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- Valentine's Day: Advice for Singles - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from Ellen GerstValentine’s Day -- a double edged day that reflects the natural duality of this planet. While it can be a wonderful day for lovers to renew their commitment to each other, the single community usually dreads the onslaught of the media hype that surrounds the day. Let’s take a hard look at ...
Views: 1587 - A Love Note to Yourself - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2011 from Jodi ChapmanI started writing a post about organization. And in it I talked about how in my ideal life everything flowed beautifully and life was magical. And then I started talking about my actual life and how things truly weren’t running as seamlessly as I would like them to. I talked about the endless ...
Views: 1586 - Book Excerpt - Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2004 from Yolanda CardenCopyright © 2004 Helen E. Fisher "What Wild Ecstasy": Being In Love The world, for me, and all the world can hold Is ...
Views: 1586(1 vote) - Love and Compassion - by Submitted on May 07, 2008 from Kerrie O'ConnorWelcome, we are at a pivotal turning point in our evolutionary process. The council said January through March is a time that we are releasing and transmuting residual energies from 2006, the year of the “Soul Retrieval”. We are being asked to stretch, allow and ground into our ...
Views: 1586 - Special Message for Christmas and Hanukkah (Bringing Out the Best in One Another; Co-Creating the Sweet Life Together) - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2012 from Barry HammerFestivals of light such as Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa (African American), Diwali (India), etc, symbolize the rebirth and awakening of the sacred flame of love in the hearts of individual persons, as well as in the collective heart of humanity. This living flame of love and goodness can serve ...
Views: 1585 - VALENTINE'S DAY: WHAT'S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT? - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2004 from Pauline WallinAuthor, "Taming Your Inner Brat: A Guide for Transforming Self-defeating Behavior" The perfect card, the perfect gift, the perfect date . . . Isn't there enough pressure in relationships without having to live up to some romantic ideal on Valentine's Day? This is not how the celebration of ...
Views: 1585(1 vote) - Get Over Fear Of Falling In Love - by Submitted on May 15, 2012 from Roseanna LeatonIs not allowing yourself to really love the cause of you not being in an optimal relationship? Real love is given freely and unconditionally. There are many adjectives and phrases that can be used to describe the impact and effect of love. "Love makes the world go around" is one of ...
Views: 1584 - The Thrill Of Attraction - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2008 from Benjamin DeveyNew love is like a fresh start. During dating, everyone puts on their best face. People want to make their best impressions. It isn't so much a deception to hide past embarrassments, as it is an opportunity to discover your strengths in love. Attraction is new fresh perspective, a glimpse of ...
Views: 1584 - Co-creating Love - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2012 from Meghan GehanA dream of relationships imaging co-creating from the pure “seed” of love. Surrounded and supported through hopes and dreams working through the imagination to allow the Space of love, from the pure intent of all that Love is and what Love is to teach you. You see you create to see, feel and ...
Views: 1583 - Relationships: How Should Someone Respond When Another Person Doesn’t Put In Any Effort? - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIt is often said that relationships are about give and take, and it would be hard to argue with this. When two people get together, they will both have their own needs, and it is going to be important for their needs to be met. Even so, this is not to say that both of them are going to have ...
Views: 1583 - A Not So Usual Poem About Love - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2008 from Ed RunciWhat’s this thing called Love? What’s this thing we call love? Where and how do we find it? Do friends lead us there? They do. But the love we find with them is not often THE one we seek. But it is love…warm and special and sweet… As comfortable as an old shoe…as warm as a terrycloth ...
Views: 1582(1 vote) - Empower Yourself To Get Over Frustration In Love - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf Improvement by Learning and overcoming Frustration in Love In this world, no one can escape the torture of frustration because it is mission impossible for all our desires to be satisfied. This applies to anyone, regardless whether you are rich or poor, man or woman, old or young, you ...
Views: 1581 - How do you Unhook? - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2011 from Carrie DinowYou have just disappointed someone you love. You are feeling rushed for work, school, an appointment, or meeting a friend. You can’t get your work done with your children around. A car cuts you off on the road. Someone looks at you wrong, or has a tone. Your child's behavior embarrasses you ...
