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- The importance of using lubricant during sex and anal sex - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2019 from Daniel GarrettLubricant is an amazing thing. It makes sex more comfortable, more slippery and just feels awesome. I am sure you have all heard the term ‘wetter is better’, and if you have used lubricant for sex, then you know this is completely true! There are also a whole lot of benefits to using lubricant ...
Views: 1291 - Finding your Voice: A Guide for Women - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2012 from Jennifer NorstromAs women, most of us have been conditioned to be cut off from our expression. We have been told not to get angry or have needs and just focus on pleasing others. We have learned to be “nice” at the price of losing connection to what really matters to us the most. We may even be at the point ...
Views: 1290 - Relationships: Why Do Some People Feel Trapped Around Others? - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperWhile reaching out to others and experiencing intimacy is normal for some people, there are others who experience life in a very different way. When someone can reach out to others and experience intimacy, they could be in a fulfilling relationship. However, even if they are not with someone ...
Views: 1290 - Cutting Your Cord - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2012 from Carolin HauserToday one of my clients asked how she could cut her cord: Here is my answer to her question: I dreamed last year that I needed to cut my cord in order to be happy here with my children and my husband. (As you know, all of my family is in Germany and I am the only one here in the ...
Views: 1289 - Women, Empowerment, and the New World of Balance - by Submitted on May 25, 2011 from Lori Kirstein, Speaker/"Emotional Linguist", Author, ActorA man I spoke to today told me that he thinks men are making way for women in the business world. Maybe - but mostly in a masculine way, which means simply that there is less active resistance. But women need more than a mute standing by the doorway - we need an invitation to come in, and ...
Views: 1289 - The "S" In Sex Is For Success! - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2015 from Lisa EdwardsSuccess In Sex? You are probably wondering what kind of title THIS is, or is it just some kind of scammy hook to get you to read yet another bland article about another bland topic! Nope! Neither. This time around, I am venturing outside my normal business/lifestyle topics into the spicier ...
Views: 1288 - The Challenge of Intimacy - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2009 from Allan HardmanProbably the biggest challenge to those of us wanting to live conscious spiritual lives in these rapidly transforming times is the changing form and expectations of romantic courtship, relationship, and marriage. The traditional models are rapidly disappearing, and the foundation for new forms ...
Views: 1288 - How To Be A Sexual God: Best Way To Give A Woman Pleasure - The Best Way To Stimulate A Woman - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2018 from Melvin SheltonSo what does it really take to become good in bed? You see there is a combination of several things but most men actually lack in one or all areas altogether. This is the major reason why most men out there are some what average when it comes to the area of satisfying a woman completely. This is ...
Views: 1287 - Do You Know The 1,000 Questions For Couples? - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Dan ThompsonBefore we continue, remember that you have my personal pledge. If you're not happy with "1000 Questions For Couples" for ANY REASON you can simply send an email and request a full refund with no hassles and no questions. For a limited time, I'm offering the complete collection of my best ...
Views: 1286(2 votes) - Do You Want to Have a Successful Intimate Relationship Next Year? Here Are the Requirements - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2011 from Doron GilDo you find yourself at the end of this year either without a partner or dissatisfied with your relationship? Do you wish to ensure that next year you’ll have a successful and satisfying relationship? If so, what you need to do is embark on The Journey to Self-Awareness: Understand what has led ...
Views: 1284 - Qualities to be examine when choosing a friend - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2012 from Kevin ChonyuiSomeone who hardly spends time with you just for the joy of being together but allows obstacle and circumstances to come in between is not a good friend Foe drains you of your energy and enthusiasm for what you are supposed to do. One whose advice has always landed you into trouble ...
Views: 1283 - Relationships: Should Someone Look Into What Is Taking Place Within Them If They Attract People Who Are Unavailable? - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperWhile one could be in a fulfilling relationship with someone, there is also the chance that this is not the case. This could come down to the fact that they don’t want to be in one, and this might be a sign that they have just broken up with someone. If this is the case, they might want to ...
Views: 1283 - Are You Giving More and Enjoying it Less? - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2011 from JoAnne Ceccarelli-EganSince I was a child I have worn a red cape and enjoyed the experience. It was not until recently that I realized in order to wear the cape; I had to be an “enabler” and put the needs of others before my own. It all started innocently enough. According to the Myers Briggs Personality Test, I am ...
