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- Love Takes Courage - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2013 from odette worrell“Love is patient, love is kind.” But love, the kind we share with another, requires courage. Courage to stand in the world of unknowns and harness the intimacy that comes with the practice of being authentic with one another. It requires something akin to standing in a room completely naked, ...
Views: 1452 - Zen to Slim: A Simple 5-Step weight loss plan - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2010 from Edwin ThomasEverybody is health conscious these days and take care of themselves by eating right, exercising and doing the right things so that obesity does not affect them. Being slim and healthy is not just for the sake of good appearance but it keeps a lot of ailments away like cardiovascular diseases, ...
Views: 1452(1 vote) - Relationships: Is Grieving Our Unmet Childhood Needs An Important Part Of Having Healthy Relationships? - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperWhile one can have the need to experience relationships that are fulfilling and life affirming, it doesn’t mean that this is what takes place. Instead, one can end up in relationships that are not only unfulfilling, they could also be extremely abusive. And if this was an area of life that ...
Views: 1448 - Did You Know That It is Integration That You Are After? - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2011 from Carolin HauserIf you are anything like me, you probably have done a lot of “healing” work on your self. A few years ago, I was introduced to the concept of “integration”. I was invited to think in terms of integration instead of in terms of healing. It made a lot of sense to me, and brought profound ...
Views: 1447(2 votes) - Eros and Relating Intimately - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2012 from Susan Schwartz, Ph.D.We more commonly know Eros, which is a name for the figure of love, as Cupid. This figure appears around Valentine’s Day looking like a cherub, a boy, a young one. However, Eros is actually a very powerful aspect of our personality and hits us as adults in many surprising and penetrating ways. ...
Views: 1447 - Is Social Technology Helping or Hurting Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Laurel FayThis is a topic close to my heart, as I am married to a techie geek. I'm not insulting him - he would probably take it as a compliment, actually. And well he should. Were it not for my husband's tech prowess, I'd still be rolling paper into our old dot-matrix printer and trying to figure out the ...
Views: 1447 - Want more action in the bedroom? Then do the ironing.Submitted on Dec 05, 2009 from Chibs ClovellyEver been turned on by your partner vacuuming the floor, washing the dishes, or cleaning the bathroom? It might sound obscure, but studies have revealed that seeing men perform household chores like these is a turn-on for most women. And it doesn’t just apply to housework. Studies by ...
Views: 1447(2 votes) - Dating: Can Being Needy Stop Someone From Being Able To See If Another Person Is Right For Them? - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone went out for a meal and they wanted to eat something healthy, they might need to take the time to look into where would be a good place for them to eat. And once they have found somewhere, they might need to look for the right meal to order. Making the Right Decision The reason ...
Views: 1446 - Shared Space, Shared Happiness - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2011 from Jan DeniseShared Space, Shared Happiness While you’re thinking of all the ways you can improve your home, don’t get preoccupied with trends and technology. Make sure it reflects the behavioral, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, sexual, and magical you. Then consider all the ways you and your ...
Views: 1446(1 vote) - ***Intimacy In Marriage: IN-TO-ME-SEE - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2014 from Bisi AdewaleAccording to a Dictionary intimacy is defined as, "showing a close union or combination of particles or elements: an intimate mixture." Being intimate involves the mixing of our life with another's, a mingling of souls, a sharing of hearts. This is something we all long for because it's how ...
Views: 1444 - Addiction to conviction - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2015 from Callum GoldingI must follow on from my interpretation of ego as the root cause of climate change. On a spiritual level that may well be so, but what other more tangible explanations are there for this horrific destruction of our planet and species? A phenomenon we are almost paralysed to resolve. I say it is ...
Views: 1444 - Stop Shooting the Messenger - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2011 from Carolin HauserYou might have heard somebody tell you recently: “Don’t shoot the messenger”. The sentence has become kind of a catch phrase, but what does it really mean? In short, it means that you shouldn’t react. That when something is “triggering” you, upsetting you, you shouldn’t act out or lose ...
Views: 1444 - Spice Up Your Sex Life - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeWhat factors should a couple take into consideration when wanting to spice up their sex life? Consider if your partner is a visual, auditory or kinaesthetic (touch) person. Does irritating sounds bother him to no end? Is he particular about textiles, fabrics and the way they feel next to his ...
