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FIRST LET US UNDERSTAND THAT LOVE IS NOT AN ATTACHMENT :
For most people in this world, love masquerades as attachment. Sometimes both exist together and get mixed up. This happens in parental and filial love, among siblings, lovers, friends, spouses etc.
True friendship, chosen and not ... Views: 1787
Have you taken the Love Language quiz? We hope so! This article will be quick, really to just get you straight to your work:
Define what you want your love relationships to look like. Write a separate definition for the top 3-5 relationships in your life. This definition cannot be a “what it ... Views: 1787
Article Title: Sharing a few Quotations/Thoughts on HOPE and LOVE
Shared by: Craig Lock
Category (key words): Hope, Quotations, Love, Thoughts, “Inspiration, Spiritual”, Inspirational Writings.
The submitter’s blog (with extracts from his various writings: articles, books and new ... Views: 1786
Why Do I Always Call Him And He Never Calls Me: He Said He Would Call But Didn't
Why do I always call him and he never calls me? You've likely been wondering this for some time. The scenario when a woman is asking this question is fairly typical. The relationship as a whole is really lovely. ... Views: 1786
If this were my last day alive and I was asked what I discovered in a lifetime of searching for Truth, I would have to say that the Beatles were correct, all you need is love.
But life is not that simple, and in fact, if all we need is love, then why is love so elusive? Why do we live in a ... Views: 1785
You may have recently opening up with your boyfriend or girlfriend and both of you were happy to be rid of each other. How to tell if my ex boyfriend wants me back; The relationship may have been going great but something happened that brought this break up.
Regardless of what happened, you ... Views: 1785
All intimate relationships are supported by two pillars: Intimacy andSafety.
Intimacy implies both closeness and communication (Holmes, J.Attachment, Intimacy, Autonomy, J. Aronson, 1996.) The more we communicate with one another, the closer we get. The closer we get, the easier and deeper our ... Views: 1783
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***My Valentine My Love - by Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz, the Official Guides To Love
8 COMMON DATING MISTAKES MOST PEOPLE MAKE ON THE INTERNET
Finding love
We all want to be loved. It is a very profound human need. But how do we get it? Where do we look for it? Why don't we find it? ... Views: 1782
So what is a state of Love equilibrium? Well here my friends we will address the very relevant issues of Love & Relationship equilibrium – pertaining to love advice.
Elements of love Relationship Equilibrium:
Fun; No two people in any love relationship are ever the same. But one things for ... Views: 1781
You are probably wondering whether your ex still loves you. That's not surprising at all. For a lot of people, breakups are usually impulse decisions that leave them filled with a lot of longing and hurt. And a lot of people want to win their ex back. Here are some signs your ex still loves ... Views: 1780
I Miss My Abusive Ex Boyfriend: Recovering From Emotionally Abusive Relationship
The phrase, "I miss my ex boyfriend so much," is a common one said after a break up. If you love the man, you're going to struggle to get through each day. You have to deal with competing thoughts of what went ... Views: 1779
Have you ever been in a public place and had someone clear his sinuses right behind you? To me, that sucking sinus snort is extremely off-putting. I have a physical response to the sound, as if an unappealing stranger has just blown his nose on my shoulder. How does this feeling of revulsion fit ... Views: 1779
A journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Some people take that step with a strong sense of enthusiasm and adventure. Some people remain idle out of fear of the unknown.
Life is about time and with whom you spend your time with. Life entails the births, vacations, celebrations, the ... Views: 1778
What are the lies we bought as love that are causing us to suffer?
What are the lies we bought as love that are causing us not to be happy?
What are the lies we bought as love that are causing us not to love ourselves?
What are the lies we bought as love that are causing us to put up with ... Views: 1776
“Our minds map out a neat, perfect little road for life and we hate to have it changed in any way. Yet that perfect little road may completely by-pass our goal of God-realization.”
