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Lust: A Form of Love
(Vinod Anand)
Those who try to understand God through the intellect alone, arrive at some cold and dry concept which misses the very essence of divine nature.
It is true that God is infinite knowledge, existence, power and bliss, but true understanding comes from ... Views: 1609
When a relationship comes to an end it can be an incredibly painful experience. And this doesn’t even need to be a relationship was fulfilling or healthy; as it can be painful no matter how ‘good’ or ‘bad’ it was.
So this means that someone can have the desire to get back with their ex and ... Views: 1609
“Something valid and necessary takes flight when it senses deep attachment, and this flight also seems so deeply rooted as to be an honest expression of soul. Our ultimate goal is to find ways to embrace both attachment and resistance to attachment, and the only way to that reconciliation of ... Views: 1609
"The love you take is equal to the love you make." Paul McCartney
We've talked about this - how like attracts like; what you put out is what you get back - and guess what? There are nooooo exclusions ;-) uh-uh - none. That means WHATEVER you put out there - comes back - like a boomerang. ... Views: 1608
No doubt this is a very common lie that kids say to themselves when they are somehow trying to reconnect with a former girlfriend.
They say they just want to see what can happen and you just want to talk to her again. But truth and what they really mean is that they want to have her back in ... Views: 1608
A positive self image is one of the most essential things we can have in our quest for happiness. It is also very important in being able to find love and create a healthy relationship.
Your self image is the way you see yourself. Your thoughts, feelings and beliefs about what kind of a ... Views: 1607
Applying its Practical Wisdom for a Balanced and Harmonized Ceremony
With another wedding season upon us, the eyes of the world will be watching the most spectacular ceremony in a long time with the royal wedding of William and Kate. It`s a reminder of how lavish an occasion the exchanging of ... Views: 1607
By Guy Finley
It is impossible to change the relationship we have with the world around us without changing the relationship we have within ourselves. This is the secret teaching of the ages.
Our task, if we want to be free human beings -- if we want a life in which we no longer carry ... Views: 1607
The wedding season is a fashion gauntlet, with opportunities to model the latest in bridal styles at every turn. For your wedding party, choose from a generous array of beautiful, seasonal motifs that will light up the room, garnering admiring attention from all assembled and fixing the happy ... Views: 1606
To really love a woman is to give her your complete trust. I love the line in Bryan Adams’ song, “… and when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms, you know you really love a woman.” To lay helpless in her arms, you need to give up control and be vulnerable. You need to trust that she ... Views: 1605
We all want love. We see evidence of this when we engage in relationships, make babies, build a happy home and career, when we do good work and make great art. These are all ways we choose to create and express more love around us and within us.
In our matchmaking program The Good Love™ for ... Views: 1605
When Mark's family transferred to a new town, Mark said his biggest problem was how to find new friends. He explains that for two years of schooling there, he never managed to have just a single friend. Mark says, "at times, i even feel like I’m a failure." They are many others like Mark who ... Views: 1605
We all have moments when everything we do seems to work. It is during these times that great insights occur. We feel abundant, happy and trusting of life. We are refreshingly stilled inside, our usual nagging “chatter” is quiet, and our energy flow is profoundly open. In this state we are able ... Views: 1605
Number 7 Might Shock You
The way to know if your romance will last is to observe your partner's past and present behavior, especially in group settings, and to learn the proven skills to make marriage work. Because I see so much of the damage caused by people blindly connecting, rushing ... Views: 1605
Approaching beautiful women is nerve cracking even for the most confident guys. Overcoming that initial approach anxiety can seem like an insurmountable task to accomplish. In fact, many men have passed up a lot sexual opportunities because of approach anxiety.
Approach anxiety however is ... Views: 1604
None of us are immune to rejection.
It doesn’t matter where you are in life, and whether it’s ending a marriage or breaking up with a partner. Even the strongest of us can’t help but feel like we did something wrong when the person we loved and cared about and spent our lives with as a ... Views: 1604
Kiss Day is one day in the entire Valentine’s Week that is being eagerly awaited by couples the world over. It is a day when one showcases their love and passion towards their partner through their kisses. While some prefer to take it slow and steady, others like it to be wet and wild.