Views: 1440 - Why Many Who Fail in Their Relationships Don’t Develop Awareness to Understand Why They Fail? - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2011 from Doron GilMany who fail in their relationships don’t take the time to develop their Self-Awareness and understand the reasons for their failure. Why don’t they? Many think they know themselves well enough to be able to cultivate and maintain a “good” relationship (whatever they mean by “good”). ...
Views: 1440 - The Best Gift of All - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2009 from Mike RobbinsDuring one of her shows a few years back, Oprah Winfrey made a profound and beautiful statement that I appreciated very much. She said, “We do shows about lots of ‘stuff’ and my ‘favorite things,’ but what people want more than anything else is to know that they’re appreciated...that’s the best ...
Views: 1439(2 votes) - Relationship Help: Growing Your Relationship Throughout the New Year - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2011 from Richard NicastroBeginnings and endings...and your relationship Life is a never-ending series of beginnings and endings—with each ending signaling a new beginning. And it is these beginnings that give us hope that new possibilities are available, that we can shed what hasn't worked and start anew. Each ...
Views: 1438 - Dating: Does It Matter What Someone's Political Views Are? - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIn today’s world, someone can have the need to find out about what another person’s political views are before they are willing to take things further. Whether they are left leaning or right leaning will make a big difference. However, if someone is using an online dating app, they might not ...
Views: 1437 - Are You a Single Mother In Search for a Partner? Awareness is Vital to Your Success - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction Single mothers who wish to find a partner with whom to develop a serious and successful relationship need to be aware of their expectations and needs and share these with the prospective partner. If he will do likewise they increase the likelihood of becoming able to develop and ...
Views: 1435(1 vote) - Memories of a workshop for healthy relationships - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2015 from Jerry ZondervanMy intention with this article is to bring to the light of day the process that is born between, in this case, two individuals who clearly have a lot of love for one another, yet don't know anymore how to share it and simply end up on a path of mutual recrimination, often, or perhaps mostly, ...
Views: 1435 - What Can We Learn About Intimacy from Horses? - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Joeel A. RiveraA horse, you may ask? Well, we will get to that later… Many people will make resolutions for their relationships this time of year, such as improving intimacy. If you want to improve your intimacy—or make any other changes—you must first have a clear idea of what needs improvement and how it ...
Views: 1435 - Happy New Year from Dr. Romance! - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2015 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance on creating a Happy New Year Most of us are infused with good will and joy over the holidays, getting together with loved ones and friends, spreaking kindness, and being surrounded by reminders of holiday spirit. The holidays happen around this time of year for a ...
Views: 1434 - Are You Suffering From A Sexless Marriage? Discover How You Can Increase Passion in Your Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Mika MaddelaThere is a survey in the USA that says, nearly 20 million couples these days are not being physically intimate with their spouse. Experts have found out that these couples only engages in sexual intimacy about not more than ten times a year. If you can relate to this problem and you want to ...
Views: 1433(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I am not sexually as attracted to him as I'd like to be - by Submitted on May 04, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I was hoping for a little advice on my relationship now that is truly wonderful and appears to be the best relationship of my life. Things are souring from my end, which I could not understand why, until this morning when it dawned on me. I have never been as happy as I am now ...
Views: 1433(1 vote) - Funny Atlanta Dating Stories - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Lisa LyngosAnyone in the dating game knows a thing or two about good dates gone bad – spinach in the teeth, spilling wine on your date, running into an ex. And don’t we all love reminiscing about these awful, sometimes shocking, and, at times, completely mortifying moments! Here are some memorable stories ...
Views: 1433 - Surprise your lover with boudoir photography. - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2011 from Mandi PardleyWhen asked what ‘boudoir photography’ is, it isn’t complicated to work out. We all understand what a ‘boudoir’ is – a lady’s dressing room or bedroom, and photography goes without saying. Essentially it is a style of photography which shares many similarities with glamour photography, but are ...
Views: 1433 - Executive Marriage Coach – Allow Love to Heal You - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Tom KingAll of us have scars from past experiences that cause pain and conflicts in the present. Until we allow healing of the wounds from those things long ago hidden away they will continue to surface in one form or another; self-destructive behaviors, physical or emotional symptoms, or recurring ...
