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- ***Healing the Fear of Intimacy - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2009 from Margaret PaulWhy would someone be afraid of intimacy? Don't we all want to feel close and connected with someone?Yes, of course we want that, but there are very real fears that keep us from opening to emotional intimacy in a primary relationship.The FearsWhat is the first fearful thought you think when you ...
Views: 6466(4 votes) - ***How To Become Irresistibly Attractive - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2013 from Kathleen Sims, C.H.T., C.R.C.Part 1: Getting Down to What Really Matters The foundation of attractiveness is not external but internal and it is based on being clear and centered in your Self and your Purpose in Life. Often people think that there is a Purpose buried deep inside of them that they need to search a ...
Views: 2979(2 votes) - ***Is Your Partner Always Pointing Out Your Flaws? - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2009 from Margaret PaulSome people believe that it is caring to point out their partner's flaws - that it will help to make that person a better person. But the intent behind pointing out flaws is not loving - it is controlling.Pointing Out FlawsBy pointing out flaws, you hope that your partner will let go of the ...
Views: 17291(4 votes) - ***Why Married Men Adore You But the Single Guys Don't - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerAs a Dating and Relationship Coach for Women, I talk to many women who say they are buddies with many married and attached men; yet they don't get asked out on any dates. The complaint comes under one of these two categories: 1. She talks to a lot of men and they seem to like her; but none ...
Views: 2946(4 votes) - 3 Ideas for Inspiring Meaningful Love Quotes - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2010 from Ladan LashkariAre you looking for meaningful love quotes and inspiring romantic sayings? You know how sometimes nothing can describe your deep, strong love better than a wise and meaningful love quote. Even though some love quotations and sayings may sound simple, but they bring a strong, deep meaning ...
Views: 2137(2 votes) - 3 Things Successful Couples Do to Keep Their Marriage Strong - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Mika MaddelaDo you constantly ask yourself "how in the world am I going to save my marriage?" Are there times when you feel like saving your marriage is a long shot? Is it getting to the point where you can hardly think straight, sleep at night or worse, can't perform your job well? If any of these ...
Views: 2001(2 votes) - 3 Things To Do To Survive A Breakup - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Andrew HunterDid you get dumped and are you searching for ideas to help you pull through the breakup? Breakups are hard to deal with, but there are things that you can do that can help you in the end. Do not try to get into a rebound relationship. Being solo and alone again can be challenging, but believe ...
Views: 2474(2 votes) - 6 Essentials for a Happy Love Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2010 from James LeGrandThere is nothing like a truly happy love relationship! This level of relationship isn’t reserved for the lucky or the favored. Happy relationships have certain things in common. If you know what they are, you can find or create happiness in your love relationship. Here are the 6 Essentials for ...
Views: 1537(4 votes) - 7 Easy Steps on How to Save a Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2011 from Ray WeberJim works lengthy hours and Lisa doesn’t feel he's there for her. Lisa spends all of her time meeting the children’s wants and Jim feels that she doesn’t have time for his wants? Can this relationship be saved? Should it be saved? Right here’s how one can save a relationship. First, it's ...
Views: 994(2 votes) - 8 Most Common Dating Mistakes People Make on The Internet - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2011 from Jennifer Elizabeth Masters8 COMMON DATING MISTAKES MOST PEOPLE MAKE ON THE INTERNET Finding love We all want to be loved. It is a very profound human need. But how do we get it? Where do we look for it? Why don't we find it? ...
Views: 1782(2 votes) - Ask Lisa Daily: She Wont’t Stop Calling My Boyfriend! - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2009 from Lisa DailyDear Lisa, I’ve been with my boyfriend for three years. I moved back with my parents temporarily because we were fighting a lot. While I was home, he was seeing this girl he works with. I was really upset about everything even though she said she never slept with him. She assured me that she ...
Views: 4757(6 votes) - Ask The Asia Dating Coach - Andrew Chow - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2011 from Andrew ChowSTUDIES have shown that late marriage is a becoming common phenomenon in modern, developed countries. Singapore, Korea, Japan are three of the worst hit countries in Asia, and Malaysia is fast becoming the infamous 4th. The more developed a country, the higher the mean age for marriage. So ...
