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Dr. Romance sees many clients who are having marital problems because of the following bad habits. If you find yourself doing any of these things, consider changing your behavior or getting counseling.
1) You place social media above real communication; This can be a big problem, ... Views: 1817
Ever wonder how some couples stay happily married for 50 years or how in love some couples appear to be? Call it chemistry, call it an instant click, or maybe…just maybe there was something intuitive about these relationships that made them work quite as well as they have.
There are a lot of ... Views: 1816
In Woody Allen's "Midnight in Paris", the protagonist complaints that he doesn't know whether he should marry his fiancee, and whether he loves her at all. The reply he gets from a fictional Ernest Hemingway contains the most brilliant lines in the movie (quoting from memory):
"When you ... Views: 1816
Isn't it strange when you find an old file that you wrote years ago and do not remember writing it. I recently found this e-male to my philosophy professor when I was preparing to write my dissertation on emotion.It is almost a defining moment without my realizing it! He replied asking what ... Views: 1816
According to results from a recent GfK Roper poll, more than 80 percent of divorced Americans still believe in marriage, but we all know more than half of marriages don’t make it, for various reasons. Cupid, the ancient Roman god of love, was blind. In mythology, he’s been represented as a ... Views: 1815
How to Give Her a G-Spot Orgasm: How to Give Your Woman A Mind Blowing G-Spot Orgasm
The g-spot orgasm is a mystery to most adults -- male and female alike.
Most men have no idea how to give their women this type of SEXUAL PLEASURE and most women have therefore never had one. Right now you ... Views: 1814
Once you have decided to take the plunge and to start Internet dating, there are some important basics that you need to know.
Many people set themselves up with the expectation that love is just around the corner and will drop into their laps in an instant, metaphorically speaking but just ... Views: 1813
In the last months, I have had the unfortunate task of informing a number of clients, and even a good friend, that they were caught up in another relationship scam. Sad to say, we so want to be loved - and to love - that we can be trapped by our desire, our willingness to trust, afraid to listen ... Views: 1812
Certain things about signs of infidelity come as a surprise to most people. Even people who consider themselves knowledgeable about extramarital affairs may be unfamiliar with some of the little-known facts below. This information is taken from Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale ... Views: 1811
Looking for a gift to show that special someone how much you care? Something different to the usual flowers or chocolates? Why not consider offering to give them a massage?
There are great benefits for giving a massage (or receiving one!). Here are just a few -
Massage can be adapted ... Views: 1811
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Dr. Romance on MONEY TALKS
Money talks need to be a part of scheduling weekly meetings - not just for money, but also for catching up with one another.
Bills, social planning, long-term goals and working on your relationship are just some of the issues you'll ... Views: 1811
Which aspect of the Goddess of Love do you most identify with? Is it Aphrodite, goddess of love and beauty? Or perhaps Lilith, the Primal Goddess? Or do you see yourself more as the Sacred Prostitute, Courtesan or Sexual Healer?
The Goddesses of Love have many names for they represent a side ... Views: 1811
Pain, rejection, loneliness, abandonment are one of the many things that couples feel when struggling in relationships. It’s difficult indeed to ignore such emotions, especially when they become a pattern. Many of us are unaware of their root cause and that the key to having a truthful, loving ... Views: 1810
(Excerpt from the Vissell’s not-yet published book, To Really Love a Woman)
To really love a woman is to give her your complete trust. I love the line in Bryan Adams’ song, “… and when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms, you know you really love a woman.” To lay helpless in her ... Views: 1809
It is actually really easy to get back with your ex after breaking up, but most people will find it very difficult due to some pretty typical mistakes that they make from the start.
They typically end up harassing him with constant phone calls, e-mails, and text messages. This sort of ... Views: 1809
While some people will only know what it feels like to be with someone who can love them, there are going to be other people who only know what it feels like to be with someone who can’t love them. And this is going to mean that each person has a radically different experience on this ... Views: 1809
Having a broken heart is one of the most painful experiences in life and when it happens it seems that you will never get over it. How to heal a broken heart seems even more challenging than the actual heartbreak experience because it is prolonged and re-lived over and over again. The knot in ... Views: 1808
It isn’t all that hard for you to find other people online when you take a look at online dating services. You can use all sorts of free dating services to find someone that will truly love you for who you are.