Views: 1581 - Single Moms Find Love - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2014 from Jessica RectorLove is in the air. Or so we hope, especially for this single mom. This season, fall in love. Where is the best place? That's the question, I've asked myself over and over again. Where do people go to find love? If you don't meet men through your friends or work, where do you meet them? I've ...
Views: 1581 - Tips on Finding Chinese Mail Order Brides - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2011 from Brendan McCartneyIf you have recently come across a picture of Zhang Ziyi in a magazine and are charmed by her beauty, well I am sad to say you will probably can never pull her. But don't worry - you don’t need to be disappointed. There are many other beautiful Chinese women that you can date without even going ...
Views: 1581 - Appropriate Distance - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2005 from Steve TaubmanI’ve been thinking a lot lately about my contribution to others and my commitment to loving presence. In that regard, I’ve adopted a concept I call appropriate distance. In previous articles, I’ve suggested a philosophical stance for our interactions with others and implied that it’s our ...
Views: 1580 - Get Back With An Ex Today - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoIf you have found yourself on the losing end of your relationship, you quite likely feel tons of hurt now. Many questions are flying through your head with the answers being long lost. If you notice that you are still in love with your ex, there are some tips and suggestions that will help you ...
Views: 1580 - How Love Addiction Leads to Break-ups - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2010 from M.Farouk RadwanLove or Need? Suppose that you broke a leg in some kind of accident and had to use crutches in order to move around; as the days pass, you'll find yourself getting more and more used to them. In your current state of injury, you certainly can't walk without them, so imagine how you'd feel if ...
Views: 1580 - How To Write a Romantic Love Letter - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2005 from Renee MichaelsDoes the thought of writing a love letter or poem automatically reduce your vocabulary to a 5-year-old’s level? Well, believe it or not, that’s a great place to begin! Kids speak straight from the heart. They don’t worry about tripping over the right words, they only know how to say what they ...
Views: 1580 - My Husband Leaves For Days When We Fight: Leaving House During An Argument - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyMy Husband Leaves For Days When We Fight: Leaving House During An Argument Fighting is normal in a marriage. Once in awhile, it is natural to encounter feelings of dissatisfaction and distress in a relationship. The responsibility of daily life can affect even the best relationship. However, ...
Views: 1580 - Aspects of Love - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2014 from Tina TessinaAh, love! What rapturous, torturous words have been set down to try and capture the essence of love. Those clever Greeks, who invented the Olympics, also invented many names for love—Cupid, Eros, Venus, Aphrodite—and each name represented an aspect of love. The ancient Greeks had several words ...
Views: 1579 - How to Be Irresistible to Your Mate - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2014 from Tina TessinaOnce upon a time, In high school, I memorized a poem that has been a constant source of help and direction in my life and relationships. It’s simple and much more sentimental than today’s cynical age can handle, but the very simplicity of it made it a great navigational tool for me ...
Views: 1579 - How To Write A Love Letter - by Submitted on May 15, 2014 from Tina TessinaWriting has a powerful effect on our emotional state. The following exercise is designed to help you fully express feelings that may have lain dormant for a long time, or may be too intense and jumbled for your to process effectively. You’ll find it helpful in expressing what you feel, ...
Views: 1579 - Lessons about Love and Balance - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2012 from Lais StephanThis morning I woke up very early and couldn’t sleep anymore, so I decided to just lie in my bed and meditate a bit. I had gone through a very difficult break up in the last year, and even though it’s almost a year ago I still haven’t been able to let go of my fears of a new relationship or the ...
Views: 1579(1 vote) - Stand In my Shoes-Developing Empathy - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2013 from Rev. Lana CharltonStand in my Shoes-Developing Empathy Ghandi wrote, “Three quarters of the miseries and misunderstandings in the world would finish if people were to put on the shoes of their adversaries and understood their points of view.” In the 70's one of my best friends died of AIDS. Not much was ...