Views: 2543(2 votes) - Be Kind to and Love Your Enemies! But How and Why? - by Submitted on May 21, 2010 from Dr. Shirley Cheng, Blind Author with VisionHow do you feel when you picture your loved ones in your mind? Does thinking about your good friends and family bring a smile upon your face? Now, picture in your mind those you really don't like. How do you feel when you think about your "enemies"? Do you feel angry, sad, hurt, frustrated, ...
Views: 9507(4 votes) - Building Connection and Intimacy in Our Relationships - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2010 from Debra ReblePermission to break with tradition: Give each other permission to take time for yourselves and each other. Be open to creating new experiences and breaking the predictable patterns of what you’ve always done around the holidays. Take a short get-away, give each other massages, and spend more ...
Views: 1208(2 votes) - Creating your Destiny - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Bruce MillsWe can create our Destiny by using our Minds and showing effort. Effort is so important in anything we do in life. For instance if you don’t show any effort at work, how successful will you be? If you don’t show any effort in your relationships, how successful will they be? If you don’t show any ...
Views: 1294(2 votes) - Dating Advice: Be A Match For What You Want - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Susie and Otto Collins“There are no good men left in the world!” At least this is how it feels to Liz. She has met and dated many men, but none of them are what she's looking for. Liz has had horrible experiences with men. She's dated guys who were disrespectful, guys who took her for granted and guys who lied ...
Views: 1659(2 votes) - Do shy guys meet women? - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2011 from Christina GarabedianDear Tina, I’m a shy guy and don’t know what to say when I meet a woman. I’m afraid I’ll never get another date. What am I going to do? ShyGuy Dear ShyGuy, First, let me tell you that you are definitely not the only guy that feels this way. Not everybody has to have a very ...
Views: 1363(2 votes) - Do Women Have An Agenda? - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Radomir SamardzicOh, yes they do! Now, let’s see how this works. I understand that it is a generalization, but we are generally either men or women, so this would apply to all of us to a larger or smaller degree whether we are aware of it or not. Everyone knows what a man’s agenda is, at least at the ...
Views: 5103(2 votes) - Dr. Romance's Guidelines for Not Fighting - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2014 from Tina TessinaFighting a lot? Dr. Romance recommends: No matter what you’re fighting about: money, sex, kids or something else, the fighting is an indication that your communication isn’t working. If this happens only occasionally, such as when one or both of you are tired or stressed; it’s not too big ...
Views: 1384(2 votes) - Finding True, Blessed Love - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2009 from SelfGrowth.com ArticlesHave you always wished to attract your life partner, a love that is blessed and sacred, but have been having difficulty making your dream come true? We have been married in what we call Sacred Partnership since 1992 and would like to share the process that we used to find each other. This ...
Views: 1445(2 votes) - He’s Wonderful… But - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Kara OhI often get requests for advice from women who tell me how wonderful their man is. Then they go into all the things that make them unhappy. If this sounds like you, I would invited you to do an exercise that can be very revealing. On a piece of paper draw a line down the middle from top to ...
Views: 1578(2 votes) - How I Used The Law Of Attraction To Attract Mr. Right - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2011 from Jennie Reve-AlmodovarNote: If you don't know about The Law Of Attraction, you may not understand what I am trying to get across in this article. If you focus on what you desire, and think on paper, results happen... In this article I explain how I used The Law Of Attraction to find Mr. Right, and you can ...
Views: 3733(2 votes) - How to Find Love and Comfort—Letting Go of the Past by Releasing Emotional Baggage—Allowing Love to Come Forward - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2010 from Cindy L. HerbThe Premise: The Search for Love Everywhere I look, I see so many people searching for love. I know people who either have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, or a significant other whom they are intimate with, yet they tell me they feel lonely and without love. I even have friends who are married who ...
Views: 2280(10 votes) - Human Harmonics ~ The Love Vibration ~ Part#4 - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2010 from Erica BoersmaLove is the key ... the harmonic resonance ... open the door and see... behind all things ... is only love. I am, as all are. We are creator light beings in an amazing unveiling of our own story. In order for us to be 3rd dimensional beings we had to forget. We chose to experience this ...
Views: 4470(2 votes) - I Will Change The World for You! (Inspiring Love Poem) - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2009 from Danish AhmedI Will Change The World for You Different perspectives I will share with you. You will get to know you. In yourself you will see what you did not see before. In the world you will create what you were meant for. Choice flows like a magic carpet Because the freedom is in your ...