Online dates are useful in that you can find a number of different kinds of ... Views: 1806
Lament of Loss
“The time we had spent with someone.
The time we know, we are never going to get back.” (Muhammad Mohsan Zaki)
May the Blessings Be
Oh this is sad and so true - I wonder why we spend so much time hoping when the other has made it so clear that they don't want you. And yet ... Views: 1806
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Strengthen Your Marriage Tip #3
Happy marriages all require simple, practical acts. Simple gestures. Simple conversations. Success in love and marriage depends upon an accumulation of having done the simple things to build the foundation for a ... Views: 1805
Dear Dr. Romance:
I don't even know where to start… I just did the most stupid thing alive!! I send the man I can't forget a text message…and he did not reply. I don't think he wants to speak to me. He knows I'm married.
I was 20 years old when I fell in love with him. I was ... Views: 1805
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Strengthen Your Marriage Tip #4
Happy marriages all require simple, practical acts. Simple gestures. Simple conversations. Success in love and marriage depends upon an accumulation of having done the simple things to build the foundation for a ... Views: 1804
Some people might find that they wish to feel more love flowing through them. It happens that we start believing, at some stage in our journey in these physical bodies, that we have to receive that love from outside of us. We forget, for a moment that we always are unconditionally loved, from ... Views: 1804
It is clear that an accepted belief these days is that all is love. That all things exist because of love. In Sufism, we say that God is love and out of God’s love all things have come into being. So nothing exists save love.
It is also commonly accepted that very few people know true love ... Views: 1804
Does this sound confusing? How can you love someone and not care about what they do? What does this mean? In AA circles it is called “Detachment with Love”. In Christian circles: “Holy Indifference”, while Buddhism calls it “Non-attachment or Equanimity”. Whatever its name, it is an aloofness ... Views: 1802
It was love at first sight. Joe Stravisky, a very tall (over 7 feet), regal and sexy man, was wearing "black, ornamented, dazzling boots" that caught Heart Wishbringer by surprise. This porcelain-skinned beauty with white hair or black hair depending on her mood, was thunderstruck and instantly ... Views: 1800
One reason I write The Love Post is because I grew up in a family where Love was top priority.
I feel so fortunate to have my parents example of living according to the principle that we must take care of each other.
My sisters and I were taught that Loving every person is very important. ... Views: 1800
Who can forget that rush of budding love? Everything is perfect. He or she is perfect. The freckles on their nose are perfect. In the first flushes of love, you even feel like you are perfect. There is absolutely no feeling like it in the world. Then life sets in and perfection seems to be a ... Views: 1799
All right, ladies. I trust we all got through Valentine’s Day, right? But let's make this your last February fourteenth when you don’t have a fab date!
To do that, you’re going to have to make some changes. Put simply, stagnation is never good. When you refuse to change or embrace new ... Views: 1798
When your guy loses interest or breaks up with you, it can be a time when you feel miserable and alone. You may replay the situation in your mind and wonder what you could have done differently. Perhaps you know that you acted needy or demanding or perhaps you have no idea what went wrong. You ... Views: 1798
When you open yourself to love, you open yourself to loss. When you suffer the loss of someone you love, you experience the painful emotion we call grief because it's a natural response to loss. Yet, to the person going through this afflictive emotion, the experience feels overwhelming because ... Views: 1797
Routine. Boring. Settled in. Comfortable. You love your spouse. You believe that she and the family are the most important people in your life. You have settled into a comfortable routine, accepting that you are loved and appreciated by your family. Your comfortable routine consists of an ... Views: 1797
If getting over break-ups is hard, even the thought of getting over your first love is a million times more painful. After all, there is nothing that compares to the sensation you had when you fell in love for the very first time. All the things that you read and imagined, heard in songs and ... Views: 1796
How to effectively respond to blame and enhance your marriage.
