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- The Golden Days of Mills and Boon Romances - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2012 from katherine buxtonWhen I was a student in college, I had to frequently use the public library for research purposes (and off course as a meeting place for friends, but let’s keep that as a separate issue shall we?!). I noticed that there was a whole section of the library which was devoted to romantic novels and ...
Views: 1169 - The Meaning of Life - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2012 from Pam GuthrieWhat do you think the meaning of life is? I’ve spent a lot of time wondering about that. I wonder about a lot of things. I have a current, working theory about the meaning of life. It’s working pretty well for me these days so I figured I would share it with you. There is lots of stuff to ...
Views: 1169 - Healthy Relationships - by Submitted on May 27, 2011 from Guy RussellHealthy relationships are dependent on the health of the people in the relationship. This is not exclusive to physical health; in fact the physical health is lower in importance for realizing a healthy relationship. Mental and Spiritual health are the most influencing factors when it comes to ...
Views: 1168 - Relationships: Do People Have Fulfilling Relationships If They Are Attractive? - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone is attractive, it can be normal for other people to believe that they are intelligent, well-adjusted and successful, among other things. And, this is something that they can believe even if they don’t know anything about them. This person’s appearance will then be what typically ...
Views: 1168 - Vulnerability - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2015 from Benedikt DommesWe don´t like to be vulnerable. We don´t like to be at the mercy of pain and sadness or any other intense emotion that runs through our body. We like to be in control of what we feel and experience, to defend ourselves whenever we are hurt, to appear strong and powerful. So we run from our ...
Views: 1167 - Improve Closeness with Your Spouse - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2011 from P. BirminghamYou and your spouse have been with each other for awhile and things are getting boring. Your love-making life is in the dumps and you'd like to liven things up. So what should you and your wife do? Well there are quite a few things you can do, but you and your wife must be creative and open. It ...
Views: 1166 - YOU ARE NEVER TOO OLD - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2013 from Valerie VinarYOU ARE NEVER TOO OLD Really...you're not, whether you want to rekindle the romance that once was with the person you are with, or if alone, to find love. August is National Romance Awareness month. Time for you to let love in, and send it out. How to do that? First, ask yourself: ...
Views: 1165 - Are porn sites the reason for more men to go MGTOW? - by Submitted on May 10, 2020 from Eric DesuzaPorn has become quite popular over the years, especially within the last two years, and that is all thanks to a growing community called MGTOW. All over the world, men have started making a decision not to be involved with women any longer… but what exactly does that mean? How have they come to ...
Views: 1165 - Things to Talk to Girls: Ideas to Help You Start Conversation with a Girl - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2011 from Simone BrownDo you question what kind of stuff to discuss with girls, without making a fool of yourself? Here's the 3 ideas to guide you. Because they are very different from each other, there are no best things to talk to girls. You can talk about any topic with them, although the topic would actually ...
Views: 1164 - How to Make Love to a Woman: Turn Into a Sex God With Killer Bedroom Tricks - by Submitted on Mar 06, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow to Make Love to a Woman: Turn Into a Sex God With Killer Bedroom Tricks Do you know that your skills in the bedroom are very important if you would like to sustain a relationship for long? Here's why. A woman might not know what she really wants in a boyfriend, but she would certainly ...
Views: 1160 - Building Intimate Relationships…. By Massaging your Ears?? - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2016 from Dayr Rich“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” -Robert Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land Do you want that relationship that lasts a lifetime and is nurturing for both of you? That relationship that truly makes you feel like the amazing human ...
Views: 1159 - Get My Man Back - How To Win Your Man Back After Break Up - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldGet my man back; If you have experienced a break up with your boyfriend and now want him back, how are you going to do it? The trouble with many in this situation is trying to figure out how to get an ex back. Many times it is done all wrong or for the wrong reasons and the situation only gets ...
Views: 1158(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: she will only participate if i ask - by Submitted on May 11, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: This is a diificult one for you, my daughter's stepdaughter was molested by my father about two years ago, because of it we had financial issues, had to leave our home and buy another and go through a long court proceeding, which ended several months ago. A month later, my ...