So ... Views: 1604
Valentine’s Day might be considered to many as a Hallmark holiday. For some it might just be another day that they want to forget, and for other’s it will be a day that they will always remember. Some will go all out lavishly as a token to express their love. For some an “I love you” will ... Views: 1603
Single people who come to me to grasp the Law of Attraction to attract a relationship sometimes come to me for advice. These people ask, “Can you create the wrong relationship?” The answer to that is Yes and No. Let me elaborate. You create the “Wrong” lover with a basis on what it is you ... Views: 1602
Drifting apart
“We’re drifting apart,” Sara said during our first meeting. Her husband, Daniel, agreed. They got along well enough, but lived more like roommates than a married couple.
It’s not just couples who drift apart, of course. Friends lose touch, colleagues move on, children forget ... Views: 1602
If you’re thinking about having sex with a friend, be very careful, because it is not easy to preserve a friendship once you have sex. We think we can control our feelings, but it's not so simple.
• If one of you becomes romantically attached as a result of the sex, ... Views: 1598
The reality of how much time and thought you give to your family is of course in many ways a unique question that can only be answered by the individual themselves. The reason it is so important is because in a significant number of cases the amount of focus that an individual puts on the family ... Views: 1598
How to convince your ex to take you back; You've just heard through the grapevine that your ex boyfriend has been dating another girl. You have been thinking about your ex a lot lately and now you get this piece of bad news. But is it bad news? You really should not worry about it and if you ... Views: 1598
Online therapy courses - It is good to help others and it is even better if you can help them to transform their lives. To take a person who is going through an emotional torment or who is undergoing an emotional improvement in their goals or their personality. To take someone who is anxious ... Views: 1598
"Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
This is not news when I say that weddings have become outlandishly expensive, extravagant productions. If you're a bride-to-be, and no matter what wedding industry hype says, your wedding day is not ... Views: 1598
I put this commonly mentioned phrase in my book Men Made Easy because it’s so true: Men marry a woman hoping she’ll never change, but she always does; and women marry men hoping they will change, but they never do.
Women make themselves crazy trying to get a man to change, to behave, or to ‘do ... Views: 1596
Alas, the recent break-up of a nine year relationship was painful enough. But when my ex-partner’s daughter indefinitely suspended (if not permanently ended) weekly 3-5 minute Skypeing and my periodic visiting with her 3 ½ year old daughter (i.e., my ex’s grandchild), because the mother felt ... Views: 1595
(This article is the second one of a series on seeing the Beloved in Everyone).
Do you have to BELIEVE that everyone you come across with is a potential life partner? Or best friend? Or lover, beloved in order for this practice to work?
Well, YES. But also NO. In some way, this is a ... Views: 1595
Why do some relationships last forever and others fall apart? Here are some ways you can make your partner feel appreciated again and prevent your relationship from becoming a casualty.
Treat your partner as you would your boss, best friend, or best customer.
Think about what your ... Views: 1594
At the end of a client-packed day, the trash can in my office is often overflowing with used tissues. Richard, seeing this, usually comments; “Good day, huh?” and we both laugh. He knows that, when clients cry, they’re usually breaking through and healing something. I’ve ... Views: 1594
The state of Karnataka has a mixed population with people from all religion living here. Muslims, Christians, Jain and Buddhists are settled though the majority population is of Hindus. Kannada is commonly spoken across the state and the people are mostly known as Kannada language. Kannada ... Views: 1594
Valentine's Day is coming around again, and there's no escaping it. Everywhere you look, there are hearts, roses, and candy wrapped in pink. With everyone's thoughts on love and whether or not you have a Valentine of the traditional kind, here is one Valentine you should have: YOU.
Yes, ... Views: 1594
Whether you are in a relationship or single, rarely will Valentine's Day pass by without your notice. If you are single and even if you think the day has no significance, on Valentine's Day you will think about and want a relationship more than usual. If you are in a relationship and Valentine's ... Views: 1594
Edwin Markham (1852-1940) stated, “all that we send into the lives of others comes back into our own.”