Views: 1579 - He’s Wonderful… But - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Kara OhI often get requests for advice from women who tell me how wonderful their man is. Then they go into all the things that make them unhappy. If this sounds like you, I would invited you to do an exercise that can be very revealing. On a piece of paper draw a line down the middle from top to ...
Views: 1578(2 votes) - Manifesting Your Dream Life - by Submitted on May 24, 2011 from Micaela BellopedeManifesting Your Dream Life Frequently I hear people say what they want, and then they give me reasons why it is not possible. So I would like to share with you how I manifest things in my life: •Everything is possible. Start from that premise. •Make a wish list. Be specific: where, ...
Views: 1578(1 vote) - Why most youths start dating - by Submitted on May 17, 2012 from Raymond FohjemThe bloom of youth Youths are in the vulnerable period of life called the bloom of youth. During this period, they may feel powerful surges of sexual desire. Nothing is wrong with this as it's just part of a growing up person. But therein lies a big problem with teenage dating because during ...
Views: 1578 - Chinese Astrology Signs Compatibility - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2011 from Ladan LashkariSo how much do you really know about your Chinese astrology signs compatibility? Are you a Tiger or a Rabbit? What animal sign would be the most compatible with when it comes to love? Discovering this useful information helps you make the right choices in dating and your love life. Chinese ...
Views: 1577 - Dear Dr. Romance: I keep telling him not to push me. - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I find your articles very interesting. I have a minor problem with my husband. he keeps telling me that I don't listen and that I am stubborn. I admit my mind goes blank sometimes because he expects a lot from me and treats me like a teenager. I keep ...
Views: 1577(5 votes) - Knowledge from the Heart! - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2011 from Connie Huebner,Question: Divine Mother talks about the wisdom coming from the heart and the knowledge from the heart versus the knowledge coming from the intellect…could you talk about the difference? Divine Mother: What has happened is too much reliance has been given to the intellect and in that ...
Views: 1577(2 votes) - The Body Language of Flirting - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2010 from M.Farouk RadwanDo you want to know if she likes you? Are you unsure if he is interested in you? For most people, the answers to these questions is a definite yes, and so here are some of the signals that show whether the other person was intending to flirt with you or not. * Playing with her hair : This ...
Views: 1577 - THE CHASE OF LIFE WILL MANIFEST FOR US By Patricia Ross - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2016 from Patricia Rosshttp://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/user/306062 www.teenvoice.ws In life from birth we are alert. We are alert to the chase of life. You may not remember your discovery years of life. Although, in our former years we had discovery, play and imaginative play for self-development. ...
Views: 1577 - Win An Ex Girlfriend Back - Four Steps Outlined - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoIf you are thinking how to win an ex girlfriend back, you are not alone. Infrequently, it can feel as if everything you have tried has only made things worse. It's not uncommon for any person who needs to rekindle an old flame to feel defenseless and frustrated. The better news to this ...
Views: 1577 - Are You Giving or Receiving Too Much in Your Relationship? - by Submitted on May 30, 2017 from Nicola BeerA Balancing Act – The Importance of Receiving Love and Giving Love It’s better to give than to receive is a phrase that is used far too often and often without any explanation. It is definitely good to give but it’s not necessarily better. What’s important is that we have a balance between ...
Views: 1576 - How To Get Your Ex boyfriend Back: Challenges Ahead - by Submitted on Dec 13, 2012 from Michael LoisIt is true that for people who want to learn how to get back with an ex boyfriend, this could become the biggest challenge to face, especially if your ex boyfriend is resisting your charms. However, if you learn about them from the beginning, it will be easier for you than you can handle in ...
Views: 1576 - Troubled Times - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2010 from Tom WrightTom Wright Even the Dali Lama gives speeches about having "compassion in troubled times." Troubled times? You mean life? To think that we live in times that somehow are troubled, versus to live in a time when life's troubles were non-existent, is to dream of something that never was, and ...
Views: 1576(2 votes) - Wise Mistakes in Marriage and Relationships - by Submitted on Oct 03, 2012 from Bryce KayeFor a good while, I've had to talk to numerous people about how to let go of harmful relationships. Getting out of harmful relationships has been a very hot topic in the press for several years. The topic seems relevant to the needs of many. However, there is a danger to such a negative outlook. ...