Views: 1156(1 vote) - Back on The Dating Scene - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeWhat’s the best way a guy who has been out of the dating scene for some time can get back in the game? Before venturing out into the dating world, take time to figure out who you are and what you are about such as listing a personal inventory of goals, lifestyle priorities, what works and ...
Views: 1155 - The 6 Truths You Must Know in Relationship! - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Anyaele Sam1. Exploitation is not partnership. A virile or impetuous man and his girl should trust themselves in relationship, they should have just regard for each other and should not do not take unfair advantage of each other. A girl who is a ball and chain to her man do not give him a shot in the arm ...
Views: 1155 - Relationship Intimacy: Partners Coaching Each Other Towards Intimacy - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2013 from Penny CohenDo you love your partner but don’t feel like you are “in love” anymore?” At the beginning of a relationship there’s usually the lusting romantic stage. Two people are so totally into each other there’s a magnetism and craving to be together. You feel like you know each others’ thoughts and ...
Views: 1154 - It's Mother's Day Again!!! - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2009 from Tracy PhaupWhat would life be without mothers? They’re everything in our lives – as friends, mentors, critics, nurses, teachers… In the endless roles that mothers play so that we can feel safe, secure, and loved. Do you know how Mother’s Day began? It has nothing to do with ...
Views: 1153(4 votes) - 5 Ways to Be A Better Lover and Make Your Partner Even More Crazy About You - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2019 from Patrick BanksSex is an essential, physical expression of love! It is often seen in the context of a meaningful, lasting, love relationship. It is more of emotional experience and how the partners feel about each other determines and influences their sexual desire and performance level. It satisfies our ...
Views: 1151 - How Do You Make a Girl Squirt: Tips to Give a Female an Orgasm - How to Give Her Pleasure So Good She'll Be Screaming Your Name - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2018 from Sylvester DanialHow Do You Make a Girl Squirt: Tips to Give a Female an Orgasm - How to Give Her Pleasure So Good She'll Be Screaming Your Name The topic of female ejaculation is one that men often think about, including you. You hear all of these stories about women who are able to ejaculate in the bedroom ...
Views: 1150 - The Ultimate Holiday Gift: Nurture your marriage this holiday season - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2009 from Richard NicastroIf it's the season to be jolly… …then why am I seeing so many stressed, beleaguered couples walking around? Is it more apt to say, 'Tis the season to feel tense, frustrated and constantly on the go? Whether you're feeling totally overwhelmed or slightly frustrated, it's easy to lose ...
Views: 1148(5 votes) - What To Do When Your Partner No Longer Finds You Attractive: Ways To Save Your Marriage From Divorce - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2018 from Sylvester DanialYou could be married or in a relationship, you might think that all is well with the world, that is up until the point that your partner tells you that they no longer find you attractive. That's a very hurtful thing to say and can make you wonder how long have they thought like that, why are ...
Views: 1148 - Dear Dr. Romance: My wife has no sexual fantasies - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I have been married to my wife for 19 years and I have ask her to tell me her fantasies for along time, she says she has none, Is this possible? She always wants oral sex buts never ...
Views: 1147(1 vote) - Emergency Contraception - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from marie LucyEmergency contraception (sometimes known as the morning-after pill) may prevent pregnancy if taken within 72 hours of sexual intercourse. In this article: What is emergency contraception? Where to get it Side-effects Advantages & disadvantages When to take ...
Views: 1147 - Exercises For Better Sex: Exercise To Improve Sex Performance - How To Increase Sexual Stamina - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2018 from Sylvester DanialExercises For Better Sex: Exercise To Improve Sex Performance - How To Increase Sexual Stamina Exercise in and of itself is a worthy pursuit for any man wishing to keep fit, but the fact that some exercises can promote better sex makes fitness even more attractive. While focusing directly on ...
Views: 1146 - How To Improve Ejaculation Time Naturally: Methods To Increase Your Ejaculation Time - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2018 from Sylvester DanialHow To Improve Ejaculation Time Naturally: Methods To Increase Your Ejaculation Time Every man wants to be thought of as a great lover. One of the requirements for being a great lover is having good sexual stamina. If you want to improve your sexual stamina and last longer in bed, you have to ...
