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- 3 Reasons Why Keeping Score is Good for Your Relationship - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Shela DeanYou’ve been told it’s death to your relationship but I’m going to give you three reasons why, when done right, keeping score is good for your relationship. 1. It’s a human nature “lemon” so you might as well make lemonade. Mother Teresa and Gandhi aside, we all keep score. It’s human nature ...
Views: 1851(1 vote) - 7 Ways to a Successful Psychic Reading - by Submitted on May 17, 2012 from Psychic GraceSeven Ways to a Successful Psychic Reading A psychic reading is an open channel of energies between yourself and your psychic. Consequently, your attitude and approach to the reading is as important as the psychic reader's intention. 1. Have a list of questions ready for the reading. It ...
Views: 1851(1 vote) - Heterosexual’s don’t advertise their sexuality, why should this lesbian? - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Michele OMaraHeterosexual’s don’t advertise their sexuality, why should I? Like any good lesbian, Jen was innocently strolling the aisles of Target one Sunday afternoon with her partner Sally, when they ran into her co-worker, John. Jen says, “Hey John. How are you?” “Great,” he replies while looking at ...
Views: 1851(2 votes) - The Power of Love - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2013 from Dr. Jane SimingtonThe Power of Love A number of years ago, while attending the Trauma Recovery Certification training, a teacher who worked with troubled youth remarked that by the end of the year she wanted all the children to know that God loves them. In response, I invited her to ponder if a better ...
Views: 1850(3 votes) - The Power of Yin - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2014 from Dr Ana GarciaThe TAO says: “The softness and yielding of water overcomes the hardness and strength of stone” TAOISM is a chinese philosophy which advocates simply the way and order of the Universe. Through stillness and receptivity (feminine or yin) natural intuition guides us in knowing when to act and ...
Views: 1850(2 votes) - WHERE IS LOVE? - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2013 from Tina TessinaProbably the most prevalent question I’m asked in my counseling practice is “Where is love?” Clients want to know why they can’t find a successful life partnership, why a friend or family member won’t respond as they would like, even why they don’t love themselves. In a perfect world, love ...
Views: 1850(4 votes) - How to Cope with the Loss of a Friend - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2014 from Tina TessinaI was recently sitting in my favorite coffee shop, and remembering my dear friend who used to meet me there and who died not long ago. As I get older, I’m experiencing more and more loss, and so are my friends of a similar age. Those of us who survive loss still have to “keep calm ...
Views: 1848 - How to Heal From An Affair – Surviving Infidelity - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2017 from Nicola BeerNothing is more painful and crushing than finding out the partner you promised to have and hold forever has cheated and lied to you. It can ton feel like your whole world has come crashing down like a ton of bricks. Feelings of anger, fear and hurt can flood your system. Along with the ...
Views: 1848 - ***Marriage Is Alive and Well In France - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2014 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. Recently, we traveled again to Europe to conduct more interviews with successfully married couples. Since we had not been to France in several years, we were beginning to believe the media reports about how the French did not like Americans. So, we ...
Views: 1846(5 votes) - Bad Sex Is Good - by Truth: Sooner or later, even sex with someone you love can become a routine.
Sex seems to promise so much. Skin aflame with unbearable bliss. Sobbing embraces of vulnerable rapture. Transcendent merger as utter oneness. But usually, sex is fairly mundane.
Men get hard, pump and grunt, squirt ...
Views: 1846 - How to Get Over Post-Dramatic Valentine’s Day Suffering Syndrome (PDVSS) - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2014 from Debra PayneSeeking love keeps you from the awareness that you already have it - that you are it. -- Bryon Katie Post-Dramatic Valentine’s Day Suffering Syndrome (PDVSS) is a syndrome that I made up to describe the 25 years of suffering that characterized my life, especially around February the 14th. ...
Views: 1846 - 11 Clever Questions Women Should Ask Men and Why - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2013 from Amy RosenthalyHow a person responds to a question can articulate a great deal. From how swift they answer, to how they handle the pressure, to their specific reply. Guys who give awkward responses usually handle those precise situations clumsy. A correct question can draw out certain features in a guy. Here ...