Views: 1430(1 vote) - Release the Pressure - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2010 from Julie FarhaWe are so intense about our relationships that it sometimes feels like we’re in a pressure cooker! Here are a few suggestions to release the pressure, remember what is real and enjoy your relationships more. • Have more fun. Go for a drive. Take a walk or a hike. Cook a meal together. Watch ...
Views: 1430(3 votes) - What Makes You Be The Way You Are - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2011 from David SamuelMany people want to find their true essential nature, their soul, but of course, that is a very rare discovery, at least it is if you are honest about it. I have another way of searching for that answer which is a bit simpler and perhaps answers more questions about why we are the way we are, ...
Views: 1430 - *** Avoid These Relationship Traps and Build a Stronger Union - by Submitted on May 13, 2009 from Richard NicastroI'm often asked, "What is one of the most challenging issues couples face today?" While every couple is different, there are themes that I see in my work as a couples counselor and relationship coach. One common issue is the difficulty couples have in prioritizing their relationship—a form of ...
Views: 1429 - Asking for What you Want - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2014 from Tina Tessinab> In my counseling office, I see a lot of damage done because people don’t know how to ask for what they want, or don’t think it’s OK. Not asking for what you want means you’ll eventually resent somebody, and that leads to a lot of strife. So today, I thought ...
Views: 1429 - Learn How To Address Peyronie's Disorder - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2010 from Paul RodgersWhile there are procedures in place which has the potential to help minimize, if not fix, peyronie's thoroughly - such as penis corrective surgical treatment and manhood enlargement tools - indeed preventing peyronie's before it happens is still not workable. Precisely what is ...
Views: 1429(1 vote) - How to Talk to Your Woman and Meet Her Needs! - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Anyaele SamIf you are still without or with not enough of what it takes to talk to your woman, then it is time to make yourself a master of how to do so! This sensitive, but educative article tells you how. Please read on to discover better communication strategies and get understanding you need to enjoy ...
Views: 1428 - Common Mistakes Men Make Sexually - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeIt is easy to point the finger elsewhere and say it is the men’s fault. For every man who we say is making a mistake, there are three fingers pointing back at you. Really, since men are not mind readers (though we would like them to be), we have to communicate. Men won’t be making ‘mistakes’ if ...
Views: 1427 - How to feel sexually confident (when you are single): Arousal Tip #4 - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2015 from Beatrice FoxPracticing your confident sexual self Do you feel confident sexually? We often think of sexual confidence in terms of “skills.” If someone knows the “correct” hand motions or what to do with their tongue, they should feel confident. But sexual skills can be difficult to acquire if you ...
Views: 1426 - A Roadmap to Conscious Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2010 from Allan HardmanAll conscious relationship begins with ourselves. To share the truth of how we feel, without attachment to the outcome of a relationship, is one of my many definitions of conscious relationship-- but we must be connected to our feelings in a very intimate way to be able to share them. It all ...
Views: 1424 - Don't Let These Common Intimacy-Blockers Ruin Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2008 from Richard NicastroExperiencing a deep, loving connection is one of the most meaningful aspects of a healthy relationship. But achieving and maintaining this connection isn't always easy. You (or your partner) can have a strong desire for closeness and yet inadvertently push each other away at times. This is ...
Views: 1424 - How Do I Make My Wife Happy In Bed: How To Make Your Wife Satisfied In Bed - How Many Times Can A Woman Come In An Hour - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow Do I Make My Wife Happy In Bed: How To Make Your Wife Satisfied In Bed - How Many Times Can A Woman Come In An Hour How do I make my wife happy in bed is a question that many of us caring husbands tend to wonder about at some point! And to be 100% honest, it is a very important need to ...
Views: 1424 - Bare All to Enchant in Any Season - by Submitted on Aug 17, 2010 from Jan DeniseBare All to Enchant—in Any Season Summer demands that we bare all those body parts we’ve conveniently layered in sweaters. And if you’re feeling squeamish about that, you’re trying to protect more than just your abs and your thighs from rejection. When you accept the rest of you, you ...
