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- The Three Stages of Mending a Broken Heart - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2005 from Dorothy ThompsonThe Three Stages of Mending a Broken Heart You've been dumped. Short of throwing yourself off the nearest bridge, you resort to hiding in your bed for days, comforted only by the fact that at least you have a year's supply of Moonpies by your bedside and your answering machine is on the alert in ...
Views: 4449 - The Thrill Of Attraction - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2008 from Benjamin DeveyNew love is like a fresh start. During dating, everyone puts on their best face. People want to make their best impressions. It isn't so much a deception to hide past embarrassments, as it is an opportunity to discover your strengths in love. Attraction is new fresh perspective, a glimpse of ...
Views: 1590 - The Top 10 Reasons to Leave Your Partner (According to Fear) - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2011 from Sheryl PaulFear’s entire mission in life is to keep you safe from the risk of loving. It sees love as a dangerous cesspool where the invisible sea creatures lurk beneath the dark surface, waiting to snatch you into their murky waters. Fear believes that if you risk your heart through committed loving you ...
Views: 4578 - THE TOP 10 WAYS TO RECOVER FROM A LOVE TRAUMA SYNDROME - by * A psychological condition that develops in response to a damaged or failed love relationship.
1. Recognize that romantic breakups can be traumatic, and that your feeling devastated -- even for a long time -- is nothing to be ashamed of.
2. Do Not Wallow. Commit to an active stance -- ...
Views: 7096 - The Top 3 Ways To Reconnect With An Ex Girlfriend - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2013 from Michael LoisMaybe you’re Esten flooding idesas trying to know the best ways to reconnect with an ex girlfriend, you have to consider that context matters for trying to reconnect with a former work well in some situations. While these forms may not work at all in other situations. Still, it’s very good ...
Views: 3565 - The Top 5 Unforgiveable Mistakes When Creating A Romantic Poem - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2012 from Michael WalterFolks have been composing love poems for thousands of years. There are classical Greek legendary poems about dangerous love between Goddesses and mortals. The Romans penned intense love poems about love amongst war and terrible combat. From ancient Britain come romantic love poems of forbiddin ...
Views: 1261 - The Top 9 Marital Blunders - by Submitted on May 14, 2006 from mike sheryWhen thinking about my patients, I've noticed a pattern to the marital conflicts that they share. Here's my list of the top ten things that put your marriage at higher risk for break-up and the things you must do to strengthen it. 1) Putting-Down Spouse's Friends/Family Don't badmouth your ...
Views: 853 - The Top rated 5 Mistakes I Produced When I Attempted to Win My Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from Michael LoisWhen my current fiancé and I split up temporarily, all I wanted was to win my boyfriend back. I'd had associates who went through tough splits too, and all of them changed substantially afterward when it came to their exes. They weren't able to get their boyfriends back, but I learned from ...
Views: 1063 - The Trick or Treats of Dating - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2011 from Lori PinkertonIn the spirit of the upcoming Halloween holiday, I offer you dating’s top “5 Tricks.” The tricks, that keep you alone and feeling frustrated in dating and love”. I would be a bad witch if I did not give you the corresponding “5 Treats” that dispel these myths once and for all! Ladies, I am ...
Views: 1354 - The True Deal About How to Say I Love You - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2009 from Glenn SmithBeing in love is a wonderful thing, yet being able to know how to say I love you may be harder than you think. People who enjoy listening to others saying nice things about them often feel they are loved but according to how to say I love you, what you say is much less important than HOW you ...
Views: 1320 - The Truth About How To Regain The Love Of Your Ex - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2012 from Michael LoisSometimes we accept that everyone seems to have some sort of advice on how to regain the love of your ex. Well, I’m going to stay away from the philosophy of the people and give you some more tips, facts that really will help you get back with your ex. Let’s see the simple things. The truth ...
Views: 2326 - The Truth About Love - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2012 from Jennifer LyallYou may have heard the expression "looking for love in all the wrong places" and that is something I'd like to have a conversation about in this article. I have had moments in my life where I have been searching for love. As a child seeking love from my parents and siblings; as a young ...