Views: 1144 - Gift Ideas to Celebrate Valentine's with Little Cash in Hand - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2018 from Rachel WestonIn this world of digital technology where human touch is depleting faster than ever, the special days of love like Valentine ’s Day hold a lot of prominence and place. The value attached to human emotions is beyond a price. Your bank balance does not owe happiness and quality of your life. Those ...
Views: 1143(1 vote) - My Wife Is Not The Same Person I Married: My Wife Is Not Who I Thought She Was - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Wife Is Not The Same Person I Married: My Wife Is Not Who I Thought She Was She loves me, she loves me not. How do I get my wife to love me again, you ask? First ask yourself how sure you are that she does not love you. Fortunately, even if her love for you has waned it is likely you can ...
Views: 1143 - Stress and Sex: 5 Stressors that Can Put Your Libido on Hold - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2010 from Dr. Patty Ann TublinSome people are capable of doing many things well while under stress, but being in the mood for sex and/or feeling sexy usually isn’t one of them. Stress is pretty high up there as one of the top reasons for why couples are not having sex! Here are 5 common stressors that might be getting in ...
Views: 1143 - Enter Into Full Partnership With Love - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2020 from Guy FinleyLove often appears at our door as a beggar in disguise. There are countless ancient myths that tell how the gods would show up at the door of someone’s home, appearing to be in dire straits. On the surface of things, they seem to be seeking food and shelter; but, in truth, they’ve come to ask if ...
Views: 1142 - How to Get Your Ex Back In Your Arms Fast - by Submitted on May 21, 2013 from Uadiale AmberYou probably never saw it coming, and out of the blue your lover decided to breakup with you. However, you still have feelings for them and want to know how to get your ex back. We all have gone through a breakup in our relationships at certain times in our live, so you are not alone. You feel ...
Views: 1142 - How To Have More Stamina In Bed: What To Do To Satisfy A Woman In Bed - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2018 from Sylvester DanialHow To Have More Stamina In Bed: What To Do To Satisfy A Woman In Bed Why does sex seem to END so fast? Am I doing it wrong? Am I disappointing my partner? Is there any way to increase my sexual stamina and staying power without doing anything weird, odd or expensive? Any of these ...
Views: 1140 - Homeopathic Remedies For Premature Ejaculation: Homeopathic Medicine For Sexually Long Time - Premature Ejaculation Home Treatment - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2018 from Sylvester DanialHomeopathic Remedies For Premature Ejaculation: Homeopathic Medicine For Sexually Long Time - Premature Ejaculation Home Treatment If you struggle with premature ejaculation, then you need some help. You need to learn about some ways that can assist you in getting the relief that you have ...
Views: 1139 - Speak Out: How to Ensure Your Needs Are Being Met in a Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from nancy traversWhen we enter relationships, we do so with the knowledge that we will be providing the person with emotional commodities and that they will be doing the same for us. Every relationship is filled with needs. Each individual will have different needs, and each relationship will provide different ...
Views: 1139 - Dating: Can Someone End Up With The Wrong Person If They Need Attention? - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIt could be said that there are a number of reasons as to why one would want to be with another person. And while they might be aware of what these reasons are, there is also the chance that they won’t be aware of all of them. For example, one might want to share their life with someone; ...
Views: 1138 - Are You Sexually Connecting With Women? - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Jonathon BirrellDesire for sexual abundance was probably the reason most of us got into the seduction community… …but it may be our greatest undoing as well. The allure of it is all-pervasive. With the promise of complete sexual abundance, whether that be with many women, or just that “one” you’ve been ...
Views: 1136(4 votes) - Creating Intimate Connections - Genuine Listenig Makes All The Difference - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2008 from Peri EnkinHow many times have you been talking away, wrapped up in a conversation, sharing something important, meaningful or revealing about yourself only to realize that the person you are talking with has drifted away and is obviously somewhere else? And, if you tell the truth, haven't you done the ...
Views: 1134 - How to Make Him Love Me: How to Make a Guy Fall in Love with You without Talking - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2017 from James UadialeIs love constantly escaping you and you want to find a true way to make a guy love you? Are you tired of going on a series of dates that never go anywhere and you want a relationship that's the real deal? Do you need help understanding what gets a guy to give his heart to a woman. While ...