Views: 1576(1 vote) - Love Simply Is - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2012 from Dr. Carolyn PorterWe become very mindful of love with the focus at this time of year, given the major marketing or advertising campaigns and displays that permeate every retail establishment imaginable, plus multiple commercials. The simple reason after all, is to entice you to spend money at their business to ...
Views: 1575 - Relationships: Is There A Reason Why Some People Attract People Who Can't Love Them? - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperWhen some people think about what it is like to be in a relationship, they might get a sense of being around someone who is truly there for them. This means that the other person is not only physically available, they are also emotionally available. Now, this could be because they are ...
Views: 1575 - Get the Happiness & Love You Deserve In 2017! - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2016 from Nicola BeerStart today by taking these 3 steps… Save My Marriage Program – An Alternative to Marriage Counseling With the new year approaching, most of us start to think about what we want to change next year. Look for a new job, join a gym, eat healthier, take a new course, save money or sign up for ...
Views: 1574 - How Do You Know When He’s “The One?” - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2011 from Kara Ohgot an email from a young woman who is twenty-one. She was dumped by a guy she she thought was “The One.” She asked how you can know if a guy is “The One.” Here’s what I told her: I think they all need to feel like “The One” so we can give our hearts over completely. That’s when we can feel ...
Views: 1572 - Saving Your Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2010 from Michael FehlauerBy Michael Fehlauer 1. Identify the core issues – The first step in saving your marriage is to make the distinction between the symptoms and the core issues. Only after the core issues are identified can you take the first step in repairing the relationship. There is a verse in the bible that ...
Views: 1572(5 votes) - Sheer Nightwear A Must For Every Body Shape And Budget - by Submitted on May 18, 2008 from Amanda CotterillSometimes slipping into a sheer nightgown is more appealing than that old t-shirt. We are identified by what we wear each and everyday. If you're a nurse, you would wear scrubs and a comfortable pair of shoes. If you are a teacher, you'd probably wear a comfortable dress and sensible shoes ...
Views: 1572 - Finding Love In Finding Ourselves. - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2008 from Ms. LauraWhat is love, Really? We all want it, we all "need" it, and its actually outside of our control. We can not make someone love us, nor can we make ourselves love someone else. In the same respect we often cannot make ourselves stop loving someone. Love Happens, or it doesn't... The question can ...
Views: 1571 - How To Pull Your Ex Boyfriend Back After You Lost Him - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversHow To Pull Your Ex Boyfriend Back After You Lost Him; Lost an ex boyfriend - You feel that you pushed your ex boyfriend away, but now you realize he is the only man for you. You know that dumping him was the biggest mistake of your life, but what can you do to get your ex back? A complete ...
Views: 1571 - Connecting to Unconditional Self-Love: 7 Tips - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2016 from Estra RoellWhen we think of love, especially on Valentine’s Day, we think of romantic love. Romantic love is great and we all want it! It’s necessary to keep the species going and so it is hard wired into us. Dr. Helen Fisher, a top biological anthropologist, says romantic love is “one of the most ...
Views: 1570 - Do We Really Mean For Better, For Worse? - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2012 from Susan DerryToo many couples quickly forget or never internalize the concept of for better, for worse. When their relationship becomes difficult, as all relationships do, they start to question whether it is working for them. Their lack of enjoyment in the relationship leads them to wonder if there might be ...
Views: 1570 - How Do I Know if I am in Love - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2009 from David L“How do I know if I am in love? How can I be sure? And what is love?” These are some of the hard questions a person will need to ask him/herself when making a serious decision about whether he/she wants to spend and live the rest of their lives together with that someone ...
Views: 1570 - Be In the Present Moment to Find Your True Love - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2012 from BHASWETI GEWHASWhen my first marriage came to an end, I was extremely sad and depressed. After my divorce, I spent years reliving my past. The memories of suffering kept coming back to me and prevented me from enjoying the present. The feeling of loneliness and abandonment were heavy in my heart. I was ...
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