Views: 1313 - The Truth About Love (and my thoughts on Instagram) - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2018 from Sheryl Paul“Love is one of the great enlargers of the person because it requires us to ‘take in’ the stranger and to understand him, and to exercise restraint and tolerance as well as imagination to make the relationship work.” – May Sarton, Journal of a Solitude I recently decided to join Instagram. ...
Views: 964 - The Truth About Love, Hurt, and Anger - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2016 from Janet PfeifferWe're all familiar with the phrase, "love hurts". Too often, we take a witty cliché and assign truth to it. We then refer to it in times when it brings comfort, helps us to make a decision, or emphasizes a point. In reference to "love hurts", those who have been betrayed by someone they loved ...
Views: 2029 - The Truth About What Happens to Your Vagina When You Haven't Had Sex in a While - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2019 from bhagwan mehtaSex can reduce stress, make it easier to sleep, and improve heart health (all that bumping and grinding counts as a workout, you know). Considering these amazing benefits, what really happens to your body when you stop having it—whether you're taking a timeout on ...
Views: 1142 - The Two Main Goals of Personal Development - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2018 from William CottringerThe Two Main Goals of Personal Development By Bill Cottringer “Small daily improvements are the key to staggering long-term results.” ~Anonymous. Our personal development efforts in learning, growing and improving are aimed at increasing two very important capacities: (a) our ...
Views: 1204 - The Two Most Important Qualities You Need in a Partner - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2019 from Sheryl PaulAs evidenced by our high divorce rate and, even more disheartening, how few long-term marriages are thriving and fulfilling, it’s clear that our culture has it all wrong when it comes to love. Not only do we project our gold and gods onto our partners instead of taking responsibility for our own ...
Views: 1016 - The Ultimate Relationship Advisor - Your Psychic! - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Alan BridgesAs I write this, I have just completed what has been nothing short of a marathon session of relationship readings, counselling and agony aunt advice. You would think that it was the fourteenth of February and not the end of April based on how many people want to know whether they should stay, go ...
Views: 1699 - The Uncovered Real Truth About The Way to Get Your Ex Again - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2012 from Michael LoisAlright so everyone seems to have some type of feeling on how to get your ex back again. Nicely I will keep away from philosophy and give you some specifics that may essentially help you get back with them. Let us evaluate details the Steve Positions way and maintain points easy. What was the ...
Views: 645 - The untold facts about Vashikaran Specialist in Bangalore - by Submitted on Sep 07, 2020 from specialist astrologerEveryone wants to be happy in their life. In a city like Bangalore people suffered from many types of problems related to love, marriage, family dispute, and many other. They can’t find the solution because some problems can’t solve easily. Vashikaran specialist in bangalore bengaluru,karnataka ...
Views: 458 - The Way to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back From A new Boyfriend - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2012 from Michael LoisWhen your ex girlfriend begins dating somebody else right after a breakup and also you nevertheless have feelings for her, it puts you in a real dilemma. Do you attempt to put her out of your thoughts and just move on or do you formulate a technique to win her back? Understanding how you can ...
Views: 7956 - The way to Win A person Back Immediately after a Breakup - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2011 from Michael LoisGoing by means of a breakup is never ever as effortless as they say it'd be. You'll find bound to be ups and downs in a relationship. When issues get ugly, breaking up might happen to be the most beneficial answer then. You may still get back together with her. All you'll need could be the ...
Views: 1047 - The Wisdom of Longing - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2014 from Sheryl PaulAt the core of each human being rests a heart full of love, tinged with sadness and aching with longing. Some would say this longing points to our awareness of our original separation from a divine source, the knowing that we are all one yet painfully separated from each another because of this ...
Views: 2125 - The Women In Love Stories - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2010 from Dale SadlerA few weeks ago I wrote an article about what men could learn from heroes in the romance novels their wives love so much. Read the article, “Living Your Own Love Story” here. Well, what can women learn from the main female characters in these stories? In her book, Writing the Great American ...
Views: 1232 - The Women’s Sex Appeal - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Donna MartinUsually the sexiest women don’t call men names and they don’t sympathize with other women about how their men disappoint them. The sexiest women I know sincerely like men. They think men are pretty great. Rather than being threatened by a man’s testosterone, they respect how it makes men ...