Views: 5367(2 votes) - If Affection is Emotional Nutrition - How Hungry Are You? - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Aileen SmithOn a scale of 1 – 10, how emotionally fulfilled do you feel in your relationships? Like everything else in our lives, the first port of call for our personal wellbeing has to be with ourselves. So, how do we affectionately nurture ourselves? To be emotionally content and happy within ...
Views: 2746(2 votes) - Jammin for Love - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2011 from Ellen WhitehurstThere’s a reason that State Fairs are so commonplace in August you know. In fact the American county fair is the very symbol of a celebration of plenty, of community and of pride in the fruits of labor. VERY much a ripple effect from what was called ‘The First Harvest’ during the magical, ...
Views: 1463(2 votes) - Losing, Learning, and Loving - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2012 from Rosalie KahnWhen I close my eyes I can see myself tiptoeing through my sister’s house in Virginia Beach that warm June day. I very carefully opened the front door, making sure I didn’t make any noise. I checked to see if I had the key with me, and closed the door ever so quietly. I started to walk so ...
Views: 1118(2 votes) - Love is not just for Valentines: it’s intrinsic to our very survival - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2010 from Karen SkehelLove is not just for Valentines: it’s intrinsic to our very survival For most of us, loving and being loved makes a real difference to how we feel. You may or may not know that the absence of love has been proven to impact our very survival. In researching love, I came across many studies ...
Views: 826(2 votes) - Love is the Ultimate Superfood - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsHave you ever thought of love as an essential nutrient in your life? That's right. It takes more than just food to keep us healthy. I call all the parts of life that feed us, primary food. Relationships, spirituality, career and physical activity all fall into that category. Think about it. ...
Views: 703(2 votes) - Love Life and Romantic Myths: Avoid Falling Into These 4 Traps - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2009 from Scott & Stephen PetulloAfter observing thousands of love relationships as a matchmaker, and over 25 years of empirical research involving relationships, spirituality, and personality assessment, including writing a book about soul mates, we’ve concluded that there are many love life expectations and traps that ...
Views: 1410(10 votes) - Make long distance relationships work by Rosemary Price Psychic - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomMake long distance relationships by work Rosemary Price psychic. Most people seem to be seeking casual relationships now. For anyone seeking a serious, committed relationship it makes it harder to find someone who delivers that. Make long distance relationships work or leave them alone. This is ...
Views: 3826(2 votes) - My “Woman” is better than yours! - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2011 from Cathy HartmanOut beyond ideas of wrongdoing and right-doing there is a field. I’ll meet your there. – Rumi Have you ever found yourself looking at another woman and thinking something like, “She doesn’t have a clue. Why doesn’t she even bother to look in the mirror when she goes out, does she know how ...
Views: 1143(2 votes) - Opening Your Heart to Love in Order to Find the Strength to Forgive - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Thadddeus FergusonJust suppose you could open your heart to love in order to find the strength to forgive. How often have you found yourself experiencing some kind of circumstance in which you find forgiving someone (or maybe even yourself) nearly impossible. In the past you may have thought that holding ...
Views: 1490(2 votes) - Powerful Self-Love Technique to Improve Your Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2009 from Emmanuel DagherMost people know that it is important to love oneself. By loving & nurturing ourselves, we satisfy the “void” that we often look to others to fill, and which rarely ever works. Whether it is a romantic partnership or friend relationship, the old standard may start off wonderful, but then we ...
Views: 2244(4 votes) - Relationship Fitness - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2013 from Susan DerryJust as muscles atrophy, or shrink and weaken, with lack of use relationships atrophy when the actions required to keep them strong are neglected. Most people understand that if you want to keep your body fit and healthy then you have to exercise fairly consistently. We do not gain strength or ...
Views: 1236(2 votes) - Saving a Failing Marriage: Tips to Save Your Troubled Marriage - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2010 from Gerry RestriveraMarriage is not always a bed of roses, in every relationship there are ups and downs. Relationships are complicated and you have to deal with it when yours is going through tough times. Although the number of divorce is growing, always remember that divorce is not the only option. Saving a ...
Views: 4850(2 votes) - Sharing some Quotations on the Power of Love to Make a Difference - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2010 from Craig LockArticle Title: Sharing some Quotations on the Power of Love to Make a Difference Shared by: Craig Lock Key Words: Inspiration, Love, words of inspiration, empowerment, Spirituality Craig's new blog with thoughts and extracts from various writings is at craiglock.wordpress.com and ...
