He had written previous novels that sold well but because his family bills were piling up and his mortgage was due he was in quite a dilemma. One evening as he was out walking in the ... Views: 1542
Valentine’s Day has three basic gift options: flowers, chocolate, or chocolate flowers. My love language is “gifts,” and though I love getting roses on Valentine’s Day, I also really like being surprised. My favorite Valentine’s was when my husband ordered something off of Amazon and had it ... Views: 1541
We all need intimacy. We all have different ways we receive and give intimate messages. It should be easy, as intimacy is natural and we are born needing to be intimate and close. What is challenging is that we might know what we want, but not how to get it. We may know how to give, but not to ... Views: 1541
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Oneness - by Kasia Jarosinska (www.spiritualshifts.com)
For years on my spiritual path my teachers, friends and many awakened leaders would speak of a very abstract concept: Oneness. “We are all one…”, “We are all connected…, “The other person is you…”, blah, blah, blah. I got the point and I started to believe that indeed we were equals and not one ... Views: 1541
My girlfriend Amanda and I went to lunch at the local IHOP last month to catch up, and so I could get my ‘kid fix’ (she has a 6 month old daughter); and I asked her: “What do you think made the most difference for you, with the self improvement work you did, to help you attract your man?” ... Views: 1540
It was one of those magical encounters with a personal truth—you know how it feels. I was fifteen, in ninth-grade English. The teacher, Mr. Rizzutto, read us a poem, and it had such a profound effect on me that even five decades later, I’m still using it as a guide. The poem, “Outwitted,” by ... Views: 1539
Spiritual Universal Love
Part 5 of a 6 part series on the "The Stages of Love"
Robert Elias Najemy
A later stage in our spiritual maturation process is the development of spiritual universal love where wisdom or spiritual discrimination is now added to our love. We now perceive all forms as ... Views: 1539
Many people often try to change others directly or indirectly and couples are guilty of that. How many times have you seen husbands try to change their wives? How many wives try to change their husbands?
What do couples mean when they ask their partner to change? What they usually mean is ... Views: 1538
Sending greeting cards is a tradition which has managed to survive the rise of digital and electronic communication. Despite the ease with which it is now possible to communicate using text messages, emails or tweets, there’s still something especially effecting about someone going to the ... Views: 1538
If getting your ex girlfriend back after breaking up is your reason to live then keep reading. The majority of the time the break up happens because you have done something wrong. Maintaining lasting relationships by men can be bit of a mission but it is definitely possible, they just need a ... Views: 1537
There is nothing like a truly happy love relationship! This level of relationship isn’t reserved for the lucky or the favored. Happy relationships have certain things in common. If you know what they are, you can find or create happiness in your love relationship. Here are the 6 Essentials for ... Views: 1537
How To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back; Your ex is hot and cold with you and you want to know "does my ex still love me?". Sometimes they tell you that they miss you and drop hints that they may still hold a torch for you, other times they seem so disinterested in you that you couldn’t grab their ... Views: 1537
I always find myself thinking about events where I lost love, and trying to learn from those experiences in order to do better next time, and move on with greater understanding of love than before. There are stages in my life where I am sure that I lost love, and when this happened I truly felt ... Views: 1537
Without a doubt, Thomas Sabo Jewellery assortment is amongst by far the most preferred product or service segment in sterling silver. To complement informal day-to-day dressing, and also to reward family members on various instances, these are great. On the other hand, the brand identify Thomas ... Views: 1537
Hi Everyone! I hope you are having a wonderful summer with all our warm weather.
Here is a question for all those people out there (you know who you are) who tend to go over that line between being in love and being addicted to love. Feel free to pass on this quiz to any of your friends who ... Views: 1536
There is no greater and more fulfilling feeling in life than to love and be loved. And human beings aren’t the only ones who are accounted for when it comes to that, as animals, plants and other forms of life thrive upon love or loving influences. Power, fortune, success, or any other human ... Views: 1536
Dear Dr. Romance
I found you online when i googled "How to Live with a Slob". My husband and I are opposites in the area of how to keep a house -- i am very clean and he is, well, not at all. The clutter drives me crazy! It is just one more issue that impacts our relationship. ... Views: 1535
Losing a girlfriend may well not definitely be a critical problem for some guys. But this is because they just hate to admit that they are definitely hurting inside. When can only blame society for the pressure it has put on the males to act macho regardless of what, even if their hearts are ... Views: 1534
If your relationship is teetering on the edge of disaster then it this might be the best time for you to find ways to repair a relationship and get it back on track again.
Leave it Alone
Although it seems unlikely, this is actually one of the top ways to repair a relationship. If both of ... Views: 1533
Oh my goodness. This was a life-changer that I learned in a workshop, the short course that changed the course of my life.
I met my love after 5 years of being single and feeling more and more lonely, till that fated evening when I found out what I really wanted in a partner. And soon enough, ... Views: 1533
According to the wisdom of that great expert on romantic love, Walt Disney, all one needs to do to find true love is look for the sweet face of one’s Princess or Prince, feel the power of love sweep you away, and you will live together happily ever after. Unfortunately, real relationships ... Views: 1533
How do you build trust in relationships? We've found the secret is constant communication, one moment at a time. We both came from dead-end relationships from a state of vulnerability but with a strong desire for a different kind of relationship--a relationship filled with passion, love, ... Views: 1533
I still love my ex; How do you grip yourself after you break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend? Does it push you over the border or leave you overwhelmed? These can be common reactions to having broken up with someone you thought was your soul mate.
Is my ex boyfriend-ex girlfriend ... Views: 1533
Have you been looking for love in all the wrong places and in too many faces; only to end up disappointed again? You don’t need to engage in an endless search for Mr. or Mrs. Right, nor do you settle or compromise for any Mr. or Mrs. Right now. What you really need is your true love.
When ... Views: 1531
“When there are problems, if we would love more, they would disappear. When the love is complete, the problem dissolves immediately!” ~ Lester Levenson
When the love is complete, always includes a positive resolution. There is no uncertainty. There is no ambiguity. There are no ... Views: 1531
This is the first day of the rest of your life – The Midas Key
Monday morning and we have a clean slate, ready for the week to start no matter what it brings. We are going to start the week by using the universal laws to help us get what we want and desire and to also create balance so that our ... Views: 1530
Dying to bring your ex girl friend back to you? Guess what? 9 times out of every 10, if this happened it's because you did something wrong. Keeping the relationship alive is quite imposing for men, but keeping the relationship vibrant will be easy if you know how to make it happen. What you ... Views: 1529
Part of being an adult means knowing how and why to better yourself. When we're children, we gain so much knowledge and experience in a relatively short amount of time. We go from being unable to feed ourselves to walking, speaking, and understanding complex concepts such as math and science. As ... Views: 1529