Views: 8395 - The Wordallogic - Backup Plans for Love - Protecting Yourself from the Elements! - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2013 from Aleasa WordBackup Plans for Love- Protecting Yourself from the Elements! By Aleasa M. Word (pub March 12, 2012) Many people don’t want to enter into relationships because they’ve been hurt very deeply. They complain about the hurt that comes, in their minds, naturally with relationships. They talk ...
Views: 1340 - The Worthless Husband You've Created - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2010 from Rhonda NeelyI received an email this morning about a woman who set herself a goal to find 100 happily married couples that have been married for 10 years or longer. She allowed herself 6 months to complete her task. It took her 2 years to find 100 couples that have been happily married for 10 years or ...
Views: 3517 - The Worthless Wife You've Created - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2010 from Rhonda NeelyWe all want to be loved, don't we? Every man and woman sets out to find love as early as their teen years. It's inevitable! We all want to find love and be loved. We find someone special, get married, and things change! Husbands, have you ever done these things? Do you blame your wife when ...
Views: 13180 - The ‘outer’ course of sexual pleasure - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2019 from bhagwan mehtaDo you believe that sex and intercourse are synonymous? If yes, how would you feel if we say that they are actually not? Sex is not limited to penetration and it does not even have to be included in sex at all. Just outercourse can do the needful. This is what science says. According to a survey ...
Views: 958 - There Are Three Kinds Of Emotions - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from David SamuelThere are three kinds of emotions, those related to the animal level or physical body, the ego/personality and those related to the ‘Something More’ that is referred to by people who feel there is something more to life. As the human body and personality change from day to day and year to ...
Views: 6421 - There Was Chemistry. What Happened? - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2011 from Kara OhA woman wrote to me explaining that she’d been on a few dates and thought it was going great. Fun conversations, good time, kissing and a bit of petting, but no sex yet. She definitely felt strong chemistry. Then, wham, he wrote and said he wasn’t that attracted to her. My advice: I know it ...
Views: 1520 - There's Something Broken But It's Not You - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2019 from Sheryl PaulI spend a lot of time thinking about our culture, and it’s a topic I bring up almost every week in my blog and courses in some form. Lately, I’ve been thinking about how terribly sad and actually tragic it is that culture should support its members into becoming more of who they are, but we, in ...
Views: 1005 - These Signals Can Reveal To You That Your Separation Was a Mistake - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2012 from Michael LoisIn love, humans try to protect ourselves from those who might do us harm and those with greater compatibility and chemistry. But like everything in life, we do make mistakes and false judgments. These signals will reveal if your breakup was a mistake. Your friends and family feel that was the ...
Views: 581 - They’re Not Trying To Hurt You - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2022 from Joanna IntaraShe's not trying to hurt you when you open up, but you're convinced she is, and the same old activation stories get whipped up and cause nothing but pain. You're missing the giant vulnerabilities all around that haven't been addressed or dignified to release the pressure around the tender ...
Views: 711 - Things I Have Learned About Relationships. Part II - by Here are some more lessons and concepts learned by me, my clients and friends in the process of attracting and creating great relationships. Which one resonates with you and if applied would immediately change your relationship for the better?
Sexual intimacy has very little to do with ...
Views: 858 - Things I Have Learned About Relationships. Part III - by Here are yet more lessons and concepts learned by me, my clients and friends in the process of attracting and creating great relationships. Which of these gems will you chose to use?
Supporting men financially takes away their self esteem. Give them moral support instead.
The best ...
Views: 899 - Things To Ask Your Ex - Questions To Ask Your Ex After A Breakup - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldThings to ask your ex; When dealing with a relationship break up, you will find there are five stages that a person will go through. Understanding this is a natural process and knowing where you are in this process can help you cope. Questions to ask your ex after a breakup; A complete ...
Views: 2405 - Things to Cut From Your Wedding Anniversary That Really Aren't Necessary - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2012 from Ashish KumarMany times in the name of having a spectacular and unprecedented wedding we go for many an undue expenditure which is not at all necessary. By keeping your eyes open and considering the alternatives it is possible to cut out some things. For example if you start early and take the help of those ...
