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Finding the right lifelong partner can be one of the smartest moves a man or a woman can make. After a lengthy review of the current research, as well as the findings from our own 34 years of research on marriage, here are the five top ways a good marriage can enhance your life:
1. You can ... Views: 1703
Feeling Lonely? 4 Steps to Leave Loneliness For Good
Today I felt compelled to pour my heart out to you and talk about a subject that I care so deeply about and that’s loneliness. You don’t need to be single to be lonely. In fact, there are literally thousands of husbands and wives who feel ... Views: 1703
When we carve out a niche in our busy lives to do the sorts of things that feed our soul, we are affirming our self worth, acknowledging that we crave and deserve our own undivided attention.
When we claim the psychic space and set aside the personal time to pursue the knowledge and mastery of ... Views: 1703
Having worked with 100’s of couples now looking to repair the relationship or heal themselves after an affair, most want to know how long does it take to heal and what are the stages of healing after an affair. Like when dealing with a significant loss, loss of a loved one, financial loss or ... Views: 1703
Listen up - being able to make your sex partner horny for you is perhaps one of the most important things you can ever do. Why? It's because sexual satisfaction is the number one reason why a woman would ever stick with you.
The fact is this - a hot chick will stay with you even if you are as ... Views: 1703
How to Make My Ex Girlfriend Want Me Back When She's Found a New Guy; Your ex girlfriend is with another man and it looks like the writing's on the wall. How can you get her back now?
You can use Psychological Tricks and Expert Tips to get your ex-girlfriend back – links to a blog on what to ... Views: 1703
The longer I love, the more I see how universally beneficial it is to give someone the dignity of their own experience.
I have so many examples where, when I allowed someone to do what they needed to do-no matter how much I thought I knew the solution to their problem - they always seemed to ... Views: 1702
How does love show up in your life now? Are you lonely, searching for a soul mate and instead finding losers and misfits? Are you anxious for that moment of letting go, breathing deeply, and finally feeling loved? Are you discouraged by the number of truly bad dates you’ve had? Are you ... Views: 1702
The Role Cycle
It's official: Married women over 40 have the best sex. 81% are more adventurous than when they were in their twenties, and 63% are more confident in bed.
It's easy to see why, if you've been following my blog on the simple nature of woman.
Some of you might have worked ... Views: 1702
Dear Dr. Romance:
Thank you for such a wonderfully positive article on "generation-gap" relationships. I just finished reading "What's Behind the Trend of Women Dating Younger Men?". Although I am in a gay-relationship, I read the article with ... Views: 1701
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes... ...
Tina from New Zealand wanted to know “How do I get free from my limiting beliefs when I'm trying to attract my ideal soulmate love”?
Great question because negative thinking plays a big role in success or failure especially in ... Views: 1701
There is a new love and marriage forum which is ideal for anyone who is wanting to swap views or get support or find out information on any subject relating to feelings, relationships and people. You can find it at http://www.girls-magazine.moonfruit.com.
Girl's forum. One of the reasons ... Views: 1701
You are my heart, you are my soul. I want you with; as I grow old. You’re mean to me, but you are all I see. You will call and say you’ll be late, that’s ok, I’ll sit and wait. It’s ok, you are all I see. Don’t call me, I’ll call you, is what you say to me. I don’t understand, we were ... Views: 1701
Do you believe that you can attract Mr. Right? Do you believe that you are worthy of being with a man who loves you for who you are? The truth is what you believe about Mr. Right is what you attract.
For a very long time I believed that all men cheated. I had a deep rooted belief that if you ... Views: 1701
Sri and Kira: Self Ascension Magazine
'She' met these two beautiful beings after a journey to Lake Atitlan.
The magic of this story shall appear in the very new future.
'She' shares the secret messages from the Lake and the reminder
of the power of the Twin Flames.