Views: 1133 - Keep Your Relationship Loving by Speaking Up Sooner - 3 Tips - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2010 from Diane and Lewis DenbaumOne of the best ways to poison your relationship is to let annoying comments pile up. At first, if your partner makes a slightly irksome comment, you may decide to ignore it. What happens if your partner repeats the same comment over and over again? Eventually, you may explode because your ...
Views: 1132 - Compatibility & the 4 Human Needs - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Fernando NoriegaRelationships are work! They just are. The work can be challenging, time consuming, and if you’re mindful and on point it can also be rewarding, fulfilling and enduring. I am going to go out on a limb here and just speak from my own experiences and observations – relationships the Queer ...
Views: 1131 - Marriage advice: Your marriage needs this simple communication strategy - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2009 from Richard NicastroArguments are a regular part of Lindsey and Hector's relationship. During a recent couples counseling session, they volleyed insults back and forth with such intensity that I almost stopped the session. But then something remarkable happened: Lindsey said, "Our marriage is too important to me ...
Views: 1130(4 votes) - Night On, Night Off - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2011 from Kelly ChicasAs a couple’s therapist, my social acquaintances are always asking my opinion on their relationships. While ethically I cannot give advice outside of the scope of my practice, we are still able to have some fun and light conversations about the state of relationships in general. I am always ...
Views: 1130 - The Perfect Valentine’s Day Dinner - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeWhat are some tips on the ways a guy can impress a girl with the perfect Valentine’s Day dinner date? Generally, women’s sexual fantasies tend to be filled with more romantic interludes. The whole works would mean: the perfect venue for that perfect date – a 5-star hotel, an elite restaurant, ...
Views: 1130 - This is One of the Scariest Things Humans Do - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2020 from Sheryl PaulWhenever I meet someone new and we talk about how my 15-year old son is a pilot, they look at me sideways and say something like, “You’re a brave mom to let him fly.” As I’ve written about in other posts, allowing him to fly does, indeed, drag me into a regular practice of facing my fears and ...
Views: 1130 - Dear Dr. Romance: Should I try to fuel the desires or calm them? - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I saw your article "Age Differences in Dating " I'm single, in my early thirties. for the last, i'd say 6 years, i have been extremely attracted to women in their forties. it's both a physical and mental attraction. i live in an upscale part of the ...
Views: 1129(1 vote) - The Future of Relationship - The Leader Is Us - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2010 from Bob TomesImagine a life, your life, where you're generating more joy in all your relationships than ever before. Imagine being in relationships where you can speak honestly and not be judged, criticized, blamed or told what to do. Imagine being able to learn more about yourself in every interaction with ...
Views: 1129 - "Separation as a Powerful Relationship Tool" - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2018 from Barry and Joyce VissellFor too many people, separation is a prelude to divorce. Taking time apart from a loved one is often thought of as the end of the relationship. But after 53 years together, and helping to guide thousands of couples, Joyce and I view separation as a sometimes vital necessity in a relationship ...
Views: 1128 - Playing Marriage Games - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2011 from Terry ClarkAny relationship can take a lot of work to make it successful. Relationships are not something you can just let sit idle and expect them to work right. If you do not put in the time and effort, it will fall through. This can be made even more difficult when dealing with a long distance ...
Views: 1128 - ***Marriage Alert: Why Falling Out Of Like Is Dangerous To Your Marriage - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2008 from Richard NicastroA recent marketing book I read touted the importance of getting potential clients to "know you, like you and trust you." It seems that marketing and romance have more in common than meets the eye: In the world of marketing you're trying to convince someone your product or service is worthwhile; ...
Views: 1125 - On Deepening Intimacy - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Melanie McGheeI recently had a conversation about vulnerability that has stayed with me. On one hand, it’s clear that a willingness to be vulnerable, to share what’s true for you, deepens intimacy. On the other hand, being vulnerable in the wrong circumstances or at the wrong time can leave you feeling ...
Views: 1124 - Relationship Advice For A Long And Lasting Bond - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIn a relationship there are always a lot of ways to make it a long lasting one. But how come many people can't attain a long lasting bond? There are broken marriages, broken relationships with the opposite sex and broken friendships. Broken things are just around us. We can see it ...
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