–Barry and Joyce Vissell, The Shared Heart
Joyce and I have written before about the importance of taking ... Views: 1774
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Strengthen Your Marriage Tip #7
Happy marriages all require simple, practical acts. Simple gestures. Simple conversations. Success in love and marriage depends upon an accumulation of having done the simple things to build the foundation for a ... Views: 1774
Your experience of the beauty and perfection of these holidays is colored by your capacity to feel full, deep, unconditional love for yourself. Without this self-love, you will judge yourself based on what you have or have achieved or on your expectations. To live fully and celebrate fully, love ... Views: 1774
We’ve all heard the stories – the young girl who was hit by a parent and vows it will never happen again. She moves forward, creates a life of success and then, one day, wakes up to find herself in an abusive relationship, wondering how in the heck she got there. She obviously didn’t want this ... Views: 1771
The need to love and be loved is one of the 6 basic human needs we teach about in our Heart & Sold series. Because the need to love and be loved is so fundamental to humanity, it often explains the motivations behind our behaviors. We act in certain ways…. we do and don’t do things often for the ... Views: 1771
One of the main reasons why a lot of relationships fail is incompatibility. A lot of men and women rush into relationships without even making the effort to examine if they are compatible with their partners or not.
Compatibility does not necessarily require for you and your partner to be ... Views: 1771
There are a lot of unwritten rules about what's socially acceptable and what isn't. One of those rules dictates how close in age a dating couple should be, and gender also has a part in that rule. Most people don't bat an eyelid if an older man dates someone much younger, but why are older women ... Views: 1771
Hey Doc,
Every Saturday night, I go to a certain club with a group of my friends to have fun. Every once so often, I see this attractive woman who is always with a new guy that she doesn't seem to be involved with. One nigh while I was on the dance floor, she gave me a "buying signal" by ... Views: 1770
Learning how to love yourself will be one of the best more exhilarating things you could ever do for yourself and your loved ones. But before you focus on your loved one, which is what most women do first, I want you to focus on yourself first.
And it's never too late to start. Never!
I ... Views: 1770
One of the worst feelings you can experience in life is a broken heart. There is never a good time for a relationship to end; but it always seems worse around the holidays. A broken heart tears at the core of your essence. It feels like your heart is being torn out of your chest. It hurts! So, ... Views: 1770
Welcome to Creating Harmony’s Harmonising Times. Our intention is to provide our readers, friends and connections with an overview of what is emerging in our much larger, ever evolving community as in the new beginnings of 2017 we bring balance between the Divine Feminine and Masculine.
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Being parented by imperfect parents/caregivers is considered a traumatic experience of childhood in some of the trauma and attachment literature and information I have come across. This includes being abused, abandoned and/or neglected to various degrees.
When trauma is defined in this ... Views: 1769
"Man's greatest motivating force is his desire to please woman" so writes Napoleon Hill in his iconic book, THINK & GROW RICH.
According to Hill, men who accumulate large fortunes, gain power and fame do so to satisfy their desire to please women. If this is so, you have to consider: If a ... Views: 1768
We were at an appointment at a local business and the owner, Carol, blurted out, "Do you lock your car while you are here?" We replied, "Yes, always." Carol then continued with what was so obviously on her mind.
"I don't lock mine and my GPS was stolen from my car. I didn't realize it at ... Views: 1768
Overcome the top 5 signs of being too needy, give your partner space and increase your attractiveness!
Neediness will kill the passion and attraction in your relationship. We all want to be cherished and desired in our relationship that makes us feel good but being needed and pampering to a ... Views: 1767
Everyone wants to be loved. When it comes to getting the love you want, it's very important to make sure you are in tune with yourself. You need to have dreams and aspirations for your life. This way, when you do find a life partner, you can be confident in yourself and make it obvious of what ... Views: 1767
Dr. Romance writes:
It was one of those magical encounters with a personal truth—you know how it feels. I was fifteen, in ninth-grade English. The teacher, Mr. Rizzutto, read us a poem, and it had such a profound effect on me that even five decades later, I’m still using it as a guide. The ... Views: 1766
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In today's world, people don't often realize the importance of companionship until later in life. Staying fit and physically and socially active increases your odds of finding someone to date, and also increases your libido and your chances of successful sex. But, ... Views: 1766
Author: Ernest Quansah
ISBN: 978-1-46643-316-8
Using his many years of experience as a love relationship expert coupled with a good deal of research, Ernest Quansah has authored an informative primer with his Do's & Don'ts of Relationships: Nine Steps to a Deeper, Richer Love Relationship ... Views: 1766
We know there is only one of us here manifesting in a myriad of aspects. What I do to you, I do to me for there is no other. “Thy Art That.”