Blame in any relationship is challenging to deal with, even more so in marriage. Your natural instinct may be to blame back. All this does is create more tension. Husbands and wife’s that blame each other for their unhappiness, ... Views: 1795
Today we live in an age that promotes self-awareness BUT when it comes to relationships, it fails to show us how to use our self-awareness to arrive at good decisions. Most of the advice we get makes our problems even worse.
There are literally millions of men and women ambivalent about ... Views: 1795
Sometimes, we are not able speak our heart out to someone we are in love with. We shy or are to state our feelings/thoughts. Even at that time our friends couldn’t help us. Love is the most beautiful feeling in the world but for some reasons we can’t express that feeling. It is a feeling that ... Views: 1794
How To Fix A Marriage When One Is Unhappy: What To Do When Your Not Happy In Your Marriage
I work separately with husbands and wives who are at their wits end on how to transform their unhappy marriage. Unhappy marriages produce a bi-product called tension. It's this constant tension that ... Views: 1793
When an obsession dominates us, it steals our will and saps all the pleasure out of life. We become numb to people and events, while our mind replays the same dialogue images, or words. In a conversation, we have little interest in what the other person is saying and soon talk about our ... Views: 1793
If “Welcoming Change” is a theme you would love to integrate in your life you might be asking yourself, “How do I get there?”
In the previous posts I’ve talked about how changing your thinking may change many other dynamics in your life. But, what about if YOU were the change?
What would ... Views: 1792
Dear Dr. Romance:
I'm having major anxiety about the guy I'm dating. I wanted to talk with him, but I lost my strength when I asked about his ex and he gave me an answer like, "There are things you need to know and things you don't need to know and when things don't affect ... Views: 1791
The Balance between Love and Logic
(Vinod Anand)
Can we achieve a balance between love and logic? Logic leads to material gains, while love warms the heart and leads to emotional and spiritual gain.
In life, both are required. The eternal battle between mind and heart is something all of ... Views: 1791
Why do some people need to be right, even if it adversely affects their relationships or degrades their own health and welfare?
Lately, I’ve become all too aware that I’m very fond of being right. As I pondered the premise, a real poser fell into my lap. What if there is no wrong? What if ... Views: 1791
Do we have the capacity to love everyone we encounter? It seems easy to love family members and friends, but what about other people that we encounter throughout life? What about the person who cut you off in traffic or who stabbed you in the back? Can we really love everyone ... Views: 1790
I Can Never Forget About Him
I can never forget about him…
He was the only one I ever loved that much…
I will never love someone else as I loved him…
I can never imagine myself being with someone else…
Do these phrases sound familiar? Have you been in that situation ... Views: 1790
My Husband Won't Have Sex with Me Anymore: Why Won't My Husband Touch Me
My husband won't have sex with me anymore is one of those phrases that you don't ever want to hear yourself saying. Intimacy is an integral part of a marriage and when it disappears, it changes the entire dynamic of the ... Views: 1790
Gracias… Danke… Merci… Thanks.
It’s not HOW you say it, but THAT you say it, that changes everything. Gratitude has the power to bind and to build… and if you’ve ever had someone actually thank you, you’ve felt its power.
“Thank you” isn’t just something that comes with “have a nice day” ... Views: 1790
When you select and send greeting cards to people, you’re making an effort to show them just how much they mean to you. That’s why finding just the right photo cards is so important and also, frequently, so very difficult.
Choosing exactly the right card is a tricky combination of finding ... Views: 1789
You'll find the idea of a party dress recorded over decades in art, literature, music and photography. The party dress comes from the phrase “the art of dressing for a party” and its protocols and styles have changed many times over the years. But nowadays, women want to find a dress that fits ... Views: 1789
Most people believe that money gets the world go round.
So did I… until my life changed in a way that things stopped being the way they used to be and started to change in ways that, at the time seemed harsh, difficult… even unfair…
… and then I decided to look for the gift in my present ... Views: 1788
It is not too hard to meet singles where you are if you look through an appropriate online dating site. There are many free dating sites that allow you to find single men and women with ease. All you have to do is use a few simple steps to get one of these free sites to work out right for ... Views: 1788