Views: 1845 - The Ultimate Christmas Gift For Your Man - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2010 from Kara OhYou may not realize it, but more than anything, that special man in your life wants to feel like you appreciate, respect, and accept him for who he is as a man. With that he’ll feel understood and understanding is–at least for him–the ultimate gift you can give him. Here’s an idea for a gift ...
Views: 1845(1 vote) - Your Relationship is in Trouble: Has Your Partner Changed or Just Your View of Then Vs. Now? - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2014 from Michael BroderThe title of a great and popular old Off-Broadway play captures one of the most common sentiments I've seen when working with distressed couples: I Love You, You're Perfect, Now Change. If you have discovered that for some reason you and your partner are no longer growing together as a couple, ...
Views: 1844 - Financial Abuse: Is Your Husband / Wife Financially Controlling? - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2017 from Nicola BeerFinancial Abuse – Relationship Advice for a Financially Controlling Husband / Wife: Financial conflict causes a great deal of unhappiness and tension in relationships. I received this email last week and they have given me permission to share it, here is the advice I gave Emily (name changed) ...
Views: 1843 - Going the distance - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2013 from KL AdamsIt is normally to hear people talk about the things they wish to start going. We hear it so much it becomes dull to our ears. We learn to ignore those statements. It makes no logical sense for us to encourage a person speaking of the things they ought to be doing. We already know by the ...
Views: 1842(1 vote) - Little Things That Can Help a Good Relationship Stay That Way - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2012 from William CottringerLittle Things That Can Help a Good Relationship Stay That Way By Bill Cottringer “A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results; a woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.” ~John Gray. ...but John Gray’s ...
Views: 1842 - Man and Woman: When Honeymoon Never Ends - by Submitted on May 25, 2011 from Oleg MoskvineRelationships between man and woman are one of the great mysteries of our world. A mystery can never be explained, can never be reduced to logical interpretation and can never be rationally understood. Love is a very fragile phenomenon because what has real intrinsic value in the world is very ...
Views: 1841 - ***Definition: Love Compatibility - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2008 from Stephanie AnastasioThe love compatibility factor is critically important to all successful loving relationships. It is our profound belief based on 25+ years of research on love and marriage that seven core values make up the love compatibility necessary to have a lasting and successful relationship or ...
Views: 1840 - The Holidays Can Bring Love and Happiness To You - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2015 from Carolyn GoldfarbThe Holidays is such a special time for me. It is all about the light of joy in my heart and my desire is to share that light with others. This time of year I start thinking about what I accomplished this past year, and what I want next year to look like. I start plotting and planning what I ...
Views: 1839 - 7 Tips For Supporting A Loved One Through Illness - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2012 from Stanley PopovichBy: Stan Popovich 1. Learn to communicate with your doctor and loved ones. Talk with your doctors on a regular basis so you can be informed of how to help your loved one deal with his illness. When you're at home, get into the habit of listening to your loved one and giving him advice on ways ...
Views: 1837 - Conscious Discernment: Distinguishing Your Values - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2013 from Moreen DuFermontConscious Discernment:Distinguishing Your Values The essential foundation for distinguishing who you are begins with recognizing, appreciating and honoring your prized individuality. Although this may sound simplistic, it is highly significant because oftentimes we are conditioned to give ...
Views: 1837(2 votes) - How To Restore Intimacy & Connection in a Struggling Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2017 from Nicola BeerWhy do couples struggle to stay intimate? This is a question that baffled me when I started working in this field. Many women would say to me “what do I do when the feelings in a marriage are gone?” or men I work with to save their marriage would share “when a marriage is over to one person can ...
Views: 1837 - Family Constellations: Fate Is Not Polite - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2009 from Suzi TuckerThe room is filled with people. Old, young, men, women, different styles, different postures, open curious faces, closed sceptical ones, intent, cautious, waiting. Bert Hellinger sits calmly at the front of the large, airy room, the well-known smile resting comfortably on his face. We have come ...
Views: 1836(1 vote) - Don’t Let Your Expectations about Your Partner & Relationship Harm You Just Before the Holidays! - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2011 from Doron GilEXPECTATIONS ABOUT PARTNERS AND RELATIONSHIPS We all have expectations about partners and relationships, and this is natural. However, if you hold on to unrealistic expectations hoping that they will be fulfilled, you are likely to harm your relationships. Becoming aware of your expectations ...