Mankind’s shift in consciousness is facilitating our ability to live gently, peacefully, lovingly, and cooperatively in full Unity Consciousness. ... Views: 1766
Relationships experience ups and downs and can sometimes lead to breakups and heartaches but is ego part of what is destroying your relationship?
If you take a deep look at relationships across the globe, be it in the workplace, government or personal, pride/ego shows up when there is a ... Views: 1764
FENG shui (say "fung shway") is the art of creating a home environment that supports the life you wish to live. A key element of feng shui is creating a smooth flow of chi (positive energy) through your space. Chi likes to move through your home as though it were a gentle breeze or a meandering ... Views: 1763
How You Can Use Psychology To Get The Attention Of Your Ex Boyfriend Again; After a breakup, you might try to get your ex boyfriend back by yourself. You may try several tactics that you have heard other women talk about using, but when nothing works, you go seeking advice. One thing you will ... Views: 1763
After a hot and steamy session of sex that you might have enjoyed tremendously, you might still wonder if your girl too had loved it as much as you have. Well, here are some tips that will discreetly inform you if she indeed was satisfied with your performance in bed or not.
She goes into a ... Views: 1763
The Best Way To Love
By
Bill Cottringer
“Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”
The ... Views: 1763
If you’re dating again for the first time in a long time, you could probably use some confidence builders in the form of what I like to call ‘Dating Updating’.
More than likely it’s probably been a while since you’ve done something different with the way you look so a few changes can take ... Views: 1762
Are you and your wife in a huge fight and you want to make amends with her. Or perhaps it may be a little more extreme and you and your wife are temporarily separated. Either way, you want that satisfying relationship you two used to have before problems began. Here are some important things to ... Views: 1761
When I first came across this mirror process in a workshop U.S Life Coach Debbie Ford, I really found it rather confrontational. Of course I had heard the old adage that ‘your life is like a mirror’, but what I hadn’t done is sit down and apply that to people in my life who really annoyed ... Views: 1761
‘Tis the season to be jolly; however, many of us are mildly depressed, especially about ambiguous relationships. For example, “If he doesn’t give me a ring for Christmas, we are so over,” “I buy him a thoughtful expensive present and he gives me a blender from ... Views: 1761
A woman who states I want my husband back, soon after a relationship ends is really one that wants to get back together with her husband! I don’t need to sound hasty right here at all; however I want you to get this if you want your man again...
Saving your marriage is the best decision you ... Views: 1761
Research conducted by Dr. Dean Ornish and others shows that the happiest and healthiest people are those who are well-connected to friends and family. But, in our mobile society, keeping friends is not always possible. Long-term friendships are wonderful and valuable, but if you dont make ... Views: 1761
I just want to give you a short quiz on what you think love is. A, Do you think that love is about reciprocity? B, Do you feel that love is about openness, honesty, and sharing? C, Do you feel that love is about calling someone ten to twenty times a day, monitoring their Facebook page like it ... Views: 1760
One of the best and easiest ways to express your independence is by learning to love and accept yourself more and to "get" that you have the power to manifest any kind of life you want. That is such a powerful concept.
Get started by trying out some uplifting affirmations. These will help ... Views: 1758
Article: Written By Renee L Richardson
Sharing Within an Intimate Relationship: How much is too much?
When we fall in love, we are ecstatic over our newly found love. It seems as though all senses and usage of boundaries are set aside in the attempt to not appear as uncaring, selfish, ... Views: 1758
Are you searching for a soul mate or unconditional love? Your quest can set you on an impossible journey to find an ideal partner. The problem is often twofold: No human being, nor any relationship can ever achieve perfection, and often unconditional and conditional love are ... Views: 1757