Views: 1282(2 votes) - 9 ways to transform your relationship byraising your self-worth - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2015 from Clement McGrathThere are nine important benefits of high self-worth and when we apply these we will truly create more fulfilling relationships. Here is a brief overview of all nine. There is much more that can be said but this will give you an idea of how you can transform any relationship from stress and ...
Views: 1282(1 vote) - Presence: Meditating On The Gift That Keeps On Giving - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2011 from Mitchell MilchMeditation is perhaps the most important “best practice” I employ each day in the service of warming my self up so I can develop, apply, and identify obstacles to being present in an emotionally intelligent manner. I’m defining emotional intelligence as a measure of one’s facility to apply ...
Views: 1282 - How To Please A Woman In Bed: Ways To Improve Your Sex Life - ways to spice up the bedroom for her - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow To Please A Woman In Bed: Ways To Improve Your Sex Life - ways to spice up the bedroom for her Although many guys don't realize it -- women love naughty sex and they love to get dirty in the bedroom with the right man. So use these 10 sex tips to make your love-making sessions more ...
Views: 1281 - LOVE BOMBING AND NARCISSISTIC ATTACHMENT - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2018 from Darlene LancerGetting hit by a love bomb feels glorious! The lavish attention and affection seems to answer our prayers. We’ve found Mr. or Ms. Right―our soul mate; unsuspecting that we’ve been targeted by a narcissist. The bomber abruptly changes colors and loses interest, and our dream comes crashing down. ...
Views: 1281(2 votes) - Building Intimate Relationships…. By Massaging your Ears?? - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2016 from Dayr Rich“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” -Robert Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land Do you want that relationship that lasts a lifetime and is nurturing for both of you? That relationship that truly makes you feel like the amazing human ...
Views: 1280 - How Can I Tell If She’s Faking an Orgasm? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeAn orgasm is not just a physical experience, it happens in your body, mind, possibly even spirit. And there is no single definition of orgasm. Some tell tale signs of an orgasmic response might include increased heart rate and blood pressure, increased muscle tension, a flush of her skin, as ...
Views: 1280 - Love, Marriage, Happiness - One Way to Have it All - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2010 from Diane and Lewis DenbaumMany people love their marriage partner, but they complain about their relationship. They want to have a happy marriage with the partner they love. However, they blame, complain and ultimately move into a life where all they are doing is tolerating each other. It's so sad. Tolerating is ...
Views: 1280(1 vote) - Relationships: Are Friends The People That We Get in Touch With When We Want Something? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIf one was to get in touch with someone they know it could be because they need something. However, it doesn’t mean that this will always be the case, as there could be times when they don’t need anything. Curious During these moments, one may want to find out about what they have been ...
Views: 1280 - ***Marriage Alert! Can Your Relationship Survive The Financial Crisis? - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2008 from Richard NicastroWhen we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Victor Frankl You don't need me to tell you about the dire state of the American economy and the reverberations being felt around the world. While you're probably well aware of how this is directly ...
Views: 1279 - Seven Tips to Make The Most Of Your Marriage - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2014 from Bill NieporteCongratulate us! In just about a month we (Jeana Murray-Nieporte and Bill Niepote) will celebrated 25 years of “Success-in-Marriage.” Notice our word SUCCESS. We’ve not just survived 25 years of marriage (as a friend recently said of her relationship with her spouse). On the contrary, we have ...
Views: 1279 - ***How to Navigate the Maze of Internet Relationship Advice - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2009 from Richard NicastroA computer and access to the Internet: That’s all you need to share your opinion with the world about how you think people should manage their lives, relationships, finances…you name it. It seems like overnight, everyone has become a potential "expert" about some particular ...
Views: 1278(2 votes) - Checklist of 15 Questions to Answer YES to for a Healthy and Fulfilling Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2010 from Donna ThomasYou may have read books like the "The 7 Spiritual Laws of Success" by Deepak Chopra, or "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen R. Covey, or "The 10 Keys to Personal Power" by Brian Tracy. Included here is The Checklist of 15 Questions To Answer YES to for Cultivating a Healthy ...