Views: 903 - Things to Do to Get Your Ex Lover Back - Some of Them Might Surprise You - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2013 from Uadiale AmberYou've fought. You've cried. Now you've called it quits. The only problem is that all you can think about now are things to do to get your ex lover back. It's more common than you might think. Some might refer to it as break up remorse. Whatever you call it, your entire being is dedicated ...
Views: 953 - Things to help to add more zing to your Playtime - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2012 from Justin HarigMay be you are among those couples for whom bedtime means a playtimeas this is the time when they are fully dedicated to spend quality time with partner without getting involved in any meetings or appointments. May be you are among those couples for whom bedtime means a playtime as this is ...
Views: 738 - Things to Talk to Girls: Ideas to Help You Start Conversation with a Girl - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2011 from Simone BrownDo you question what kind of stuff to discuss with girls, without making a fool of yourself? Here's the 3 ideas to guide you. Because they are very different from each other, there are no best things to talk to girls. You can talk about any topic with them, although the topic would actually ...
Views: 1164 - Think Twice Before You Contact Your Ex Again - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Mika MaddelaMany people want to contact their ex after a breakup. It could be that they want to repair the relationship and give it another shot or perhaps just gain closure after the breakup. Regardless, you must understand that in order to communicate with your ex in a peaceful manner, there are some ...
Views: 2469 - This is How I Learned to Love My Husband Well - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2019 from Sheryl PaulIt took me many years to learn how to love my husband well, and, of course, I’m still learning. Like many people, I didn’t grow up witnessing a healthy model of true partnership. My parents, like all parents, did the best they could and they gave me many gifts, but I’m sure even they would ...
Views: 876 - This is my story: what I've learned from becoming a cam girl - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2019 from Emily WatsonMy name is Monica and I am 24. Looking back at how much I've changed in the last couple of years, I understood it was not about maturing, but actually about me becoming a cam girl. This job, which I first minimized, thinking it was easy and even quite embarrassing, has fundamentally changed me ...
Views: 792 - This is One of the Scariest Things Humans Do - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2020 from Sheryl PaulWhenever I meet someone new and we talk about how my 15-year old son is a pilot, they look at me sideways and say something like, “You’re a brave mom to let him fly.” As I’ve written about in other posts, allowing him to fly does, indeed, drag me into a regular practice of facing my fears and ...
Views: 1130 - This is What it Takes to Heal from Shame and Anxiety - by Submitted on May 17, 2019 from Sheryl PaulWhen I was in graduate school twenty-five years ago, we learned many essential principles and tools for becoming a skilled healer in the counseling arts. We thoroughly covered various modalities, including the depth psychological perspective that informs all of my work, and spent countless hours ...
Views: 905 - This Never Goes Out of Style - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2019 from Mary HorsmanFall fashion trends are popping up all over the place. Every season calls for new, fresh looks... There’s the temptation to get swept up in the wave of want... That sense that you need what you don’t have... Which is why it’s important to focus on what you do have. (Isn’t it ...
Views: 1087 - This Not The Right To Win Back Your Ex - by Submitted on May 09, 2013 from Michael LoisIf you just broke up with someone special, back into the relationship with him or her may seem impossible. But there is a way to reconnect with your ex partner. You should definitely learn how to get your ex. You should not do to get your ex ... In fact feel angry or depressed about the ...
Views: 700 - This Will Make Your Ex Boyfriend Sorry And Come Running Back - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversThis Will Make Your Ex Boyfriend Sorry And Come Running Back; You and your boyfriend might have had an argument and he said he didn't love you anymore. Now you are devastated and think you have lost him for good. But, people say things in the heat of anger that they don't mean and later they are ...
Views: 11298 - This Works Like Magic to Convince Him to Stay With You: He Wants To Leave Me What Do I Do - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2017 from Michael UadialeDo you still love him? Are you still willing to give your relationship a second try? Will you be able to convince him to stay and tell him the words "love me again?" Second chances especially when it comes to relationships can be hard. Contrary to the saying that love is sweeter the second ...
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