Views: 1835 - LOVE HAS THE POWER TO CAST OUT ALL FEAR - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Cari MurphyLOVE HAS THE POWER TO CAST OUT ALL FEAR In absolutely everything we think and do there are only two positions to think and act from. We can choose (consciously or unconsciously) between love or fear. When we act out of fear we literally create the experiences and conditions in our external ...
Views: 1835(1 vote) - FOR VALENTINE’S DAY: The Gift of Self Exploration & Expression - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2014 from Emma ViglucciOften times partners share their wondering about how exclusivity, monogamy, and fidelity is possible in a longterm relationship. It is usually the male partners who pose this question when their female counterpart is not present. I appreciate their honesty, risk and willingness to explore ...
Views: 1834(2 votes) - What Do Men Want In A Wife? Truth Exposed! - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2011 from Daniel TangThis article will talk about the number 1 truth about men, and will also answer the question of what do men want in a wife. Upon reading this article you will discover the most crucial thing about men and what they desperately need in a relationship no matter what. Without this, there's a good ...
Views: 1834(1 vote) - Repentance, Accepting God's Love for Us - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2012 from Keri Lawrence“In those days John the Baptist came preaching in the wilderness of Judea, and saying “‘Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand?’ For this is he who was spoken of by the prophet Isaiah saying: The voice of the one crying in the wilderness: Prepare the way of the Lord; Make His path ...
Views: 1832(1 vote) - Chances Of Getting Back Together After A Break Up - Does Ex Want To Get Back Together - Guide Me - by Submitted on Oct 17, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldChances of getting back together after a break up; When you have been dumped by your girlfriend you may feel like you need to get her back right away or you will lose them forever. This is the wrong decision to take because your ex does not want to hear from you now. She left to get away from ...
Views: 1831 - Discover How to Save Your Relationship From Falling Apart Due to Your Extreme Jealousy - by Submitted on Oct 09, 2011 from Mika MaddelaDo you constantly find yourself saying "my relationship is falling apart because of my jealousy?” Do you find yourself getting jealous over your boyfriend's female friends? Maybe you are going crazy over the sheer number of his female co-workers. Although you trust your boyfriend, you really ...
Views: 1831 - God fills the heart of married couples, says Rehana Matri - by Submitted on Oct 17, 2012 from Susan (Teacher Su) McKenzieCool Passion There is a case for arranged marriages says Rehana Matri. “Arranged marriages, even if the couples get engaged and get to know each other, are not marriages of the heart but of the brain. And so they are missing that fire that love marriages bring with them from day one. Some fires ...
Views: 1831(1 vote) - The "One and Only" does exist? - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from Zita FeketeThe “One and Only” does exist? In my opinion, this concept is the product of western civilization which assumes that you simply have to find your “true love”, progress your way through to the wedding ceremony; then you are primed to live “Happily Ever After”. The main emphasis is on the ...
Views: 1830(1 vote) - Why Relationships Are Often So Disappointing - The Little Prince Series - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2011 from David Robert OrdDaily Insight from the Story of The Little Prince Whenever we experience a chronic difficulty relating to another person, it's a mirror of unresolved issues within ourselves. If we fight with another person, it reflects the fact we are fighting with ourselves internally. The issue here ...
Views: 1830 - Pink Floyd As Relationship Experts? - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2012 from Geoff LaughtonOk, if you’re not a Pink Floyd fan – and/or haven’t listened to the Dark Side Of The Moon album (it’s been pointed out to me recently, by the way, how badly I’m dating myself by even using the term “album”) – this article may take you a bit more time to get in the groove of. There’s a song ...
Views: 1829 - Why Do Women Fake Orgasms? How to Spot a Fake Orgasm - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Melvin SheltonDifferent women have different reasons but it's a very well known fact that a lot of women out there have a tendency to fake their orgasms on a regular basis. If a girl is faking orgasms around you then it's more than obvious that she is not getting what she expects from you and she is not able ...
Views: 1829 - Are You Nice or Mean to Your Intimate Other? - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2012 from Joan ChamberlainA Deeper Look at Relationships In my talk with Julie this morning the subject of respect and just plain good manners, or lack of them, came up. I’ve had the same talk in the last four days with three other people, all of whom are either married or living together in committed ...