This is now called the Law of Attraction. What a brilliant man Edwin Markham must have been. So if this statement reigns true then when we send love and light into the lives of others, this ... Views: 1594
Number Seven May Be A Little Shocking
Dr. Romance’s three tips to maintaining sanity during divorce.
According to results from a recent GfK Roper poll, more than 80 percent of divorced Americans still believe in marriage, but we all know more than half of marriages don’t make it, for ... Views: 1593
With the relationship established by both parties, it has to be a zone where they can feel all the security and support. However, difficulties in relationship can shaken that safety and support you both have in the relationship.Actually, we did not even get the real catch of what the people and ... Views: 1592
- From fear to love, from darkness to light and from separation to wholeness
The challenge for the 21st century is The Silent Revolution of the Heart. It is not a revolution within an organization or a land in the traditional sense with violence, madness and blood shed. It is a revolution in ... Views: 1592
Beauty, harmony, joy, peace, wisdom, compassion, what makes these words stand out? They are a resonance, a frequency and a vibration that lift us up. They are qualities of love. They are what we truly yearn for in life. These words are more than the qualities they represent; they symbolize a ... Views: 1592
Everyone can say they’re right. Everyone can believe that they’re in the right . . . to defend their beliefs, their land, their way of life.
Yet this thinking doesn’t get us far in terms of the goals of peace and joy and a more Loving world.
So I want to draw attention to the fact that we ... Views: 1591
Relationship goals benefit you emotionally and spiritually as well as enrich your day to day experiences and connection to yourself, others, and the divine creator.
Many people concentrate on business, personal, or physical goals which are very beneficial, but all too often they overlook or ... Views: 1591
Everyone who is experiencing a breakup with their ex should contemplate if a reunion is what is best for them. Occasionally, folks want to get back together with an ex before realizing that it's potentially not the best action to take. If you are currently considering this option, you should be ... Views: 1590
My Husband Irritates Me: Everything My Husband Does Irritates Me
The most bugging problem in a married life is dealing with an irritating partner. When your partner is always interfering and over meddling, it is very difficult not to lose control of your temper. Dealing with such a partner ... Views: 1590
(This article is the second one of a series on seeing the Beloved in Everyone).
Do you have to BELIEVE that everyone you come across with is a potential life partner? Or best friend? Or lover, beloved in order for this practice to work?
Well, YES. But also NO. In some way, this is a ... Views: 1589
What is happiness? If you are thinking of changing your life for the better, one way is start identifying your goals. What version of happiness or well-being are you looking for? This might be any combination of the following:
-Sense of Freedom
-Self Esteem
-Self Confidence
... Views: 1589
Funny as it seems, most of us want the OPTIMUM relationship but don’t know how to get or maintain it. I am not talking about a superficial movie-style standard. I am talking about deeply connected, solidly unified, and romantic. Perhaps we can’t be in that space all of the time. However, ... Views: 1588
My Husband Acts Like He Hates Me: Signs That Your Husband Doesn't Love You Anymore
When a marriage is having problems, there will be plenty of signs your husband doesn't love you anymore. As a wife, I encountered those signs myself when my marriage was in trouble. "My husband isn't attracted ... Views: 1588
Many people experience romantic love at least once in their lives, and hopefully most of us know familial love and the love of friends. And perhaps we’ve been in love with our pets, or our projects, or the ocean, or chocolate.
Whatever the object of our love, the best part about loving is ... Views: 1588
Door can be used for the purpose of confinement as well as the gate way to freedom too. It all depends upon you how you use it. Same is true for all relationships too, whether it be with your spouse or friends. If you have true love, you will give freedom to everyone whomsoever you are related ... Views: 1588
We all experience pain in some form but not knowing how to move “Beyond the Pain,” may result in self-hate. Here are 5 ways you may be practicing self-hate without knowing it:
1. You believe everyone is against you. You cannot seem to accept anyone who tries to show you love or care but allow ... Views: 1587
Have you ever heard that you get what you expect?
Expecting something lets the Universe know that you have faith in its power to get you what you want. It also sends the message that you are ready to receive that which you desire
By feeling the excitement and joy that you will feel when ... Views: 1587