'She' was guided ... Views: 1700
You’ve probably heard the phrase what the world needs now is love – it’s even a song title – and I feel sure you’ll agree with me that the world would be so very different if it operated through love rather than fear. But think about this. The word love is a noun, but isn’t love meant to be ... Views: 1700
Traditional Marriage Is NOT Dead
By Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz
"the marriage doctors"
Authors of the Best Relationship Book of 2008 ~ INDIE Book Awards Gold Medal Winner
Golden Anniversaries: The Seven Secrets of Successful Marriage
Also available at Amazon.com, ... Views: 1699
I thought my world had ended back in January.
I had this job and career that made me comfortable and paid well. It was not necessarily a job that I loved, but it made me feel secure and gave me the validation that I thought I needed.
Until I was laid off.
I started to panic, because ... Views: 1699
I thought my world had ended back in January.
I had this job and career that made me comfortable and paid well. It was not necessarily a job that I loved, but it made me feel secure and gave me the validation that I thought I needed.
Until I was laid off.
I started to panic, because ... Views: 1699
So how do you get her or him to fall in love with you? Is there a magical secret to win anyone's heart to your favor? Maybe there is one special thing that can make a person fall in love with you, and all you have to do is that one thing. Could it be a special scent you can buy from the ... Views: 1699
If you have ever had a broken heart you already know that you'd probably do almost something to get the person you appreciate back. Relationships finish for many reasons, but regardless with the trigger behind the conflict, it is easy to likely mend it if you happen to know precisely what to do. ... Views: 1698
...at least they think they do!
If I had a nickel for every woman who asked me why she would always lose herself in her relationship with a man, I would be a rich woman. Hell, I would be a rich woman if I had a nickel for every relationship I lost myself in. Ha!…I wish that was a paying ... Views: 1698
I'm updating my book The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again. The new version will be called Dr. Romance's Guide to Dating in the Digital Age. The following article is excerpted from the new book.
A lot of the problems that come up in dating again are generated by social expectations (how ... Views: 1697
When we feel that we have been wrongly accused of something a common reaction is to put up our defences so our partner will back down. But all this succeeds to achieve is to make our husband/wife feel that we are not taking them seriously. Where the real underlying issues in a marriage don’t ... Views: 1697
People always say that it is easy to love each other but it is difficult to get along well with our other half. Do you agree? Let's have a look at how an Canadian gentleman safeguards cross cultural marriage with a Chinese girl. Maybe you can gain some help for seeking your true China love. If ... Views: 1696
Do you want to get back your ex, however they are giving you confusing signs? Would you like to know what your ex is thinking and tap into their emotions about you? If you want to know if your ex still has strong feelings for you, so you can eventually clear all the mixed signals up and win back ... Views: 1696
The inner journey
Can you say something about your own inner journey?
Life is like playing hide the key with God. God has hidden the key and now it is up to us to find the key again. It also takes us a while to realize that the key is hidden in our own heart. The heart is the door to ... Views: 1696
As I write this, I have just completed what has been nothing short of a marathon session of relationship readings, counselling and agony aunt advice. You would think that it was the fourteenth of February and not the end of April based on how many people want to know whether they should stay, go ... Views: 1695
While someone can have an idea in their minds about the kind of person they want to be with, it doesn’t mean that this always becomes a reality. This can relate to what another person looks like on the outside and what they are like on the inside and their personality.
One could meet someone ... Views: 1694
What many people don’t realize is that any relationship starts with YOU! If your relationship and perception of yourself is minimal at best than you aren’t going to have the greatest of relationships because you are coming from a place of inner discontentment.
Here are some tips to help you ... Views: 1693
Women, Russian girls and brides included, are different from men. Men always don't like shopping including Christmas shopping. However, women like shopping very much and like the moment of receiving the gift from the man they love. As a man, you will hardly know how happy, how excited when women ... Views: 1693
This is a quick reminder about the stages through which a relationship travels. Love grows and changes. The excitement that brings couples together in the first place is very different from the love that emerges fifteen or fifty years later. Love relationships go through three predictable ... Views: 1693
When fear pricks the heart it flies in the face of every message about love we absorb from the culture: that love should provide a safe haven against the storms of life; that love should be easy; that love and fear are mutually exclusive, and that if fear enters the picture it means something is ... Views: 1693
Choosing to be single
Why are so many people choosing to be single these days? Why is it that the single population is growing steadily? Why is it that the dating sites are making millions each year?