Views: 1828(1 vote) - Don’t Settle For The Mass Produced Canvas Prints Available - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2012 from Shane MartinIf you want to put up photo prints on the walls of your home, or give them as gifts for other people, then the chances are that you’ll spend a great deal of time going from shop to shop looking through row after row of canvas prints without managing to find something that’s just right. There is ...
Views: 1828 - Love Thyself - by Submitted on May 07, 2011 from Christina BelardinelliWe have all heard the expression “Know Thyself”. It is considered very sage advise, and yet how much more powerful and profound might be the injunction “Love Thyself”? Spring carries with it a the tremendous focus on romantic love (or lack thereof). It can be a difficult time for many of us. ...
Views: 1827 - HOW NOT TO SMOTHER A MAN - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2015 from Tatia DeeHave you ever wanted more attention from a man? Does it feel like you can never get enough sometimes? Well I know just how you feel! It's both fabulous and frustrating to want MORE in love. The problem is that this desire for more can lead to smothering out the flames of attraction ...
Views: 1826 - I Need Great Ways to Get My Girlfriend Back - This Will Make Your Ex Beg You to Take Her Back - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2012 from Patrick UadialeDid you know that there are many ways to "get my girlfriend back" you can try? Out of those many, there are a few that will work sometimes. There will be fewer still that work most of the time. When you combine some of the better methods for getting her back with a few changes in yourself you ...
Views: 1824 - Relationships: Can Relationships Be Unconditional? - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperTo love without conditions or requirements is often spoken about when it comes to evolved or adult relationships. And then there are also other needs that can come into this, such as; acceptance, approval, appreciation, respect, attention and many others. To be loved by another and to have ...
Views: 1822 - How Heavy is YOUR Heart? - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Lisa PhillipsOften, we all have one or two areas in our life where our hearts feel heavy. This could be any area which is important to you. Your heart could feel heavy with regards to relationships, finances, career or perhaps family issues. What if, for the next 4 weeks, we all took responsibility ...
Views: 1821 - How To Make Online Dating Work For You - by Submitted on May 29, 2013 from Elyse anneOnline dating... it's a love hate relationship isn't it? I'm sure you've heard of all the horror stories about online dating... girls being cheated, men spamming your inboxes and men who just wants to have fun... and I don't blame you for freaking out after hearing so many horror stories. I ...
Views: 1821 - Life is a Love Affair - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2010 from Sarah MariaLife is meant to be a love affair, an actual love affair. Life, as it truly is, is, in fact, a love affair. Now you can choose whether or not to experience life as such, whether or not to join in the dance. But no matter what, life itself always remains a true love affair, an intimate dance ...
Views: 1821(4 votes) - Love Lies in Disguise...Like A Faked Orgasm - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from Stacie CampanelliNo harm no foul they say about the little white lies we all tell. Yet what do we do whenever we find ourselves in compromising situations? How do we disguise the lies we tell in the name of, or for the sake of "love"? Love lies in disguise. Kept a secret so as not to rock the boat, we stuff how ...
Views: 1820 - Ten Things to Appreciate about Being Single - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2013 from Ivy AllenHuman beings always want what they don’t have instead of appreciating what they’ve got. We are always focused on our lack of something instead of our abundance of something. We always want what someone else has instead of enjoying what we have. We are always comparing our stuff to someone ...
Views: 1819 - Don’t Love Me to Death, Love Me to Life Let Me Leave - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2011 from Sebastian K. YoungWomen beware of men who feel inferior to you. Men that feel like they are inferior are deadly and their thinking process can be very twisted. It does not take much to set them off because they have a hairline trigger mindset. The inferior man always thinks that everyone is against him. They are ...
Views: 1818(1 vote) - Separated Husband Wants To Be Friends: My Husband Only Wants to Act like My Friend While We're Separated - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleySeparated Husband Wants To Be Friends: My Husband Only Wants to Act like My Friend While We're Separated Is separation good for marriage? The answer to this question is much simpler than you think. That's not to say that making the decision and taking the necessary steps is easy. If your ...
Views: 1818 - A Word About Responsibility in Public Speaking - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2014 from Dr Ana GarciaIn November 2008, I felt ready to go to the next stage in my public speaking. As I started to focus on leadership, in my mind I could suddenly project myself towards the future into a world of management and leadership much more efficient and compassionate, human and effective, than what I ...
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