Views: 1423 - The Story on Sex Books - by Submitted on May 13, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsJoseph Campbell said “I don’t believe that anyone knows what sex is. It’s the greatest mystery in human life…” Starting here, I believe is the most honest place for thinking about books on sexuality. It assumes that we give up our notions of right and wrong about sexual preferences, practices ...
Views: 1423 - Are You Authentic? Learn Why Authenticity is Essential for a Successful Intimate Relationship! - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2012 from Doron GilA major component of successful intimate relationship is authenticity: when you are “who you are”, true to yourself and genuine, you can develop, nurture and maintain a healthy and satisfying intimacy. But many fail in their relationships because they are NOT authentic. Getting up the courage to ...
Views: 1421 - Great Places To Have Sex With Your Woman Besides The Bedroom: Locations Where You Have To Have Sex - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2018 from Sylvester DanialGreat Places To Have Sex With Your Woman Besides The Bedroom: Locations Where You Have To Have Sex Many couples get stuck in a rut and end up having the same kind of sex, in the same place, over and over again. And that get's boring quite quickly. So if you want to re-ignite the spark in ...
Views: 1421(1 vote) - Your Intimacy Index - How to Improve Your Intimacy - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2011 from Darlene LancerThere’s a lot of confusion about intimacy, what it really is, and how to make it happen. There’re couples married decades who can be physically close, but don’t know how to be emotionally intimate. The word intimate refers to your private and essential being. Usually people think it means ...
Views: 1421(2 votes) - Dr. Romance on The Freedom of Maturity - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2016 from Tina Tessina"And then, not expecting it, you become middle-aged... You achieve a wonderful freedom. It is a positive thing." -- Doris Lessing Maturity or middle age means different things to different people, writes Dr. Romance, but for most, reaching a mature age means developing a new set of ...
Views: 1420(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Do Some People Act Aggressively When A Relationship Comes To An End? - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperHow someone behaves at the beginning of a relationship can be different to how they behave as time goes by, and while a certain amount of change is normal, it doesn’t mean it is normal for someone to completely change. This could mean that as time passes they end up becoming someone else, or it ...
Views: 1420 - What Are The Ten Signs To Tell If Your Relationship Is Failing - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2013 from Rhonda RabowMany clients come to me telling me I am the last resort for saving their relationship. Talk about pressure! They say they feel angry and resentful. Some say they have given up hope or feel numb to their partner. They tell me that I am their last hope before contacting the lawyers. ...
Views: 1420 - He Said, She Said. Of Course He Said Sex--Find Out Why He's RIGHT This Time! - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Kevin StaabHE SAID SEX, SHE SAID NICE TRY THE POWER OF LOVE SEX PERSUASION THE BRAIN (and this time he is TELLING THE TRUTH!) What is it about men who seemingly use sex as an answer to everything? Sex is their cure all answer to life’s riddles, resolution to troubled relationships, and the root of ...
Views: 1418 - ***After Marriage: 4 Surefire Ways To Kill The Passion In Your Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2008 from Richard NicastroAnyone in a marriage or a long-term relationship understands the challenges of keeping romance and passion alive. Candlelit dinners, gazing into each other’s eyes, and the priority of talking and making love begin to buckle under the pressure of busy schedules, the demands of maintaining ...
Views: 1416 - How To Get Your Partner To Open Up - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Laurel FaySometimes it seems as if communicating effectively with one’s partner is an impossible task – overshadowed only by their ability (or lack thereof) to communicate with us. What gets in the way? Why is it so hard to talk to the one you love and be really, deeply understood? That’s what we all ...
Views: 1416(3 votes) - A Couple Coming towards Each Other: Enhancing Intimacy through Self-Awareness - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2011 from Doron GilIt often happens that couple’s intimacy experiences difficulties for the simple reason that the partners don’t know, or are unwilling, to come towards one another. Each believes his/her way of thinking and doing things is “the right way”. In addition, women in general often feel they are not ...
Views: 1415 - How To Make Up With Your Ex Girlfriend - Things To Say To Get Girlfriend Back - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldHow To Make Up With Your Ex Girlfriend; If you are wondering, if you can get your ex back the answer is yes, depending on your actions. Your best bet is your girlfriend still loves you even if you caused this break up. How to make up with your ex girlfriend; In this case she would be more ...
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