We come from a place of love and light. We come here to earth to share love and light. ... Views: 1692
Kelly mentions that her partner is a workaholic. She says that he lives and breaths through his work and it is the number one priority for him. Kelly mentions that she suffers because he is neglecting her and doesn’t spend much time with her.
Is your partner a workaholic? Does your partner ... Views: 1692
Bob and his girlfriend Carol got into an argument one day and Carol stormed out saying she never wants to see him again. Do ex girlfriends ever come back; This left Bob devastated as this came so unexpectedly and he was desperate to find out how to get her back.
What Bob needs to understand ... Views: 1691
One Person Goes Cold Turkey and Kicks the old love Habit easily. The other one can't let go the addiction. Love is a cigarette. Its infuritating to see someone we love move on.
“Love is a cigarette” I told her.
“TELL ME ABOUT IT! ... Views: 1691
Years ago, Juliette divorced her husband. She felt hurt by the experience and wanted revenge. To make matters worse, during the divorce, he came to her home and took a diamond necklace that was hers. She had a lien put against his car, which she had also paid for. A year after the divorce was ... Views: 1690
If you are currently in a relationship, it's likely that you feel sure you are in love with your partner. But do you sometimes wonder too if it's real love that you feel or just mere attachment. Love can be very complicated, but after reading this post, you will have a better understanding of ... Views: 1689
In a loving relationship or marriage, most individuals want the very best for their spouse or partner. People want their partners to be successful, healthy, fit and happy so that each can enjoy the other for as long as possible. There are two ways to handle being involved in your partner's ... Views: 1689
Love is a journey!
You need company to embark on it.
It is a thought not centered on self,
A light shining at both ends,
Fondness is success shared with you.
The thrills and joys that you can't enjoy alone,
The tenderness in the smile you give,
The friendship that comes with ... Views: 1688
Questions have power. They can open our minds up to new possibilities and ways-of-being, they can alter the course of our thoughts and shape our behavior in positive ways...
...and questions can have the opposite effect, shutting us down with the force of a jackhammer.
And some questions ... Views: 1688
Mmmmm, another fabulous rainy Monday here in Arizona! Rainy days for me always call for introspection. And today more than ever I know that my most favorite topic is Self-Love. I'm still amazed at how many people don't even think about it. But for me, it is the most important aspect of ... Views: 1688
They told me I was special and exquisite. They told me I would embark on a big journey. And they also told me there would be a big transformation one day and only then I would become special and exquisite. I never understood why I had to go through a process to become something which I already ... Views: 1688
Transitions, like grief, have their own timetable. Despite one's best efforts to rush along the difficult feelings and anxious thoughts, each person will traverse the terrain of transitions according to their own internal needs and rhythm. While major life transitions like getting married or ... Views: 1688
The answer to how to make people happy does not lie in sharing material possessions or even giving stern instruction. It is ultimately about showing them before telling them.
There are things you can do to make people happy that can affect not only their mood but your own. Healthy happy ... Views: 1687
Each of us has a mixture of feelings toward those people we’re intimate with, and learning how to tolerate ambivalence is a part of growing up. Small children sometimes scream “I hate you!” when frustrated by their parents though they may be loving and affectionate an hour later. Such ... Views: 1687
There are very few guarantees in life but one is certain, everything changes: day changes to night, morning to evening and summer to fall. People of course are no exception; we physically change from young to old. There are times we change for the better and at times the changes are ... Views: 1687
Did you and your spouse get into a HUGE fight that they walked out on you? Did they come home telling you they need some space and now you're sitting alone by yourself-missing your spouse? Some how, things between you and your spouse turned for the worse and now you're trying to figure out how ... Views: 1686