Views: 1277(6 votes) - Want Ex Back? What To Do When You Want Ex Back In Your Loving Arms - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2012 from Charles ScholarThe love that you once shared with your ex was special, and you may sometimes feel like you would be a great deal happier if they were in your life again. If you feel as if you want ex back, it may be wise for you to consider devising a game plan before you take any action without thinking. ...
Views: 1276 - The Meaning of Life - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2012 from Pam GuthrieWhat do you think the meaning of life is? I’ve spent a lot of time wondering about that. I wonder about a lot of things. I have a current, working theory about the meaning of life. It’s working pretty well for me these days so I figured I would share it with you. There is lots of stuff to ...
Views: 1275 - Creating Connections: Draw Them In - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2014 from Tina TessinaMany years ago, an Edwin Markham poem inspired me, and I’ve tried to live by it Outwitted by Edwin Markham He drew a circle that shut me out — Heretic, rebel, a thing to flout. But Love and I had the wit to win: We drew a ...
Views: 1273 - When You Fail Having a Satisfying Relationship – Denying or Acknowledging it Determines Your Future Success - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2013 from Doron GilThere are those who, in order to feel happy in their relationship, deny and reject all “negative feelings” which have to do with what they don’t like about their bond. But the only way to “be there” in the relationship, to experience it, enjoy it and grow with it (and with your partner) is to ...
Views: 1272(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Do Some People Only Know Who They Are When They Are In A Relationship? - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile some people can find that they can function whether they are with someone or if they are by themselves, there are others who are not in the same position. In this case, one can find that they struggle when they are not with someone. On the other side, one could find that they it is not ...
Views: 1271 - How Safe do Your Feel in Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2015 from Clement McGrathWe all need a minimum sense of safety and security to relax and get on with our life, whatever we are doing. That level will vary from person to person but the need is universal. The following story is typical and scenarios similar to this get played out in many relationships. Michael ...
Views: 1268 - Dear Dr. Romance: It's as if something turned out bad - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I have a friend who's asking for an advice and accidentally, I saw in the Internet your advices to some heart problems. So I told myself to try ask help from you also. This lady friend of mine is well, kind of in love with a man who's also in love with her. ...
Views: 1267(2 votes) - Simple Ways to Get Your Ex Back In No Time - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2013 from Uadiale JohnEvery breakup leaves behind a trail of pain and it takes a strong heart to overcome the feelings of loneliness and despair that come with it. Usually, a period of introspection follows most breakups when you are sometimes forced to look back and analyze what caused the relationship to tumble ...
Views: 1267 - How To Have Sex Without Ejaculating Too Quickly: How To Stay Longer In Bed Naturally - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2018 from Sylvester DanialHow To Have Sex Without Ejaculating Too Quickly: How To Stay Longer In Bed Naturally Learning how to have sex without ejaculating too quickly can definitely be tricky. Guys naturally ejaculate much faster than women. So we have to learn ways to hold out longer so they can experience ...
Views: 1266 - Re-awakening Intimacy after Childbirth - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2014 from Dr. Elsbeth Meuth, EdD & Freddy Zental WeaverThe time during and post childbirth for a mother is signified by GIVING. No matter if you nurse or not you give continually to your baby for months. The first step to returning to intimacy is to give to yourself: This starts with listen more deeply to yourself and having moments and practices to ...
Views: 1266(1 vote) - The Nurturing Self - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2012 from Pam GuthrieSome years back I had my first taste of Indian food and a surprising thing happened. About a half hour after I’d finished my dinner, I felt really good. I felt like I had been fed, rather than just feeling full. I’d never had that experience before, but it sure set me thinking. I liked that ...
Views: 1266 - What Can Couples Counseling Do for you...Part One - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2011 from Daniela RoherMany couples who experience relational problems at some point may consider the option of couples counseling. They often do so when they get so frustrated and stymied by what is happening to them that they do not know what else to do. So, unfortunately, therapy becomes the last option for a lot ...
Views: 1264 - Relationships: Is It A Form Of Indirect Revenge When Someone Always Criticises Others? - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to think about what their friends are like, they may start to think about how supportive they are. These are then going to be the kind of people who are life-affirming, and it could then be said that that they have the right people in their life. Two Experiences On one ...