Views: 1170(2 votes) - The Best Gift You Can Give Your Loved Ones This Holiday Season Is- Your Time - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2011 from Tamara ShirerRetail stores are beginning the Black Friday sales early this year as they open their doors on Thanksgiving evening. While many consumers will scurry through the aisles in search of sale items, it makes me wonder if our culture has lost touch with what’s truly valuable. Don’t get me wrong, I ...
Views: 1295(2 votes) - The Big Leap: Getting Out Of The Excellence Trap And Into Your Zone Of Genius - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsWhile Kathlyn is in Honolulu to teach one of our 3-Day conscious loving seminars, I'm happily immersed in the run-up to the publication on April 21 of my new book, The Big Leap. It's all about what we've named the Upper Limit Problem. Between now and when the book comes out, I'd like to share ...
Views: 1050(2 votes) - The Differences Between men and Women - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2010 from Michael Fehlauer1. Difference One – Facts vs. Feelings: Between men and women the most obvious difference is men love to share facts, women share feelings. To the Men – Be willing to enter her world of emotions. The facts are not as important to her as you being willing to listen to her. Be patient and allow ...
Views: 2304(2 votes) - The Inner Mate: Key to Loving Relationships - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2009 from david quigleyPerhaps you are single and looking for a love relationship. You might be married and looking for a way to make your relationship work more smoothly for you. Or you might be enduring the heartache of a painful separation. If any of these situations sounds like yours, your Inner Mate could provide ...
Views: 1569(6 votes) - The Power of Yin - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2014 from Dr Ana GarciaThe TAO says: “The softness and yielding of water overcomes the hardness and strength of stone” TAOISM is a chinese philosophy which advocates simply the way and order of the Universe. Through stillness and receptivity (feminine or yin) natural intuition guides us in knowing when to act and ...
Views: 1850(2 votes) - The Schoolroom of Love - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2010 from M.J. RyanOne of the greatest inspirational writers of the 19th century was a man named Henry Drummond who wrote a best-selling little book called The Greatest Thing In the World. In it, he said, “The world is not a playground; it is a schoolroom. Life is not a holiday but an education. And the one ...
Views: 1657(2 votes) - Transform Your Relationship with Love Play Technology - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2009 from SelfGrowth.com ArticlesWith the divorce rate looming over our society, there’s a lot of pressure and fear about how to keep a relationship vibrant and filled with love. Here’s a way to keep that sparkle of love alive or to reignite a sparkle that might currently be at a low fizzle. It’s often said that it takes work ...
Views: 1520(2 votes) - Trust. Its Important - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2011 from Stella SinglesTrust. It isn’t a tangible thing, but its importance outweighs any physical gift you could ever receive. What does it mean to trust someone though, and why is it important? Well the easy answer, is safety. In a relationship you want to feel safe and confident with your partner. If you feel ...
Views: 1544(2 votes) - Various Stages of Relationships - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisEveryone has different versions of what stages of relationships should be. Some people commonly engage in relationships that include stalking and restraining orders, while others engage in relationships that involve intense passion and marriage the next day. These are considered unhealthy stages ...
Views: 1038(2 votes) - Virtual Love At First Sight - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2009 from Dr. Erica GoodstoneIt was love at first sight. Joe Stravisky, a very tall (over 7 feet), regal and sexy man, was wearing "black, ornamented, dazzling boots" that caught Heart Wishbringer by surprise. This porcelain-skinned beauty with white hair or black hair depending on her mood, was thunderstruck and instantly ...
Views: 1800(2 votes) - We Teach People How to Treat Us - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsI think Dear Abby said this a long, long time ago. I've always remembered it and I use it frequently in therapy. "We teach people how to treat us." How do we do this? By the way we treat ourselves. If we treat ourselves with respect we will be treated with respect. Likewise, if we ...
Views: 2981(2 votes) - We Teach People How To Treat Us - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2010 from Maria Khalife"We teach people how to treat us. " ~ Dr. Phil McGraw, Life Law #8 I believe you and I teach people how to treat us. We do this constantly by the silent signals we send out, and we seldom become aware of it until our discomfort forcefully bring it to our attention. Let's investigate how to ...
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