Views: 1263 - Take a Summer Break with a Taste of Real Romance - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2014 from Christina WeberThis Type A biz mom has fully embraced the concept of regular recreation and downtime to fuel excellence in my business. I need no convincing that the quality time—away from work and with my family and friends— charge my creative juices for optimal business results. So finally, the kids are ...
Views: 1263 - Understand Your Relationship and Keep Love Alive - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2013 from Angelica Galea YoungAfter those first wonderful few months at the beginning of floating on air, filled with love, looking radiant and having someone love everything about us we look back and say what happened? Relationships change of course but the one factor we ignore is that when we are blinded by love we do ...
Views: 1261 - Can I Save My Relationship? - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2011 from Guy RussellI hear the question can I save my relationship all the time. It is unfortunate that people go through hard times, but it is a reality for countless of couples. It is hard to say just how a relationship can turn so sour. Maybe it is from lack of interest from one or both people; or maybe there is ...
Views: 1260 - Thinking, Feeling & the Law of Attraction - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Heather KingSomewhere along the line, our culture got "thinking" and "feeling" all scrambled up. We're regularly encouraged to "share how we feel" about something, when really, it's our THOUGHT or OPINION that is being solicited. Sadly, we are rarely asked about our true feelings and we miss those sacred ...
Views: 1259(8 votes) - Relationships: Can Someone Have Affairs When They Have A Fear Of Abandonment? - by Submitted on Dec 15, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone is in a relationship that they no longer want to be in, it might not be long until it comes to an end. Perhaps they have been together for a number of months, or they may have been with each other for a number of years. Yet, regardless of the amount of time that they have been ...
Views: 1258 - MY JOURNEY TO VICTORY - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Karen KellyI was taught most of the fundamentals about life by my Father and therefore learnt to think like a boy. It certainly has served me well in many aspects however I believe that I learnt to copy the social behaviour of men and never really got to know how to appreciate the intrigue of being a ...
Views: 1257 - Relationship Resiliency: 3 Simple Ways To Strengthen Your Relationship - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2007 from Richard NicastroCouples seek out my services when they’re dissatisfied about some aspect of their relationship or marriage. In many instances, small problems have spiraled into larger, complicated ones. (At least the problems feel complicated.) Often, my advice is straightforward and simple, even if the ...
Views: 1257 - Don’t Put Women On A Pedestal! - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperWhile I was out the other day I saw a woman who was wearing a fair amount of makeup, and seeing this woman had quite a big effect on me. But, even though part of me was responding to what I had seen, another part of me thought about how strange this all was. For one thing, I didn’t know ...
Views: 1256 - How to Tell Your Spouse You’re Not Getting Enough of “It” - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2009 from Noelle NelsonYou love your guy. He’s a sweetie, mellow, easy-going. He holds down a steady job and does his fair share of the chores – well, most of the time anyway. He’s good with the kids, doesn’t get too ripped on “guys’ night out” and still remembers your anniversary with flowers. You know women who ...
Views: 1255(1 vote) - Sex Positions For Orgasm: Sex Positions To Make A Woman Orgasm - Best Position For Women's Pleasure - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2018 from Melvin SheltonIf you're looking for some easy sex positions but still want to make her orgasm and give her some amazing sexual experiences, then you'll want to read this short article now. Many people think that just because a specific sex position is easy, mean it's not very effective or capable of ...
Views: 1254 - Get Back Together With Ex - Pull Back Your Ex With This - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2012 from Charles ScholarHave you decided to get back together with ex relationship? When the break up occurred, it was probably a bad time for you, so hopefully you have allowed some time to pass. Now that you are ready to get back on the horse again, deciding to get back with an ex is a normal feeling. There are ...
Views: 1253 - How To Have Sex Longer: How Can A Man Satisfy A Woman In Bed - Longer Lasting Sex - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow To Have Sex Longer: How Can A Man Satisfy A Woman In Bed - Longer Lasting Sex If you are one of the many men in the world who just can't last long enough in bed no matter how hard they try, then it's time you did something about it. It's time that you stopped dwelling on this fact and ...
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